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DONNALD WOODS WINNICOTT

“TRUE SELF AND FALSE SELF”

True Self (also known as real self, authentic self, original self and vulnerable self) and False Self (also
known as fake self, idealized self, superficial self and pseudo self) are psychological concepts often used
in connection with Narcissism.

TRUE SELF For Winnicott, the True Self is a sense of being alive and real in one’s mind and body, having
feelings that are spotaneous and unforced. This experience of aliveness is what allows people to be
genuinely close to others , and to be creative.

Winnicott thought that the “True Self” begins to develop in infancy, in the relationship between the
baby and it’s primary caregiver. One of the ways the mother helps the baby develop an authentic self is
by responding in a welcoming and reassuring way to the baby’s spontaneous feelings, expressions, and
initiatives.

DONNALD WOODS WINNICOTT

“TRUE SELF AND FALSE SELF”

True Self (also known as real self, authentic that complies with other’s expectations.
self, original self and vulnerable self) and False Winnicott thought that in health, a false self
Self (also known as fake self, idealized self, was what allowed one to present a polite and
superficial self and pseudo self) are mannered attitude in public.
psychological concepts often used in connection
Winncott thought that this more extreme kind
with Narcissism.
of False Self began to develop in infancy, as a
TRUE SELF For Winnicott, the True Self is a defence against an environment that felts
sense of being alive and real in one’s mind and unsafe or overwhelming because of a lack of
body, having feelings that are spotaneous and reasonably attuned caregiving. One of the main
unforced. This experience of aliveness is what defences Winnicott thought a baby could resort
allows people to be genuinely close to others , to was what he called “compliance”, or
and to be creative. behaviour motivated by a desire to please
others rather than spotaneously express one’s
FALSE SELF In Winnicott’s writing, the ”False
own feelings and ideas.
Self” is a defence, a kind of mask of behaviour

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