Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Shezil Tauseef
Institute of Business Management
Table of content
Abstract……………………………………………………………………………………...3
Introduction…………………………………………………………………………………4
Methods……………………………………………………………………………………..21
Limitations………………………………………………………………………………….26
Conclusion………………………………………………………………………………......27
Glossary…………………………………………………………………………..…………28
Appendix A………………………………………………………………………………….30
Appendix B………………………………………………………………………………......32
Appendix C………………………………………………………………………………….33
References…………………………………………………………………………………...34
3
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Abstract
The research paper is aimed at exploring and understanding the differences between the
personality attributes of adoptive parents and how they differ from biological parents. In order
to have a better insight of their varying personalities, two more areas of concern were also
examined, whether there will be a difference of personality among the genders belonging from
both the groups, i.e., how adoptive mothers would differ from biological mothers and how
adoptive fathers would differ from biological fathers. Another aspect of interest was the
possible inclination of an adoptive parent towards adopting a particular gender of a child, and
the guiding reasons behind it. In order to find answers, 40 couples (N= 80) were approached,
20 adoptive couples (N=40) and 20 biological (N=40). The Big Five Inventory (BFI) was used
comparing the mean scores for every personality facet among each group, which proved to be
insignificant. However, it was concluded that the gender of the child a parent may choose to
Introduction
Adoption is the process of legally taking the parental rights of a child from its biological
parents, and in doing so assuming all the responsibilities for that child.
describing the extent to which individuals in a nation are integrated into groups. Pakistan as a
society is collectivist in nature (Latif, 2015). Family bonds, values, and relationships are of
utmost important, and sacred to the people of Pakistan. Kinship is a concept of its own, and is
embedded deep into the minds of Pakistanis. Though not everyone believes that a family is
complete solely because of blood relationships, many are opposed to the idea of welcoming a
stranger as a child of the family, therefore, second marriages are preferred over the idea of
adoption if the woman is unable to conceive or give the family a male heir (Sami, & Ali, 2006)
Adoption is still a stigma in the Pakistani society, and requires massive effort on part
of the couples to convince their respective families that an adopted child is no different from a
biological child if you love and care for them the same way; in fact research has indicated that
there are more similarities than differences in the dynamic of an adoptive and non-adoptive
family, for instance there similar levels of warmth, supportive communication and parental
control were found in both the families (Rueter, Keyes, Iacono, & McGue, 2009), along with
similarities in life satisfaction, life regrets, purpose in life, intimacy, and substance abuse
Portnoy, 2000). A research indicated that adoption is considered the ‘second best way of
parenthood making adoptive parents not ‘real parents’, and consider biological children better
than adopted ones because of their unknown genetic past (Miall 1987).
5
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
In a traditional Pakistani society decisions of the number of children to have are largely
impacted by the mother in law and the husband, however if the woman has had a say in the
selection of her spouse then intercommunication between the couple is better, therefore, the
women under these circumstance have a say in how many children they want, adoption, and
use of contraceptives (Hamid, Stephenson, & Rubenson, 2011). While in western countries like
America, adoption is preferred over biological children, and the demand for adopted children
surpass the supply of children available of adoption. This gap in supply and demand was
managed by the high trend of inter-country adoption (Bernal, Hu, Moriguchi, & Nagypal,
2007).
Pakistan follows the Islamic Shariah (set of laws and procedures in accordance with
Islam), hence, the concept of adoption in Pakistan is known as Kafala; which means
sponsorship. Under the laws of Kafala laid down by Islam in the Quran, the rights of the birth
parents are not terminated, the child’s inheritance from the birth parents is the child’s basic
right, the adoptive parents cannot change the name of the child or the surname. The Quran
33:4-5 says ‘…nor has he made your adopted son your son. Such is (only) your (manner of
speech) by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the truth and he shows the (right) way. Call them
by their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their fathers names, (then
they are) your brothers in faith, or your friends but there is no blame on you if ye make a
mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is oft-forgiving, most
merciful’. The Holy Prophet PBUH himself was an orphan and grew up under the guidance of
his grandfather and uncle. To which the Quran 93:6 says ‘Did He not find thee an orphan and
Pakistan thus governs the custody of children under the Guardians and Wards 1890
which is the closest law that relates to Kafala. The act enables an individual to become a legal
guardian of the child and in some cases its property, but the child has no right over the guardian
inheritance. The process to attain the guardianship of a child according to the judicial system
of Pakistan states that the applicant first must seek a guardianship order in respect of the child
they wish to be a guardian of and as a first step, will be assessed by Deputy Commissioner
(government officials). The assessment includes home study report, references, and an
assessment for their eligibility and suitability to provide an atmosphere for the child likely to
benefit and safeguard its welfare. If approved the child will move in with the guardians. If the
child’s parents are known to the authorities, and the applicants wish to ‘adopt’, then they will
have to enter into an irrevocable, bilateral, intra-familial agreement in writing in which the
birth parent/s clearly waive any right to reclaim their child. (O’Halloran, 2009)
The Hague convention of 1993 is an international treaty regulating and guiding the legal
framework of inter country adoption. The convention has been ratified by 83 countries, but
Pakistan isn’t one of them. Kafala is seen as a problem in countries like Canada where Muslim
or Pakistani parents wish to adopt kids from Pakistan to stick to their roots. In 2013 the
Canadian government banned intercountry adoption from Pakistan stating Kafala as an issue.
Regarding the ban, a Canadian immigration spokesman said “Legal and procedural
requirements to obtain a guardianship certificate under Pakistan’s Guardians and Wards Act
do not allow for subsequent adoption in the guardian’s country of residence. Pakistan applies
the Islamic system of Kafala, or guardianship, which neither terminates the birth parent-child
relationship nor grants full parental rights to the new guardian. This means that there are further
There has been a fair amount of research dedicated on adoption, its types, and the
policies regarding it. International adoption can have its own issues. Loss is big factor in
intercountry adoption. This may include the loss of birth parents and of other family ties, of
siblings (if any), of genetic and health information, of country of origin, of first language and
of cultural heritage, etc (J. Johnstone, 2007). International adoptees also suffer from growth
and developmental issues (Miller, & Hendrie, 2000). Language development and abilities of
internationally adopted children have been under speculation by many researchers, as it has
been shown that children adopted by parents who speak a different language than the adoptees
score low on tests of receptive grammar, expressive vocabulary and sentence recall regardless
of the length exposure to the adoption language (Delcenserie, Genesee, & Gauthier, 2010;
Gauthier, & Geneese, 2011), However, low scores on language ability compared to their non-
adoptive counterparts has also seen to be effected by the age at which the children were
adopted, that is the younger they are the time of adoption the better their performance (Miller
& Hendrie, 2000), yet not all research support this as Krakow, Tao and Roberts (2005) found
that children who were older at the time of adoption had faster progress in acquiring the
language in comparison to younger children. Low scores on language ability maybe a result of
subject of researches too, as it has been said and shown that some post institutionalized
adoptees display socioemotional difficulties in the form of unusual lack of social reserve with
unfamiliar adults (Bruce, Tarullo, & Gunnar, 2009) Early institutionalized rearing also showed
attention and social problems in those children (Gunnar, & Dulmen, 2007). While research
shows that institutionalization plays somewhat of an important role in the future of adopted
children, it is also believed that post adoptive circumstances play an important role too; as both
8
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
these factors contribute to the recovery from physical growth retardation, cognitive delay, and
socioemotional problem for the adopted children (Gunnar, Bruce, & Grotevant, 2000).
The mental health of International adoptees has been studied often, researches have
shown that internationally adopted kids are referred to mental health professional’s more than
non-adoptive kids (Juffer, Van, Jzendoorn, 2005). However, one study showed that
internationally adopted children compared to non-adopted children in Sweden had good mental
health and self-esteem (Cederblad, Höök, Irhammar, & Mercke, 1999). Internationally adopted
kids were identified as having more hyperactivity symptoms by their parents, while also having
a clinician’s diagnosis (Jerome, 1993). In regards to their mental health, the age at which the
children were adopted was less important than the pre-adoptive conditions faced by the adopted
children, which can’t be said for behavioural problems displayed by internationally adopted
kids, as one study indicated that those children adopted after 24 months of age tend to have
higher rates behavioural problems (Gunnar, & Dulmen, 2007), while another study also
indicated that children adopted at an earlier age were considered to be more hyperactive by
their parents than those adopted at a later age. The late adoptees, however showed impairment
on psychometric testing than those adopted early, and those placed before six months of age
(Jerome, 1993).
(RAD) are two disorders that have frequently been studied in adoption. DSED is classified as
pattern of behaviour in which a child actively approaches and interacts with unfamiliar adults.
adult caregivers. Both the disorders include inadequate care in childhood as a criteria, and fall
under the Trauma- and stress related disorders category (American Psychiatric Association
9
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
2013). A study concluded that internationally adopted kids displayed more disinhibited social
behaviour than non-adopted kids, and this was impacted by the length of time the adopted kids
were institutionalized; however, the presence of social disinhibited behaviour did not
emotion abilities (Bruce, Tarullo, & Gunnar, 2009). Symptoms of RAD in adopted children
are associated with learning difficulties (Raaska, Elovainio, Sinkkonen, Matomäki, Mäkipää,
The process of adoption is a rocky road, and may affect both the adopted child and the
adoptive parent. It has been well documented that adopted children are at a higher risk of
developing emotional and school related problems (Brodinzsky et al., 1984), though their IQ
did not differ from non-adopted children, they lagged behind in school performances (Van
Ijzendoorn, , Juffer, & Poelhuis, 2005) and had more learning difficulties (Silver, 1989).
development at age four (Vorria et al., 2006), however another study found that adopted
children previously institutionalised had the highest mean IQ and reading achievement at age
are more common in adopted children (Hodges, & Tizard, 1989). Adolescent children adopted
when they were babies, and children adopted when they were old but had adverse care as babies
tend to display more behavioural problems (Howe, (1997), they also tend to have more
attention difficulties and aggressive behaviour (Rosnati, Montirosso, & Barni, 2008). It has
also been found that adopted children tend to externalize behaviour more; that is their problems
are manifested in an outward behaviour and displays a negative behaviour towards the external
10
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
world (Eisenberg et al., 2001). Institutionalisation plays a role in the negative behaviour
outcome of the adopted children (MacLean, 2003). However a recent study indicated that when
influential cases were removed the significant difference found amongst adopted, foster, and
non-adopted children were reduced. It also showed that the patterns of behavioural problems
of adopted children were similar to the non-adopted children. (Brand, & Brinich, 1999), and
It has been shown that adopted children are overrepresented in mental health settings
(Ingersoll, 1997); a study over the period of 14 years found the representation of adoption
children doubled than what it was initially (Jerome, 1986). Gender plays a role in the mental
health of children who are adopted, for boys adoption is a significant marker for psychiatric
disorder and poor school performance; adoption in adolescent girls was a significant marker
for substance use (Ellen, 1992). Adopted children tend to have more disorder than non-adopted
children, the likes being conduct problems, personality problems, and socialized delinquency.
The non-adopted children saw an increase and then a decline in these problems from
kindergarten till eighth grade, but adopted children saw an increase throughout (Lindholm, &
Touliatos, 1980). Yet there are some researchers who show that one has to be critical of the
one sided picture of adopted children in mental health setting, such as Borders, Black, & Pasley
(1998) who revealed from their study that adoptive children and parents are not always at a
Attachment of adopted children with their respective adoptive parents along with its
effects has been a topic of interest for researchers. Attachment theory states a child, when under
perceived or actual stress would want to maintain a proximity to its attachment figure.
Behaviours of every may vary but the goal would remain the same. Therefore, the strategies
11
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
used by the child would then classify him/her attachment patterns either as secure, insecure
tend to seek comfort when distressed, and are easily comforted. While, those who have an
insecure style of attachment tend to be resistant or avoid comfort seeking (Ainsworth, Blehar,
Waters, & Wall, 2014). Adopted children are also hypothesized to have insecure attachment
styles due to prior institutionalised care, a study indicated that at four years of age adoptees
were less secure, and those adopted children who had a secure attachment style in infancy were
found to be less secure at age four, than those who were classified as insecure in infancy (Vorria
et al,. 2006). A recent study showed that children adopted before 12 months were securely
attached, similar to their non-adopted peers. However, those adopted after their first birthday
showed less attachment security than non-adopted children (van den Dries, Juffer, van
problems faced by adopted children in middle childhood and adolescence may be explained
because of the insecure style of attachment developed in infancy, but research didn’t support
Adoptive parents are equally important in their role in the family dynamics and
therefore, have been a subject of study throughout. The ecological theory (Bronfenbenner,
1994) states that human development is a complex and reciprocal interaction between an
individual and its immediate environment for a lasting period of time to be effective. This is
known as a proximal process, and the parent-child relationship is one of the examples. Under
the same theory Parents play a vital role as they have direct impact on the child’s development.
Therefore, the most important source for an adopted child should be their adopted parents. The
attachment style of adoptive mothers has a significant impact on the style of attachment of
children at an older age; that is older adoptees showed a transition from insecure to secure
12
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
attachment pattern, when, their respective adoptive mothers also had a secure attachment style
Adoptive parents are perceived to be more supportive but controlling, and difference
have been found in how the family dynamics of an adoptive family function and the behaviours
of fathers. International adoptive parents were more involved with the children, and had a more
problem focused coping system (Levy-Shiff, Zoran, &Shulman, 1997).Since it is more likely
that adopted children have poorer health compared to biological children, their parents take
more preventive measures in ensuring that the adoptive children have the health care needed
and a supportive environment (Bramlett, Radel, &Blumberg, 2007). Mothers who have
adopted children from another race tend to feel less support from extended family and friends
regarding their decision to adopt, and are less comfortable with other caring for their babies.
(Singer, Brodzinsky, Ramsay, Steir & Waters, 1985). Adoption isn’t the first choice for most
couples, as 95% of newlywed couples expect and want to have a child of their own (Glick,
1977). Infertility maybe a major factor contributing to the choice of adoption. Having sought
treatment for infertility, and being childless contributes to the choice of adoption
(Hollingsworth, 2008). Dealing with the loss of fertility, prospects of having a new born baby,
and identifying them as adoptive parents rather than biological parents are one of the many
problems to be dealt by prospective adoptive parents (Schooler & Norris, 2002; Daly, 1988),
infertility then effect the self-image of the couples in a problematic way (Shapiro, 1982). Yet,
there have been researchers contradicting this claim, showing that the quality of life, marital
status of infertile couples is higher, and self-esteem along with contentment increases over time
(Onat & Beji, 2012; Hirsch, & Hirsch, 1995). Men are more likely than woman to link
fatherhood with masculinity (Humphrey, 2016), therefore the loss of fertility may create
It was found that adoptive parents tend to be more educated and with higher incomes
levels on an average scale (Bachrach, 1983). Regarding the education of the adoptive parents,
it was found that the adoptive mother’s education is an important factor in determining the
health of the adopted child (Chen & Li, 2009). To check the genetic and environmental effects
with adoptive families and found that the mother-child and father-child correlations in
biological families were .41 and .36, respectively, compared to .16 and .18 in adoptive families,
concluding that environment has a modest shared effect on children’s verbal intelligence
(Neiss, & Rowe, 2000). Lastly, education, income, and age of adoptive parents was linked to
good adjustment of the adoptive child. This level of adjustment was associated with both the
parents having completed high school, the father having a non-manual occupation, and an
above median income, and the mother being under 30 years of age (Kraus, 1978)
There has been numerous amount of research on the adoptive and adopted children.
The effects it has and preventive measure taken by governments to ensure the safety of the
children adopted. However, there is little material on the personality characteristics of adoptive
parents.
Personality is a topic that has been studied for thousands of years now, and perhaps the
earliest form of personality theory was given by Hippocrates, a Greek philosopher also known
as the father of medicine. He theorized that there are four temperaments each determined by
four bodily fluids; sanguine linked to blood, melancholic linked to black bile, choleric linked
to yellow bile, and phlegmatic linked to phlegm. The quantity of each determines an
individual’s personality. Following his theory, many other philosophers developed their own
theories, many of which can be seen in modern day theories used by psychologist all around
14
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
the world. One such notable theory was given by Plato who believed, that an adults character
is shaped in childhood through the care and instruction it receives from its parents and teacher.
The essence of what Plato said can be found in theories of Freud who believed that an
development play a key role. Successfully passing the obstacles faced in each stage leads to
better psychic development, and unsuccessful attempts leas to a fixation on that stage that has
The first stage of psychosexual development is the Oral stage, whereby the infant sucks
on the mothers breast, and that is the child’s source of gratification. The second stage is the
Anal stage, where the child learns to control his bowel movements, and the erogenous zone
thus is the anal region. The child receives gratification from the release of waste from the body.
The third stage is the Phallic stage where the child becomes aware of the anatomical differences
between the two sexes, and masturbation becomes the source of gratification. The fourth stage
is the latency stage, in this stage the child’s libido is dormant, and all the sexual energy is
suppressed and expended into other things like school, and play. The last stage is the genital
stage which begins at puberty, and the source of gratification becomes relationships formed
For centuries now personality has been a subject of interest for psychologist who seek
to understand individuals. Over the last few decades trait theories have earned the attention of
psychologists, and multiple theories have been developed under the umbrella of trait theories.
The most commonly used trait theory nowadays is the five factor model. The model integrates
thousands of traits into 5 dimensions indicating that individuals have all five present in them
but on varying levels. The five dimensions are classifies as OCEAN (Openness to Experience,
15
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
1999).
and creative. Therefore this dimensions other end includes an individual who is shallow,
imperceptive, cautious, and consistent. Individuals with high scores prefer novelty, while those
with low score prefer a routine. Conscientiousness contrasts traits such as organized,
thoughtfulness, hardworking, and dependable with traits like spontaneity, relaxed, and
disorganized. Individuals high on this dimension tend to plan things ahead and are more
structured compared to low scorers. Extraversion refers to the extent to which an individual is
gregarious, therefore this factors determines whether an individual is outgoing, talkative, social
and excitement seeking; or prefers solitude, smaller groups of people, enjoys quite time and
doesn’t necessarily enjoy large crowds. Individuals with high score on this dimension gain
energy from social interaction, while those with a low score get stimulation from being alone.
Agreeableness contrasts traits such as warmth, friendliness, and trust with traits such as
hostility, vigilance, and being cold. Individuals with high score on this dimension are
compassionate while those with low scores are unfriendly. Neuroticism refers to the emotional
stability of an individual therefore the spectrums one end consists of traits such as being
prevaricate, nervousness, and impulsivity while the other consists of traits such as being calm,
joyous, and even-tempered. Individuals with high score on this dimension are prone to be
emotionally unstable, and prone to negative emotions, while those with low scores tend to be
The five factor model has been utilized in studying the effects of personality on
parental behaviour of warmth and behavioural control. While high levels of Agreeableness and
Neuroticism are linked with high autonomy support (Prinzie, Stams, Deković, Reijntjes, &
Belsky, 2009). Extraversion played a larger role in predicting behaviours of fathers than of
mothers, and Agreeableness played a larger role in predicting the behaviours of maternal
behaviours. Neuroticism was the most consistent predictor of parenting (Belsky, Crnic, &
Woodworth, 1995). ); Neuroticism in mothers has also been linked to depression in offspring
during adulthood (Ono et al, 2017). Mothers high in Neuroticism reported more power
assertion (Kochanska, Kim, & Nordling, 2012). In terms of Openness to new experiences,
parents who scored low on the dimension were more protective, whereas Conscientiousness
and parenting had no correlation (Spinath & O'Connor, 2003). A research studied parental
on three different occasions, and was able to predict similar personality patterns in 12th graders
(Schofield, 2008). A study designed to evoke parental discipline found that parents high on the
scale of neuroticism engaged in more power assertion behaviour (Kochanska, Aksan, &
Nichols, 2003). In mothers raising difficult children, increased power assertion was linked to
Extraversion, and higher Conscientiousness was link to lower power assertion (Kochanska,
A lot of the research has been dedicated to parenting other than personality. In regards
to parenting style it is important to understand the styles of parenting. Baumrind (1967) gave
are what are known as very strict parents as they expect obedience, conformity, and respect for
authority, and they show relatively little affection or support. Permissive parents are very
lenient and give a lot of independence to their children; that is, they set few demands for the
child and do not enforce rules, but are warm and accepting. Authoritative parents are just the
17
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
right balance of the other two styles of parenting. A study indicates that permissive and
authoritarian parenting style led to personality disorders in the children during the adult phase
of their life. (Batool, Shehzadi, Riaz, & Riaz, 2005).Permissive style of parenting is also linked
with mother who have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood (DiLillo & Damashek,
2016). Parenting styles can have an impact on the child’s school performance too. A study
found that both authoritarian and permissive parenting styles were negatively associated with
grades, and authoritative parenting was positively associated with grades (Dornbusch, Ritter,
Leiderman, Roberts & Fraleigh, 1987). A study in Malaysia to find out the style of parenting
The age at which a couple becomes parents has been a matter of curiosity for
researchers too, and it is shown that fathering a child between the age of 30 and 39 may be
related to higher affective quality of fathering (Finley, 1998). Becoming a parent at a later age,
and high socio-economic status has also been liked to lower levels of harsh parenting, and high
levels of positive parenting (Trentacosta et al, 2010). Maternal depression increases the rates
of the children’s development of disorders, while those mothers who are in remission tend to
have a positive effect on their child and themselves (Weissman et al., 2006).
Mothers who had been a subject of abuse in childhood showed decreased responsivity
towards their children, and an increased propensity for abusive behaviour (Bert, Guner &,
Lanzi, 2009), Hence, parents who were subject to even just one incident of abuse were more
likely to be abusive than other parents (Pears & Capaldi, 2001). More so, individuals who
experienced physical abuse before they reached puberty had higher abuse scores, meaning that
such individuals are more prone to engage in abusive acts than those who experienced abuse
18
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
after puberty (Milner, Robertson, & Rogers, 1990). It is important to note that parents with a
history of abuse aren’t the only ones who show potential to abuse their children, but also those
who have had a history of substance use, are also prone to such behaviours (Ammerman, Kolko,
Kirisci, Blackson, Dawes, 1999). Lastly adolescent mother with history of abuse showed higher
potential for child abuse and higher scores on depression compared to adult mother with history
Parenting itself, and combined with personality has been studied by researchers time
and again. Yet, there is little material available on the personality characteristics of adoptive
parents. Adoption as a phenomena has been studied by researchers all over the world, mainly
to study the effects it has on the parties involved in the process, namely the parents who seek
to adopt and the child who is being adopted. Therefore, the current research doesn’t seek to
study the effects of adoption, but the phenomena of adoption itself in relation to the personality
characteristics of the adoptive parents. To do so, the five factor theory of personality was
utilized as the base to understand the personality of adoptive and biological parents, and to see
whether personality of individual’s plays a role in the decision to adopt a child; and the gender
• openeness to • age
experience TYPE OF PARENTS
• Socioeconom
• Conscientiousne ic status
ss • gender of the
• Extraversion child adopted
• Agreeableness • education
• Adoptive
• Neuroticism • income
• Biological
• family type
(joint/nuclear
FIVE FACTORS(OCEAN) )
& Interivew
FACTOR THAT CONTRIBUTE
ALONG WITH PERSONALITY.
The model above states that the five dimensions of personality will classify both
adoptive parents and biological parents separately. Their personality will contribute to the
decision to adopt, with reference to the age they adopted a child, their socioeconomic status,
the gender of the child they adopted, their education, income level, and the type of family
structure they have –nuclear or joint. Since this study aims to help better understand as to why
The first hypothesis states that there will be a significant difference in the personality
The second hypothesis states that there will be a significant difference between the
personality characteristics of adoptive fathers and biological father, and between adoptive
The third hypothesis states that the personality characteristics of adoptive parents will
be significantly from one another depending on the gender of the child they choose to adopt.
That is, adoptive fathers who choose to adopt a girl will have different personality
characteristics from those adoptive fathers who choose to adopt a boy. And the personality
characteristics of adoptive mothers who choose to adopt a girl will be different from adoptive
The fourth hypothesis states, that there will be a significant difference between about
the view of adoption between adoptive and biological parents, mostly in regards to society.
21
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Methods
Research Design:
This study will be a Qualitative research for which a survey research design and case study will
be used. The study is correlational and inferential. Purposive sampling will be done to select
Participants:
The research sample will include 40 married couples (20 biological parents and 20 adoptive
parents) from the population of Karachi, Pakistan. There will be a total of 80 participants (40
males and 40 females) mostly from the middle socioeconomic class with minimum education
of graduation, and live in a nuclear family with age ranging from 20-60 years.
Exclusion criteria: For this study, no single parents will be taken, those that are biological and
adoptive participants. Also participants other than Pakistan or even Karachi will be excluded.
Inclusion criteria: For this study, only the couples who ae married and have biological or
Measures:
Consent Form: Consent will be taken from all 100 participants to assure that they are
participating in this study with all their will and can withdraw from the study if they want to.
Demographic Information will be taken from the participants to know the basic information of
all participants. Information includes participants name, age, education, socioeconomic class
Big Five Inventory (BFI): A 44-item inventory that measured an individual on the Big Five
Case Study: An in depth interview will be conducted with all the couples regarding their
perceptions on adoption, why they chose to adopt and not adopt, what problems they
face/would have faced during adoption, what do they believe is the future of adoptive kids in
Pakistan, and most importantly is the adoption hidden/would be hidden from society.
The reliability of BFI-44 items was measured by Rammstedt and John in the year 2007
is a retest reliability with a significant value of 0.84 along with convergent validity (0.78) and
external validity. BFI is generally used for the population of adults (male and female) to
identify their personality traits. The test was standardized in America in the 1999 by John and
Srivastava.
The interviews will be thematically analysed to discover factors such as religion, society
and culture, or any other unidentified pattern that may appear. The content of what the
participants choose to disclose would be measured in terms of their experiences, the words they
use to describe those experiences and how the adoption matter had an impact on their emotional
being and the overall intensity of the problems they may have faced.
Procedure:
This study covers a massive area to get the perspective about adoption. The mediums chosen
for filling the forms is in person. The Big Five Inventory (BFI) will be given to the parents to
understand their personality traits. The purpose of the study was to determine the mind-set
about adoption, and to investigate the dominant personality traits of couples that lead towards
adoption; and compare them from those who are biological parents.
Stage 1:
23
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
The information of Big Five Inventory Questionnaire is available online, and to get full access
of the test the permission has been taken via mail therefore, the scoring procedure and test has
been provided. The questionnaire will be converted to a word document so that it would be
Stage 2:
For the identification of the couples; adoptive couples will be sourced as they are the core of
the study and then biological couples will be looked for. The will then be contacted couples to
for a brief introduction about the study that it is being conducted in order to get their consent to
Stage 3:
The place will peaceful and free from any sort of disturbance. Their consent will be
taken which is an agreement between participants and researchers to assure the couples of their
confidentiality. After the full consent of the couples the participants will
be given guidelines that in any point of time they can back off from the research as that is their
right.
Stage 4:
The self-report inventory questionnaire that is the Big Five Inventory will be given
Stage 5:
After the completion of the test, the participants will be asked a series of question for the
Operational Definitions:
• Personality traits:
24
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
the enduring pattern of perceiving, communicating, and thinking about oneself, others and the
environment that is exhibited in multiple contexts. To measure the big five traits in adoptive
• Openness:
relates to the ability and interest in attending to and processing complex stimuli.” (Weisberg,
DeYoung and Hirsh, 2011). It can be measure from item number 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35, 40,
• Conscientiousness:
Is a tendency to respond in a certain way under certain circumstances (Roberts Brent W. and
Jackson 2009) or it is the tendency to think, feel, and behave in a relatively enduring and
on BFI- 44 item questionnaire from item number 3, 8, 13, 18, 23, 28, 33, 38, and 43. It may
• Extraversion:
Psychologist Dr. John A. Johnson of Pennsylvania State University defined extravert people
full of energy, and people who often experience positive emotions. They tend to be enthusiastic,
action-oriented, individuals who are likely to say yes to opportunities for excitement. In groups
they like to talk, assert themselves, and draw attention to themselves. To measure this facet on
BFI, item numbers 1, 6, 11, 16, 21, 26, 31 and 36 are noted. Extraversion refers the extent to
• Agreeableness:
Agreeableness reflects individual differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.
Individuals’ value getting along with others. They are therefore considerate, friendly,
generous, helpful, and willing to compromise their interests with others'. Agreeable people also
have an optimistic view of human nature. They believe people are basically honest, decent, and
trustworthy. This aspect could be determined through item number 2, 7, 12, 17, 22, 27, 32, 37
• Neuroticism:
The personality trait of neuroticism refers to relatively stable tendencies to respond with
negative emotions to threat, frustration, or loss (Benjamin B. Lahey, 2009). It is also known as
emotional stability which refers to the extent to which a person is calm and secure. An
individual might be self-conscious and shy. Item number 4, 9, 14, 19, 24, 29, 34, and 39 are
• Biological parents:
Parents who conceive a child through natural process and transmits their genes to the child
• Adoption:
done directly; to ask someone or get the child with consent of the biological parents or can be
• Adoptive parents:
Parents who adopts someone else child so that he/she can raise that child like a parent. Taking
Limitations
The study should be carried out throughout Pakistan for a better idea about the statistic of the
annual rate of adoption, to generalize the findings. Similarly, orphanages should be concerned
the minorities (e.g.; religious minorities). As the generalization would only be valid if the entire
representative samples, of a population are focused, too. Each sect within Islam has its own
moral values and teachings, and sometimes their culture is also very distinct from the rest. This
is crucial to the study, as culture and society have hypothesized in being key factors in the lack
The relationship between husband and wife is also a very important key factor to be
analysed with respect to how each partner chooses to answer the questions. An imperative
decision like adoption needs to have full consent of both partners. Some other factors may
come about, as the research would go through the interview phase. A behaviour may be
observed which may present an issue of having an influenced opinion. This means, that either
one of the partners may agree to what the other one would say or present altered ideas about
adoption. Therefore, interviewing both partners separately can be a simple solution to this
Additionally, in the future, information regarding adoption and adoptive behaviours from
orphanages and agencies can be collected to further justify the findings of this study.
Finally, since this was a self-report questionnaire, the factors of bias and social desirability may
have had a role in how the questions were answered by the respondents.
27
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Conclusion
This research paper will provide the analysis of characteristics of the adoptive and
biological parents which would be beneficial for the adoption agencies. The findings of this
males and females who have adopted either a male child or a female child. Moreover, it will
investigate if that there are any significant differences in the characteristics of adoptive parents
and biological parents. Moreover, it will provide an insight into the concept of adoption in
Glossary
Terms Definitions
Islam: The world’s second largest fastest growing religion that observes
creator, Allah. The followers of Islam are called Muslims, who believe in
Century Arabia.
Kafala: The ideology that an adoptive child must be given the last name of his/her
parents and not the adoptive parents. The child cannot be a Mahram until he
or she has been breast-fed by the adoptive mother before the age of two.
Mahram: As per Islamic Sharia Law, a Mahram is anyone from the opposite sex one
cannot marry or observe Purdah from. For both men and women, the list of
Mahrams has been defined in the Qur’an. For a male, his Mahram females
can be his wife, mother, daughters, daughters of male and female siblings,
granddaughters from both sons and daughters, paternal and maternal aunts,
daughter in law, mother in law, step mother and step daughter, and all
women who have shared the same nursing mother as him. For women, her
Mahram males include her husband, father, brother, grandsons from both
sons and daughters, sons of male and female siblings, paternal and maternal
29
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
uncles, son in law, father in law, stepfather and stepsons and all men who
Non Mahram: Anyone other than the list of Mahrams for both men and women, whom they
can marry at any given point in their lives is a Non Mahram. Strict Purdah
from strangers or Non Mahrams with the help of a veil or scarf. Loose
Qur’an: The fundamental religious text in Islam which Muslims believe was revealed
by the Allah Himself upon his last messenger and prophet, Mohammad. It is
Sharia Law: Set of religious rules, regulations and guiding principles excerpted from
Appendix A
31
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
32
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Appendix B
Scoring instructions:
To score the BFI, you’ll first need to reverse-score all negatively-keyed items:
Extraversion: 6, 21, 31
Agreeableness: 2, 12, 27, 37
Conscientiousness: 8, 18, 23, 43
Neuroticism: 9, 24, 34
Openness: 35, 41
To recode these items, you should subtract your score for all reverse-scored items
from 6. For example, if you gave yourself a 5, compute 6 minus 5 and your recoded
and 5 becomes 1.
Next, you will create scale scores by averaging the following items for each B5
Appendix C:
Demographics Form:
The following information was collected from the participants after they gave their verbal
3. Their education/qualification.
7. Source of adoption.
34
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
References
Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (2015). Patterns of attachment: A
Press.
American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
Ammerman, R.T., Kolko, J.D., Kirisci, L., Blackson, T.C. & Dawes. M.A. (1999). Child abuse
potential in parents with histories of substance use disorder. Child Abuse & Neglect,
Barth, R. P. & Brooks, D. (2008). - A Longitudinal Study of Family Structure and Size and
http://dx.doi.org/10.1300/J145v01n01_03
Batool, N., Shehzadi, H., Riaz, M.N., & Riaz, M.A. (2005).Paternal malparenting and offspring
Baumrind, D. (1967). Child care practices anteceding three patterns of preschool behaviour.
Belsky, J., Crinic, K., & Woodworth, S. (1995). Personality and parenting: Exploring the
mediating role of transient mood and daily hassles. Journal of Personality, 63(4),
Bernal, R., Hu, L., Moriguchi, C., & Nagypal, E. (2007). Child adoption in the United States:
historical trends and the determinants of adoption demand and supply (Unpublished
Bert, S. C., Guner, B. M., Lanzi, R. G. (2009). The influence of maternal history of abuse on
doi:10.1111/j.1741-3729.2008.00545
Bolat, N., Kadak, T., Eliacik, K., Sargin, E., Incekas, S.,&Gunes, H. (2017). Maternal and
Borders, L. D., Black, L. K., & Pasley, B. K. (1998). Are adopted children and their parents at
Borders, L.D., Penny, J.M., &Portnoy, F. (2000). Adult adoptees and their friends: Current
Bramlett, M.D., Radel, L.F., & Blumberg, S.J. (2007). The health and well-being of adopted
Brand, A. E. and Brinich, P. M. (1999). Behaviour problems and mental health contacts in
Brodzinsky, D. M., Schechter, D. E., Braff, A.M., & Singer, L. M. (1984). Psychological and
Bruce, J., Tarullo, A., & Gunnar, M. (2009). Disinhibited social behaviour among internationally
doi:10.1017/S0954579409000108
Cederblad, M., Hook, B., Irhammar, M. and Mercke, A.-M. (1999). Mental health in international
Daly, K. (1988). Reshaped parenthood identity: The transition to adoptive parenthood. Journal of
https://doi.org/10.1177/0891241688171002
Delcenserie, A., Genesse, F., & Gauthier, K. (2012). Language abilities of internationally adopted
children from China during the early school years: Evidence for early age effects?
doi:10.1177/1077559503257104
Dornbusch, S., Ritter, P., Leiderman, P., Roberts, D., & Fraleigh, M. (1987). The relation of
1257. doi:10.2307/1130618
Eisenberg, N., Cumberland, A., Spinrad, T. L., Fabes, R. A., Shepard, S. A., Reiser, M., . . .
1134. doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00337
Finley, G. E. (1998). Parental age and parenting quality as perceived by late adolescents. The
Frank Dumont, F. (2010). A History of Personality Psychology: Theory, Science, and Research
from Hellenism to the Twenty-First Century (1st ed.). England: Cambridge University
Press.
Gauthier, K., & Genesee, F. (2011). Language development in internationally adopted children: A
special case of early second language learning. Child Development, 82 (3), 887-901.
Gunnar, M., Bruce, J., & Grotevant, H. (2000). International adoption of institutionally reared
Gunnar, M., & Van Dulmen, M. (2007). Behavior problems in post institutionalized
doi:10.1017/S0954579407070071
Glick, P. C. (1977). Updating the life cycle of the family. Journey of Marriage and the Family,
39, 5-13.
Hamid, S., Stephenson, R., & Rubenson, B. (2011). Marriage decision making, spousal
Helder, E.J., M. E. Behen, M.E., Wilson, B., Muzik, O., & Chugani, H.T. (2014). Language
1989.tb00769.x
Hirsch, A. M. & Hirsch, S. M. (1995). The long-term psychosocial effects of infertility. Journal of
1995.tb02389.x
Hofstede, G. (2011). Dimensionalizing cultures: The hofstede model in context. Online Readings
http://dx.doi.org/10.9707/2307-0919.1014
39
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Hollingsworth, L.D. (1995). Who seeks to adopt a child? Findings from the national survey of
http://dx.doi.org/10.1300/J145v03n03_01
Humphrey, M. (1997). Sex differences in attitude to parenthood. Human Relations, 30(8), 737 –
Howe, D. (1997). Parent-reported problems in 211 adopted children: Some risk and protective
Ijzendoorn, V. M. H., Juffer, F., & Poelhuis, C. W. K. (2005). Adoption and cognitive
2909.131.2.301
Ingersoll, B. D. (1997). Psychiatric disorders among adopted children. Adoption Quarterly, 1(1),
centre. The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, 31(6), 526 – 531. Retrieved from
https://doi.org/10.1177/070674378603100609
Jerome, L. (1993). A comparison of the demography, clinical profile and treatment of adopted and
https://doi.org/10.1177/070674379303800412
40
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Johnstone, J. (2007). Factors Influencing the Attachment Journey of Adoptive Parents with a
Juffer, F., & Ijzendoorn, M.H. (2005). Behavior Problems and Mental Health Referrals of
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/283832677
Kochanska, G., Aksan, N., & Nichols, K. E. (2003). Maternal power assertion in discipline and
Kochanska, G., Kim, S., & Nordling, J. K. (2012). Challenging circumstances moderate the links
between mothers’ personality traits and their parenting in low-income families with
Koutra et al., (20017). Maternal depression and personality traits in association with child
10.1016/j.jad.2017.04.002
41
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
Krakow, R. A., Tao, S., & Roberts, J. (2005). Adoption age effects on English language
acquisition: Infants and toddlers from China. Seminars in Speech and Language,
Kraus, J. (1978). Adjustment of adopted children and demographic profile of adoptive parents.
Latif, M.S. (2015). Hofstede dimensions of culture: A brief comparison between Pakistan and
Levy-Shiff, R., Zoran, N., & Shmuel Shulman, S. (1997). International and domestic adoption:
https://doi.org/10.1080/016502597385478
Li, Y.C.H. (2009). Mother’s education and child health. Journal of Health Economics, 28(2), 413-
426.
Linda, V.D.D., Juffer, F., Marinus H.V.I., & Bakermans-Kranenburg, J.M. (2009). Fostering
https://doi.org/10.2466/pr0.1980.46.1.307
Lipman, E.L., Offord, D.R., Racine, Y.A., & Boyle, M.H,. (1992). Psychiatric disorders in
adopted children: A profile from the Ontario child health study The Canadian Journal
42
ADOPTIVE AND BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
https://doi.org/10.1177/070674379203700906
https://doi.org/10.1017/S0954579403000415S
McCrae, R. R. & Costa, P. T. (1988). Recalled parent-child relations and adult personality.
Meacham, A. N. (2006). Language learning and the internationally adopted child. Early
Miall, C.E. (1987). The stigma of adoptive parent status: Perceptions of community attitudes
toward adoption and the experience of informal social sanctioning. Family Relations:
http://dx.doi.org/10.2307/584644
Michael Linkevich, M. & Lohnes, K. (2005). Gender differences and dynamics shaping the
adoption life cycle: Review of the literature and recommendations. American Journal
Miller, L. C., & Hendrie, N. W. (2000). Health of children adopted from China. American
Milner, J.S., Robertson, K.R. & Rogers, D.L. (1990). Childhood history of abuse and adult child
Neiss, M. & Rowe, D.C. (2000). Parental Education and Child's Verbal IQ in Adoptive and
O’Halloran, K. (2009). The Politics of Adoption: International Perspectives on Law, Policy and
from https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ejogrb.2012.07.033
Pace, C. S. & Zavattini, G. C. (2011). Adoption and attachment theory: The attachment models of
2214.2010. 01135.x
generational prospective study of an at-risk sample. Child Abuse and Neglect, 25(11),
1439-1461.doi: 10.1016/S0145-2134(01)00286-1
Prinzie, P., Stams, G.J., Deković, M., Reijntjes, A.H.&Belsky, J. (2009). The relations between
parents' Big Five personality factors and parenting: A meta-analytic review. Journal
Raaska, H., Elovainio, M., Sinkkonen, J., Matomäki, J., Mäkipää, S. and Lapinleimu, H. (2012).
reactive attachment disorder and learning difficulties – FINADO study. Child: Care,
Rosnati, R., Montirosso, R., & Barni, D. (2008). Behavioral and emotional problems among
Italian international adoptees and non-adopted children: Father's and mother's reports.
Rueter, M. A., Keyes, M. A., Iacono, W. G., &McGue, M. (2009). Family interactions in adoptive
doi:10.1037/a0014091
Sami, N., & Ali, T. S. (2006). Psycho-social consequences of secondary infertility in Karachi. The
Schofield, T. J., Conger, R. D., Donnellan, M. B., Jochem, R., Widaman, K. F., & Conger, K. J.
Schooler, J. E., & Norris, B. (2002). Journeys After Adoption: Understanding Lifelong
Silver, L. B. (1989). Frequency of adoption of children and adolescents with learning disabilities.
Singer, L.M., Brodzinsky, D.M., Ramsay, D., Steir, M., & Waters, E. (1985). Mother-infant
Sharma, A. R., McGue, M. K., & Benson, P. L. (1996). The emotional and behavioural
Shapiro, C. H. (1982). The impact of infertility on the marital relationship. Social casework-
Sosik, J.J. & Jung, D.I. (2002). Work-Group Characteristics and Performance in Collectivistic and
Individualistic Cultures. The Journal of Social Psychology, 142 (1), 5-23. Retrieved
from http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/00224540209603881
Spinath, F. M., & O'Connor, T. G. (2003). A behavioral genetic study of the overlap between
Tizard, B., & Hodges, J. (1978). The effect of early institutional rearing on the development of
Trentacosta, C. J., Neppl, T. K., Donnellan, M. B., Scaramella, L. V., Shaw, D. S., & Conger, R.
Van Loon, H. (1995). Hague convention of 29 may 1993 on protection of children and
Van den Akker, A. L., Deković, M., Asscher, J. & Prinzie, P. (2014). Mean-level personality
Vorria, P., Papaligoura, Z., Sarafidou, J., Kopakaki, M., Dunn, J., Van IJzendoorn, M. H. and
doi:10.1111/j.1469-7610.2006. 01666. X
Weissman, M. M., Pilowsky, D.J., Wickramaratne, P. J., Talati, A., Wisniewski, S. R., Fava,