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Contents
Is she faking her orgasm? .................................................................................. 4
Why do women fake orgasms? .......................................................................... 5
Understanding The Female Orgasm ................................................................ 8
How is her orgasm different? .......................................................................... 10
What happens during the female orgasm? ...................................................... 13
Muscle contractions ..................................................................................... 13
Retraction of the clitoral head ..................................................................... 14
Heavier breathing and faster heart rate ...................................................... 14
Dilated pupils............................................................................................... 14
Red lips ........................................................................................................ 15
Vaginal muscle spasms ................................................................................ 15
Sudden perspiration .................................................................................... 15
Other physical changes ................................................................................ 16
12 Signs She’s Faking Her Orgasm .................................................................. 17
1. She Doesn’t Show Physical Changes ........................................................ 17
2. She Avoids Intimacy ................................................................................ 17
3. She Has Lots of Energy After Sex ............................................................ 18
4. She Needs Chemical Assistance ............................................................... 18
5. Her Performance Seems Over-The-Top .................................................. 19
6. She Seems Too In-Control ....................................................................... 19
7. She Keeps Her Distance .......................................................................... 20
8. She’s Silent Afterwards ........................................................................... 20
9. She Avoids Your Eyes .............................................................................. 21
10. She Looks Uncomfortable When Someone Mentions Faking It ............ 21
11. She Brings Up Her Multi-Orgasmic Friend ............................................ 21
12. She Starts Telling You to Do Things Differently ....................................22
Ok… But why doesn’t she say something?.......................................................24
So what should I do? ....................................................................................... 25
Summary .........................................................................................................26

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Is she faking her orgasm?

So you’ve had that nasty little suspicion tugging at the back of your
mind after a round of sex. Her screams seemed a little too
enthusiastic, or not enthusiastic enough. Her “oh God” moment
always comes a little too close to your own, time and time again.
Everything about it seems a little too pat, or maybe a little too
porno.

Or maybe you’ve never suspected it before. You’re a stud in the

sack, and you know what she likes.

But did you realize that 64% of women have faked the big “O”
sometime in their life?

Chances are, a lady that you’ve taken to bed has been among
them.

Here’s another helpful statistic for you: while an Indiana University

study found that if only 64% of women actually came during their
last sexual experience, 85% of men thought they’d made their
partner come.

So all those times you thought you were taking her to paradise, she
might have just been putting on a show.

Luckily, there are 12 clear signs to look for that will let you know
if her final moments are pure ecstasy — or pure fakery.

Fist, though, you need to understand the mechanics of the female

orgasm — and why she would fake hers.

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Why do women fake orgasms?

There are a lot of reasons that she might fake her orgasm —
something that’s incomprehensible to most guys. But the way
women experience sex is very different than man — more
complicated and, in a lot of ways, more intense.

For a woman, achieving orgasm can be inhibited by any of the

following factors:

Stress

For many women and men alike, sex is a great stress reliever that
takes the mind off of the problems of the day. But if she’s feeling
too preoccupied or stressed, there’s little chance she’ll be able to let
go enough to come. It might be something unrelated to sex, like
work, or it could be the stress of the sexual situation itself.

Feeling rushed

Women take, on average, 10-30 minutes to come. They also often

need more time to become fully aroused than men. In short,
women need foreplay. If they haven’t been caressed, touched, and
stimulated, they won’t be able to come just like that. The actual sex
act itself may be cut short if the many comes too quickly, a
common problem that has leaves many women dissatisfied after
sex.

Body image

Women are more likely to carry body image issued into the
bedroom than men. If she doesn’t feel absolutely at ease,
beautiful,, and sexy, her mind may be more on the size of her
thighs than what’s going on in between them.

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Anxiety and depression

Sex drive can be seriously hindered by anxiety and depression.

Your libido has a lot to do with your mental health, so if either one
of you is struggling in your daily life, it’s not going to just go away
when things turns physical.

Sleep deprivation

When she says she’s “too tired,” there’s a good chance she actually
is. Sex takes a ton of energy, and if a woman has been chronically
sleep deprived, she may simply not have it in her to achieve
orgasm.

Performance anxiety

Yes, women get it too! While this problem is most commonly

ascribed to men who can’t get or keep it up, women have the same
problems becoming aroused or maintaining their arousal long
enough to truly “let go” and experience a blissful climax.

Menopause

Post-menopausal women can achieve great orgasms just like

younger women. In fact, as women get older, their orgasms often
become more intense and multiple. But the menopausal period is a
difficult one. Hormonal changes cause her natural lubricant to dry
up, making sex unappealing and uncomfortable.

Trying to please you

If she’s faking her orgasm, it’s probably perfectly well intentioned.

When she can tell you’re about to get off, she doesn’t want to ruin
the moment (or the moments after) by not going there with you.

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She doesn’t know how

Some women just don’t know what it takes for them to achieve
orgasm. Women who don’t masturbate or aren’t comfortable with
their bodies — often but not always, younger women — may never
even have experienced the big “O” before. Some can get
themselves off through masturbation, but don’t know how to guide
you to get them there, or are too embarrassed to open up.

For men, orgasm is largely physical and automatic. Enough friction

and stimulus and the tension is released. For women, though, there
are many complicated factors at work. She has to feel totally at
ease and fully aroused to hit her peak.

Sometimes a woman is often or usually be able to come, but can’t

get there because of one or more of these factors. But in other
cases, a woman never or rarely has an orgasm.

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Understanding The Female Orgasm

The female orgasm is a relatively new phenomenon in medical and
scientific terms — there was little attention paid to it before the
most recent generation of doctors. Before that, many doctors
thought that a high percentage of women were just incapable of
orgasm. They were embarrassed or uncomfortable discussing
female sexuality, and didn’t know anything about sexual medicine.
Plus, since women’s orgasms are not necessary for conception,
most doctors didn’t see it as a problem at all if a woman couldn’t
climax.

Things have “come” a long way, however. There has been a lot
more research on the female orgasm in the last 20 years,
sometimes with astounding results.

For example, in 2009 a Danish psychosexual therapist named Pia

Struck presented the results of an exhaustive study on women who
had trouble achieving orgasm. Of the 465 women ages 18-88 that
she surveyed, a full 25 percent had never had an orgasm in their
lives!

Struck used a combination of group and individual therapy to help

the women have more satisfying sex. They were encouraged to
thing positively about their bodies and sexual parts and embrace
their sexuality through touch. In the private sessions, they were
given practical training with clitoral vibrators.

By the end of the training, 93 percent of the women could achieve

an orgasm in a therapist’s presence.

Additionally, it didn’t matter how old the women were. Post-

menopausal women could reach orgasm just as the younger women
could.

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(And a note about age — for many women, sexual pleasure
actually increases with the years. As women become more
seasoned at sex and more at ease in their own skin, they often are
able to experience more sexual pleasure. Research shows that 20-
something women don’t usually experience multiple orgasms, while
women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s can.)

The study shows that women who have trouble reaching orgasm
are not “defective.” There are so many physical and psychological
reasons why a woman can’t experience the same sexual pleasure
you do — but that can be changed.

With a thorough understanding of how women operate, you can

take her from arousal to body-rocking climax — no faking.

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How is her orgasm different?

That full-body sensation that women feel upon orgasm may be
harder to achieve, but there’s generally a lot more power behind it
than in the man’s more localized climax.

What are the exact differences between her orgasm and yours?

Hers are harder to achieve

A University of Chicago study found that 75 percent of women

reach orgasm consistently, while only 50 percent of women do.
Making a women come is by no means impossible or even difficult,
but if you don’t understand how her body works,

Hers are longer

It might be harder to achieve, but it lasts longer than yours do.

Studies have found that women’s orgasms last about 20 seconds,
while men’s orgasms last an average of six. That means hers are
three times as long — worth a little extra effort!

She can have more of them

Men can, in fact, achieve multiple orgasms — as many as 20% —

but women are more naturally wired for them. She can have one
climax after another if properly stimulated.

She has different kinds

For men, an orgasm is an orgasm. It comes with ejaculation, and

while it may be more or less intense depending on the amount of
sperm ejaculated and other factors, it basically feels the same.

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Women, though, feel orgasms in a million different shades and
varieties. There are a few main types:

 Vaginal orgasm
Experts differ on exactly what this means, but a vaginal
orgasm at its most basic levels implies penetration. Keep in
mind, though, that hardly any woman will come from a wham-
bam-thank you ma’am type of thrusting experience that
doesn’t engage her clitoris.

 Clitoral orgasm
Most women need some clitoral stimulation to climax. A
clitoral orgasm is one that focuses on this pleasure spot, which
contains roughly 8,000 nerve endings (but who’s counting?).
That’s four times more than on the penal head — so there’s no
excuse not to bring her waves of pleasure by directing your
focus to her clitoris.
Women can achieve clitoral orgasm, either by themselves or
with your help, without any penetration at all.

 G-spot orgasm
Some experts argue that the “G-spot” orgasm is a myth, while
others stand by it. Only your woman can tell you if she’s felt
this kind of climax, which some find particularly intense. The
G-spot is located on the front part of the vaginal wall, and can
deliver a leg-quaking orgasm and even trigger female
ejaculation.

 Blended orgasm
This is the most common type of orgasm, and it’s not really a
type — it’s a blend of all of the above. Basically all women
need some form of clitoral stimulus to come, but the clitoris is
a complicated entity, and an orgasm can differ even based on
what part of the clit is stimulated. Usually a combination of
vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation leads to the most
pleasurable climaxes.

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Feelings of romance, attachment, and love

Women’s brains are built to connect sex with feelings of romance,

attachment, and love. While this goes for men as well, women are
naturally inclined to feel more attached to a man after sleeping with
him. But this is especially true after orgasm.

Those warm and cuddly moments that happen after sex are largely
chemical. The female orgasm triggers a release of endorphins and
vasopressin, which are associated with feelings of attachment to
their male partner. You get a chemical high as well, but these
feelings are magnified for the woman.

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What happens during the female orgasm?

Now that you have an idea of what the female orgasm is made of,
it’s time to figure out if you can claim credit for inducing one.
What’s really going down when you’ve successfully gone down on
her?

There are several physical signs that will clue you in that her moans
are more than an Oscar-worthy performance. Women show
uncontrollable physical changes when they’re about to come. These
include:

 Faster breathing

 Higher body temperature

 Faster heart rate

 Tensed muscles

 Tightening of the abdominal muscles

 Throbbing and a “bearing down” feeling in her pelvis muscles

All of this is the build-up of physical tension, which is released

during orgasm.

Muscle contractions

When a woman experiences an orgasm, her vagina and uterus

contract an average of 10 to 15 times. Each contraction lasts
less than a second. Her rectal sphincter also contracts between
two to five times.

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With these more localized spasms in her genital and rectal areas, a
lot of her other muscles may contract, especially in her stomach,
arms, legs, neck and face. Even her toes will bend and arch
forward.

Retraction of the clitoral head

Pay attention to the all-important clitoris the next time you go

down on her. When the clitoris retracts into the vagina, that means
she’s nearing orgasm — so whatever you’re doing, keep it up.

You can also feel the clitoral head retract during sex. Try positions
that gives you access to her clitoris, such as reverse cowgirl,
and see if you can feel the clitoris disappear. This will give you a
good indication if she’s close to an actual climax and not a fake one
(and will probably help her along).

Heavier breathing and faster heart rate

These are very physical signs that are hard to fake. If her breathing
gets heavier and more rapid in your ear and you can feel her heart
pounding, that means she’s getting truly aroused. Moans and
groans aside, these are uncontrollable indicators that she’s about to
come.

Dilated pupils

True that this one is trickier to notice with the lights off. Try looking
in her eyes during an afternoon romp (but pay attention to how
they look at the beginning). You should see that her pupils look
bigger before and during her orgasm.

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Red lips

Both sets of lips will redden as she reaches her finale. Her mouth
lips will get a little redder and more swollen, while her vaginal lips
will also redden. Kissing can also cause redness and swelling,
however, so make sure you’re attributing any change to the right
cause.

Vaginal muscle spasms

This is one that you should feel. She’ll have between three and 10
spasms in her vagina and cervix, with the first few being the
strongest. You should feel the tightening sensation around your
penis. You’ll also notice it around your fingers if you get her off
manually, which may help you become more sensitive to how this
feels during actual sex.

Those muscle spasms will ripple through her abdomen and

throughout her whole body. That’s the “whole-body” experience of
the female orgasm. And it should be obvious. If you’re usually on
top, try switching it up — her muscle contractions will be much
more obvious when she’s riding you.

Sudden perspiration

You’ve been working up a sweat from all your bedroom athletics.

But the sweat isn’t just from friction and vigorous activity — she
should break out into a sweat quite suddenly as her breathing,
heart rate, and blood pressure increases as she gets closer and
closer. If she keeps her cool throughout, you’ll know that you didn’t
hit your target.

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Other physical changes

Other involuntarily changes will come over her right before she
climaxes. Her muscles will tense up and she might change her
rhythm to be faster or slower, depending on what she feels. If her
body feels basically the same, you’ll know that her big “O” is a big
show.

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12 Signs She’s Faking Her Orgasm

Observing her physical state when you get close to the edge will
help you figure out of she’s really on the brink. Fortunately, though,
that’s not all you have to go off of.

There are 12 very real signs, both behavioral and physical,

that her moment of bliss is not all it seems. Could your partner
be faking it?

1. She Doesn’t Show Physical Changes

If she doesn’t show the above physical changes during and after
sex, you can put your money on it that the moaning and thrashing
were just for show. Learn to recognize these signs if you want to be
sure that the big finish was more than just a performance.

2. She Avoids Intimacy

If she’s acting evasive — finding excuses not to have sex by

saying that she’s too tired, or simply not acting interested when
you try and come on to her — there’s probably something turning
her off. After too many rounds of unfulfilling sex, she knows that
she doesn’t have a lot to look forward to and it’s not worth the
trouble.

She might also act avoid-y after the fact. When you want to lie
there and cuddle and caress her in pleasant post-coital stupor, she
wants to move on to the next thing. She runs to take a shower, put
her clothes on, or just go to sleep. All of this implies that there’s
something she’s not telling you. If it’s happening again and again,
there’s a good chance that she isn’t finding the sex as fulfilling as
you think.

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3. She Has Lots of Energy After Sex

Sex takes it out of you. That goes for men and women. When a
woman has an orgasm, her body releases a flood of oxytocin and
endorphins — “feel-good” hormones. Afterwards, she feels tired
and spent (in a good way). If she’s immediately up and at ‘em (and
not just to pee), you have reason to suspect she was faking it.
Getting up to get dressed or do something indicates that she has
energy left to burn, and that her arousal wasn’t fully quenched.

4. She Needs Chemical Assistance

Does your lady make sure there’s a bottle of wine uncorked every
time there’s a chance you’ll do the deed? Does she pop a “happy
pill” or suggest you engage in some greener recreation before you
begin?

No one should need to pre-game for a roll in the hay. If she needs
stimulants, uppers, or downers — alcohol included — to get
physical… Something’s wrong.

That doesn’t mean that having a few drinks when you go out
together is a warning sign. Does it seem to happen like clockwork,
each and every time? Does she get nervous if she hasn’t had a
drink, and suggest libations for the two of you? Does it seem to be
a habit that’s out of sync with yours?

These are all signs that she’s nervous about sex. Something about
it is uncomfortable, painful, or just plain bad, and she needs
something to help her suffer through it. Hopefully this is nothing
more serious than a less-than-satisfactory sexual experience.

No woman wants to be subjected to a round of cervix-banging,

jackhammer sex that leaves them feeling more sore than satiated.
You’d need a drink if that was you, too!

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Maybe you assumed that she “likes it rough” or that since it’s been
so long and she hasn’t complained, it must be fine for her, too. But
if she needs to be tipsy, high, intoxicated, drugged up, or any
combination thereof, you’re probably deluding yourself.

5. Her Performance Seems Over-The-Top

Think about it honestly: have you ever suspected that her big finale
was a little too big to be genuine?

You’ve gotten used to eliciting a certain reaction from women in

bed. You know what a normal orgasm looks like (or at least you
should), and you know, generally, how to give one. If you usually
get a more subdued reaction in the bedroom,

If she’s flailing her limbs around, throwing her head back,

screaming loud enough for the neighbors to hear, and talking dirtier
than a porn star, there’s a chance that she’s putting on an act. You
might think this performance shows how crazy you’re driving her,
but it’s also possible that she’s just doing it for your benefit.

6. She Seems Too In-Control

Think about what a real orgasm looks like on a woman. It’s not
necessarily pretty. That’s what happens when we lose control: we
pant and breathe heavily, make weird noises, and pull our faces
around. It might be easy to roll your eyes back in “ecstasy,” but the
rest is a little harder to fudge.

Not all women are the same, of course. Maybe you were with the
same woman for a long time, and she was quieter about it. But now
that you’re with someone else, you can’t assume that she’s happy if
she doesn’t show it. Sex should be a little wild. If she seems too in-
control and too inhibited during and after, she probably hasn’t
reached that body-shaking moment.

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7. She Keeps Her Distance

Along with having an unnatural amount of post-coital energy, if

your partner isn’t getting too close to you after the act she probably
didn’t experience a real orgasm.

Women are wired to want to feel more physical and emotional

closeness after sex in general, but especially after they orgasm. As
the passion dies down, you both feel calmer and more affectionate.

After a satisfying sexual experience, she should want to kiss, cuddle

and spoon. If she rolls over to her side of the bed or waits til you
fall asleep, then pulls out her laptop, it’s a good bet that

8. She’s Silent Afterwards

Some guys take post-sex quit to mean the woman is tired and
pleased — ready to snuggle and turn in after an energetic sex
session. Sometimes that’s the case. Not all people, men and
women alike, like a lot of pillow talk. Quiet after sex can be
intimate and feel right.

But it can also be yet another case of man’s obliviousness. It’s true
that women don’t always come right out and say it when they’re
mad, upset, or generally dissatisfied. This applies to the bedroom
as much as anywhere else. If she’s clamming up on you, she could
be feeling frustrated that she isn’t getting what she wants from sex.
If you don’t really pay attention, you’ll probably miss this. Does she
respond with curt or short answers when you ask her questions?
Are her lips pursed, or does her smile seem fake?

A surprising amount of men never think to just ask a woman, “was

that good for you?” Maybe you assumed that she enjoyed it as
much as you did, or maybe you’re afraid of what she’ll say. But she
might be scared to hurt your feelings or feel self-conscious about
bringing it up herself. So ask!

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9. She Avoids Your Eyes

You’ve just finished and now you’re lying there together, catching
your breath. You want to look into her eyes and tell her how
amazing it was. But when you do, she breaks eye contact and looks
away.

What gives? Avoiding eye contact is a sure sign that she’s faked her
orgasm. She feels guilty about lying, and she doesn’t want you to
see it in her eyes. So she mumbles something, smiles
unconvincingly, and turns away. Better luck with that intimate
moment next time.

10. She Looks Uncomfortable When Someone Mentions Faking It

Say you’re out with some friends and someone mentions women
who “fake it.” Or you’re watching a TV show and a character makes
a “she’s faking it” joke. You laugh along with the rest of the group,
confident that this doesn’t apply to you and pitying whatever poor
sap can’t please his woman in bed.

Then you look over at her. Instead of laughing, she’s quiet, or she
gives a fake, half-hearted chuckle. Her shoulders tense and her lips
purse slightly. She looks strained and nervous.

There’s only one reason for her reaction. To a woman who has to
fake her orgasm time and time again, it’s anything but funny. And
unfortunately, the joke’s on you — even if she has the good grace
not to mention it in public.

11. She Brings Up Her Multi-Orgasmic Friend

Suppose she mentions a girlfriend who can have not one, but two,
three, six climaxes in one go. Don’t take this as casual chit-chat:
this is a big hint.

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Some women can orgasm multiple times in a row or in one round of
sex, and some men are more skilled at making that happen. But if
she’s dropping this big hint, it’s likely that she doesn’t expect you
to make her come again and again — she wants you to make her
come once. If she can get you to set your sights a little higher, you
might hit the mark once in a while, right?

It comes down to really paying attention to her physical response

the next time you’ll intimate. If you can differentiate a real orgasm
from a fake one, you’ll know what she’s really saying.

12. She Starts Telling You to Do Things Differently

Your technique is impeccable. You have great chemistry in the

sack. You know your girl and what she likes.

Or so you think.

If your partner suddenly starts giving you directions, that means

that she’s fed up with faking it. She was probably willing to bear
with you for a while and didn’t want to ruin the mood by lying there
silently while you were getting off, but now she’s ready for the real
thing. If your girl starts telling you to change up your game, that
means you weren’t quite doing it for her before.

It’s important to listen to your partner without getting defensive,

even if her sudden bossiness throws you for a loop. If you truly
want to please your partner, you’ll lay your ego aside and listen.
Does she want you to go down on her, or spend longer doing it? Is
she grabbing your hands and directing your fingers? Does she want
to be on top when she’s usually at the bottom? Or maybe she’s
yelling, “Slow down!”. It could be subtler — her pushing your head
down south, for example, or saying casually, “Why don’t we try it
like this?”

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Whatever it is, you’ll find that your own pleasure is that much more
intense when hers is, too — and when it’s genuine. So respond to
her words and pay attention to her physical cues.

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Ok… But why doesn’t she say something?

So now you’re thinking: If she were really this unhappy with our
sex life, why wouldn’t she say something?

That’s a typically male line of thought, and while it makes sense to

you, it doesn’t necessarily make sense to her. There are a lot of
reasons she could be less-than-truthful with regards to your ability
to please her.

Most likely, she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. She knows
the male ego is a fragile one, and she cares about you, so she tells
herself, It’s ok, I can deal with it, it’ll get better. She’s not just
feeding you a line — she’s feeding herself one, too. And so far, it’s
worked. You never before suspected that her orgasms could have
been just acts to make you feel good about yourself.

She might also assume that in time,
true that the longer you’re intimate
comfortable you feel with them, and the
She might be faking it now and hoping
out orgasm will become real.
things will improve. It’s
with someone, the more
better your sex life can be.
that eventually her acted-

Another common situation is that she feels that it’s been too
long, and now she can’t say something. Let’s say you’ve been
sleeping together for weeks, months, or years! The longer the bad
sex lasts, the less comfortable she’ll feel sitting you down one day
and saying, “Honey, I’ve been lying to you.” She feels trapped and
stuck in sex life that doesn’t satisfy her, but she feels it would hurt
your feelings too much to say something after all this time… and so
she keeps up her act.

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So what should I do?

Perhaps you’re finding yourself In a panic. The lady in your life has,
in fact, been showing these signs. Your suspicions seem to be
validated.

Don’t feel too disheartened! There’s always time to turn things

around. You can up your game in both subtle and overt ways to
turn those canned “oh, Gods” into real screams of ecstasy.

But first, you need to talk it out.

Yes, it’s awkward to bring up, especially if you’ve been sleeping

together for a while. But if you’re wondering about it, better to ask
than to go on wondering and feeling insecure. Frame it in such a
way that she knows that you care about her and want to satisfy
her. Above all, don’t get defensive or make her feel
confronted. For all you know, everything is perfectly fine and
you’re worrying for nothing. On the other hand, this could bring up
other issues she’s been too shy to discuss.

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Summary
Is that orgasm a real mind-blowing climax, or just a lackluster
performance? Here’s a brief summary of the 12 signs to look for
that will clue you in:

1. She doesn’t show physical changes

2. She avoids intimacy
3. She has lots of energy after sex
4. She needs chemical assistance
5. Her performance seems over the top
6. She seems too in-control
7. She keeps her distance
8. She’s silent afterwards
9. She avoids your eyes
10. She looks uncomfortable when someone mentions faking it
11. She brings up her multi-orgasmic friend
12. She suddenly starts giving you directions

And don’t forget all of the involuntary physical changes that

should take place when she nears orgasm, including retraction of
the clitoris, reddened lips, heavier breathing, a faster heart rate,
and tensed muscles.

When she does come, you should feel the strong contractions in her
vagina, uterus, stomach, and all over her body. This should really
feel like it’s gripping your penis.

If you do think that she’s faking it, keep in mind that female
sexuality is complicated and there could be a long list of reasons
unrelated to you as a man.

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And remember that for every sexual problem, there is a
solution. Most women can’t get off from vaginal sex alone, so
maybe you need to spend more time giving her oral or stimulating
her clitoris. Maybe things are just too uncomfortable around there
and all you need to do is reach for a bottle of lube.

The point is, you’ll never know until you ask. So make sure
she knows how sexy and beautiful you find her and how much you
value her — no faking.

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