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ABSTRACT
The main objective of this study was focused on cultural diversities among
Chinese and Malay families (50 each participating) relating to sleeping
arrangements for their infants and toddlers, such as sleeping locations,
bedtime routine and nighttime feeding practices. One hundred Chinese and
Malay two-parent families, residing around the city of Malacca, Malaysia
participated in this study. A modified questionnaire was used for collecting
data for investigation. Descriptive analysis was conducted to analyze the
data. Results indicated that Chinese and Malay families were different in
child-rearing practices in general and sleeping arrangements in particular.
Both Chinese and Malay families practiced different bedtime routine, provided
different type of nighttime feedings and arranged different sleeping location
for their infants and toddlers.
INTRODUCTION
Culture refers to the patterns for living that a group of people passes onto
future generations through language, customs, values and activities.
Culture shapes goals, behaviours, thoughts and feelings. Families’ roles,
rules and celebrations may be related to ethnic roots. Child-rearing
is influenced by culture, but it is also a vehicle by which culture is
transmitted from parent to child (Harkness & Super, 1995).
The parent-child bond is unique both in its biological foundations
and psychological meanings. This relationship has been granted and
assumed to be the most natural and ubiquitous of all human associations.
Parenting occurs in a social context. Children live in families and
families belong to a social group in larger societies, which in turn
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influence how parents carry out their tasks. Finally, parents’ cultural
backgrounds and social heritage influences their goals and how they go
about to accomplish them (Bigner, 1997). Every family with different
cultural background has their own styles of parenting according to
their set of beliefs.
Children sleeping durations are important because it provides
breaks for parents in what may otherwise seem like constant care
provided by them to their children. Newborn babies normally sleep
90 percent of their time during the day and night. Afterwards, the total
amount of sleeping time per day decreases until 6-8 weeks of age, and
we can see the signs of day or night sleep rhythms. By six months,
infants are still sleeping more than 14 hours per day, but the regularity
and predictability of the sleep is even more noticeable. All these aspects
of the infants’ sleep patterns have implication for the emerging parent-
child interactions (Helen, 1995).
Therefore, infant and toddler sleeping arrangements are an essential
part of parenting. In many cultures, parents’ view parenting processes and
sleeping arrangements as simple, general and common practices. Thus,
they pay less attention to the important issues regarding sleeping locations
and arrangements, which can affect the children’s development.
The infant and toddler sleeping arrangements are a combination
of bedtime routine, nighttime feeding and sleeping locations. Bedtime
routine comprise a of lot of activities which parents carry out to make
their children relax, comfortable, adaptable and stimulated during
nighttime atmosphere. Bedtime routines include feeding before
changing diaper and night cloths, singing lullaby, reading some stories
and so on. Nighttime feeding includes parental information and attitude
towards preferred way of feeding, i.e., bottle-feeding or breastfeeding.
Sleeping locations refer to being in the mother bed (co-sleeping), in
the mothers’ room but separate bed, in separate room alone, or in
separate room accompanying other family members, such as siblings
or grandparents. According to Burton and Whiting (1961), co-sleeping
is defined as bed or room sharing, between parents and their infants. It
is the most commonly practiced arrangement around the world.
However, in the United State of America and other western
cultures, many researchers and practitioners concerning child
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METHODOLOGY
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were Buddhist and Malay families were Muslims. All the families were
living in urban areas in residential colonies. For Chinese mothers, the
average age was 30 years old (range 26 - 36) and the Malay mother’s
average age was 26 year old (range 20 - 39). All the families from both
communities have almost the same number of children (1 - 5) with the
average of 2.
As for educational background of the mothers collectively, 3
percent have no education, 16 percent have primary education, 65
percent secondary education and 16 percent with degree and diploma
level. Respondents of this research were residents of the historical
city of Malacca, Malaysia. All the respondents were living in the
urban areas.
Research Instrument
Items used by Moreli et al. (1992) were adopted. All the items were
translated and modified according to cultural requirements and were
presented in the form of questionnaire. The questionnaire was divided
into two parts. Part I, comprising 15 items, dealt with demographic
information (personal information) such as name, age, educational and
occupational levels of mothers and information about children under
investigation. Part II comprised of three sections (A, B and C). Section
A comprised of nine items; dealing with bedtime routines such as diaper
changing, singing, bedtime stories, bathing, etc.; response mode was
on 1 - 4 scale from Always, Sometime, Often and Never.
Section B, containing two items, was related with feeding
practices such as breast feeding or bottle feeding; response mode was
available on 1 - 4 scale of agreement from Strongly Agree, Agree,
Disagree and Strongly Disagree. Section C, containing five items, was
related to location of infant or toddler sleeping arrangements such as
baby sleeping with parents in the same bed, in different bed but same
room, in different room, etc.; response mode for this section was a
binary scale with answers available as Yes or No.
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RESULTS
Night feeding practices also showed that each ethnic group had their
own style for providing night feed to their babies. As for Malay
mothers, 36 percent strongly agreed with breastfeeding and 44 percent
strongly agreed with bottle-feeding. However, for Chinese mothers,
12 percent strongly agreed with breast feeding, while 56 percent
strongly agreed with bottle feeding. Details for feeding practices
are found in Table 2.
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DISCUSSION
The authors’ results indicated that there was a difference in infants and
toddler sleeping arrangements among Chinese and Malay families. It
was observed that both ethnic groups had different parenting practices
in general and sleeping arrangements in particular. However, under the
term sleeping arrangements, three concepts were observed, namely,
bedtime routines, feeding practices and sleeping locations. To study
the nature of these differences in sleeping arrangements among these
two ethnic communities was the objective of the present study.
Thus, in the light of the above-mentioned facts, the authors start
their analysis with these three goals; (1) to study the differences in
bedtime routines followed by Chinese and Malay mothers while putting
their infants and toddlers to bed, (2) to study the feeding practices in
both ethnic groups, and (3) to study the preferable sleeping locations
chosen by Chinese and Malay parents for their infants and toddlers.
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CONCLUSION
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