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their parents’behaviour to their siblings their children (e.g. Stocker, 1994). This one another (Dunn & Kendrick, 1982;
with vigilance (Kowal & Kramer, 1997). pattern is reported for families at the Howe & Ross, 1990).
Children respond very quickly to any extremes of stress and relationship This evidence for the significance of
sign of the parents showing affection or difficulties (Bank et al., 1996), and may children’s participation in conversations
attention to the sibling — sometimes by well be less characteristic of other, less about feelings suggests that even young
drawing attention to themselves (often stressed, families. children are comparing themselves with
with deliberately naughty actions) or by What are the processes or mechanisms their siblings, and are reflecting on their
inserting themselves between parent and involved in the links between parent–child feelings for their siblings.
sibling — literally! and sibling relationships? It is likely that A notably timorous two-year-old in one
There is much more debate and the connections between the relationships of our studies commented mournfully on
inconsistency in the research results on operate at varied and different levels. his mother’s warmly expressed praise for
the question of how far and in what ways For example, the research on the impact his younger sister (‘Oh Susie you are a
parent–child relationships may influence of the arrival of a new sibling on young determined little devil!’) with the remark
sibling relationships. Is the security of children shows that several different ‘I’m not a determined little devil’, to
children’s attachment to their parents processes are involved in the links between which his mother replied ‘No, what are
related to later sibling relationship quality, the mother–firstborn relationship and the you? A poor old boy!’ And a three-year-old
for instance? interaction between the young siblings. remarked ‘I hate Annie!’ (his sister), to his
Yes, according to some studies; these These processes range from general mother’s consternation. Such processes of
show that warm, positive relations between emotional disturbance (a child who is very attribution and reflection may be
child and parent are linked to friendly upset after the birth of a sibling is difficult implicated in the quality of the relationship
sibling relationships (Brody & Stoneman, with her or his mother and sibling, father, that develops between the siblings.
1996). But again there is the difficulty of grandmother, for instance), through How well parents are getting along with
drawing conclusions about the direction of processes of increasing specificity and each other is also linked to the siblings’
causal influence from correlational studies. cognitive complexity. relationship. Hostile, conflicted relations
And there are some findings that fit There is, for instance, evidence that between parents are reported in several
better with a ‘compensatory’model, in in families in which mothers talk to their studies to be associated with negative
which intense supportive sibling firstborn about the needs and feelings of relationships between brothers and sisters.
relationships are found in families in which the baby in the early months, both children But there is some dispute about the nature
the parents are distant and uninvolved with over time show more friendliness towards of these associations.
Does quarrelling and conflict between
parents impact directly on the relations
between siblings — for instance, by
modelling behaviour that the children
then copy?
Or are the associations explained by
the quality of the parent–child relationship,
rather than by direct effects? We know that
in families in which there is much marital
conflict, the parents are likely to have more
difficult relationships with their children.
So are the links between marital and
sibling relations mediated by what happens
between parent and child?
Despite some disagreement about these
patterns of links, there is now evidence for
both direct pathways and indirect ones via
parent–child relationships. For instance,
‘indirect’pathways are illustrated by the
research showing connections between
interparental conflict and unresponsive
parenting (Gottman & Katz, 1989) and
inconsistent discipline (Emery, 1982).
In terms of direct pathways, evidence
has accumulated that the experience of
witnessing conflict between parents causes
distress and disturbance in young children.
This has been clearly shown in
experimental settings (Grych & Fincham,
in press; Cummings & Davies, 1994).
Before leaving the topic of siblings and
adjustment, we should note that siblings
can be a valuable source of support in
very attached to his father, was much response to illness, disability or injury in also provides a useful tool for discovering
more upset by this family change than his their siblings (Stallard et al., 1997) and of the role of genetics in the development of
younger sister, who was less intensely traumatic experiences on siblings (Newman individual differences. Sibling studies are
attached to the father. et al., 1997). used too as the main design these days for
And an exciting new direction that is molecular genetics studies of complex
Future directions attracting interest is investigation of the traits, for instance in the search to find
It is clear that if we include siblings in our relationships of step- and half-siblings, genes for reading disability, autism, and
studies of individual development and of given the dramatic increases in the late onset Alzheimer’s disease.
families — rather than focusing solely on numbers of families that do not conform The study of siblings, then, is providing
one child per family — we gain to the idea of the ‘traditional’biological us with an illuminating perspective on
enormously in our understanding of the family (Hetherington et al., in press). widely differing domains of psychology
salient influences on children’s Comparing full, half- and step-siblings — from earliest infancy to old age.
development and adjustment.
But it is still the case that there are
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