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“THE 10 THINGS A MAN NEEDS TO BE GREAT IN BED…!
AND HOW TO GET GOOD AT EVERY ONE OF THEM”


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BY ALEX ALLMAN


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1. Know What Turns Her On (Without Asking)

Learn How To Communicate


Women are always saying that they want a man who knows how to
communicate. So it only makes sense that a lot of guys think that if they
just ASK a woman how to satisfy her, that she'll appreciate it.

And if you ask a woman about this, she’ll probably tell you, “Yes! Of
course. Any woman would appreciate you asking her how to satisfy her!”

Unfortunately, this often ends up coming out all wrong.

Even more than leading in dancing, women


expect, appreciate, and are turned-on by
men who LEAD in bed.

You are probably very interested in what


turns her on and what she really wants
beyond just changing positions every now
and then...

But for most women, it will be hard for her


to tell you these things unless you develop
the skill of getting her to open up to you
first.

If you just ask her "What turns you on?"


you might get a good answer. She might
even like it when you ask her. But there is a
strong chance that you’re not going to get
the truth.

She may even feel like she’s tried to tell you repeatedly already and that it’s
pointless and frustrating to be asked again…

She may simply not trust you enough with her vulnerability…

And she will be less turned on by the entire sexual experience with you.

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A Woman Wants A Man Who already KNOWS What She Wants
But, to be fair, we can't read minds and different women can like very, very
different things.

The key is learning the skill of opening her and winning her trust so that
she can vulnerably surrender to you. Then she can TELL YOU, without
you asking.… and do it in a way that TURNS HER ON.

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2. Know How To Trigger Sexual Attraction

Most Men Believe That They Can’t Control How Attractive They Are...
All things being equal, everyone likes sex better when they are more
attracted to their partner.

Sexual arousal flows from sexual attraction, so obviously one factor in


being better in bed is being more sexually attractive to the woman that you
are with. And what most men don’t realize, is that how sexually attractive
you are is something that you have a LOT of control over.

For us men, our level of sexual attraction is often largely based on what a
woman looks like... like how big her breasts are or how pretty her face is.

But when a woman says that a man is SEXY, what does she mean?

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Well, she is usually NOT talking about what he looks like.

Many women say that actors like Vin Deisel or James Gandolfini are
sexy… or back in my parents generation it was men like Humphrey
Bogart... None of these men are obviously good looking in the way that
Bradley Cooper or David Beckham (or Rock Hudson) are. So clearly, sexy
for a woman is about far more than a pretty face.

Think about it... haven't you sees lots of really beautiful women with
average looking or even below average looking men?

Of course you have.

And if you were thinking that it was because he had lots of money and
drove a nice car, think again.

That's a big myth made up by insecure guys who feel a pang of jealousy
when they see a man walking down the street with an attractive woman
that they wish they could have gotten.

After all, you also probably know at least one really rich guy who can't get
a date with an attractive woman to save his own life.

Now if all it takes is money to be sexy, why doesn't that guy have a hot
girlfriend?

So if it's not looks and it's not money... what is it?

Sexy to a woman is usually about CONFIDENCE and PASSION.

A lot of people talk about confidence, but few mention SEXUAL


CONFIDENCE, and even fewer ever talk about passion.

Unfortunately, most men are embarrassed by their own passion...

That's a shame, because women respond to men that are moved deeply,
not moderately.

The funny thing is, most men DO feel strongly about things. They are
passionate on the inside. They are just too timid and fearful of humiliation
to release their passions.

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It takes massive confidence to display
passion.

So in a way passion is really just another


form of displaying confidence.

For women, men who aren’t afraid to


display these qualities are a huge turn-on
in bed. Women are more attracted to
confident men and they feel more at ease
with them sexually-- which in turn allows them to feel more sexual arousal.

And the good news is that, unlike physical appearance, which you can’t
really do that much to change, it is not difficult to learn a few simple things
to dramatically increase the way women perceive your level of confidence
and passion.

Learning how to display them and "send the right signals" is essential. 


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3. Know How To Tell If She’s “Faking It”

Is Your Woman Faking It?


70% of all women in America report that they have never had an orgasm
from vaginal sex, yet ask ANY guy if his girlfriend is sexually satisfied and
he'll say,"Hell yeah!"

What's going on here? Are 70% of these guys… lying?

Well, sure, some of them are… but for most of them, it’s just that she’s
been faking it. And probably she’s been faking it since the very beginning
of the relationship.

But why? Why wouldn’t a woman tell you the truth when she’s not being
sexually satisfied so that you can work together to improve things?

What you may not have considered is how embarrassing this little fact can
be for WOMEN.

First they have the covers of all those fashion magazines constantly telling
them that if they aren’t having “The Big O” that there is something wrong
with them.

But worse is the pressure they


get from the men in their lives.

Since most guys are pretty


insecure about their sexual
ability, they can put a lot of
pressure on the woman that
they are with. If she isn’t
having an orgasm, he
immediately feels inadequate
and becomes defensive and
passive-aggressive with her.

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After sex, men are always desperately trying to figure out if she's satisfied
or not, and if she admits she’s not, she’ll get more defensive behavior and
insecurity. And that only makes him less and less sexually attractive (see
#2 above)… and less likely to get her aroused the next time.

And worse, if the guy that she is with is like MOST guys, she knows within
a few seconds of intercourse beginning, that no matter how long he keeps
going at it... she is just never going to have an orgasm.

Like most men, he just doesn't know how to make the right connections
for her.

So if she tells him she’s not satisfied, he’ll just keep going and going and
trying and trying… doing the same things that don’t work… when at that
point she’d much prefer it if he just got it over with.

And so, for most women, is it any wonder that they just fake it?

The desire to avoid embarrassment and all of those awkward situations of


dealing with the male ego has led them to become extremely good at
"faking it."

That's why most men out there have no idea how really clueless they are
at satisfying women in bed. Even guys that are actually way BELOW
AVERAGE compared to the other men that she's been with, sometimes
believe they are great because they can't tell that she’s been faking it, and
she never says anything about it.

And that’s a shame, because there are fool-proof ways to tell if a woman is
faking it.

And, MUCH more importantly, there are simple things that any man can
learn so that she never has to fake it... because she is actually having
plenty of orgasms and enjoying herself completely.

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4. Stop Worrying That She’ll Compare You 

To Other Men

There’s no need to worry about it… Of Course She Will!


Here’s the cold hard truth:

She will, in fact, compare you with every other man she has ever been
with. It’s just human nature.

Not only will she compare you to other guys that


she has been intimate with, but she'll compare
you to the BEST sexual experience that she's ever
had... or even fantasized about… because that's
the one that she's hoping to relive.

And let's face it, with competition like that, there's


a good chance she'll be disappointed with your
performance.

But that’s not the mistake… that’s just reality.

The mistake here is: WORRYING ABOUT IT.

Worried is the opposite of confident and passionate. And confident and


passionate is what she wants… No woman is turned on by worry!

The surest way to ENSURE that you don't compare well with her fantasy
guy is to worry about it.

But there is some good news here too:

The bar is set very, very low. Most guys have no real idea about what
turns women on. There’s a reason that 70% of women have never had an
orgasm during intercourse!

So chances are, the best she's ever been with... was not actually all that
good.

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With only a few little pieces of information about women and their
sexuality, you can easily explode her expectations of what kind of sexual
pleasure is possible for her… And then you’ll be GLAD that she is
comparing you to other men, because you’ll easily be the best she’s ever
been with.


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5. Understand That Women Love Sex

It Is Biologically Natural For All Humans To Crave Sex


If the woman in your life says that she “just doesn’t like sex
that much,” or that she “has a low sex drive,” it is usually
a big warning sign that something is not working right in
the relationship, or in your sex life.

Do women ever cheat on their boyfriends because they are


not sexually satisfied?

Well, the short answer is "yes, of course," but it’s important to


also understand that it's usually more complicated than that.

Have you ever worried that maybe your girlfriend is secretly


fantasizing about what it might be like to have sex with some
guy that she met while she was out with her friends? Or some
man she admires at work?

Unfortunately, for most guys, having a wife or girlfriend cheat on them is a


cold and harsh reality. It’s at over 50% in marriages in the United States,
and much higher in many other places. And it's one of the most painful
things any man can ever face.

It can shatter your ego and seriously mess up your future sexual
relationships for years to come.

But most guys never take the time to get into a woman's head to think
about WHY she is cheating.

Here's a hint though: From HER point of view, it probably was NOT her
lack of integrity or loyalty.
Most women that cheat feel that they are missing out on something
important that life has to offer... something that they feel they are entitled
to… and they usually feel like they honestly tried to get it from within their
relationship before giving up on it.

We just usually fail to read the signs.

FACT: Women who are fully sexually satisfied don't cheat.

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(I’ve said this before and I get challenged on it a lot in interviews. And I
stand by it. The problem is, most men have no idea what “fully sexually
satisfied” really means. It’s a LOT more than just being able to give an
orgasm!)

Obviously relationships and relationship health are far more complex


issues than just good sex... though generally speaking, if you know an
attractive woman who stays with some guy even though he is a total jerk,
it is almost always because the sex is great.

But as far as cheating goes, women don't cheat because their boyfriend
doesn't help with the housework. They don’t cheat because some other
guy was just irresistible. And they don’t cheat because they just have no
morality.

They cheat because they feel “ripped off” that their life lacks real intimacy
and excitement... in other words:

SEXUAL intimacy and excitement.

The reasons for this may or may not have to do with their partner’s ability
in bed. Intimacy breaks down for a lot of reasons. But when it does,
usually one of the first places that it shows up is in bed.

That's why if your girlfriend or wife is "not in the mood" more and more
often, you should not ignore it or think that she just doesn't have a high
sex drive. You should take it seriously as a sign that something might be
wrong with the relationship or that there is something that can be
improved in the way you are communicating or making love.

Women have options.

If you are not satisfying her, I'm not saying that she will cheat on you... but
I AM saying that it is certainly not good for the health of your relationship,
and that you should take action to make things better.

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6. Don’t Use “Techniques” To Please Her

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Most men only want to learn “secret orgasm techniques…”
There are endless books and articles on "secret techniques" and magic
sexual positions that are supposed to drive women wild or hit her g-spot in
just the right way...

Most of them will have the opposite effect.

Of course, it is very important to know your woman's basic anatomy, and


you should certainly know how to find her clitoris, her g-spot, her a-spot
(above the cervix), and all of her favorite personal spots, unique to her
body, that turn her on or bring her to orgasm...

But when you use a technique that you read in an article or book, what is
really happening is that you are using a technique that worked on some
other woman. Usually that means a technique that worked on the writer of
the article (since most of these articles are written by women), or worked
on the writer’s girlfriend.

Unfortunately, odds are, it is not going to be completely congruent with


what YOUR woman likes.

Every woman is different.


What works for one, often doesn't work for another. Sometimes a
technique that brings one woman to orgasm will just be uncomfortable
and unpleasant for another woman.

And here’s another, even more important truth: When you are using some
technique on her, she probably KNOWS it, and probably wishes you
weren’t.

When you hit the path of true Sexual Mastery, you'll be much less
concerned about "techniques" and much more concerned about
connections...

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Because orgasms don't come from the vagina or any other secret spot
that you stimulate on her body... they come from the brain...

And unlike men, women usually can't have an orgasm from genital
stimulation alone... you've got to know how to make them feel sexual and
sexy, connected, and that magical thing called "sexual trust".

When you learn the mental and emotional techniques that earn her sexual
trust instead of the techniques for touching her body, you will give her the
most powerful orgasms of her life and easily unlock her FULL SEXUAL
POTENTIAL…

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Multiple Orgasms

Extended Orgasms

Female Ejaculation

Heightened Orgasmic States

And much more…

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Want proof?

Then think about this… for women who have never experienced an
orgasm there is tremendous societal pressure to have her first “Big O”.
There are articles every month in women’s magazines on the subject. If
she hasn’t had it, she probably already feels inadequate or even “broken.”

So you better believe that most of these women have purchased every
crazy vibrating toy and read EVERY ONE OF THESE ARTICLES and books
about techniques to give her an orgasm. And since she is still a “woman
who has never had an orgasm,” it should be very obvious that none of
those things worked!

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What does work in almost every case is learning the basic and simple-to-
do skills for building sexual trust that allow her to finally surrender to the
experience.

It was my discovery of this nearly universal truth, and these “emotional


techniques” that first compelled me to write my book, Revolutionary Sex

Here’s a simple rule: It’s not about “what you do” to a woman in bed,
but rather about “who you’re being” when you’re doing it.

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7. Deal With Sexual Insecurities And Anxiety

Virtually Every Man Has Some Degree Of Sexual Anxiety… 



Almost None Of Them Ever Make The Effort To Deal With It

Two of the most humiliating things that men deal with


are “premature ejaculation and “performance
anxiety.”

Not being able to "get it up" or ejaculating too soon


when you are in bed with a beautiful woman can
crush your ego.

But at one time or another it happens to everyone.

The first time it happened to me I was in college and


I was out with a gorgeous girl who was very sexually
forward.

Because I didn't want her to know that I wasn't as experiences as she


was, I was trying to pretend that I was cool and make her think that I knew
EXACTLY how to please a woman.

But then when we got to the bedroom, I suddenly realized that I was about
to be exposed as the fraud that I was. I wasn't as cool or as
knowledgeable as I was pretending to be.

I really felt the PRESSURE TO PERFORM.

And as every guy knows, that is the surest way to make it, well, impossible
to perform.

It was a pretty humiliating experience.

Most guys when they are out on a date with a girl try to play Mr. Cool. We
all want women to think that we "get it" and that we're sexually savvy.
Every guy wants a woman to believe that if she goes to bed with ME, she's
going to have the ride of her life...

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But the bottom line is, once you actually succeed in convincing her, once
she actually likes you enough or trusts you enough, and she agrees to
have sex with you, there is no way to hide the truth.

And no guy wants to be exposed as a fake.

Which is why it is so mysterious to me that most men won’t make the


small effort and investment to just learn the basic skills for dealing with
and getting complete control over sexual anxiety.

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8. Grow Out Of Thinking Of Women 

As The “Obstacle” To Sex

We Are Conditioned As Men To Be Competitive And Tend To Treat Our


Woman As The Competition When It Comes To Sex
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Can you remember when you first realized that the girls in your school had
secret places on their bodies that you wanted to see, touch, and possess?

For most guys, there comes a time in childhood when they realize that the
girls (the kids in their class that are no fun to hang out with, and have long
hair... the ones that don't do anything fun and don't play sports), these
girls are the gatekeepers of this one thing that is suddenly, weirdly, more
important than anything else in the world.

And worse still, most girls grew up with the idea


that their sexuality was something that they had to
guard and protect from the boys.

The result is that if you're like most of us guys, you


grew up feeling like the girl was the "enemy guard"
that stood between you and the magic prize
between her legs.

But nothing could be farther from the truth.

Women are not the enemy when it comes to sex.


In fact, women crave sex, GOOD sex, as much or
more than you do.

And if she is in bed with you, then she very much wants that good sex to
happen WITH YOU.

For a lot of guys, this wrong-headed idea that we want sex and it's the
woman’s job to prevent us from getting it, is one of the most difficult things
to re-program out of our brains.

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Learning that you don't have to trick a woman into sex, and really believing
that it's not something that you talked her into, or that she's just doing it
for your sake, is one of the keys to sexual confidence.

When we don’t internalize this belief, then even when we are bed with her,
we are not having sex with a woman… but only have sex with her vagina,
her breasts, her other body parts that we’re sexually drawn to… while the
woman who owns that vagina and those body parts is simply the person
who must be there to give consent. And if she isn’t having an orgasm, it is
like a competition to get the woman to come so that we can win.

Overcoming those beliefs so that you fully accept that she is not the
competition… but that she is on your team… connecting to her on that
level of togetherness… getting past your negative beliefs and guilt over
your desires, and getting over HER negative beliefs and guilt... will allow
her to experience her most powerful orgasms with you.

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9. Learn The Sexual Language Of Women

Sexual Communication: Foreign To Most Men


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The single biggest mistake that most guys make during sex is doing what
they THINK works, or what somebody TOLD them works, or what they
READ somewhere works, or even what worked on some OTHER girl...
rather than understanding how to read the signals that she is sending
about what REALLY works on her.

Have you ever gone down on a girl, and thought you knew what you were
doing… but couldn't make her come? Or maybe it just started to feel like
she was bored or that she was hoping you'd finish already?

Or have you ever been making love to a woman and she seems to be
getting more and more excited and then just as you thought she was
about to come, she pushed you away or stopped you... and you didn't
know why?

Do you ever feel like you want sex more than your girlfriend does, or that
she's just not that into it anymore?

These women are sending you all sorts of subtle signals and
communication… and you are NOT LISTENING to them because they are
not in a language that you understand.

All women are different.

Ultimately, the more you think that you understand women, the more
you will fail to understand any one particular woman.

Learning how to listen to a woman's body, learning the language of female


sexual communication, and paying attention to what she is trying to tell
you, is the single most indispensable skill to being great in bed, and
blowing her mind with pleasure.

It's essential that you learn this skill if want to be a great lover, and it is so
important that I reference and explain its application in almost every
chapter of Revolutionary Sex.


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10. Don’t Pretend You Know It All Already

The Biggest Mistake Of All...


This is the mistake that prevents most men from ever having the kind of
amazing sex with a woman that will completely blow her mind… the kind
of sex that she will brag to her friends about… the kind of sex that will
keep a smile pasted on her face all week long.

I know how it is.... most guys don't ever want to ask for any kind of help
about anything. We always want to think we can go it alone.

That's true of even just asking for something like driving directions or fixing
a leak in the faucet.

Imagine how much more difficult it is for a man to ask for help with your
sex life...

Most men simply don't have the guts to admit that they could benefit from
the help.

Trust me, I've been there myself and I know how hard it can be.

But I spent the last 20 years studying sexual secrets and sexual practices
from around the world, and I've logged hundreds of hours talking to
women and couples...

One thing I kept hearing over and over from women was how truly pathetic
most men are at satisfying them sexually.

Don't believe me? Ask any woman for yourself and she'll tell you that
most men are clueless in bed.

Or better yet... ask a bi-sexual woman how her male lovers have stacked
up against their female lovers... and watch her have a good laugh at the
expense of our gender.

My 20 years of obsession have given me some amazing knowledge, some


amazing distinctions, and I have had the pleasure of teaching many men
how to give their wife or girlfriend her very first orgasm.

I have always considered myself a student, and I still do.

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But I’m a man first— so I love every second of making love to a woman
that I am wildly attached to, that I have an intimate, emotional connection
with— and giving her more pleasure than she ever imagined she could
have. I love blowing her mind. And I am always listening and learning and
enjoying becoming better.

And now that I have been married for years, and have a family— I am so
grateful that I have the knowledge and skills to keep it passionate,
exciting, and hot forever.

And if you're still reading this, then I know that you’re a student too. That
you are open to learning more about how to be great in bed and how to
really blow a woman's mind the very first time you sleep with her... and still
be able to completely rock her world even after years of love and
happiness and commitment.

More than one woman that I have been with, or just talked to over the
years has asked me to write a book… so that they don't have to keep
being disappointed by the men in the world… or the man they love and
want so desperately to be satisfied by.

And so I finally put everything I know into a downloadable ebook that you
can download right now and be reading in literally minutes from right now.

It's called: "REVOLUTIONARY SEX: How To Give A Woman The Mind-


Blowing Sexual Experience She's Always Dreamed Of"

It is jam packed with solid information, ideas, philosophies, and straight-


up techniques that can make you sexually confident in a way that women
can SMELL. And it has everything you need to know to give the woman in
your life the kind of brain-melting orgasms that are so powerful that she
probably isn't even aware that she is capable of experiencing anything like
it.

Download Your Copy of My On-Line eBook Here:

"2-Month Risk-Free Trial"

I know I'm not going to get rich on this...

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The truth is, most men will NEVER go through the effort to get this
information, because most men don't have the courage to admit that they
want help in the sex department.

But that's okay. It will be YOUR secret weapon.

I have spent a lot of time, effort and energy across YEARS of my life to
create a book that any man can understand and start using IMMEDIATELY
to improve his relationship with the woman in his life.

I'm not the best looking guy, I don't have a HUGE anything, and I don't
have the endurance of an Olympic marathon runner.

I believe that ANY man can become AMAZING in bed and I get emails
from guys (and couples) every single day who have read my book and
said it literally changed their lives (and the lives of their wives and
girlfriends).

Frankly, there are a million techniques for touching a woman. There have
been thousands of books written on the subject, from the "Kama Sutra" to
"The Joy of Sex." (Believe me, I've read them all).

Anyone can give you tips on sexual positions, bringing fantasy and role-
playing into the bedroom, or exercises to make your penis harder. And
any of them, I'm sure, will work just fine.

And while all of that stuff is important (and I do explain all of the best of
those "techniques"), they do not address the most important aspects of
really plugging into a woman's sexual world in a way that will allow you to
give her Earth-Shattering Orgasms that will leave her completely worn out
from pleasure.

As unbelievable as it may sound, this inexpensive ebook that you can


download to your computer or phone will DRAMATICALLY change your
performance as a lover. It has worked for hundreds and hundreds of other
men, and I absolutely guarantee 100% that it will work for you.

If you want to transform your love life or take your current relationship to
new levels that you never thought were possible, then get your hands on
my ebook.

To get all the details (plus watch a video with more free tips on sexually
thrilling your woman), just go here for more information:

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"Revolutionary Sex"

And I'll look forward to bringing you more great information in The Allman
Report.

For Passion,

Alex Allman

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P.S., I know that we've all got busy lives and it would be easy for you to
just get on with something else right now and not take the steps necessary
to handle the sexual issues you are having with your relationship or with
yourself.

That would be a mistake. Any man who has read this far, no matter how
confident he is right now, is a man who wants to be even better… and you
owe it to yourself to take the next step and take advantage of my 2 month
guarantee to check out the book for yourself and see if it doesn’t
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social, casual, and sexual.

Find out for yourself what I'm talking about…

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