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Parsha Chayei Sarah Vineyards of Jerusalem
Usually Parshas חיי שרהfalls on the Shabbos that precedes חודש כסלו,
כסthe hidden light, the אור הגנוז, that was lit for לו, thirty six hours. In
this Parsha, we encounter גן עדן. The זוהר חדש, the ילקוט ראובניand the
מגלה עמוקותall say that the מערת המכפלהwas the פתחto גן עדן. When
Avraham was chasing after the בקר, he entered the cave, and felt the
tremendous בקר– קדושהare the letters קבר. All נשמות ישראלhave to go
first through here. There was another test that Avraham had to
experience after what appears to be the final test of the Akeida. The
שטןwas trying to instill regret in Avraham, that due to the עקידה, Sara
died early. In our תפילת ערביתevery day, we say -
והסר שטן מלפנינו ומאחרינו, where the שטן מלפנינוis trying to prevent us
from doing mitzvos, and מאחרינו, he’s trying to instill in us either
haughtiness in how great an act we did, or regret with the mitzva that
we just performed. Of course no gaiva entered אברהםafter succeeding
in the greatest act in history, the עקידה, because we see that after the
עקידהthe pasuk יט: כדsays וישב אברהם אל נעריו ויקמו וילכו יחדו, as if he
was “one of the boys”. We also see that Avraham didn’t have any
regrets going to the עקידה. When it came to mourn Sara, it says
ויבא אברהם לספד לשרה ולבכתה, the כis written small, demonstrating that
Avraham didn’t cry too much since he held Sara passed away in the
exact time that she was supposed to, living a full life as the pasuk
repeats שני חיי שרה. The נסיבת השלוםsays that Avraham having to pay
such an absorbent price after being promised by Hashem that we
would inherit all of א"י, and not complain, was another test.
Gan Eden is referred to as קדם, one of the things that was created
before the בריאה. Therefore Avraham paid ארבע מאות שקל כסףfor the
entrance to – גן עדן
=עבר לסחר570=ים גן בעדן מקדם-=ויטע הויה אלה570=ויהיו חיי שרה. The
שפת אמתsays that the ten tests of Avraham are parallel to the
עשרה מאמרות. According to the Gemorra, בראשיתis the first מאמרand
the tenth is תדשה דשא, and according to the Zohar, בראשיתis not a
מאמר, and so the first is ויהי אורand the tenth לא טוב היות האדם לבדו אעשה
לו עזר כנגדו. According to the Zohar, בראשיתis the eleventh מאמר,
where from the bottom to the top, בראשיתor קדםrepresents כתר, above
the ten ספירות. The רמב"םsays that אנכיis the first of the עשרת הדברות,
whereas the Ramban, says that אנכיis not counted as one of the ten,
but is higher and a prerequisite to all ten. So according to the Ramban,
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אנכיis the eleventh. Also with the עשר מכות, really at קריאת ים סוף, there
were מכותas we read in the הגדה. Therefore, קריאת ים סוףis considered
the eleventh מכה. Finding one’s soul mate is compared to קריאת ים סוף,
because all זווגיםare rooted in this eleventh level, the כתר, the
פתח לגן עדן. Avraham’s test here in not blaming himself for Sara’s
apparent “early death”, and paying such a huge sum for the
מערת המכפלהwas the eleventh test, as the Slonimer said. Even though
the test of the עקידהwas finished, and passed by Avraham with flying
colors, later Avraham did ask questions. By this eleventh test, no
questions were asked and no complaints were given, and so this was
even greater in some ways to the עקידה. Chanuka is also the פתחto
גן עדן- eight days - שמיני. The ones that sold the מערהto Avraham,
were the (eight)- בני חית. The last of Yishmael’s twelve sons was קדמה,
and Esav was also referred to as קדמוני, corresponding to the נחש הקמוני
who caused Adam to be banished from גן עדן. The חטא עץ הדעתtook us
away from גן עדן, and Avraham and Sara bring us closer to גן עדן. In
our Parsha when it says ויבאה יצחק האהלה, the בעל הטוריםand others
connect this to the ויבאהby Adam. Hashem brought Chava to Adam,
but this was נפגםby the חטא עץ הדעת, where the מגלה עמוקותsays that
the ויבאהbecame ואיבה- hatred, the tikun of this, being here.
Three of Yishmael’s children are written here in one pasuk. There was
a custom to say all pesukim that have only three words, on מוצ"ש.
When the Tamanim were having trouble with the Yishmaelim, the
Rambam wrote them that the way to sudue them was in this pasuk
with three words- משמע דומה משא. They should hear their insults- משמע,
keep quiet- דומה, and endure them- משא, and realize that everything is
from Hashem. At the end of the שמונה עשרה, it says ולמקללי נפשי תדום
that if someone curses us, we’re silent. If one guards his mouth in the
proper way, he’ll merit to be sharp- חדד, and say intelligent things-
ותימה. The one who guards his נפש, will be guarded by Hashem-
יטור נפיש, and even if he falls, he’ll move forward- קדם, and he’ll merit
קדם-גן עדן. These are the lessons we could learn even from the names
given to the children of ישמעאל. All תפילותoriginate in מערת המכפלה
The word מכפלהis a combination of the words מכל פה, which is tefilla.
The way to subdue ישמעאלis to keep quiet when insulted and to pour
on our prayers =נפשי תדום890==גלות ישמעאל890=מערת המכפלה.
The פרשהends with על פני כל אחיו נפל, and תולדותbegins with
ואלה תולדות יצחק, implying that ( יצחקand )הפטרה– דודwill rise, when
ישמעאלfalls ( )בעל הטורים- =על פני כל אחיו נפל475=דור אחרון.
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The מערת המכפלהis in חברון, the place where דוד המלךbegan his rule
for seven years. After this, דודruled in י"םfor thirty three years. Both
חברוןand י"םare connected to שמיני, the future world-
=חברון וירושלים868=ממ שין יוד חת. The נשמותand tefillos first go
through חברוןand then through י"ם. Eliezer was a שליח נאמן, fulfilling
his שליחותfaithfully, even though he desired יצחקto marry his
daughter. He had such בטחוןin Hashem, that he gave the jewelry to
Rivka even before asking who she was. The שליחותof Eliezer is a
metaphor for the שליחותof all yidden in the world to מיחד קודשא בריך
הוא ושכינתיה. Eliezer was the son of נמרודfrom כושwho was from
ארור כנען. When Lavan said to Eliezer בוא ברוך הויה, it says that Eliezer
became a ברוךfrom his previous status of ארור. All שידוכיםin the
world stem from the marriage of יצחקand רבקה, the first Jewish
marriage. Rav Shimshon Astropoli says that ריש לקישwas a נצוץof
Yishmael. The only גרthat came from ישמעאלwas ישרא הישמעאליwho
told Doeg and Shaul that דודwas fitting to be a yid. He stuck a sword
in the ground, and said that whoever denied the Halacha of
מואבי ולא מואביתwould be killed by the sword. Strangely, it was a
convert of Yishmael that solidified מלכות בית דוד. Even though
Yishmael did תשובה, nothing good came from him except for
ישרא הישמעאליand ריש לקיש- Rav Shimon Ben Lakish. ריש לקיש, the
powerhouse of תורה שבעל פה, has a similar spelling to Yishmael- the
ש מ ע. Avraham said ( לו ישמעאל יחיה לפניךfour words which the Zohar
says we suffer till today), and the לוcorresponds to the לו מסכתותand
the לו-36 candles of חנוכהwhich was a revelation of T.B.P. Chanuka is
the 85th day of the year- 85=פה.
In pasuk סב: כדit says that Yitzhak came to מבוא באר לחי ראי. This is the
place that in לך לךthe angel came to Hagar and told her of the
impending birth of Yishmael. באר לחי ראיmeans the well that Hashem
appears. Rashi says that יצחקwent there to bring Hagar to Avraham.
This is the same קטורהmentioned at the end of the Parsha. After that,
Yitzhak settled there. The Torah does not mention where Yitzhak went
after the עקידה, until Eliezer came back with Rivka. The מדרשsays that
יצחקwent to גן עדןalive for three years. After the עקידה, he was a קדוש
like a קרבן עולה. When Rivka saw Yitzhak, she fell off the camel,
because she saw such awesome קדושה. The reason Yitzhak went to
באר לחי ראי- יא: כהwas to make sure that this קדושהof T.B.P. in
ריש לקישand ישרא הישמעאליremains with כלל ישראל-
=וישב יצחק עם באר לחי ראי1098=תורה שבעל פה.
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T.B.P is compared to a באר. Resh Lakish met, and was מקרבby רב יוחנן
in a body of water. חנוכהis a blast of light from the future, and Yitzhak
brought גן עדןinto the world. The מזלof כסלוis the קשת, and the קשת
represents ישמעאל- רובה קשת. The yidden have תפילה, which is the קשת
needed to subdue ישמעאל. The משיח בן יוסףwill deal with אדום, and the
משיח בן דודwill destroy Yishmael. כה כסליוis the גמר חתימהand is the
זמןwhich is מסוגלfor the downfall of Yishmael =וקדמה155=בכה בכסליו.
Yishmael wish to prevent the yidden of גן עדן, as they say that Gan
Eden is theirs (their concept of גן עדןis תענוג גשמי, which is nonsense).
The number of pesukim in חיי שרהis 105, and the סימןgiven is יהוידע.
The way to reveal the ultimate דעתin the world is through אמונה. When
reading of the פטירהof both Avraham and Sara in this Parsha, we
could experience פי שנים, and we could combat the קליפהof Yishmael
=ומשם יקחך524==תלמוד בבלי524= והוא יהיה פרא אדם ידו בכל ויד כל בו.
ויהיו חיי שרהwhere = ויהיו37, is where Sara really lived. This was after
Itzhak was born, which was the last 37 years of Sara’s life. The city of
קרית ארבעis called so because of the four giants that lived there, who
represent the four כוחות הטומאה, or the ארבע מראות נגעים, or because of
the four couples that were buried in the מערת המכפלה. The Klausenberg
Rebbi -( )בניו דודsays that קרית ארבע, or קריאת ארבעare the four words
that Sara said that were the cause of her death אמנם אלד ואני זקנתי,
where she questioned if she could really have children. He says that
Sara was not really laughing, but she was מתפעל, which was still a lack
of faith in Hashem’s eyes. The זוהר חדשsays that קרית ארבעare also
קריאת ארבע, the last four words she said ינו הויה אחד-הויה אלה, which
were a tikun for the four words אמנם אלד ואני זקנתי. On שני חיי שרה
Rashi says that כולן שוין לטובהimplying that Sara didn’t complain even
the first ninety years, like the last thirty seven years. She was pure,
תמיםin her אמונה.
The only other time it says מערהin Chumash is in Parshas וירא, when it
says וישב במערהconcerning Lot and his daughters. Why there does it
say במערהwith a pasuch under the ב, implying the cave? Maybe we
could say that this cave was the מערת המכפלה, the cave (Rav Sitorsky).
Before Avraham bought the מערה, it was in קרית ארבע, a dark empty
space. After Avraham bought it, it became ויקם שדה עפרון, the field had
a תקומה, an עליה, as it says יצא מיד הדיוט ליד מלך. The Tiferes Yisrael
says that this הדיוטis where the name idiot originates. However what it
really means is simple average person, not a fool. Now the ערלה
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(of the cave) has been removed and thrown into the עפרון – עפר.
מרחשוןis the month of the building of =מלכות בית דוד922=חודש מרחשון
and the last Parsha of the month has the הפטרה- ומלך דוד. The מרידהof
ד.ב. מwas also in מרחשוןand so the tikun is also in this month. The
חורבן בהמ"קwas on ט באב, the day the yidden would have entered א"י,
if the report of the מרגליםwould have been positive. Also יז בתמוז
would have been the day that the לוחותwere given, rather than broken.
The Ari Tzal says that Eliezer was מתגלגלinto כלב בן יפונהwho was
given his portion in חברון. It says הויה ברך אברהם בכל, where בכלare the
letters כלב. Eliezer, who descends from חם, became a ברוך, just as we
could transform the month of מרחשוןfrom בולinto שער הנון, or
חודש השמיני. The words קרית ארבעare the letters יראת עקרבor ראית עקרב
the fear or seeing the עקרב. We have a fear entering into חשון, however
this is really our purpose. It says קרית ארבע היא חברון, where the
יראת עקרבbecomes חבור נ, and we could rise to גן עדן.
The Zohar says that Sara is the גוף, and Avraham is the נשמה. Our
purpose here is to elevate the גוף. It says of ארץ הקדושthat
א"י גבוע מכל הארצות, which is explained in Chassidis that the ארציות, the
mundane activities of a פשוטyid, is higher than any of the nations. We
do not eat, or conduct any business the same way that the goyim do.
Because a yid elevates his body, he will be זוכהto תחיית המתים.
Mesechta Chulin is in סדר קודשים, hinting that the purpose of חוליןis to
elevate it to קודשים. We are not supposed to separate from the ארציות,
but to elevate it. In Parshas יב: וירא יחSara says אחרי בלתי היתה לי עדנה,
which according to what we’re saying here could be interpreted as the
purpose of this world of בלתי– בולis to elevate it into עדנה – נצחיות.
Mesechta Chulin ends with תחיית המתים. We are Hashem’s first born,
and so we are זוכהto כפל, that is 1) this world- it is not hard to see that
yidden that follow Hashem’s will are the really happy ones in this
world and 2) the next world- תחיית המתים. Whoever was buried in
מערת המכפלה, will definitely be זוכהto תחיית המתים. The בעל הטוריםsaid
that the yidden that are buried in א"י, will be the first to rise in the time
of תחיית המתים. Those who were involved in elevating the ארציותwill
be זוכהto תחיית המתיםfirst. The first תחיית המתיםwill be in the
מערת המכפלהsince the bodies of the אבותwere buried there. The
פתח גן עדןmeans the entrance to where there is no מיתה. According to
the Gemorra, the first stage of תחיית המתיםwill take place before משיח
comes, and משה ואהרוןwill be with them. מיתת שרהis actually חיי שרה
since the body of a צדיקcomes back - אפילו מתים קרואים חיים. Also we
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could say she kept living in רבקה. This is the idea of why Avraham
doesn’t cry too much. It says- יכם לא תתגדדו ולא-בנים הויה אלה
תעשו קרחה למת- meaning that we don’t rip hair out of our heads, or
mutilate our bodies after someone close dies, like the goyim do. To
them it’s all over, however to us, it’s all beginning. The רמב"ןsays in
עולם הבא, we will see our relatives. Avraham taught the lesson of not
overdoing ones אבילות, since תחיית המתים … כל ישראל יש להם חלק.
In pasuk יז: כגit says ויקם שדה עפרון, Rashi says תקומה היתה לו, that the
שדה עפרוןhad an elevation. Also Eliezer was elevated from ארורto
ברוך, and there is an opinion that Eliezer never died like אליהוand
סרח בת אשר. We learn all קדושיםfrom the ג"זof קיחה קיחה משדה עפרון,
since all זיווגיםare rooted in מערת המכפלה, the cave of couples.
A זווג אמיתיis forever. Eliezer had tremendous זכותin being such a
שליח נאמןin making the שידוךof Yitzhak and Rivka, and merited to be
מגלגלinto כלב בן יפנה, who was the שורשof מלכות בית דוד. Kalev
married מרים, who was rewarded that מלכותwould come from her. As
it says כהונה ולוי מיוחבד ומלכות ממרים. Kalev merited this מלכות, because
he protested against the מרגלים, and taught the עבודהof elevating the
ארציות. The חידאsays that he was also מתגלגלinto בניהו בן יהוידע. The
סימןgiven for the 105 פסוקיםin our Parsha- =יהוידע105. At the end of
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MarCheshvan is the חודשof the עקרב, the עקסא רבסא, the great
suffering that we experience at the end of time. The עקרבleads us into
the month of קשת, which also refers to Yishmael, who was the
רובה קשת. In the צד הקדושה, the קשתrefers to tefilla, בחרבי ובקשתי,
which has to be aimed like a bow and arrow, in order to hit the target.
The word קשתare the acronym of שמע קול תפילתינו. Also תקון הברית, the
mida of Yosef, is referred to as קשת, along with his mida of בטחון, as it
says ותישב באיתן קשתו. Through the עבודהof tefilla and ברית קודש,
which is synonymous to אמונה, and בטחוןwe will merit to overpower
ישמעאל. The מערת המכפלהis the place where all תפילותenter the upper
worlds – =מערת המכפלה890=גלות ישמעאל.
Hagar sat under a tree, the distance from ישמעאל, being that of a
shooting arrow הרחק בתחבי קשת. Eliezer, who was a son of Nimrod
from Kush, overcame his צד עבדותand was elevated to ברוך, through
his נאמנותand his תקון הברית. The prerequisite of שמירת הבריתis
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שמירת הלשון, the opposite מדהof =עפרן400= רע עיןwho spoke a lot, but
did nothing. In the first pasuk, the words חיי שרהare repeated twice,
and Rashi says כלן שוין לטובה. By sending away ישמעאל, Sara paved
way for the third בהמ"ק. The words חיי שרהis written twice in the first
pasuk- = חיי שרה533 x 2=1066=בית השלישי. She was the אשת חילof
whom it says טוב ולא רע, as she had the ability to separate the bad from
the good in everything. She knew clearly to get Yishmael out of the
house. On the other hand Chava, due to her talking too much, brought
the חטא עץ הדעתinto the world, which resulted in good and bad being
mixed up. Sara was the תקוןfor Chava, and some say she was her
גלגול. Rivka was the נשמהof שרה, as Rashi says והרי היא שרה אמו, which
is equated with Rivka also separating the wicked עשוfrom Yaakov.
Sara and Rivka purified, and will purify כלל ישראל.
In ו: איוב יאit says כי כפלים לתושיהwhich speaks of the wisdom of the
Torah. The commentators explain that we received the לוחותtwice.
Others interpret this as the Torah of this world and the Torah of the
world to come, the סתרי תורה. The yidden are the first born of Hashem,
who receive a double portion- מערת המכפלה-
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=כי כפלים לתושיה961=מקבץ נדחי עמו ישראל. In the future we will merit
the revelation of כפל.
T.B.P., תורה שבעל פהrequires a clean mouth -סייג לחכמה שתיקה– פה נקי.
We learn that Yaakov learned fourteen years in the ב"מof עברfrom
the calculation of the years of Yishmael (second to last pasuk-Rashi).
This hints to us that when there is trouble with ישמעאל, the best advice,
beside what we said before, to not answer back, is to go learn Torah-
=תלמוד בבלי524= והוא יהיה פרא אדם ידו בכל ויד כל בוThe yidden have in
them the power of speech, that is real speech- T.B.P. הקול קול יעקב– פה.
We already said that ברית הלשוןand ברית המעורboth go hand in hand
and are interdependent on each other =פה85=מילה.The Rokeach says
that חנוכהis a הארהof the אור הגנוז, whose source in Chumash is -
ים את האור כי טוב ויבדל-וירא אלה. Chanuka seperates the yidden from the
other nations, as olive oil is separate from other liquids when mixed
together =הלשון המעור712= את האור כי טוב ויבדלThis number also is
equal to eight times חנוכהor 8 x 89 (= )חנוכה712. The מזלof כסלוis
the קשת, the same letters as שקת.
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In the מדרש רבהit says that Sara was נפטרin קרית ארבע, in the month of
מרחשון, which also means that she was born in מרחשון. This מדרשsays
that Haman when checking each month for “suitability” to wipe out
the yidden ח"ו, when he came to חשוןhe said no, since Sara passed
away in this month. What about Adar, the month that he did choose,
being the month of ?פטירת משהHaman saw that with the passing of
Sara, there was an eradication of ישמעאל, the עקרב. The pasuk says
ותמת שרה בקרית ארבע, where בקרית ארבעare the same letters as
בריאת עקרב. The month of מרחשוןhas the מזלof the עקרב, which was
removed with Sara’s death. Sara rids us with the קליפהof ישמעאלand
the עקרב, and brings us to the עיקר בית. The double חיי שרהin the first
pasuk we said equals to בית השלישי, which will be built in the merit of
שרהseparating Yitzhak כלל ישראלfrom ישמעאל. The combination of
Hashem’s name for כסלוare derived from the acronym of
וירא יושב הארץ הכנענ-ויהה. The חידאsays that the last letters of
ויהיו חיי שרה מאהare ויהה, and the first letters, if we take out the
ו החיבורspell משיח-יהיו חיי שרה מאה. =בירושלם588=והיתה להויה המלוכה,
which will take place in חשון, when מלכות בית דודwill be restored.
=האהלה שרה אמו598= בירושלים- Sara is preparing us for משיח.
There are many questions given in the very last pasuk of חיי שרה. The
beginning of the pasuk talks in the plural- וישכנו, of the בני ישמעאלon
the face of מצריםcoming to אשור. The pasuk ends in the singular- נפל,
because now the pasuk is talking of just ישמעאל. Even though ישמעאל
died with תשובהas Rashi says from the word ויגבע, he has no future, no
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המשך. This is why it says נפלin the past tense. There is no עליות נשמה
for ישמעאל, and he has no connection to the מקומות הקדושיםthat they
occupy now. One may ask, why mention that ישמעאלdied a צדיק, and
the names of all of his children in the Parsha of Sara? This is her
legacy? The answer is yes. Because of Sara’s insight when she said
גרש האמה הזאת ואת בנה, Yishmael is mostly out of the picture, in the
נצחיותsense. This is her legacy. The חידאsays that we’ll never see a
Muslim become a Jew. From Esav, there are גריםbecause there are
still sparks of קדושהin עשו, and Esav’s head was buried in the
מערת המכפלה. Sara’s legacy comes to fruition with her being the
first yid buried in the מערת המכפלה, the holy entrance to גן עדן, which
has no שייכותto ישמעאל.