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“THE 10 THINGS A MAN NEEDS TO BE GREAT IN BED…!
AND HOW TO GET GOOD AT EVERY ONE OF THEM”
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BY ALEX ALLMAN
C o p y r i g h t 2 0 1 7 L i f e L o v e P a s s i o n I n c • A l l R i g h t s R e s e r v e d • w w w. R e v o l u t i o n a r y S e x . c o m
1. Know What Turns Her On (Without Asking)
And if you ask a woman about this, she’ll probably tell you, “Yes! Of
course. Any woman would appreciate you asking her how to satisfy her!”
She may even feel like she’s tried to tell you repeatedly already and that it’s
pointless and frustrating to be asked again…
She may simply not trust you enough with her vulnerability…
And she will be less turned on by the entire sexual experience with you.
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A Woman Wants A Man Who already KNOWS What She Wants
But, to be fair, we can't read minds and different women can like very, very
different things.
The key is learning the skill of opening her and winning her trust so that
she can vulnerably surrender to you. Then she can TELL YOU, without
you asking.… and do it in a way that TURNS HER ON.
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2. Know How To Trigger Sexual Attraction
Most Men Believe That They Can’t Control How Attractive They Are...
All things being equal, everyone likes sex better when they are more
attracted to their partner.
For us men, our level of sexual attraction is often largely based on what a
woman looks like... like how big her breasts are or how pretty her face is.
But when a woman says that a man is SEXY, what does she mean?
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Well, she is usually NOT talking about what he looks like.
Many women say that actors like Vin Deisel or James Gandolfini are
sexy… or back in my parents generation it was men like Humphrey
Bogart... None of these men are obviously good looking in the way that
Bradley Cooper or David Beckham (or Rock Hudson) are. So clearly, sexy
for a woman is about far more than a pretty face.
Think about it... haven't you sees lots of really beautiful women with
average looking or even below average looking men?
And if you were thinking that it was because he had lots of money and
drove a nice car, think again.
That's a big myth made up by insecure guys who feel a pang of jealousy
when they see a man walking down the street with an attractive woman
that they wish they could have gotten.
After all, you also probably know at least one really rich guy who can't get
a date with an attractive woman to save his own life.
Now if all it takes is money to be sexy, why doesn't that guy have a hot
girlfriend?
That's a shame, because women respond to men that are moved deeply,
not moderately.
The funny thing is, most men DO feel strongly about things. They are
passionate on the inside. They are just too timid and fearful of humiliation
to release their passions.
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It takes massive confidence to display
passion.
And the good news is that, unlike physical appearance, which you can’t
really do that much to change, it is not difficult to learn a few simple things
to dramatically increase the way women perceive your level of confidence
and passion.
Learning how to display them and "send the right signals" is essential.
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3. Know How To Tell If She’s “Faking It”
Well, sure, some of them are… but for most of them, it’s just that she’s
been faking it. And probably she’s been faking it since the very beginning
of the relationship.
But why? Why wouldn’t a woman tell you the truth when she’s not being
sexually satisfied so that you can work together to improve things?
What you may not have considered is how embarrassing this little fact can
be for WOMEN.
First they have the covers of all those fashion magazines constantly telling
them that if they aren’t having “The Big O” that there is something wrong
with them.
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After sex, men are always desperately trying to figure out if she's satisfied
or not, and if she admits she’s not, she’ll get more defensive behavior and
insecurity. And that only makes him less and less sexually attractive (see
#2 above)… and less likely to get her aroused the next time.
And worse, if the guy that she is with is like MOST guys, she knows within
a few seconds of intercourse beginning, that no matter how long he keeps
going at it... she is just never going to have an orgasm.
Like most men, he just doesn't know how to make the right connections
for her.
So if she tells him she’s not satisfied, he’ll just keep going and going and
trying and trying… doing the same things that don’t work… when at that
point she’d much prefer it if he just got it over with.
And so, for most women, is it any wonder that they just fake it?
That's why most men out there have no idea how really clueless they are
at satisfying women in bed. Even guys that are actually way BELOW
AVERAGE compared to the other men that she's been with, sometimes
believe they are great because they can't tell that she’s been faking it, and
she never says anything about it.
And that’s a shame, because there are fool-proof ways to tell if a woman is
faking it.
And, MUCH more importantly, there are simple things that any man can
learn so that she never has to fake it... because she is actually having
plenty of orgasms and enjoying herself completely.
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4. Stop Worrying That She’ll Compare You
To Other Men
She will, in fact, compare you with every other man she has ever been
with. It’s just human nature.
The surest way to ENSURE that you don't compare well with her fantasy
guy is to worry about it.
The bar is set very, very low. Most guys have no real idea about what
turns women on. There’s a reason that 70% of women have never had an
orgasm during intercourse!
So chances are, the best she's ever been with... was not actually all that
good.
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With only a few little pieces of information about women and their
sexuality, you can easily explode her expectations of what kind of sexual
pleasure is possible for her… And then you’ll be GLAD that she is
comparing you to other men, because you’ll easily be the best she’s ever
been with.
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5. Understand That Women Love Sex
It can shatter your ego and seriously mess up your future sexual
relationships for years to come.
But most guys never take the time to get into a woman's head to think
about WHY she is cheating.
Here's a hint though: From HER point of view, it probably was NOT her
lack of integrity or loyalty.
Most women that cheat feel that they are missing out on something
important that life has to offer... something that they feel they are entitled
to… and they usually feel like they honestly tried to get it from within their
relationship before giving up on it.
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(I’ve said this before and I get challenged on it a lot in interviews. And I
stand by it. The problem is, most men have no idea what “fully sexually
satisfied” really means. It’s a LOT more than just being able to give an
orgasm!)
But as far as cheating goes, women don't cheat because their boyfriend
doesn't help with the housework. They don’t cheat because some other
guy was just irresistible. And they don’t cheat because they just have no
morality.
They cheat because they feel “ripped off” that their life lacks real intimacy
and excitement... in other words:
The reasons for this may or may not have to do with their partner’s ability
in bed. Intimacy breaks down for a lot of reasons. But when it does,
usually one of the first places that it shows up is in bed.
That's why if your girlfriend or wife is "not in the mood" more and more
often, you should not ignore it or think that she just doesn't have a high
sex drive. You should take it seriously as a sign that something might be
wrong with the relationship or that there is something that can be
improved in the way you are communicating or making love.
If you are not satisfying her, I'm not saying that she will cheat on you... but
I AM saying that it is certainly not good for the health of your relationship,
and that you should take action to make things better.
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6. Don’t Use “Techniques” To Please Her
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Most men only want to learn “secret orgasm techniques…”
There are endless books and articles on "secret techniques" and magic
sexual positions that are supposed to drive women wild or hit her g-spot in
just the right way...
But when you use a technique that you read in an article or book, what is
really happening is that you are using a technique that worked on some
other woman. Usually that means a technique that worked on the writer of
the article (since most of these articles are written by women), or worked
on the writer’s girlfriend.
And here’s another, even more important truth: When you are using some
technique on her, she probably KNOWS it, and probably wishes you
weren’t.
When you hit the path of true Sexual Mastery, you'll be much less
concerned about "techniques" and much more concerned about
connections...
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Because orgasms don't come from the vagina or any other secret spot
that you stimulate on her body... they come from the brain...
And unlike men, women usually can't have an orgasm from genital
stimulation alone... you've got to know how to make them feel sexual and
sexy, connected, and that magical thing called "sexual trust".
When you learn the mental and emotional techniques that earn her sexual
trust instead of the techniques for touching her body, you will give her the
most powerful orgasms of her life and easily unlock her FULL SEXUAL
POTENTIAL…
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Multiple Orgasms
Extended Orgasms
Female Ejaculation
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Want proof?
Then think about this… for women who have never experienced an
orgasm there is tremendous societal pressure to have her first “Big O”.
There are articles every month in women’s magazines on the subject. If
she hasn’t had it, she probably already feels inadequate or even “broken.”
So you better believe that most of these women have purchased every
crazy vibrating toy and read EVERY ONE OF THESE ARTICLES and books
about techniques to give her an orgasm. And since she is still a “woman
who has never had an orgasm,” it should be very obvious that none of
those things worked!
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What does work in almost every case is learning the basic and simple-to-
do skills for building sexual trust that allow her to finally surrender to the
experience.
Here’s a simple rule: It’s not about “what you do” to a woman in bed,
but rather about “who you’re being” when you’re doing it.
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7. Deal With Sexual Insecurities And Anxiety
But then when we got to the bedroom, I suddenly realized that I was about
to be exposed as the fraud that I was. I wasn't as cool or as
knowledgeable as I was pretending to be.
And as every guy knows, that is the surest way to make it, well, impossible
to perform.
Most guys when they are out on a date with a girl try to play Mr. Cool. We
all want women to think that we "get it" and that we're sexually savvy.
Every guy wants a woman to believe that if she goes to bed with ME, she's
going to have the ride of her life...
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But the bottom line is, once you actually succeed in convincing her, once
she actually likes you enough or trusts you enough, and she agrees to
have sex with you, there is no way to hide the truth.
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8. Grow Out Of Thinking Of Women
As The “Obstacle” To Sex
For most guys, there comes a time in childhood when they realize that the
girls (the kids in their class that are no fun to hang out with, and have long
hair... the ones that don't do anything fun and don't play sports), these
girls are the gatekeepers of this one thing that is suddenly, weirdly, more
important than anything else in the world.
And if she is in bed with you, then she very much wants that good sex to
happen WITH YOU.
For a lot of guys, this wrong-headed idea that we want sex and it's the
woman’s job to prevent us from getting it, is one of the most difficult things
to re-program out of our brains.
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Learning that you don't have to trick a woman into sex, and really believing
that it's not something that you talked her into, or that she's just doing it
for your sake, is one of the keys to sexual confidence.
When we don’t internalize this belief, then even when we are bed with her,
we are not having sex with a woman… but only have sex with her vagina,
her breasts, her other body parts that we’re sexually drawn to… while the
woman who owns that vagina and those body parts is simply the person
who must be there to give consent. And if she isn’t having an orgasm, it is
like a competition to get the woman to come so that we can win.
Overcoming those beliefs so that you fully accept that she is not the
competition… but that she is on your team… connecting to her on that
level of togetherness… getting past your negative beliefs and guilt over
your desires, and getting over HER negative beliefs and guilt... will allow
her to experience her most powerful orgasms with you.
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9. Learn The Sexual Language Of Women
Have you ever gone down on a girl, and thought you knew what you were
doing… but couldn't make her come? Or maybe it just started to feel like
she was bored or that she was hoping you'd finish already?
Or have you ever been making love to a woman and she seems to be
getting more and more excited and then just as you thought she was
about to come, she pushed you away or stopped you... and you didn't
know why?
Do you ever feel like you want sex more than your girlfriend does, or that
she's just not that into it anymore?
These women are sending you all sorts of subtle signals and
communication… and you are NOT LISTENING to them because they are
not in a language that you understand.
Ultimately, the more you think that you understand women, the more
you will fail to understand any one particular woman.
It's essential that you learn this skill if want to be a great lover, and it is so
important that I reference and explain its application in almost every
chapter of Revolutionary Sex.
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10. Don’t Pretend You Know It All Already
I know how it is.... most guys don't ever want to ask for any kind of help
about anything. We always want to think we can go it alone.
That's true of even just asking for something like driving directions or fixing
a leak in the faucet.
Imagine how much more difficult it is for a man to ask for help with your
sex life...
Most men simply don't have the guts to admit that they could benefit from
the help.
Trust me, I've been there myself and I know how hard it can be.
But I spent the last 20 years studying sexual secrets and sexual practices
from around the world, and I've logged hundreds of hours talking to
women and couples...
One thing I kept hearing over and over from women was how truly pathetic
most men are at satisfying them sexually.
Don't believe me? Ask any woman for yourself and she'll tell you that
most men are clueless in bed.
Or better yet... ask a bi-sexual woman how her male lovers have stacked
up against their female lovers... and watch her have a good laugh at the
expense of our gender.
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But I’m a man first— so I love every second of making love to a woman
that I am wildly attached to, that I have an intimate, emotional connection
with— and giving her more pleasure than she ever imagined she could
have. I love blowing her mind. And I am always listening and learning and
enjoying becoming better.
And now that I have been married for years, and have a family— I am so
grateful that I have the knowledge and skills to keep it passionate,
exciting, and hot forever.
And if you're still reading this, then I know that you’re a student too. That
you are open to learning more about how to be great in bed and how to
really blow a woman's mind the very first time you sleep with her... and still
be able to completely rock her world even after years of love and
happiness and commitment.
More than one woman that I have been with, or just talked to over the
years has asked me to write a book… so that they don't have to keep
being disappointed by the men in the world… or the man they love and
want so desperately to be satisfied by.
And so I finally put everything I know into a downloadable ebook that you
can download right now and be reading in literally minutes from right now.
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The truth is, most men will NEVER go through the effort to get this
information, because most men don't have the courage to admit that they
want help in the sex department.
I have spent a lot of time, effort and energy across YEARS of my life to
create a book that any man can understand and start using IMMEDIATELY
to improve his relationship with the woman in his life.
I'm not the best looking guy, I don't have a HUGE anything, and I don't
have the endurance of an Olympic marathon runner.
I believe that ANY man can become AMAZING in bed and I get emails
from guys (and couples) every single day who have read my book and
said it literally changed their lives (and the lives of their wives and
girlfriends).
Frankly, there are a million techniques for touching a woman. There have
been thousands of books written on the subject, from the "Kama Sutra" to
"The Joy of Sex." (Believe me, I've read them all).
Anyone can give you tips on sexual positions, bringing fantasy and role-
playing into the bedroom, or exercises to make your penis harder. And
any of them, I'm sure, will work just fine.
And while all of that stuff is important (and I do explain all of the best of
those "techniques"), they do not address the most important aspects of
really plugging into a woman's sexual world in a way that will allow you to
give her Earth-Shattering Orgasms that will leave her completely worn out
from pleasure.
If you want to transform your love life or take your current relationship to
new levels that you never thought were possible, then get your hands on
my ebook.
To get all the details (plus watch a video with more free tips on sexually
thrilling your woman), just go here for more information:
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"Revolutionary Sex"
And I'll look forward to bringing you more great information in The Allman
Report.
For Passion,
Alex Allman
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P.S., I know that we've all got busy lives and it would be easy for you to
just get on with something else right now and not take the steps necessary
to handle the sexual issues you are having with your relationship or with
yourself.
That would be a mistake. Any man who has read this far, no matter how
confident he is right now, is a man who wants to be even better… and you
owe it to yourself to take the next step and take advantage of my 2 month
guarantee to check out the book for yourself and see if it doesn’t
completely massively upgrade every interaction you have with women—
social, casual, and sexual.
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