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of loneliness. More supportive relationships indi- choose to live alone, apparently preferring privacy
cate less loneliness78; sometimes, emotional sup- to the companionship of children or other kin;
port is decisive; in other circumstances and the percentage of those living alone is still ris-
instrumental types of support are decisive.79 We ing.96–99
can conclude from exchange theories 80,81 that peo- However, realizing a high-quality network of
ple in a relationship will try to preserve the sup- relationships and reducing the risk of loneliness is
port equilibrium; relationships in which either too also related to the individual’s personal and social
much or too little support is given run the risk of resources and restrictions. Different types of con-
being terminated,82 although, particularly in the straints and resources have been distinguished100:
case of older people, reciprocity deficits do not
• personal characteristics such as old age, a sit-
simply lead to a termination of relationships and
to loneliness.83,84 uation which often goes hand in hand with
reduced access to mediating social struc-
tures73,88,101–104
Other determinants of loneliness • Gender: (strong) differences between men and
It is virtually impossible to identify the broad set women are not usually found, after controlling
of determinants of loneliness; the relationships are for age, marital status, and household compo-
mostly of a reciprocal nature and mechanisms sition28,51,59,105
behind the interrelationships are difficult to dis- • Partner and household composition: being
entangle. For example, the effects of health status without a partner – widowed, divorced, sepa-
(physiological and mental) on loneliness, in addi- rated, never married – and living alone, or liv-
tion to the effects of social contacts and social ing with children, affects the risk of
support, have to be determined by longitudinal loneliness25,51,54,75,82,106–109
research, because it is possible that it is health that • Health, including the situation of chronic,
determines the degree of social integration, and so long-term or terminal illness50,59,106,110–112
the extent of loneliness. At the same time, it is • Situational restrictions, such as an urban ver-
also possible that social integration and the sus rural community of residence113,114
absence of loneliness protect health; however, • The specific characteristics of the older adult’s
until now research in this field has mainly been family and non-family relationships: the
of a cross-sectional nature.85–87 Several models divorce of a child or long-term illness of the
have been developed to unravel the complex inter- partner
relationships between demographic, sociostruc- • Socio-cultural constraints, the norms and val-
tural, physiological and psychological factors ues that regulate the self-definition and role
underlying loneliness.23,25,26,88,89 However, the core conception of older men or women.
element of each of the models is to examine how Additionally, personal constraints related to
individuals build up and maintain heterogeneous the social skills of the person involved – low
networks including close intimates and more dis- self-esteem, powerlessness, feelings of rejection,
tant social contacts. expectations about personal efficacy, self-per-
Membership of, the degree of participation in, ceived lack of disclosure to others – and his or
and commitment to specific mediating social her personality characteristics should be taken
structures as means towards alleviating loneliness, into account,58,113,115,116 although to a lesser
are often regarded as first and foremost a matter extent. For example, if people feel that their
of personal choice and the outcome of a person’s loneliness reflects their personal incompetence,
individual strategy towards building and main- then the prospect of its ending may seem
taining relationships.90–95 It is in the hands of remote and beyond their control.117–119
older adults themselves to decide (jointly) whether,
for example, they wish to (re)marry or cohabit,
Consequences of loneliness
or whether to continue the co-residence or to split
up. An individual or couple voluntarily chooses This section will address some of the main facets
some combination of goods and domestic services of the consequences of loneliness. It is the gener-
(privacy, autonomy, companionship). In present- ally accepted opinion that loneliness frequently
day Western Europe most people without partners results in a decrease in well-being in the form of
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