Professional Documents
Culture Documents
FEELINGS SAY:
I identify and state the feelings that are alive in me in the present moment in relation to
I feel
what I observe. ● “I feel scared.” “I feel inspired.” “I’m excited.” “I feel frustrated.” ________________________,
Be careful to avoid “False Feelings”. Thoughts are not feelings. (state your feelings)
NEEDS SAY:
I identify the satisfied or unsatisfied needs that are alive in me now. These needs are the
source of my feelings. Needs are universal to all people.
because I am needing
• Some needs we all share: ________________________.
integrity, honesty, order, purpose, reliability, consideration (state your needs)
REQUESTS SAY:
I request a concrete action that takes into consideration my own needs and those of others. Would you be willing to
A request is not a demand. Use positive-action language by stating what you are _______________________?
requesting rather than what you are not. You can make a request of yourself or of others. (ask your reflection, connection or action request)