Relationship Assignment

Acts of Service is my primary love language. This language is all about actions, not

words. I believe that actions speak louder than words. All of us can speak and say lots

of things but when it comes to actions many people fail to prove their talks! Of course, I

would love to hear lovely words, but I think actions are the only way that could support

your words. For example, if I were sick, it would be nice of my friend to say "seeing you

sick breaks my heart". However, it would be more meaningful if she came to visit me or

did the homework I couldn't do..etc.

On the other hand, I let my sister take the "The 5 Love Languages Profile" and we

ended up having a completely different love language. Her love language is Words of

Affirmation. She enjoys hearing the words such as “I love you, you mean the world to

me..etc." Not only hearing these statements are important to her, but she also wants to

hear the reasons behind these statements. For example, She always asks what made

you feel that I am important to you.

I do agree with the profile results. They are actually 100% accurate. If you care about

me, show that by your actions. Helping me out doing something means a lot to me.

Serving me out of love like, doing the dishes or baking me a cake, means the world to

me.

Honestly, I didn't know that we (humans) have different love languages. I used to think

that girls care about actions more than words. What got me to discover that we have
different points of view in love language was an argument with my sister (Sally). One

day, she was sick so, I ironed her clothes and gave her some medicines. I didn't know

that I should talk to her and encourage her at that point. Actually, I did not know how

important that was for her. After a week she opened a discussion about how careless I

was during her sickness! That literally shocked me because I thought I did everything I

had to do! After reading this chapter, I now know the tips of dealing with her and with

people who have different love languages.

I also planned to read The 5 Love Languages book in the summer "after this semester".

I would love to know more about this topic.