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2008 08 Focus On The Family Busy Busy Busy
2008 08 Focus On The Family Busy Busy Busy
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"The reo..((y id(e m~n ~efs nowhere.
The perpefu~((y busy m~n
does nof ~ef much fUrfher. "
- Sir Heneage Ogilvie
Taming my schedule
BUSYbY VaW~BUwn
O ne morning several
yea rs ago , I recall thinking
about how to ge t un stu ck
from my rut, My life was
ove rloaded , yet there was
always something more to
do. I wanted a bit of divine
• You don 't exe rcise. with their child ren; 80 per- inspiration to help me.
• Your mail is piled up ce nt of those wh o are married I prayed , then listened
beca use you haven 't had time said they don 't spend enough for God to say something like,
to open it. time with their spouse. Busy- "Valorie, don 't wo rry. You 're
• Your to-do list is rarely ness affects your friendships, doing all the right things. Just
checked off. too-55 percent haven 't had a be patient. Less stressful days
friend over to their home in are ahead ." Confide nt that I
What free time? more than two month s. And was indeed doing "all the
Perhaps some of these forget abo ut vacation; nearly right things," wh at othe r mes-
situations describe you. If so, 60 percent haven't had a sage could there possibly be
you are not alone. I surveyed seven-day vacation in more for me? I listen ed for an
more than 300 people about than a year. answer, and the one I got was
their busy schedules. Seventy You can blame busyness not wh at I wanted to hear.
percent of the parents said on our fast-paced culture, One simple word kept com-
they don 't spend enough time demanding job s and technol- ing to me: discipline. - '
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