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Young Moves

The Magazine For GAME CHANGERS


Volume 1, Issue 9

MARCH 2020
YOUNG MOVES
March 2020
August 2019 Volume
Volume 11

A magazine for Future Leaders,


World Peace, Culture and Development

INSPIRATION EDITORIAL ADVISOR

Shri Guru Pawan Sinha Ji Dr. Kavita Asthana

EDITORIAL EDITORIAL
COORDINATOR BOARD

Palak Aggarwal Aditya Ojha Dinesh Nishad

PHOTOGRAPHERS GRAPHICS ILLUSTRATOR

Mayank Vij Abhishek Sharma Navita Ahuja Kripi Singh


Content
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Editorial
The Light Within Us
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Ignited Pens
Feminism; A Glass Half Of Water &
Half Of Air
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Ignited Pens
Women Health
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Coverage
Sanatan Women
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Ignited Pens
Parenting in the 21st century
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Manusmriti and women
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Ignited Pens
Ayonija Sita
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Draupadi; The Truth behind Disrobing
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Who Subjugated Women?
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Recipe

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Dhokla

Who does Christianity


say about Women?
Content
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What does Islam
say about Women?
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Ignited Pens
What Rapes?
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Landmark Legislations

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Coverage
Sanatan Women; Swaraj Sabha
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Ignited Pens
Freedom Of Women

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Women & Workplace
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Compromise v/s Adjustment

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Before you become a Woman
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Ignited Pens
Is this the Right Perspective
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Ae Mere Watan Ke Logon
Holi
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Editorial The Light Within Us
Palak Aggarwal
Editorial coordinator

Why do women need empowerment? Are we weak? Are we second-class citizens? One
needs empowerment when one is weak in what they do. So, the question arises, are we weak in
being women? Certainly not. We do not need empowerment. What we rather need is the
assertiveness of our identities and claiming our rights and exercising them openly. We need to
realise the light within us...

The world celebrated International women’s day on 8th March and thus, team Young
Moves decided to talk about women. Thus, we bring to you an assortment of topics related to
and necessary for women. The magazine begins with an analysis of feminism and how it has
shaped up in modern times. We move forward to one of the most important aspects of women-
their health. Women often neglect their health while taking care of the entire family and this
needs to be changed soon. Thus, Sanatan Women, the women wing of Paavan Chintan Dhara
Ashram also organised a health check-up camp for women which is covered in the magazine.
A mother then talks about the importance of parenting in the 21st century where young people
are becoming more distracted, sad and lonely. We move forward to the status of women in
three different times of the Sanatan culture- during Manusmriti, Ramayana and
Mahabharata. Thus, this issue talks about women and Manusmriti, breaking some myths
about Sita and finally, covering the episode of disrobing of Draupadi. We move forward to a
serious contemplation on who subjugated women after the time of Mahabharata. We also
analyse how their position fell from being completely free in their choices to a woman clad in a
veil. The following articles include an analysis of the status of women in Christianity and
Islam.

We move forward to more contemporary issues like the reason behind increasing rape
cases, laws related to women, the freedom of women, difference between compromise and
adjustment in a woman’s life, the gender roles persisting even before birth and how we are
humans before our genders. The magazine also covers the scientific reasons behind the
celebration of Holi in the section ‘Ae Mere Watan Ke Logon.’

Thus, we try to cover the status of women from older times to the contemporary time and
how we need to change to make the future better because if one woman grows, the family
grows and so does the society.

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Ignited Pens Feminism:
A Glass half of water & half of air
Article by:

Prateek Aggarwal
Business Student

Did you read the title? Now do one thing… close Males nowadays don’t allow their wives to work
the magazine. Do you think it’s a joke? No, really. in offices. Males don’t allow women to dress as per
Close the magazine and think about the title. What their wishes, don’t allow them to go anywhere they
do you think about after reading this title? want. I just want to ask a simple question- Who are
men to allow them or not allow them? Men should
Feminism is of different types. Our views of encourage their children and wife, men should
feminism may vary but according to me the meaning support them.
of feminism is equality. This is because the opposite
of patriarchy is not matriarchy. If a society is Some women have also misused feminism. They
matriarchal, men will also raise their voices for have promoted pseudo-feminism. For instance,
equality. So, the opposite of patriarchy is equality when we talk about #metoo movement, many cases
and that’s the real meaning of feminism. came where men were found innocent but because
of this movement, many companies fired these men,
Now, coming back to the title. You might be taking away their source of income and security.
confused about the title thinking which is good and Another interesting case was that because of this
which is bad. But, think carefully. Is air bad for us? Is #metoo movement, many companies fired or
water bad for us? No, none of them is bad. We can’t avoided hiring women employees because of the
live without both of them. Both are the basic needs fear that they might raise a false case against them.
of a human being. Also, some pseudo-feminists target people for fame
and money. They do not care about the feelings of
When we read the Mahabharata, we get to know men and even women, all they care about is money
that in those times, women were capable of doing and fame.
everything and were allowed to do many things like
choosing their lovers, marrying more than one man. When I talked to Avani Khurana about her
Hahaha! one can say that women were living their views on feminism and the need of it, she shared her
lives like queens. And, as the era changed, people views on this topic: “Feminism isn’t about being
stopped respecting women and instead of limiting superior to men which, nowadays, it is highly
their gazes, men forced ‘Purdah’ (veil) on women. I misunderstood as. It is about equality of men and
feel that this veil was one of the factors, among women and equality here does not mean being
many, which reduced the self-confidence of women identical. A lot of people say that because men and
and made them consider themselves as the inferior women are biologically different, we can’t expect
gender. them to be treated alike everywhere. But feminism

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as an ideology doesn’t even demand or propagate in every part of who we are. It is not our fault that we
that. The issue has always been equal access to are treated unfairly and always considered "Too"
opportunities. Every now and then, few measures something. We are the right amount of strength to
are taken in favour of women which naturally might counter this bullshit. There is another facet to
seem unfair to men but are necessary in order to misogyny: internalized sexism. It happens when
uplift and empower women because of them being women themselves mistreat other women based on
the oppressed gender. The problem arises when their gender. Even as a devout feminist, I have
women start taking undue advantage of privileges as walked on the societal thorns of being dusky. I
menial as seats reserved for women in public encourage others to take a look at themselves on the
transport. I wouldn’t disagree that we have come a spectrum of injustice. We are all a part of it, and it is
long way and women have been progressing but, important to make a personal change if that's not too
there is still a long way to go; to defeat patriarchy, to much to ask. At the END: Do you believe that a
eliminate the implicit gender biases prevailing in world that prevents certain people from accessing
our society and rise above them all. Feminism can full rights and opportunities would lead to a fair,
only work when there are as many male feminists as healthy, prosperous world for all? Feminist doesn't
there are females because unless all of us realise mean "person who hates men". Feminist means
why we need it, we wouldn’t be able to achieve it.” "person who believes people should have equitable
places in society regardless of their gender" because
While Subhashree Barik talked about feminism there is a difference between "Feminist and
as, “Feminism is a belief in social, economic and Misandrists". Hence, A portion does not equal the
political equality of the sexes which manifested WHOLE, even if that portion is LOUD. It seems so
worldwide committed to Women's rights and because a shallow personality prefers anti-feminists
interest. Feminism distilled down at its core is about who like to cherry-pick misleading quotes. Men
choice and gender equity. If you think as a human engage in sexism because they've been taught to
being you deserve equal rights and equal access to behave/think that way and women internalize it for
all opportunities then you are a FEMINIST hence the same reason. Feminism asks both men and
Feminism is RIGHT, the concept is RIGHT. The women to critically think about that normalized
issue here is about equal rights and equal access to behaviour and its impact and holds people
opportunities. Men and women don't have to be the accountable for sexist thinking and behaviour even
"same" in physicality to have the right to equality. if they didn't initially realize it was sexist. The crux
There is a continual cultural flaw in the way we view is: Do you use Feminism to carve an equitable
and critique women. It's immensely difficult to society for ~mothers, sisters, and daughters you
prioritize what's important when we critique love~ all human beings, of all genders?
ourselves constantly as a result of the world's harsh
judgment. Most women have been deprived of self- Hitanshi Gayakwad shared her views,
satisfaction and appreciation because of social “Feminism is, by all means, right for each and every
pressure and perception. But there are small and point it stands for but people who don't understand it
achievable steps we can take. We should call on both has belittled it. It's not anti-men or demeans any
genders to immaculate objectification when gender, it stands for equality and its main aim is to
discussing women. If we ever want an end to the make a society where an individual's gender doesn't
way females are put in boxes, this is the beginning of restrict them from an equal shot at success and
an important and tumultuous journey ahead. We happiness. Women, men, girls, boys. What is the
should acknowledge that beauty is in the eye of the main similarity they all share? They are human.
beholder. Not just in a literal appearance sense, but They are human beings. They belong to the same

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species. We, as humans, are all not always the same, environment will kill your child from inside. Just
but we are equal. Then why should one gender be imagine that a girl has to live her life as her parents
allowed to have more possibilities, more rights, want and then after marriage, she has to adjust
more education, more vulnerability, more chances according to her husband. This is not right. Let us
to live? In a world, system and society humans free our sisters, daughters, wife and every woman to
created and built up themselves? Right, it makes no breathe in fresh air like they want to, support them,
sense. No sense at all. This is why we need love them, care for them and let them decide what
feminism. And it is the belief that men and women they want to do.
should have equal rights and opportunities. You can
be pro-women without being anti-men. We should Never try to stop them because even water is
call out inequality, in each and every situation small ruined when stopped. So, let the water flow.
or big, it should be referred and solved. Make men Similarly, let women live their lives according to
understand that gender equality is their issue too, their wishes. If we want society to flourish and
they should stand for it. From a younger age, develop, we’ll have to educate the women and let
children should be educated about respect for every them grow because when a woman is educated, she
gender and equality among them.” teaches the entire family. These educated women
lead the nation and give it children who grow up to
From all the above views, I see two damaged serve the nation.
roots in the working of society because of which
need for feminism arises: I also want to highlight the importance of the
Education, or lack of education mental and physical health of women while talking
Parenting, or lack of good parenting thereof about their growth. They often ignore and neglect
their health while taking care of the healths of their
Parenting: When we talk about parenting, this is families and this should not be the case. The
the major issue in India. Many parents are not able to happiness index of India has decreased in the past
play the role of a good parent as they are not able to few years and while we were on the 118th position in
adapt to the changing environment so they become 2013-2015, we fell to 140th position. How will the
instructors instead of being good parents. Females people of a country spread happiness when they
also don’t have much power like the males in themselves are not happy? You might be thinking
patriarchal houses and so what child sees in the about why I am talking about happiness Index?
house, they enact it. When young boys see that
especially girl children are told to be safe and denied Women are the bearers of happiness and if the
going out or denied from doing stuff because of her women of a society are not happy, how will society
safety, those young boys also grow to learn the be happy. Thus, it is the responsibility of every
same. In future, they also start restricting women. person to make others happy, especially the women
Safety measures should be taken but the society of the house. I believe that the answer to these
shouldn’t tell girls that they are weak and that they problems is in:
needed to be protected from wolves. Instead, the Good education
girls should be taught to fight and boys should be Good parenting
taught to not act like wolves. Boys should be taught I end my article right here and hope that I could
to be humans and respect every fellow human. put across my views and opinions successfully. I’ll
I know that the parents who are reading this will be glad if you will share your views with me on
worry. I know that you care for and love your child a editor.youngmoves@gmail.com.
lot, but over caring or giving a very protected

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Ignited Pens Women Health Article by:

Akhilesh Sharma, Srijamya,


Jamnagar, Gujarat Medical Student,
Tbilisi, Georgia

Although women in developed (industrialised) Mental health during menstruation


countries have narrowed the gender gap in social Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) is a collection of
factors like life expectancy and live longer than physical and emotional symptoms that start a week
men, gender still remains an important social or so before your period. It makes some people feel
determinant of health. This is because women's more emotional than usual and others bloated and
health is influenced not just by their biology but also achy. Changes in oestrogen and progesterone levels
by socio-economic conditions such as poverty, also influence serotonin levels. This is a
employment, and family responsibilities. Women's neurotransmitter that helps regulate your mood,
reproductive and sexual health has different factors sleep cycle, and appetite. Low levels of serotonin are
as compared to men's health. Hormonal changes linked to feelings of sadness and irritability, in
every month not only bring the rain of blood but also addition to trouble sleeping and unusual food
the wind of mood swings and lightening of hot cravings — all common PMS symptoms. Vitamin
flashes and cramps. In simple terms, menstruation is B6 can help with PMS symptoms. Lifestyle
a tiring process that happens every month and a activities like exercise, nutrition and proper sleep
survivor of this weather must know hacks to can calm the symptoms of PMS.
survive.
Hysteria- Purely a blindfold misconception needs
Being young and getting older to be unfolded in this regard. Exhibiting a wide array
Adolescent period brings a big wave with it. This of symptoms, including anxiety, shortness of breath,
wave includes menarche (first-time menstruation), fainting, nervousness, sexual desire, insomnia, fluid
development of breasts, attraction towards the retention, heaviness in the abdomen, irritability, loss
opposite gender, sexual desires etc. This confused of appetite is a part of Premenstrual Syndrome. It is
period of time can lead to many disastrous results no longer recognized by medical authorities as a
like unplanned pregnancy and STDs. Sex education medical disorder. In the past, patients were treated by
and parental support can play an important role to pelvic massage which led to the invention of vibrator
avoid such mishaps. which gave a rhythmic massage. But vibrator, due to
its appearance in pornographic films, got a sexually-
Menopause is the end of periods, normally after erotic hue and is branded as a sinful instrument.
the age of 50. The symptoms include irregular
periods, sleep problems, mood changes, hot flashes Stay healthy during your periods
etc. It could need medications if there is extensive Here are some tips for women to stay healthy
bleeding, depression or if it occurs prematurely. during their periods:
Change your sanitary napkin every 4-6 hours.

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 Do not put a tampon for a long time, it can also breast's skin or nipples etc.
cause dryness in the vagina leading to severe
bacterial infection. Menstrual cups are a good option Breast pain is not usually a symptom of breast
for working women. Keep proper cleanliness of cancer. A routine self check-up of the breast is
reusable pads and cups. recommended to be on a safe road. The most
Take hot baths and hot drinks to ease cramps. common symptom of uterine cancer is abnormal
Eat healthy food, take proper sleep and take part vaginal bleeding. Other symptoms include unusual
in light exercise. vaginal discharge, painful urination, pain during
Don't be afraid of taking painkillers if the intimacy, pressure or pain in the pelvic region,
cramps are exceeding beyond your control limit. weight loss etc. Uterine cancer, if diagnosed earlier,
Use intimate hygiene wash during periods to can be cured by surgically removing the uterus
avoid any type of infection. (hysterectomy).

Contraception – An armour Myths and reality


Different methods of contraception are available Myth: If I will use a tampon, I will no longer be
for women according to the demand of the situation virgin as my hymen will break.
and body. Choosing a suitable method needs Reality: The hymen is a thin piece of mucosal
information about each of it: tissue that surrounds or partially covers the external
Long-acting reversible contraception like vaginal opening. The state of never having sexual
implants and intrauterine devices which can last up intercourse is termed as virginity. So, there is no
to 3-10 years. correlation between the two. The hymen is not the
Hormonal contraception like pills and Depo sign of virginity as it can break during heavy
Provera injection are effective for 3 months. Saheli exercises like horse riding or cycling.
is the only contraceptive pill that is non-hormonal. It
is a selective estrogen receptor modulator which acts Myth: Hormonal medication given during any
on the estrogen receptor. It is a non-steroidal oral treatment is very harmful for the future.
contraceptive pill. Reality: Hormonal therapy is prescribed for
Barrier methods such as condoms. Condoms vaginal dryness, irregularities of periods, hot flashes
also prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and other problematic symptoms of menopause. The
which include HIV, human papillomavirus infection recent analysis actually shows that the risk of heart
HPV), gonorrhoea, Chlamydia, syphilis etc. The disease may be related more to the advanced age of
HPV test is also recommended for ladies in every 3- the participants as opposed to the Hormonal
5 years. HPV vaccines are available to avoid medication. Treatment must be done under
infections. gynaecologist to prevent any risk.
Emergency contraception
Permanent contraception like vasectomy and Myth: If you see vaginal discharge, something is
tubal ligation probably wrong.
Fertility awareness Reality: Normal vaginal discharge helps to clean
the vagina, as well as keep it lubricated and free from
Better be aware than misguided infection and other germs. It does not have a foul
Symptoms of breast cancer include a new lump or smell and typically has no odour at all. Normal
area of thickened tissue in either breast, change in vaginal discharge often appears clear or milky when
size or shape of the breast, discharge from nipples, it dries on your undergarment. Some signs that may
lump or swelling in the armpit, dumpling or rash on indicate an infection include:

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Changes in colour, consistency (sometimes develop numerous small collections of fluid
similar to cottage cheese), or amount. (follicles) and fail to regularly release eggs.
Itching, discomfort, or a rash. Common symptoms of PCOS include:
Vaginal burning during urination. Irregular periods or no periods at all.
The presence of blood when it’s not the time  Difficulty getting pregnant (because of
for your period. irregular ovulation or failure to ovulate) excessive
A foul odour accompanied by yellowish, hair growth.
greenish, or greyish-white vaginal discharge. If you Usually on the face, chest, back or buttocks
have a vaginal discharge along with any of the weight gain.
aforementioned signs, consult your health care Thinning hair and hair loss from the head oily
provider for diagnosis and treatment. skin or acne.
Fertility problems.
Myth: I missed my periods, does that mean I am Type 2 diabetes, depression, high blood
pregnant? pressure and high cholesterol are a common risk in
Ans. If a pregnancy test is negative, there could later life.
be other reasons responsible for missed periods like
weight changes, stress, thyroid problem, eating Always remember...
disorders, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). “At the end of the day, I'm having my period in
Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) is a hormonal outer space. And that's pretty damn cool.” -Lynnette
disorder common among women of reproductive Myers
age. Women with PCOS may have infrequent or It’s normal, it’s nature's call. There is no shame in
prolonged menstrual periods or excess male it. Carry your napkins without a shame, carry your
hormone (androgen) levels. The ovaries may periods with a style.

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Coverage Sanatan Women
Health Checkup Camp

Women are the foundation of any family, country and society. Hence, their mental
and physical health is very important. It is impossible for the country to progress, without
the development of women. Though the women take excellent care of their families’
health, they are negligent about their own health. Keeping this in mind, “Sanatan
Women,” a project of “Paavan Chintan Dhara Ashram,” is trying to solve women's health
problems and make them aware of their health. On Women’s Day, Sanatan Women
organized “Free Health Checkup Camp” in Indirapuram Ghaziabad.

Apart from the important examination of mammography in lieu of the increased risk
of Breast Cancer, in India; blood pressure, blood sugar, dental check-up, eye test, bone
density test, etc. were also tested free of cost in this camp. Physician, Dentist,
orthopaedics, Ophthalmologist other such doctors were also present in this health camp
to give proper counselling regarding the women’s physical problems. Dr Varsha, Dr
Ashish Sharma, Dr Isha, Dr Monika Sharma, Dr Ramesh, Dr Anshul helped us in this
health check-up camp.

About 100 women, of all ages and categories, participated in this camp, which started
with hailing the victory of Bharat Mata. Apart from the health check-up of women, they
were also made aware of the importance of their health care. Female students from
Denmark also participated in this program. All the women participating pledged to take
care of themselves, after becoming conscious of the importance of their health. The
Rotary and Rotract Club, Shahdara gave significant support for the success of this event.

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Ignited Pens Parenting in the
21st century
Article by:
Ruma Aggarwal
Home Maker,
Delhi, India

“If parents want their children to be like Lord easily avoided. Simultaneously, girls should be
Ram then they themselves have to be like Dasrath taught to be mentally and physically strong while
and Kaushalya.” Thus, parenting is a very important also being emotional. Due to a lack of the right kind
aspect in the lives of parents and children which can of parenting, our society today is becoming more
either enhance the society or degrade it. Children and more emotionless and they are lacking in
are like clay and their parents are like those potters compassion. Also because of an increasing number
who put values and morals in children and mould of nuclear families and both parents being working,
them into strong pots. These children then exhibit the anger, loneliness and other complexes are
their values, sacrifices and dedication towards the increasing in children. Fights among parents is also
nation and society. According to Dr Pawan Sinha a big reason behind the depressed and violent state
Guruji, the brain development of any child is of children. Excessive consumption of junk food
maximum until the age of 12, thereafter their also disturbs the hormonal balance in children and
learning is through experiences. That’s why it’s makes them violent. This race against the world
important for parents to focus on the right parenting which creates a lack of time for everyone has made
of their kids for the betterment of their mental, children go away from their grandparents and
physical and emotional growth. elders which has also decreased the amount of
cultural and values in these children and youth. This
Have you ever thought the reasons behind race and the competition of achieving everything
increasing cases of rapes, violence, depression, first has also increased unsatisfaction and anxiety in
suicides, divorce and loneliness in the society? Why youth.
is the youth of the country so attracted to violence
and crime? Why is society forcing women to stay But, when we look into the matter with far-
indoors or reach home early or asking them to hold sighted vision and analysis, we understand that
themselves back and not compare to boys? On the almost 90 per cent of society’s problems can be
other hand, boys are asked to be “manly” and not to solved by good parenting. Every child is unique in
be like girls or “girly.” Why is it that boys are taught this world and thus they should be brought up by
to ignore their pain? These idioms and phrases that different techniques. It is the duty of aware parents
society commonly uses are the ones which create a to be calm and patient and to be good parents for
problem for the kids and make them grow with it. their child. Parents, through good parenting, can
If the same society teaches their boys to stay in imbibe values like honesty, patience, compassion
their limits and respect kids, teaches them to be soft, and respect towards others, to create a healthy
sensitive and compassionate towards others, then society.
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Opinion
It is said that equality begins at home, but we have to ask
ourselves how much progress has been made towards equality
in parenting? Why a man has more say in the decisions of
reproduction even though a woman is the one who is most
affected? Why only a father is the sole authority in the family to
make decisions with respect to the child? Indeed, a father is
Tanya Aggarwal
Law student
involved in parenting but yet it's the mother who put in more
Delhi, India work. A mother, being the bearer and the nurture of the child,
has a beautiful connection with the baby from day one.
Everything changes for women from the day they plan to become a mother, be
it the slight changes in their routine that they make to going through all the
pain that it takes to bring a life in this world. Still, society fails to appreciate
the very existence of a woman, let alone her rights. This is why the parenting
pressure falls more intensely on the mother as she is supposed to do all the
multitasking, be more organised, managing and self-less.

The reason behind this nothing but patriarchy. Patriarchy has been
prevailing for decades, which puts the onus on women to make all the
sacrifices and yet be the least significant person. It's the mother who is
expected to leave everything behind and look after the child, as it would be
'unmanly' for the father to do so. Now, gradually the young parents are trying
to outgrow these notions. Especially in urban societies, both the parents are
educated and aware and are equally the most influential individuals in
children's lives and now the challenges to shape the child's mind, beliefs and
values are faced together. It is said that a child is a reflection of his parents and
if they are brought up in a family having equality at all levels, it would make
patriarchy fade away in the future.

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Ignited Pens Manusmriti
& Women
Article by:

Neha Unny
Home Maker
Delhi, India

I come from a family where they differentiate So, I thought let’s read this anti-woman scripture and
between son and daughter. Yes, and I am proud of see what’s wrong with it. But as soon as I started
that difference. Because I am a girl, I used to get reading Manusmriti, my anger got turned into
more love, more designer clothes, more amazement. Do you want to know why? Come, let’s
opportunities to travel with my mother and father read some Shlokas from Manusmriti.
etc. Got right to fight with my brother and scold him
on wrong things. Now when I am a bride of a home, I A. Security measures for physical
am treated with the same difference. I get more love and social conditions.
by my in-laws and my needs are given more
preference. I am respected more. Some differences Chapter 8 Shlok 351, Chapter 8 Shlok 363,
are good. My parents gave me rights and at the same Chapter 8 Shlok 72 mention:
time taught me to do my duties correctly. Integrity in The man instigating another woman must be
personality comes from maintaining equality and given very harsh punishments, and his genitals must
balance in both rights and duties. By dutyless rights, be cut off and must be exiled from the country.
evil thrives in society. A man having a sexual relationship with a minor
girl must be given a death sentence.
But this is not the condition of many women Statements of witnesses of cases regarding rape,
around me, their life is full of duties but their rights kidnapping and prostitutes must not be heard much
are zero. Being a woman, they have to face and immediate punishment must be given.
discrimination in many places in society. Unlike
me, they are given very few rights in their home, I wish these immediate punishments should also
which aches my heart. Due to this pain, once I was be present today, then the criminals of Nirbhaya case
searching the internet and in every article, I came wouldn’t still be alive. Whenever we talk about rape
across one word- “Patriarchy” and upon deeper cases, some people say that we should adopt Sharia
research came the word- “Brahmanical” and both law, where immediate punishment is given, but they
combined to become “Brahmanical patriarchy” don’t know that these kinds of laws were given in
which was then linked to Manuwaad, and Manusmriti 1000s of years before Islamic law even
Manuwaad came from Manusmriti. Manusmriti is came.
an ancient Sanatan scripture, thousands of years old,
which gave laws to govern society. Every feminist Chapter 8 Shlok 28, 29 say:
considers these rules of Manusmriti to be the reason A king must protect the property of sterile,
for this bad condition of women and Dalits in India. childless, outcaste, widow and sick women
Upon learning this, I was already very angry at according to their needs.
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If the property of above mentioned sterile, “Daughter is equal to son”- I am proud of my
outcaste, widow and sick women are stolen, then Sanatan Dharm, where a daughter is considered the
harsh punishments must be given. same as a son. Only if we had society oriented
according to Manusmriti, we wouldn’t have had
As here we are talking about the property of cases of female feticide.
widow women, I remember one more Shlok from
Manusmriti i.e Chapter 9 Shlok 174 which says: Chapter 9 Shlok 191, 192, 193 say:
If a widow or a divorced woman decides to After mother’s death, her property must be
marry another man and gives birth to a son then that equally distributed among her sons and daughters. If
son is said to be “Poornbharv”. the daughter has an unmarried daughter then she
This tells us that a widow was allowed to marry must also get some share.
in Sanatan Dharm and if that woman chooses to stay Six types of properties are said to be women’s
unmarried, then the security of her wealth is the duty property:
of the kingdom. 1. Money which was given by father or someone
else during the time of marriage (dowry)
Chapter 8 Shlok 224 says: 2. Money given, when the bride enters the home
If a person falsely accuses a girl and fails to or on the birth of a child.
prove it, then he must be given the punishment of 3. Preetikarm and the money given by husband
100 Panas. over the period of time.
4. Money given by father,
Chapter 9 Shlok 358 says: 5. By mother,
The women of all the four varnas are always 6. And, by brother.
protectable, that is, their purity should be
maintained. Except for the Brahmin, the people of Chapter 9 Shlok 178 says:
all three varnas are eligible for a death penalty for the A Shudra child born of a servant has an equal
crime of collecting women. share in father’s property.
This is the modesty of our Shaastras (Scriptures).
Chapter 8 Shlok 378 says:
For a Brahman, getting his head shaved is like a Chapter 9 Shlok 117 says:
death sentence. For other castes, actual slaughter is Every Brother must give ¼ of his share to his
the death sentence. sister, otherwise, that brother is said to be bad.
Here it talks about protection of women but
some feminists speak ill about this, so it is clear that Chapter 3 Shlok 52 says:
these so-called feminists have made their opinion If relatives try to take the property of a divorced
without reading. woman or a widow which she gets from her husband
or his companions, then those relatives are going to
B. Rights of women on property suffer. Property which a lady gets is called StreeDhan
(Property of female). All the property of husband and
Chapter 9 Shlok 29, 30 say: whatever he acquires in his life is of his wife upon his
Money collected by the mother comes in the death.
daughter’s share. Movables, vehicles and clothes are also
Man himself is born in the form of a son and a included, and the relatives have no right on it
daughter is equal to a son, then why should an whatsoever.
outsider take the money, if the daughter is present.

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Wow! This is our Sanatan Dharm, where 1000s Such a man is condemned in society who takes
of years ago, women had the right to property, money in exchange for his daughter because he is
which women in countries like America and said to have sold his child.
England got in the 18th Century, who now teach us According to a 2015 report of NCRB, there are
about feminism. approximately 21 deaths due to dowry on a daily
basis. Only if everyone had followed Manusmriti,
Chapter 8 Shlok 28 says: we wouldn’t have this social evil of dowry, and all
A king must protect the property of sterile, those ladies who died because of this would be today
childless, outcaste, widow and sick women present with us.
according to their needs.
Chapter 9 Shlok 99 says:
C. Security of women We never heard from our ancestors that females
were sold or traded in the Indian culture.
Chapter 9 Shlok 6,7 say: I wish Arab and Western world followed these
Men of all Varnas must have control on women rules too, where females were sold as sex slaves.
(Protect her), and on watching this, even a weak
husband must try to protect his wife. F. Respect of women in family
Only a man who can protect women is capable and arrangements for proper care
of protecting his children, character, tribe and
himself. Chapter 3 Shlok 56, 57 say:
Devtas live where women are worshipped
D. Respect of Daughter which means places where families and relations are
easily maintained. And the places where women are
Chapter 4 Shlok 185 say: not worshipped, there all types of Yagyas are wasted.
A servant is like our shadow, means they are no The family where women are sad and depressed
different from us. Daughters and servants must be is eventually destroyed. And the family where
respected a lot and even if they say something females are happy, they prosper.
angrily, one must tolerate it and should not
deteriorate on them. Chapter 9 Shlok 94 says:
After reading this Shlok, I realized that I got too The truth is that a man gets a wife by the
much love just because I was a daughter and the blessings of Devtas. And, to please the Devtas, he
qualities of our scriptures are still in our genes. must respect and take proper care of his wife.
Sanatan Dharm has always considered everyone The happiness of a family depends upon the
the same, that’s why they mention servants too, as happiness of females, means, it is the duty of every
an indifferent part of ours and says not to get angry man who wants happiness for his family to make his
at them. wife happy and arrange for her proper clothing and
food at special occasions like marriages and big
E. Rules against Dowry family gatherings. When a lady is adorned with
jewellery, that increases the grace of family. And, if
Chapter 3 Shlok 51 says: the woman is unhappy then the whole family is
One should not take even a little money in disgraced.
exchange for his daughter, because the father who Where Husband and wife are not happy with
takes any kind of money is said to have sold his each other, then that family can never be happy.
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Chapter 8 Shlok 101 says:
When a man and a woman are tied in the Sometimes parents marry their daughter due to
relationship of marriage, they must try to save it and big age or due to “what would people say”, to an
never be a problem for each other. unworthy man, and as a result of which, the lady
Now I understand why there are no words like suffers. If the Indian families had read the
divorce in Sanatan Dharma because we focus on Manusmriti, then the girls, who are married to an
keeping relations intact. And it is the female who unworthy man and suffer due to it, would have been
suffers more upon breaking off a relationship. saved from that suffering.

Chapter 9 Shlok 73, 74 say: A woman must wait for three years after getting
A man, who is going on a foreign visit, must ready for marriage, for her father to find a perfect
first do arrangements of food and clothing for his groom for her. If the father is unable to find the
wife, as even a pious woman can become corrupt groom for her then the lady can search for the groom
due to starvation. " ” on her own.
A woman must also be patient when a man goes
on a foreign trip after completing all the necessary Today in the name of love marriage, we talk
arrangements. about freedom of a woman to choose the life partner,
but the Sanatan Dharm gave this freedom thousands
Chapter 3 Shlok 114, 115 say: of years back. Swayamvar is also something just
Without a thought, food must be served to like this.
unmarried, minor and pregnant women even before
Guests. There’s no problem with that. I have read one Shlok of Manusmriti at many
A fool who eats before serving the above different places, 9th Chapter, Shlok 3 says: “Lady in
mentioned- unmarried, minor and pregnant women Childhood, youth, old age, is protected by her father,
don’t know that this can result in him being the food husband and son respectively. She is always
of dogs and vulture after death. dependent on them and must always be dependent
as she can never be independent.” Based on this
The Sanatan Dharm which respects women is Shlok many articles declare Manusmriti to be anti-
great. If a woman becomes unstable then the whole woman as it doesn’t give them independence.
family becomes unstable, so it is necessary to keep
her happy and satisfied. But due to our lack of If Manusmriti was really anti-woman, then it
knowledge of our Sanatan Dharma, many forgot to wouldn’t have given women the independence to
respect women, which resulted in discord in choose their husbands themselves. In this Shlok, the
families and in the country. duty of protecting the woman is given to father,
husband, son because men are physically more
G. Freedom of women regarding powerful, but it doesn’t talk about snatching the
marriage independence of women. To understand some
concepts we have to think regarding conditions of
Chapter 9 Shlok 88, 89 say: that era, as conditions are different now.
Though a woman might stay unmarried for her
whole life, she must not be married to an unworthy Wife of Krishna, Satyabhama in the era of
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of Ramayan, played a vital role in the battle. Wife of started to get disturbed and it had a bad effect on
Shantanu, Satyawati, would help her husband by females. One religion said female to be man’s sixth
sailing. If Satyabhama, Kekai, Satyawati were not bone of ribcage and another considered women as a
given independence then how did they participate in sex slave to be fine. These religions considered
the war or helped as a sailor? At that time the rules of women only as an object of satisfaction, thus the
Manusmriti were followed by society. After reading equal rights to women were never given. That’s the
all of the above Shlokas, you must also be thinking reason why, Britain the country which ruled so
that Manusmriti is a woman supporting, not an anti- many countries, gave women the right to vote only
woman book. in 1918. Though America’s constitution is the oldest
but gave women the right to vote only in 1920 and
My anger turned into pride. And, I am proud of Saudi Arab gave in 2015. But as soon as India got
my Sanatan Dharm, which thousands of years ago independence, women were equal voting rights in
was truly feminist and gave respect and the constitution.
independence to women. At the time of Manusmriti,
there were proper arrangements for the social Due to the long rule of Mughals and Britishers on
security and independence of women, and to avoid India, many social evils developed which women
adultery, strict laws were implemented. Where in had to face because Islam and Christianity never
some homes, women are seen as low and are not gave women equal rights. Due to this, the rights of
given independence. There thousands of years ago Indian women also had a bad impact, social evils
women were even allowed to make all important like sati, child marriage, illiteracy of women, bad
decisions like marriage after all swayamvar is also a conditions of widow started. Because foreign
part of Sanatan culture. After reading this Sanatan invaders never gave women equal rights, they
Scripture, Manusmriti, I realized that this bad rejected religious scriptures like Manusmriti and
condition of women is not due to Manusmriti, but is spread fake narratives which declared Manusmriti
due to us going away from it. One must wonder, why to be anti-women and due which even Dr B.R.
and how we got away from Manusmriti? Ambedkar, without even reading, rejected
Manusmriti, but after reading it he realized his
To understand this, first, we have to understand mistake and accepted Manusmriti on the stage of
the history of our country. Before the foreign R.S.S. We got independence from Britishers, but we
invasion, in the medieval period, there was the couldn’t get independence from mental slavery, and
matriarchal rule, India was an advanced society we still reject our religious texts without even
which was under the female rule, while at the same reading, and that’s what anti-India forces want.
time, females in America and Europe were just
slaves in political and social life. In Europe, only India has two powers, first, its religion and
males of high class were allowed to get an culture, and second, its youth power and if these get
education. In west countries due to superstition, together then it is impossible to defeat India.
thousands of women were being accused of Ancient Sanatan scriptures are very scientific and
witchcraft and were killed ruthlessly. In western laws given in them are still correct. Enemy powers
countries, females neither had social freedom nor are attacking our scriptures to keep Indian youth
religious freedom, there, even god was considered away from its ancient texts, and are trying to prove
to be a man. them wrong so that youth doesn’t believe in them. If
Indian youth understands its history, it would be
After foreign invasions by Mughals and hard to keep him away from religion and culture. So,
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And that is why Manusmriti is sometimes said to be At times like this, the duties of females and youth
anti-Dalit and sometimes anti-women. become double. Rather than believing in false
narratives about religion, we must try to study it and
In a 2019 survey, Thomas Reuters declared India go in-depth. If I would have also believed in all those
to be the most unsafe country for women, and in this, false narratives about Manusmriti and wouldn’t
advice of only 500 experts was taken. And countries have studied it, then I would have never come to
like Saudi Arab, Pakistan and Afghanistan were said know about the wonderful law system and would
to be safer than India. Maybe according to them, sex have never been as proud of my religion and culture
slaves come in safety too. as I am now. For the upliftment of Indian women, it
is necessary that we return to the roots of our
https://www.rainn.org/statistics/ religion and must follow the laws given in them and
According to reports by RAINN, in America, a give respect to women. And protect all women
lady is sexually assaulted every 73 seconds and 1 out around us. I request you all that, to first read our
of 6 women are at least once sexually assaulted in scriptures and then form an opinion.
their lifetime.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/ra !!
pe-statistics-by-country/
According to these figures, India is safer than
countries like the U.S.A., Europe, and many Islamic
nations, but still, world media and the so-called
feminists are trying to defame India. After these
figures, their biases and lies are clear.

Jack Dorsey in his 2018 visit to India, snapped a


photo with a placard saying "smash Brahmanical
patriarchy." If they were really worried about the
rights for women, then they would have held a
placard saying "Smash ISIS for making Yazidi girls
Sex slaves" or "Smash Church clerics for being
paedophiles". In his country there is still racism,
then why didn’t he hold a placard saying "smash
Americans' racism." Because their concern is not
women rights or racism but to defame India. Upon
seeing the excellence of India, anti-India forces are
trying to take youth away from their religion and
culture and are trying to attract them towards their
nation and religion. (Religion conversion can be
another aspect of it). If roots of religion become
weak then it is easy to plant seeds of another religion
there. Similarly, Britishers took us away from our
religion and created hatred within us for our religion
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Ignited Pens Ayonija Sita Article by:
Article by:

Dr. Kavita Asthana


(Guru Ma)
Translated by: Ishan Garg

Growing in a religious home, I always heard you also know the story that I just wrote, but when
that the king of Mithila, Janak was once ploughing I read the authentic source for the information
a field and the tip of his plough struck an earthen regarding Ram-Sita through the Valmiki
pot, and he saw that there is a very beautiful girl Ramayan, many secrets started to unfold. I want to
child in that pot. Janak was childless, so he, with tell all the readers that the Ramcharitramanas by
his wife, raised that girl as their own daughter. As Tulsidas is a great poetic work, but it doesn’t come
Sita grew up, there was an influx for the right life- in the category of history. Second thing, Tulsidas
partner for her. Then Janak thought of Swayamvar is a contemporary of Akbar while Valmiki ji is of
(Selecting one’s own husband) for Sita. Janak had Ram’s time and he is also a character of
a very big and heavy bow of Shiva. He kept a Ramayana, he also gave Sita shelter in his ashram,
condition, that whosoever will tie the bow, will get so it is clear that he gave the real facts.
to marry Sita. Just a day before Swayamvar, rishi
Vishwamitra visited Mithila with Ram and First of all, I want to tell all of you that Janak is
Lakshman and with the permission of rishi not a name, it is rather a title given to the king of
Vishwamitra, both the brothers went to the garden Mithila. Just like ShriGuruJi earlier also told that
to pluck flowers for worship. There, Sita with her Indra is also a title, not a name.
friends came for Gauri pooja. That was the first
time when Ram and Sita saw each other and Sita Now about the birth of Sita… once Raavan
took him to be her husband in her mind. Along reached Himachal Pradesh while defeating all the
with many other brave people, Ram and kings, amazed by the natural beauty of Himachal
Lakshman with rishi Vishwamitra were also Pradesh, he started to roam there. There he saw an
present in the swayamvar. The bow, which nobody ascetic woman, who was very beautiful and
could even move, was lifted by Ram. He tied it and attractive. Upon looking at her, Raavan became
as he was trying to tie it, it broke. Everyone salacious and became anxious to know her. She
joyfully started raining flowers on him and Devtas said that she is the daughter of Rishi Kushdhwaj,
also started raining flowers from the sky. Sita put a and her name is Vedvati. Rishi Kushdhwaj wanted
garland around Ram’s neck. And, that’s how Ram Vishnu to marry her daughter, so he rejected all
and Sita got married. Something like this is also offers from kings for her marriage. King of
shown in movies and plays. Daityas, Shambhu, got angry by this and killed the
Rishi while he was sleeping. Mother of Vedvati
When I joined Paavan Chintan Dhara couldn’t handle this and gave her life in the funeral
Ashram and started studying the Shastras, then I fire of her husband. So, with the aim of completing
got the habit of analysing our religion logically her father’s wish, she was trying to make Vishnu
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Vedvati by boasting his wealth and power. Raavan brought this beautiful small girl home,
Vedvati got angry on this immoral action of one of his ministers there could study the signs of
Raavan. Upon this, Raavan gripped her hair small girls, and by which he predicted that if this
and tried to misbehave with her. To save girl stays in this palace, she will become the
herself, she cut off her hair and entered the fire reason of Raavan's death. Now try to join links
which she lighted by her penance. Before here, what Raavan’s minister predicted turned out
entering she said that I don’t want to waste my to be true. This girl (who was Sita), who Raavan
good energies in cursing you, so I’ll take birth kidnapped and brought to Lanka became the
again and will become the reason of your death. reason for the death of Raavan. Upon hearing this,
Raavan put her in a pot and left her in a water body.
Arrogant Raavan even used to take revenue This same pot went to the land, where King Janak
from the Rishis. Rishis themselves used to do was ploughing the field, for the yagya which was
bhiksha (Beg) to manage ashrams and done to bring rain in the kingdom. Thereupon,
themselves, so how could they give revenue to finding the little girl, childless Janak adopted her.
Raavan? Cruel Raavan would bleed Rishis by an This way, one who was Vedvati in the last birth,
arrow and would collect their blood in a pot. He was now Sita. Sita means- a line drawn on land by
thought that this way, he would have the blood of a plough.
these ascetics, which he would later use for
increasing his siddhis and powers. He came home Now let’s talk about the marriage of Sita.
and handed over the pot to Mandodri and said to Janak’s family had a very glorified bow with
her “just like we protect poison so that no one them, which was made by Vishwakarma, the
consumes it, protect this like that too.” Upon architect of Devtas, for the use of Lord Shiv. Once,
saying this, he went with other ladies to ‘Mandar’ Shiv wanted to use that bow in anger. Upon
or ‘Sahy’ mountain for a walk. Mandodri felt watching the destructive power of that bow,
insulted, that her husband who was away from her everyone pleaded Shiv not to use it. Shiv agreed
for one year, came and went with other ladies. In and gave that bow to the Devtas. From the fear of
that grief, she drank that blood from that pot, Raavan, devtas gave that bow to ancestors of
thinking it to be the poison pot. It didn’t kill Janak, Devraat as a treasure, for its better security.
Mandodri, but she became pregnant by the Yog- Since then, this bow was regularly worshipped in
Bal (power of yog) and Tap-Bal (power of the family of Janak. The bow was so heavy, that a
meditation) blood of the Rishis. Mandodri normal person couldn’t even move it. Once, while
became worried and left that child (girl) in a water cleaning the palace, 7-year-old Sita lifted that
body. Sita is said to be “Ayonija,” which means bow and kept it at another corner. This event
someone who is not born normally, so I think was very astonishing for everyone. We have to
Mandodri gave birth to that child using some remember here that Sita was born of powers of
surgical methods of Ayurveda. many rishis. Upon watching this power of Sita,
Janak also called her ‘Viryashulka’. He
It’s written in Ramayana that Raavan brought thought her to be supernatural. That’s why he
home a “girl born of lotus.” Now we have to was searching for someone as capable as her for
understand this. When Mandodari left that girl in her marriage.
the river, Raavan must have found her in a water
body where lotus was blooming so, in the Once, King Janak was performing a Yagya,
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Lakshman arrived at Mithila. As soon as Janak marriage of Bharat and Shatrughan with
came to know about their visit, he went to meet daughters of his younger brother Kushdhwaj,
them and was eager to know about the boys, upon Mandavi and Shrutkriti, which Dashrath readily
watching them. Vishvamitra introduced the boys, agreed to.
and Janak invited them for the next morning. Next
day, he invited Vishvamitra and both the boys for While the first meeting of Ram and Sita in the
proper hospitality. garden is normally popular, Valmiki Ramayan
doesn’t mention it. Ram and Sita saw each other
Vishwamitra told Janak that those two boys for the first time at the time of marriage. Second
wanted to see the world-famous bow. Janak thing, there was no swayamvar for Sita in which
brought that bow. That bow was kept in a big box everyone was invited. Ram and Lakshman came,
with eight wheels, which many muscular men they wished to see the bow, and Janak showed
somehow carried. Janak told Rishi Vishvamitra, them. Many people came before, but none was
how he has presented a condition of lifting this successful in lifting it, and yes, the raining of
bow among many kings, but none were flowers was done by courtiers present there, not
successful. He also said that Sita will marry the by some Devtas sitting in clouds. Devtas don’t
person who will lift this bow. Ram got up and live in clouds. Whosoever can give back to people,
watched that bow, and upon lifting it as he inclined and is working for the safeguarding and
it a little to tie it, it broke from the middle. So the enhancement of the planet is a Devta. So,
marriage of Ram and Sita was finalised. whenever you see Devtas standing on clouds,
loaded with ornaments, then close the T.V.
King Janak sent the message to King Dashrath
and invited him for the marriage. King Dashrath So, we saw how people misread and
along with his army and council arrived at Mithila. misinterpret our scriptures and we all believe in
There Janak again kept an offer of the marriage of them, but it’s now time to read our scriptures by
Lakshman with his younger daughter Urmila, and ourselves to do justice with them.

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Ignited Pens Draupadi;
The Truth behind Disrobing
Article by:
Article by:

Dr. Kavita Asthana


(Guru Ma)
Translated by: Ishan Garg

There are two very popular incidents among menstruating and was not in proper clothing. She
you all- one, Draupadi’s marriage and second, her displayed her disregard for coming to the council,
disrobing. This time, to think with a logical mind I and gave the logic, how can a person who has
am going to put another. Understand the logic and already lost himself, bet someone else? (she
send us your logic and reactions, I’ll try my best to asked Vidhur whether Yudhistir first lost himself
give the answer. or Draupadi). When Vidhur came empty-handed
and kept Draupadi’s question in front of the
Draupadi was carrying loads of her last birth, council, nobody had the answer.
single bride and wife of five, chose not to be the
wife of Karan, but got punished for that too. Let’s Draupadi knew that Duryodhan wouldn’t give
think if she wouldn’t have said that, “I’ll not marry up so easily, so she went to Dhritarashtra, on the
a soot putra (someone whose mother or father is way Dushasan came and pulled her hair and
not known)” so he would have definitely won her dragged her to the council. Draupadi handled her
by his skills, and was there any other way rather clothes, and angrily looked at her husbands and
than crushing his pride to stop him from looked at all the elders, and raised the same
completing his challenge. If Draupadi would have question. From Kauravs, only Vikaran said these
discriminated according to caste, she wouldn’t actions to be unjust, but Karan and Dushasan
have respected Vidhur, who was the son of a made him silent. Karan told Vikaran that only a
servant. prostitute would have five husbands and it is not a
sin to drag a prostitute in the council even if she is
Well, so that I don’t flow in emotions, I’ll come not properly clothed. On hearing this, Duryodhan
back to my promise to the readers. Let’s begin showed Draupadi his thighs, because of which
with the disrespect of Draupadi in the council of Bheem took an oath to break it.
Kauravas… Draupadi in the council of Kauravs-
Everyone must be aware that Shakuni cunningly The coming story is going to be interesting. We
defeated Pandavas in Chaucer (dice game), and have always been hearing that as soon as the
Yudhisthir, first lost his wealth, then his kingdom, disrobing of Draupadi started, Krishna made her
and then his brothers, and finally kept himself at robe infinite. Dushasan became tired and gave up,
stake and lost. When Shakuni provoked them, he but when we study the chapters of Mahabharat, we
kept Draupadi on stake and lost her, too. Upon get to know that the robe of Draupadi was not
winning Draupadi, Duryodhan asked Vidhur to pulled. ‘Disrobing incident’ was later added to
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Savatri Granth’, Dr Vasudev Sharad Agarwal, the
chapters of hand-written Mahabharat, doesn’t
mention the ‘Disrobing incident.’ The writer of
‘Mahabharat ke Kaaljayi Patra’, Shri Ramesh
Krishna ji, also believes that Draupadi was not There are two types of proofs- self and
disrobed. Whosoever will read Mahabharata provided. Provided proof, is the one which is
completely and will join all the links, will also given by someone else. The self proof is the one
come to know that, Draupadi was dragged by the which is given by us. Let’s see what Krishna ji
hair and was called a prostitute but was not himself says about the disrobing incident. Shri
disrobed. I will present a conversation about some Krishna addresses Yudhisthira and says-
special occasion from Mahabharata to you- “Majesty! If I was in Dwarka or near it, you
Draupadi complain to Krishna- after the incident wouldn’t have been in this problem. I would have
of Chaucer, Krishna ji met Pandavas and been in the meeting even without an invitation. I
Draupadi who were then living in the forest, and would have tried to stop him by explaining the
Draupadi complaint to Krishna and said- problems of gambling.”

Means “Oh Madhusudan. I have neither a


husband, nor son, nor anyone close, neither
brother nor you.”

One thing to notice is that, if there was Shri Krishna says- “If ministers would have
disrobing of Draupadi and Krishna saved her, then ignored my advice and tried to play poker
she would be thanking him and not complaining to forcefully, then they all would have been killed by
him by saying- | “Madhusudan, I have me.”
neither you.” (Here, means neither you saved me)
we must understand, what was her complaint? Her
complaint was that Dushasan dragged me by her
hair into the council, and nobody saved me even if
you didn’t save me.
Draupadi clearly said-

Shri Krishna is saying –“if there would have


been either gambling would have been avoided or
Duryodhan would have died.” Just like none can
Means, Madhusudan, Shri Krishna. I am a control water, when a dam breaks, similarly what
pious and pure ascetic, still, I was dragged by the can I do when everything has gone south.
hair, in front of five Pandavas.

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Shri Krishna says-“Yudhishtir, In those days I
was not in Anantdesh (Gujarat, where Dwarka is
located), that’s why you had to face this problem”

Bheem ripped off those hands, which pulled


the hair- Even while ripping those hands in battle,
Bheem said- “where are those hands, which
pulled the hair”, not the hands which disrobed.
“The hands who dragged me by the hair, must When Bheem caught Dushasan, he got
be cut off”- When Shri Krishna went to goosebumps. Bheem says to Dushasan-
Hastinapur as a peace messenger, that time also “Remember that day when you along with Karan
Draupadi says- “Shri Krishna. Whenever you try and Duryodhan called me buffalo.''
to make an enemy an ally, remember Dushasan, Purified by the Avbrat bath in the Rajsuya
who dragged me by my hair. Would I ever get yagya- By which hand did you pull the hair of
peace, If I don’t see Dushasan’s hand being ripped Queen Draupadi? Say it-“Today Bheemsen asks
off?” from you, tell the answer. ”

Even Devi Kunti didn’t mention the disrobing


incident- Devi Kunti shares her grief with Dushasan said “this is that hand, as broad as an
Krishna, even then the disrobing incident is not elephant’s trunk. By this hand, I pulled her hair
mentioned by her. She said- “Hey Krishna. We and dragged her in front of you and all the great
lost our kingdom, but that’s not the source of our men of Kurukul.”
grievances. Even losing in gambling is not the
source. My sons are sent to the forest, even that is
not the source of our grievances, but my daughter-
in-law had to go between evil people in a single
cloth, is the source of this great grief.”

“My Daughter-in-Law (Draupadi), who


always believed in the Kshatriya Dharm, was After killing Dushasan, while talking about the
menstruating that time. Even on having so many strategies of Duryodhan, Bheem says- “I was
protectors, she couldn’t find herself a saviour.” given poison in ‘Pramad Kotitirtha’ and was
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‘Kalkoot’, I was bitten by black snakes, they tried
to burn me in Lakshagraha, our kingdom was
taken by defeating us in gambling and we were
sent to live in forests.”

So, we see that Draupadi was dragged in front


of the council by her hair. Karan called her to be
someone who is in control of many, told to choose
another husband. It was ordered to Disrobe
Pandavas along with Draupadi, but they were not.
Duryodhan made some bad signs towards
Draupadi by removing the cloth from his left
thigh. For avenging Draupadi’s insult, Bheem
took an oath to rip off Dushasan’s arms and
When Karan saw his death near in the battle, he breaking Duryodhan’s thigh. It is a matter to think,
started bashing Dharm, Krishna told him while that if Bheem, Kunti or anyone else talks about
reminding him of his sins- “Karan! Did these disarming, and avenging then would they say -
thoughts of Dharm came to your mind, when you “Draupadi was pulled by her hair” or would they
along with Duryodhan and Dushasan, Brought have said “Hands, which disrobed Draupadi”.
menstruating Draupadi, who was in improper Disrobing a lady is crueller than pulling her hair.
clothing, in front of the whole council?”- Neither Kunti nor Bheem was giving this reason.
It is also said that Draupadi took an oath that until
she washed her hair with the blood of Dushasan,
she’ll not tie her hair.

One must ponder, that why just focus on just


washing hair. If there was disrobing, then why not
bathe with blood? So after this, I totally believe
Shri Krishna told Karan- “you insulted that the disrobing incident was added after the
Draupadi, who was in claws of Dushasan, in front Mahabharat. The reason could be that this incident
of the whole council (91/7), The way you looked displays a great image of Krishna, so some
at Draupadi (91/8) and you, saying that ‘Pandavas worshipers of Krishna must have added it, being
are destroyed forever, you must look for another too emotional. One must think that if Krishna ji by
husband’(Karan Parv 91/9-10), where was dharm a miracle could save Draupadi, then he could have
at that time?” Also, Krishna ji doesn't mention the also saved Abhimanyu from Chakravyuh, then
disrobing incident. Even in the council of why did he send him there to die?
Hastinapur, Krishna ji while scolding Duryodhan
said- “who else except you can do such a heinous It is mentioned in Mahabharata that Draupadi
act of bringing your brother’s wife in front of the had very beautiful hair, and she was insulted upon
whole council and do such unspeakable actions.” them, there is no doubt in that. By this incident
Notice one thing, Krishna said ‘unspeakable look at the intelligence and presence of mind of
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Dhritrashtra thought that Paandavs would avenge
her, he gave her a boon and she asked for the
freedom of her husband Yudhistir. And on her
second wish, she got freedom of all the Pandavas.
Dhritrashtra gave a third boon (because he was
scared and could see the destruction of Kauravas,
so he was trying to fix their mistakes) on which
Draupadi said things from Shastras. She said- “A
Kshatriya woman is allowed only two boons, too
much greed can cause the destruction of Dharm. If
my husband gets freedom, then he’ll achieve
everything else himself.” Hereupon looking at the
intelligence of Draupadi, even Karan praised her.
It is for sure, that even in great grief and insult,
Draupadi didn’t lose her senses and got
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Ignited Pens Who subjugated
women in India?
Article by:
Article by:
Today, when we talk about women empowerment, Rajni Goswami
Teacher
the first image that comes to the mind is that of a Delhi, India
western woman. More so, because an Indian woman is
always portrayed as a meek and docile woman others were unmarried. Gargi was unmarried
suffering from patriarchy. Contradicting this image is Brahmvadini whereas Maitreyi, a married
the presence of Indian women seen in all fields, be it Brahmvadini.
ISRO, ARMY, POLITICS, NASA or any field. How
many of the developing countries or, for that matter, Rishi Panini has mentioned about special schools in
the developed ones are able to boast about this? his “Chatryadaya Shaalayam.” In the Brahmacharya
Usually, it’s believed that earlier, the women in the Sukta of Atharva Veda, there’s a mention of
Indian society were in a very pitiable state. They didn't Brahmacharini girls. Many savvy women researched
even have any right to education and were confined to on Mimansa-Shastra, Nyaya Shastra, and Vedas, all
the house only. You can hear from the modern human their lives and Kashkritasni were the best Mimansak.
right activists saying that the condition of women has Gargi was a master in judiciary and Maitreyi in Vedas.
only got better in the present times. In other words, Vishwvara, Ghosha, Apala, Lopamudra, Romsha,
they used to live in a very dominant and downtrodden Shikta, Nivavri etc are Vedic Rishikas. A savvy woman
state. called Jayanti was a lifelong student and this is
mentioned in the religious philosophy of Jain
However, it's a completely contradictory story literature. There’s evidence of women’s education in
when we read and research our ancient scriptures and the 5th century BCE.
history. Here, I would like to give some points in
reference to ancient history, for you to visualize the However, towards the culmination of the middle
truth. It will also bring out the real picture, which is centuries, the education of women started getting
purposely painted black, conspiring to malign the eclipsed. The Mughal invaders, on the one hand,
reputation of India, under the garb of women demolished the educational institutions, and on the
empowerment. Women had all rights to education other hand, severely attacked the rights of women
even in the Vedic Era. education; and the British destroyed whatever
remained. According to the data collected by the
Vedic Vahangmaya has clear indications of British in the 18th century, women had sufficient
women’s schools. According to this, there were two education in India (though the studies were done at
types of girl students: homes, due to Mughal terror).
Sadyodvaha: those girl students who did a course
of seven years in Vedas, Grammar, Music, Verses, Those days, women used to be tortured in Western
Astrology etc. Only then, did they start a family life. countries and didn't have equal rights in the patriarchal
Brahmavadini: these students were engrossed in society. During those days only the elite class men had
Brahm contemplation, Dharma contemplation, the right to get an education. In that case, how could
spiritual contemplation and philosophical rumination, they tolerate the Indian women progressing? Jack
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patriarchal society. But history is witness that even a The contribution of Jijabai, Maa Sharda, Maa
thousand years before the foreign invasion, the Indian Bhubneshwari, Maa Vidyavati and Maa Prabhabati
society had women in power. This social set up is still cannot be overlooked at all. Our nation will forever
visible in South India. remain indebted to them for their selfless and
nationalistic upbringing in giving us leaders like-
There was no institution of marriage prior to the Shivaji, Swami Vivekanand, Bhagat Singh and Netaji
Vedic Era. A man and a woman had the freedom of Subhash Chandra Bose.
will; any man or woman could establish a relationship
with any other man or woman to produce offspring. It The enemies are trying their best to malign India by
was the main reason why most families followed a calling it a “rape state” and so on. If we get into the
matriarchal system, as there was no status of a father at details, most of the Islamic countries give no freedom
the beginning of the Creation. to their women to report any case of rape. The woman
has to face dire consequences if at all she musters the
Indian women like Kalpana Chawla, Sunita courage to report a rape. Laws against rape have been
Williams, Muthayya Vanitha and Ritu Karidhal have stringent since time immemorial to deter the criminals.
not only ruled our hearts with their daredevil attitude Hence there were negligible rape cases. Even during
but also ruled the space. How many of us know that 15 the Ramayan and Mahabharat era, though the women
great Indian women have been actively involved in the enjoyed complete freedom to live with anyone they
drafting committee of our constitution? In fact, India liked, they didn't approve of their freedom being
may have been the only country, the world over to have abused and if it ever happened, it would result in
so many women rulers. Rulers like Jijabai, Rani massive wars. The wars used to be cooked up, as a
Laxmibai, Rani Rasmoni were nationalists to the core woman wouldn't let it go. “ I will see you.” She had this
and have shown that a hand that rocks the cradle is also feeling of vengeance. The best example of this is Maa
capable of ruling the roost. Whether it was the Durga who herself killed a rapist king- Mahisasur.
Mughals or the British, they were petrified of these
great ladies. Draupadi brought all hell lose at Duryodhan’s
sinister remark, insinuating that she should sit on his
The Indian army, too, shows that women can lead left side (become his wife). Although she wasn't
from the front. Since time immemorial, they have been disrobed or raped, she saw to it that all these lecherous
doing so. The greatest example is Kaikeyi who was the people were not spared. She let her hair loose to
charioteer for King Dashrath and rode him to victory continuously remind Bheem that her humiliation had
with her grit and strategy. Satyabhama helped Krishna to be avenged at all costs. She made Arjun continue
in assassinating Narkasur.Not so long ago, Subhash practising weaponry so that he wouldn't miss the
Chandra Bose made an entire regiment of all women slightest chance to kill her enemies. It was the same
called “Rani Jhansi Regiment,” an integral part of the case with Maa Sita who saw to it that Ravan was killed.
AZAD HIND FAUJ. Though lakhs of people wanted Even during Mahabharata times, parents were so
to join this, among the first few, were 17 adolescent modern and asked their daughters if they wanted to get
girls who came forward to join this army and exhibited married or not. Sanatan people were always modern
utmost courage and sacrifices. There were also newly and they have even changed themselves with the tide.
married brides who gave away all their jewellery to Sanatani women were truly modern with deep in
support the AZAD HIND FAUJ. The women’s love for rooted moral values and would have open discussions,
their country and patriotism was evident by this, thus would wear whatever they wanted. The Sanatan
showing that Indian women were not lagging behind women were made of sterner stuff, were gritty,
in any arena. dedicated, apart from being educated and righteous.

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The Art Of Natural DHOKLA
Healthy Recipe:

Indian Cooking
Editor's note:
Article by:

A popular Gujarati farsan which can be eaten for morning


breakfast or as a tea- time snack. It is a very healthy snack as it
contains the goodness of all lentils and is rich in protein. Janvi Desai
Student of Commerce
Gujarat, India

Ingredients for Batter: Ingredients for Tempering


 2 cups of Rice - 200gm and Garnishing:
 1 cup of Tur Dal - 100gm  4 tablespoon of Oil
 1 cup of Moong Dal - 100gm  1 tablespoon of sesame seeds
 1 cup of Chana Dal - 100gm  1 tablespoon of mustard seeds
 1 cup of Urad Dal - 100 gm  7-8 curry leaves
 1 cup of Masoor Dal - 100gm  Coriander leaves
 1 green chilly
 1-inch ginger
 1 teaspoon of turmeric powder
 1 teaspoon of salt or as per taste
 1 pinch of Eno for softness
 3 tablespoon of curd/buttermilk

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Method:
Wash and soak all the Dal and rice overnight for at least 6-7 hours
Drain the water and grind the mixture into a thick paste by adding chopped green chillies
and ginger into the mixture
Put the batter into a bowl and keep it aside for 4-6 hours for fermenting
Once fermented add turmeric, Eno, yoghurt and salt as per taste. Mix it well into a thick
consistent batter.
Now for steaming the Dhokla batter, grease the plates with oil and pour the batter into the
greased plates. Now put the plates inside the steamer. If you don't have the steamer you
can use a Pan.
Cover the lid and let it cook on high heat for 25-30 minutes.
Once done set aside the steamed dhoklas to cool down and cut them into the desired
shape.
Heat oil in a pan for temper with mustard seeds, sesame and curry leaves. Saute for a few
seconds and pour this tempering over steamed dhoklas.
Garnish with coriander leaves and serve with green chutney or ketchup.

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Ignited Pens What does Christianity
say about women?
Article By.

Dinesh Nishad
Visiting Faculty, Mumbai

Christianity is the largest followed religion in the of Genesis 3: 16: To the woman he (God) said, “I will
world. Having more than 2 billion followers, it has a make your pains in childbearing very severe; with
huge share of admirers as well as critics. From time painful labour, you will give birth to children. Your
to time many critics have generally criticized desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over
Christianity for historical inaccuracy, the you.”
mistranslation of the Bible, inconsistencies within
Bible, unfulfilled prophecies, crusades and history This curse is further mentioned in ‘1 Timothy 2’
of colonization, violence and slavery. But the belief verses 11 to 15: A woman must learn in quietness and
of male God, God sending his son (not daughter) to full submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to
save mankind, all 12 disciples of Jesus being male teach or to exercise authority over a man; she is to
and men-centred stories invited severe criticism remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, and then
from feminist groups. In this article, we shall the Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the
portrayal of women in the Bible and the treatment of woman who was deceived and fell into
women by the Church. transgression. Women, however, will be saved
through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love,
Women in the Bible and holiness, with self-control.
One of the foremost popular stories in the Bible is
the story of Adam and Eve. As per the Book of There are various other verses in the Bible which
Genesis, God first created Adam and placed him in are frequently considered misogynist. But it’s not
the Garden of Eden. God tells Adam to eat freely of that women are only portrayed negatively in the
all the trees in the garden, except for a tree of the Bible. The Bible also has stories of various heroic
knowledge of good and evil. But God was not happy deeds of women. In the first book of Exodus, we find
seeing Adam alone. As per the Book of Genesis 2: the story of Shiphrah and Puah. The Egyptian king
18: The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man was worried about the rising population of Israelites.
to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” He ordered two Hebrew midwives Shiphrah and
Puah to kill all the male Hebrew children at the time
Thus God created ‘helper’ Eve from the rib of of birth. But both of them were believers of God and
Adam. But later Eve gets influenced by the serpent thus violated Pharaoh’s command by not killing the
(Satan). She eats the forbidden fruit and shares it male children. God rewarded them for their
with Adam too. When God comes to know about it; rightfulness.
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In the Bible, there are few women named Mary. Pope was referred to as “Holy Father.” The word
But two of them have special mention: Virgin Mary “Pope” itself comes from the Greek language
(Mother of Jesus Christ) and Mary Magdalene. Pappas (meaning Father in Greek). The title
Christian believe Virgin Mary as a perfect example “Abbot” comes from the ancient term “Abba” (i.e.
of complete surrender to God. Despite possible Father).
social stigma, she gave birth to Jesus. She was
courageous enough to watch her son crucified and This historical long-standing prejudice of the
faithful enough to see him rise from the dead. There Church against women is still visible. Even today
are various rumours on the other Mary, Mary women are deliberately kept out of positions of
Magdalene. Some theories claim that she was a authority and responsibility reserved exclusively for
prostitute, while few believe that she was the wife men. Power of the Church in the Middle Ages: After
of Jesus. The Bible says that Jesus saved her by the fall of the Roman Empire in the 5th century AD,
casting seven demons out of her. After that she the Church became the power centre. Like the
became an adherent follower of Jesus, she Roman Empire, they had their capital in Rome. And
helplessly witnessed the crucifixion of Jesus. But they had their own emperor – ‘The Pope’
her faith was rewarded, after the resurrection, Jesus
appears first to Mary Magdalene. The Church had complete control over the
people. Even Kings and Queens were meant to
Along with these, there are many other women subject themselves to the Church. The Church
mentioned in the Bible who played a significant influenced every important decision in Europe. For
role. Few names are Rahab (A prostitute who saved example: During the crusades, Popes promised
two Israelites spies), Huldah (The only female eternal salvation to those who fought in the name of
prophet mentioned in the books of King), Sarah Jesus. The biggest victims of this absolute power of
(Who believed in God and gave birth to Issac at the Church were heretics, atheist, Jews and women. Of
age of 90), Delilah (A seductress who was all the recognized saints between 500 AD and 1200
responsible for the death of Samson), Jezebel (The AD, only 15% were women. Women’s place in the
Vengeful Queen). So the Bible has mixed (both clergy was restricted to the nunnery.
positive and negative) stories of women.
The Witch-Hunting: But the worst atrocities of
The Church and the Women the Church on women was the “Witch-Hunting.”
If the Bible is theory then the Church is Although in the 13th Century, Pope Gregory IX
practical. Let’s see the treatment of the Church authorized the killing of witches. It was the period
towards women. from the 1550s to 1660s which saw maximum
witch-hunting. Burning and hanging were the most
Patriarchal Roots of Church: For nearly three popular forms of execution for accused witches.
centuries after the crucifixion of Jesus, Christianity Killing accused witches were in line with the Bible.
failed to influence the masses. In 313 AD, Roman Exodus 22:18 says: “You must not allow a sorceress
Emperor Constantine I issued the Edict of Milan, (witch) to live”
officially legalizing Christian worship. And in 380
AD under Theodosius I, the Roman Empire The standard Inquisition procedures of witches
officially adopted Christianity as its state religion. were as follow: Accused witches were stripped
This marked the rise of Christianity in Europe. But naked. All their body hair was shaved off and then
the seeds of the Church were sown in the soil of pricked. It was believed that witches had a "devil's
patriarchy. The priest was called “Father.” The mark" on their body, which could be detected by

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sharp prodding. Red-hot pincers were applied to of the victim girl for marriage was not needed. The
their breasts and private organs. If the ‘celibate’ man was obligated to marry her by paying her
priest interrogating the witches were to become parents a dowry to settle the matter. Sexual abuse
aroused, it was believed that the ‘sinful’ desire did within the Church was/is also common. Since all
not originate in him. It was the accused witch power vested in the hands of men, the Church
seducing him with her black magic. Then the witnessed sexual abuse of nuns and other religious
woman was tortured to an extent where she would women by male priests since ancient times. In
eventually accept this allegation. This acceptance February 2019, Pope Francis had to come out in
would then led to further rounds of questions and open and accept the widespread and rampant sexual
torture. abuse (including sex slavery) of nuns at the hands of
Catholic priests within the premises of the Church.
The most famous manual on witch-hunting:
‘The Malleus Maleficarum’ (Hammer of Witches) Divorce and Remarriage: In the last few
says: “All witchcraft comes from carnal lust, which decades the Christian society across the globe
is in women insatiable.” Nothing can be a better witnessed a sharp increase in divorce rates. Today in
example of misogyny than this. Interestingly in the the US and various European countries, people
medieval period, many women (accused of marry multiple times in their lives. Many feminist
witchcraft) were simply following their pagan groups consider this as a sign of women
traditions. It had nothing to do with Satan because empowerment. But divorce is against the core belief
the concept of Satan is a creation of Christianity of Christianity. Most of the Christian denomination
and other Abrahamic religions. Also, there was a believe marriage as a lifelong covenant. But they
strong correlation between a woman's social status have varied views on divorce and remarriage. The
and her chances of being accused of evil. Many Catholic Church prohibits divorce but allows
women were demonized because they refused to annulment under a thin set of circumstances. The
conform to patriarchal structures. Any woman who Eastern Orthodox Church permits divorce and
challenged the prevalent Church’s patriarchal remarriage in church in certain strict circumstances.
order was at the risk of being suspected of a witch. And most Protestant churches discourage divorce
It is estimated that around 40,000 to 60,000 were except as a last resort. Remarriage is also allowed
executed as witches only if the divorce was on biblical grounds.

Sexual abuse: Till the start of the 20th century, There are various verses in the Bible, which are
the marriage of the rapist and his victim was seen as often criticized by feminist groups. For example in
an appropriate 'resolution' of the situation. In the Matthew 5: 31-32, Jesus says: It has been said,
ancient and medieval Christian world, the virginity 'Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a
of a girl was highly prized. Thus a rape victim had a certificate of divorce.' But I tell you that anyone who
little chance of marrying and she was forced to divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality,
marry her rapist. This was in line with Biblical makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who
Book of Deuteronomy 22:28-29:: If a man finds a marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
girl who is a virgin, who is not engaged, and seizes
her and lies with her and they are discovered, then Contraceptive and Abortion: In the modern
the man who lay with her shall give to the girl’s Christian world most of the views on contraceptives
father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall become and abortion come from the Church and not the
his wife because he has violated her; he cannot bible. In the past, most of Church did not favour
divorce her all his days. In such cases, the consent contraceptives and abortion. But the Church

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attitude started changing after the 20th century. Many restrictions were imposed on women. A
Today the Orthodox Church discourages woman was considered as husband’s property. Even
contraceptives, while liberal church allows it for the 16th century ‘reformist’ Martin Luther (Founder
married couples only. And, since sexual intercourse of Protestant sect) declared: “Woman should
outside of marriage is against the principle of remain at home, sit still, keep house, and bear and
Christianity. In such cases, the Church considers bring up children.” and “If a woman grows weary
abstaining from sex a morally better option than and, at last, dies from childbearing, it matters not.
using artificial contraception. Let her die from bearing; she is there to do it.”

Conclusion Elizabeth Cady Stanton (Feminist of 19th


So we can conclude that the attitude of the Church century) rightly said: "The Bible and the Church
towards women was never favourable. The Orthodox have been the greatest stumbling blocks in the way
Church always treated women as inferior to men. of woman's emancipation."

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Ignited Pens What does Islam
say about women?
Article by:

Let’s not shy away from the fact that the moment
we talk about 'Women in Islam', words like
oppression and subjugation comes in our mind Devbrat Sharma
Law student,
especially when we talk countries like Syria, Iraq, Lucknow
Pakistan etc. Even in India, the image of Muslims
women is not that of freedom and liberty. But who targeted for allowing husbands to use force against
are we to decide whether women in Islam are women. Quran (4:34) says- "the good women are
oppressed or not. We are here just to state some facts therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has
along with relevant verses from the source of Islam guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear
i.e Quran. And we will leave it for you to decide the desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in
condition of women in Islam. And before I start, I the sleeping-places and beat them". Now in the 21st
would like to remind you that we are not here to give century, it stands completely against modern
you a comparative analysis of how every religion contemporary standards. We accept the fact that
treats women or how one religion is better for even non-Islamic people use violence against their
women than others. All these conclusions are left for wife. But in this case, people justifying beating their
you to decide. wife referring to this verse of the Quran.

We consider women above all the religions and it No Right to divorce to Women- In Islamic law, a
is our duty to raise the voice for women and against husband gets the right to divorce by default. Women
women discrimination, be it any community, have no right to give divorce. Although, people
religion or country. Women all over the world are claim that "khula" is a right of women to get a
struggling for equal status and equal rights. But a divorce but people need to understand that "khula" is
question arises, what can be a possible reason behind an agreement, not a right. A woman needs to offer a
this condition of women? The answer lies in the fact consideration (amount) to the husband. It is more
that women are comparatively physically weaker like purchasing a right to divorce by the wife. In
gender than men. Please mark my words, I said India, thanks to the legislature, Muslim women for
"physically weaker gender" not weaker gender. So the first time in the year 1939 got the right to divorce
because of this physical aspect, most men have a through - Dissolution of Muslim marriages act,
tendency to control or dominate women. To make a 1939.
balance, every religion puts some restrictions as
well as ideals to be followed by its believers. So this Polygamy- A Muslim can marry, in Islamic law,
is why every religion teaches what is right or what is is allowed to marry up to 4 women at a time.
wrong. And here the clash between women rights Quran(4:3) clearly says- "man can marry women of
and Islam arises. her choice in two, three or four." We accept the fact
The following are some of the examples that polygamy might be relevant 1400 years ago but
prejudices done to women under Islamic law: in the 21st century its uses are almost nil and misuses
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choice but yeah there is a need to make equal law previous husband then she'll have to wait until the
for both the gender. subsequent husband divorces her as she herself has
no right to give divorce.
Inheritance- Although it was one of the first
religions to give the right to inheritance to women, Wife as property- Men is Islam not only
we appreciate this fact, but in reality, it dominate women but they feel that this is their right
discriminates between male and female. From the to have control over them. But why is it so? The
starting, this right was partial as the Quran (4:176) answer lies in Quran (2:223) say- "Your wives are a
says- "the male shall have the equal of the portion of place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your
two females." Well, that means a woman will place of cultivation however you wish and put forth
inherit 1/2 of the property which man inherits. This [righteousness] for yourselves". Now saying that a
stands unjust and a change is required. wife is a piece of land and a husband has the right to
do whatever he thinks right for himself gives too
Court testimony- The modern society much authority to a husband. This authority has
considers women as reliable as a man but as per been misused by many husbands and is one of the
Islamic law, it is not so. Quran (2:282) says- "and major cause of marital rape in the Islamic
call to witness, from among your men, two community.
witnesses, and if two men are not there, then a man
and two women". This proves that for testimony in As of now, we have not gone through the Sharia
Islam, the reliability of two women witnesses is law otherwise things will get worse. Now the
equal one man. We need to give up the old beliefs as question arises whether those verses of the Quran
there is no such proven fact that one gender is more have any relevance or effect in the 21st century? The
reliable than the other. answer lies in the fact that the world came across
incidents like:
The superiority of men- The Quran has one Muslim women being stoned to death by the
more statement which proves to be discriminatory Muslim community.
women. Quran (2:228) says- "All women have Muslim women being forces to wear the burqa.
rights similar to those of women but the men are a Muslim women are not allowed to marry a non-
degree above them." This is one of the main reasons Muslim.
that a Muslims man tends to dominate women. This Increasing no. of cases of domestic violence.
also leads women to inferiority complex as Islamic Cases of rape by mobs like Taharush Jamai.
law considers men a degree above women. Women not being allowed to enter the majority
of the Mosques.
Nikah Halala- The very controversial nikah Incidents like these depict how patriarchy has
halala finds its place in the Quran too. Quran settled itself deep inside the mind of Muslim men.
(2:230) says that - "And if he has divorced her then Change is the need of the time, so we accept that a
she is not lawful to him afterwards until[after] she change of perception is required, to uplift the status
marries a husband other than him and the second of woman and recognise the role of a woman, in a
husband divorces her. The consequences of this are majority of the societies, communities and religions
that even if a husband gives talaq in anger and all over the world. We need to make this world a
regrets giving divorce, then also he won't be able to better place for all human beings.
remarry her until she marries some other man and
consummates that marriage. Here the interesting
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Ignited Pens What Rapes?
Is it the dress a woman wears
or the mentality of men!
Article by:
Article by:

Apoorva Shukla
Law student
Lucknow, India

Rape is a cognizant procedure of terrorizing by statistics available in India, on an average 106 rapes
which all men keep women in a condition of fear. It are reported every day, out of which 40 per cent of
has nothing to do with men ailing in ethics looking the victims are minors. It is even more shocking that
for sexual satisfaction; rather, rape is a creation by in nearly 95 per cent of the cases, rapes are
man to keep up an arrangement of mental committed by none other than the relatives and
predominance over women. Men are instructed by family members, partners or people who are known
the common chauvinist ethos in Western culture to to the victims. Rapes are a universal occurrence,
utilize rape as an instrument to strike fear into the they are not restricted to any particular country,
hearts of women. region, race, caste or class. They happen as much
among the poor, rural, illiterates as among the rich,
His forcible entry into her body, despite her urban and the so-called elites. These rapists are just
physical protestations and struggle, becomes the the ones who think that it’s ok to rape a woman
vehicle of his victorious conquest over her being, the because for them, they hold a better and a higher
ultimate test of his superior strength, the triumph of position in the society and they always have an upper
his manhood. Man’s discovery that his genitalia hand on the ladies or girls or kids whomsoever they
could serve as a weapon to generate fear must rank know. If it would have been about how short the
as one of the most important discoveries in victim’s dress was then why are 3 months babies
prehistoric times, along with the use of fire and the raped, old women raped, girls in sarees raped?? It’s
first crude stone axe. all about the mentality of men and the so-called
“young boys” who are the part of the patriarchal
Rape is not about sexual orientation or sexual society and have grown up learning that it’s fine to
desire. It is an act of power and control in which the have non-consensual sex and to beat women and to
victim is brutalized and humiliated. Accordingly, the treat them as objects because this is what their
act of rape is actually normalized in a Western fathers or forefathers have been doing with their
patriarchal society: “Men rape because they have wives.
learned that rape is acceptable and normal
behaviour.” How come then, that the size of a Why only the girls are kept under the doubt that
woman’s dress becomes an invitation for all and she was raped because she wore alluring clothes and
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spite of this, the men of our society shall learn that it should be punished for arousing him. After all, if
is the choice of a woman to wear whatever she wants there were no women, who would men rape? So
and they should know to respect each and every maybe it is the very existence of women that needs
woman they see, irrespective of the fact whether to be blamed for turning our holier-than-the men
they know her or not. into rapists.

The society has no answer when a boyfriend or Sex requires a man to be aggressive, he feels
the lover rapes his own partner in the name of superior and in control. It is all about the need to
intimacy and the girls have to be quiet because they control and assert power. Rapes are committed with
are the ones who will be questioned as to why they impunity during wars. Husbands rape their wives
indulged in such kind of affairs and will be blamed and seek to justify it as a means of punishment to her
that it’s their fault. These girls even don’t know that or to put her in her place or simply to vent out their
the boys commit rape and it’s not intimacy or token frustrations. Spurned suitors, jilted lovers and all
of love if it’s not consented. those who believe the woman to be theirs cannot
take no for an answer and force sex to punish or
We have instances where men sexually abuse avenge. People rape their girlfriends, live-in
animals. Should we clothe animals too? Another oft- partners, friends and acquaintances. There is
cited reason is makeup. Rapists allege that women patriarchy fueled male desire to dominate. Men are
apply heavy makeup especially lipstick to lure men. scared of a woman’s sexuality, so that needs to be
How do you then explain the rapes of minors, suppressed. She evokes the need in them, thus there
infants, old and aged women, women suffering from is a dislike for the passive yet undeniable power that
unsoundness of mind, women in comma or those she yields over them.
hospitalized with severe ailments? What could they There are rape myths-
have done to catch a rapist’s fancy? Earlier men kept “No means yes; a lady never says yes”
sex slaves, now they hire escort girls. Prostitution is “Women like to be taken by force”
the world’s oldest profession. Sugar daddies- “I will “Women who drink are an easy lay”
sponsor you” is a common western concept fast “outgoing women like to experiment in all areas
gaining in popularity in our sub-continent. Wife including sex” etc.
swapping is another notorious fact. People rape their
daughters, sisters and sometimes, even mothers. By perpetuating such myths, women have been
What causes such extreme depravity? The deprived of their voice or agency to exercise their
pathology is an obsession for sex. choices. Most of the time, the accused are not even
aware that what they have done amounts to rape.
Rapists have all sorts of excuses and They admit to forced sex but refuse to accept it as an
justifications for their acts. The reasons quoted are act of rape. Then, there are date rapes: Boyfriends
so diverse that it is nearly herculean to generalize. who don’t know when to stop because they fail to
Rapes are committed by political leaders, teachers, comprehend the concept of consent.
guardians, father, brother, relatives, neighbours,
friends, acquaintances or even strangers. In this Women are viewed as commodities, meant to be
patriarchal and gendered world, rape is a consumed and ravished. Sexually obsessed rapists
stigmatized crime wherein aspersions are cast on the don’t consider women as human beings but as an
victim instead of the accused. It is also very easy to object that can be violated with impunity.
put the blame on the woman for bringing out the
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cause of rape are trying to hide the crime. This is a clothes are not the cause of rape; it is a matter of
result of a deep-rooted patriarchal mentality. Just mentality. Not every man is a rapist. A special type
because a person is sexually aroused, it does not give of people commit crimes like this. We have
him the right to attack anyone in sight. Restraint established civilization; we are not cave dwellers
needs to be taught and practised, even when a person and forest dwellers anymore. There was a time on
is sexually excited they need to keep this in mind. this planet when morals did not exist but now it’s not
like that people are well educated and learned and
The more we talk about clothes, the more we still, this kind of power crime takes place, it is
move away from the enormity of the crime. How are saddening for us as it is degrading the Indian society
clothes to blame if anyone from infants and 70-year- who is worshipping Goddesses but are not giving
old women is getting raped? How about those men due respect to women in their society.
who are raped by other men? Is it also because of
their clothes? Education, gender sensitization and legal
awareness are indispensable to control rapes. We
We should be criminalizing the act of rape, need better policing and CCTV mapping of desolate
instead, we are sexualizing it. Women are not being areas. Cognitive restructuring is needed to remove
treated as human beings but as sexual products. It the myths clogging our minds. Behavioural and
has been established in our society that every emotional intelligence is very different from
woman is a sexual object and that men should feel academic intelligence. We need to question the
attracted to them. This is not a sign of mental accused and not the victim, the time of rape or the
instability, this is widespread distasteful behaviour. dress she wore. Society needs to stigmatize the
Can no one control their urges? You have the urge perpetrator instead of the victim. Sensible
and you simply go ahead and assault a person. What sensitivity is essential to counter this crime which is
is the point of all this modern education and moral rightly classified as the ‘worst crime against
teaching if people are inclined to behave this way? womanhood’.
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Ignited Pens LANDMARK LEGISLATION
IN THE INTEREST OF WOMEN IN INDIA
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Article by:

While recognizing the national problems of


India, Swami Vivekanand said. “there are two great Akash Kishan Gupta
Aspiring Advocate
evils, trampling on the women and grinding the poor Prayagraj, India
through caste restrictions.”
Women in India are, actually without any dispute,
Nation-Building is a task that is carried on the the most vulnerable section of the society as far as
shoulder of its citizens irrespective of their caste, their safety and security are concerned. In order to
gender, or religion. When we talk about the ensure gender equality, our constitution makers
demographics in India, women constitute around enshrined the principle of equality under the
48.4 % of the total population which is almost half of Fundamental rights sections of the Constitution.
India, which, in turn, means that the process of Other than this, there have been various legislative
effective and efficient nation-building is not measures been taken by our Parliament, time to
possible without the equal and constant efforts of the time, through the enactment of various laws for
other shoulder i.e. women. providing better protection to women. The major
issues as addressed by the Indian Parliament through
The women in Indian Society occupies a very the enactment of laws in order to ensure the
vital and vulnerable place. They have been glorified protection of women and enable gender equality are
as the mother, the Creator in Vedas, who gives life as follows:
and even worshipped as a Goddess. Now, leaving Dowry System used to be a norm in the Indian
behind the ideal situation, let us ask some questions marriage system, which was mainly due to the lack
to ourselves. Had women in our country never been of economic independence of women and the taboo
subject to ill-treatment? Were they not always towards divorce and thus resulted in torturing of the
deprived of their actual rights? Have they not been bride. This was also a reason for female infanticide
subjected to gender discrimination? in India. The constant efforts of social activists and
leaders led the lawmakers to enact Dowry
In order to achieve the above-mentioned goal of Prohibition Act, 1961 through which giving or
effective and efficient nation-building, there ought taking of dowry was made a punishable offence. It
to be three particulars that need to be examined: brought about a major change in our society wherein
Firstly, the capability of women in India, women themselves raised complaints about the ill-
Secondly, the opportunity that is being provided tradition and encouraged others to take a stand.
by society,
Thirdly, the efforts being made to achieve the In order to protect the rights of women during
goal. the period of pregnancy and after childbirth, the
which needs to be accompanied by the Protection Indian Lawmakers enacted the Maternity Benefits
being provided by the society through various Act, 1961. The Act regulates the employment of
means which includes Parliamentary protection. women and maternity benefits as mandated by law.

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The benefits include maternity leave, nursing keep a check on such advertisements, the legislators
breaks, medical allowances, etc if a woman formulated the Indecent Representation of
employee has worked in an organization for a period Women(Prevention) Act, 1986.
of at least 80 days during 12 months preceding the
date of her expected delivery. The issues of Women in India have never been
raised exclusively by any major organization. In
Women’s Reproductive rights were never given order to provide a statutory voice for the exclusive
preference in India and thus is not deemed to be legit and direct redressal of the problems, the Parliament
before 1971, as it was made a Punishable Offence enacted National Commission for Women Act,
under section 312 of Indian Penal Code. But as soon 1990. The act established a National Commission
as the Indian Government realized the importance of for women with the primary objective of advising
these rights through International Deliberation, it the government on all policy matters affecting
introduced the formulation of the new abortion law women and representing the rights of women in
at the recommendation of Shantilal Shah committee India.
which was termed as Medical Termination of
Pregnancy Act, 1971, wherein Women’s Till the year 2015, the remedies available to
reproductive rights were recognized. [The further women in case of domestic violence were limited.
amendment to this act was introduced in the Either they go to civil court for a decree of divorce or
parliament this year and is pending.] institute a criminal case under sec 498A but no
proceeding was capable of providing emergency
 The concept of wage-labour became relief to the victim. As a result of which the women
increasingly formalized during the Industrial prefer to suffer in silence. Also, the act of violence
Revolution, women were often paid less than their committed by other relatives was not recognized.
male counterparts for the same labour, whether for Having regard to such condition, Parliament
the explicit reason that they were women or under enacted The Protection of Women (From Domestic
another pretext. The demand for equal pay for equal Violence) Act, 2005.
work increased in the 19th century during trade
unionism in the UK. After various worldwide  The emergence of Globalization and
developments in this regard, the Indian Parliament Modernization has raised the questions on Women’s
enacted the Equal Remuneration Act, 1976 in order safety at the workplace and has been a very serious
to break through the unjustified differentiation of concern in the last two decades. The courts in India
wages on the basis of gender. have been frequently hearing cases wherein a
woman employee was being sexually harassed by
Gender concern in media is a serious concern the people working with her at her workplace and no
today. The continued obscene depiction of women, redressal platform existed to listen to the complaint
as well as the indecent and derogatory portrayal of made by her. It was either due to the reason that the
women in the media, have been agitating the mind of accused himself held a dominant position at the
Civil Society. In simple terms, the depiction in any workplace or the organization does not want to harm
manner of the figure of a woman, her form or her its own reputation by taking action against the
body or any part thereof would amount to indecent accused employee. In order to define sexual
or derogatory representation if it has the tendency to harassment at the workplace and to establish a
present women as a sexual object or to present proper redressal system, the Sexual Harassment of
women as a sexual commodity for man’s pleasure, Women at Workplace (Prevention, Prohibition and
or the tendency to glorify woman’s subordination to Redressal) Act, 2013 was enacted.
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If we have a look at the government statistics of 2014, the reported no of crimes against women are:

S.no. Crime Heads Reported no. of crime

1 Rape 36735

2 Dowry Death 8455

3 Sexual Harassment 21938

4 Cruelty by husband or his relative 122877

5 Dowry Prohibition Act 10050

6 Kidnapping and Abduction 57311

Even after 72 years of Independence, wherein have to educate myself and the people around me
we have achieved various standards of through the actual “Sanatan” principles of treating
development, Can we call ourselves a “Civilized women as the “Janani”(the Creator).
Society”? Even after the enactment of various laws
for ensuring the protection of women and enabling Further, the answer to the measure to be taken for
gender equality, the answer can be easily drawn the betterment of women other than stopping crimes
from a simple study of the above-mentioned data. against them, Swamiji correctly addressed.
As per my opinion, the laws and regulations can Someone once asked Swami Vivekanand “Are you
only act as a catalyst in order to curb crimes entirely satisfied with the position of women
committed. It is evident from history that a simple amongst us, Swamiji?” “By no means,” said
law cannot stop people from committing a crime Swamiji, “but our right of interference is limited
until and unless he is well educated (here does not entirely to giving education. Women must be put in a
mean formal education but awareness) in that position to solve their own problems in their own
matter. Thereafter the question arises if laws cannot way. No one can or ought to do this for them. And
actually put a full stop to such issue then who can? our Indian women are capable of doing it as any in
The answer is very simple, it all starts from “I.” I will the world.”

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Coverage Sanatan Women
Swaraj Sabha on Housewives &
their roles in the Nation-building
Although every person thinks about something The revered speakers included Dr Kavita
or the other, however, not every thought takes shape Asthana (Secretary, Paavan Chintan Dhara Ashram)
and no single thought is complete within itself. The who said that Maa Durga is the most important and
society needs multiple ideas to enhance its the most ancient Sanatan Woman. She emphasized
development and this requires the existence of a on the fact that Ashram is a training centre and if they
good platform. Swaraj Sabha, an important project weren’t there we wouldn't have got people like
of Paavan Chintan Dhara, organizes discussions on Chanakya, Sri Ram or Shri Krishna who had all
different topics related to the nation. Swaraj denotes received training at the ashrams. Dr Kavita Ashthana
the supremacy of independent thoughts. From told the audience that the Paavan Chintan Dhara
nation-building to the power of homemakers, Ashram trains the youth and contributes in Nation
Swaraj Sabha highlights varied themes and thinking building. It believes in functional spirituality and
styles. spreading knowledge. The objective of Swaraj
Sabha was also stressed as it not only gives you
Another important project of the Ashram is, thoughts but also gives you a direction. Dr Kavita
“Sanatan Women” — a social media platform. also stressed on the fact that social media has
“Sanatan Women” is a group of women who are become a battleground and the enemy can be within
constantly involved in safeguarding the interests of us. All women can contribute to nation-building by
the Nation and Dharma. On 16th November 2019, taking the children to places like army hospitals
this power-packed wing of Paavan Chintan Dhara where they can be inspired; by discouraging
Ashram successfully concluded Swaraj Sabha with husbands to refrain from corruption and by not
the Sanatan Women Summit held at Modern College bunking work or their assigned tasks.
of Law. Constituting an integral part of Swaraj
Sabha, Sanatan Women provides women across the Mrs Rama Tyagi, (Wife of a gallant soldier—a
country a platform to get together and fight Veer Chakra awardee) comes from an army
misconceptions against their religion. This is an background at her paternal as well as her in-laws.
important initiative to avoid baseless distortions and She shared her experience when her mother used to
maintain overall peace and harmony. inculcate patriotism while cooking. She even talked
about how she helped the labourers to join work by
ShriGuruji Pawan Sinha ji, a spiritual preceptor opening a crèche for their children, which was first
and educationist, also the founder of Paavan Chintan of its kind and Doordarshan had telecast about this
Dhara has entrusted women with this platform, so school umpteen times. This was her way of
they can positively utilize the power of social media contributing to the nation so that ARMY RR
within the confines of their homes and at the same HOSPITAL could be built, as the labourers were not
time, promote their Dharma. The program joining work. They had to take care of their children
emphasized on the need of women, to get into the
dual role of a compassionate, affectionate mother as Mrs Savita Katyal (Senior Social Worker)
well as ‘Chandi’ who is capable of making the emphasized on the various social works done by her
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tend to ignore their health when they need it the They all emphasized that women have the
most. Only if a woman is healthy can her family be potential to play a pivotal role in Nation Building,
healthy. apart from being homemakers. They must seek
inspiration from powerful figures including Sita ji,
Dr Udita Tyagi (National President, Disha Draupadi, Rani Chennamma, Rani of Jhansi,
Foundation and My Clean India), encouraged the Captain Lakshmi Sehgal and Jija Bai among others.
women by sharing her experiences and said that a The auditorium was packed with ladies from all
marriage doesn't mean a full stop to your dreams and walks of life. The summit was an important
you can still pursue them. She herself, became Mrs initiative to empower women and help them realize
India after some years of marriage. This she did the innate power within them. Discussions
because she wanted a celebrity to finance her culminated with the national anthem and a pledge to
scheme of counselling children after doing a fight all evils against the nation and sacred dharma.
psychological test. CBSE was bound to carry this After all, it is not only the men who are responsible
scheme so that no child would commit suicide under to maintain the wellbeing of the country; the nation
parental pressure. belongs to women too.

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Ignited Pens Freedom of Women Article by:
Article by:

Excuse me! Listen, please! Yes, you! Can you look Subodh Kant Soti
M.A English
for the meaning of "Woo" on google, please? Okay, Banaras Hindu Uuniversity
so it's "seek the favour/support" and what about
"Man"? So, is that what makes "Woman"? No,
certainly not! That's not the etymology but that was
the psychology, wasn't it? Has not history termed Freedom is the birthright, gifted by God to everyone,
women as a wooer of man, with beauty and service, so why should women seek for their freedom from
for their survival and life? Can "That Person" be free men? Who are they to give freedom? It's all about the
who is 'termed' to live for someone else, on the grace patriarchal mentality. The patriarchal mindset,
of others, dependent on others and rely for their rituals, traditions, beliefs and practices that
happiness on others...? What about their freedom, dominated the life of the people. But remember-
their life, their happiness... What about the freedom Freedom sparks from the mind of an individual and
of women? For centuries these questions were never spreads the fire into the society, the nation and
answered and then the answers were never finally wraps the whole world in its flame. The
questioned. A woman is a daughter, a sister, a lover, ignited flame has undergone metamorphosis; from a
a wife, a mother, etc, but most importantly, she’s a spark into a Volcano in the present scenario and
complete person. She is one of the most important women are giving a new definition of freedom. The
being created by God. As said in Bhagavad Gita, mindset of people is rapidly changing and evolving
"...Unless mother earth obliged, unless women from patriarchy to equality. Women are striving for
obliged, there would be no progeny on mother earth, freedom and equality. They want freedom in every
life would become meaningless, decay and die!" aspect of their life. Freedom to live; to learn, to
(NOTE- the word given in Bhagavad Gita is unless grow, to fail, to succeed, to win, to lose, to work, to
women "OBLIGED" and not 'forced'). rest, to think, to innovate, to add beauty to the world,
to create new hopes, to live their dreams, to live their
As Lord Shiva, in the personation of Ardhnarishvar lives, to do the unthinkable, to do the undoable...
said that the world cannot exist without 'Purush' and They have not left any stone unturned and the whole
'Prakriti' coming together. Therefore, a woman has a world is bowing before them.
special role to play in the cosmic system. In a family-
tree diagram a mother is always the root of the These women turned their dreams into reality. They
family, the stronger is the root, the fruitful is the tree. are not inferior, weaker or suppressed human beings,
But for decades and centuries women have been rather, they are one of the most powerful species on
suppressed, misbehaved, objectified, abused, the earth. They define the freedom of woman as- life
tortured, humiliated and treated as an inferior being. on their own terms, a life of their own choice; full of
They have suffered a whole lot of hell and miserable freedom, filled with respect and love, rooted with
life. But, as in Bhagavad Gita Lord Krishna says, confidence and passion, moulded by dreams and
"Change is the law of nature," nothing is permanent vision, lived with heart and soul and thus making the
in this world and similar is the case with the pathetic world- a better place to live in.
and awful lives of the women.

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Ignited Pens Women & Workplace
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Article by:

Rasshe Goswami
Digital Marketing Manager
Shangri La Hotel, Delhi

Circa 1997, not a single woman CEO was part of the attractive female employee enters the room. The
Fortune 500. Fast-forward to present day, and you’ll same principle works in the opposite fashion too –
find 31 professionals (6.2%) of all Fortune 500 where a less attractive female employee is often
CEOs to be women. The number is on the rise but ignored.
why has the change been so slow? In an era where
diversity is supposed to be good for business, isn’t Fields such as HR, Communication, PR, and design
this surprising? are dominated by female employees vis- à-vis
functional domains such as sales, finance, analytics,
Living in India, you will often hear of girls doing management and operations. This form of division
better than boys in the educational domain. Paid of labour is an indication of self-selection
employment opportunities for women have undertaken by women, by virtue of the values and
multiplied in the past few decades. But what ideals they are brought up with. Additionally, it is
happens when it comes to climbing the corporate also the modern-day extension of age-old biases
ladder and leading the C-Suite? When asked the pertaining to a woman’s capacity to manage and
same question, most men and women in the lead.
corporate world would argue how unimportant
gender is; how its role in the ability to run a business Not just in the workplace, the average working
is progressively receding. There are also those who woman is also faced with a number of limitations at
will go to the extent of saying that women home. There are greater social pressures on a woman
executives are better professionals, on account of as compared to a man and this invariably alters her
their honest and ethical behaviour as opposed to chances in the professional world. Even in families
their male counterparts. If this is so, then why do where both parents are working, it is always the
statistics indicate the polar opposite? mother who is called first when the child falls sick at
school. Ask yourself, when a male CEO addresses
The most obvious of all answers is that gendered his board of directors, how many of you question
stereotypes are saturating the workplace. Whether it what he’s wearing?
is in terms of risk-taking abilities or leading team
members, it is assumed that a man would demand Thus, it becomes imperative to understand the social
more respect and be taken more seriously (Yes, it is stigmas around the working space and break them
as bad as it sounds). You would inevitably notice one by one, in order to bring a positive change and
changes in body language every time a physically growth in society.

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Ignited Pens Compromise v/s Adjustment Article by:

Janvi Desai
Student of Commerce
Gujarat, India

“Ladki ho compromise to karna hi padega na.”


(You’ll have to compromise in your life because you are a female.)

- The words which we have heard innumerable times right from


our childhood. Haven’t we?

Compromise is a word which we, women are Adjustments are little changes which are
taught to imbibe in our lives, as we are trained from mandatory in order to co-exist, live and work with
the early stage of our life, according to patriarchal other people. As it is said that adjustments are a well-
norms. As a society, we are conditioned to think that considered behaviour of a wise person. But, if we
women are bound to make compromises and if they talk about women, the adjustments are much
refuse to do so, they are labelled as 'Selfish' by the supervenient. From being a daughter to daughter in
people around them. Most of us have grown up with law, they have to acclimate in a new place and start
the teaching which asserts that as a female, it is our all over again. Adjustments are considered to be the
lifelong duty to fit in and let go of our dreams and key of a happy and flourishing relationship when it is
aspirations for the sake of others not just once but from both the sides equally and that is exactly how it
'ALWAYS'. Lamentably, the idea of an ideal woman should be. Balance is not possible if only females are
is equated with the number of compromises she looked up to for making necessary adjustments, it
makes in her life and how easily she pushes aside her should be from both sides.
interests to fulfil the expectations set by others. As
men are considered to be the breadwinner of a On the other hand, compromising behaviour of
family, the dreams, career, interests of women are women is associated with family honour. However,
second fiddled and marriage becomes the focal point compromises made willingly without any pressure
of her life as it is quite ubiquitous in our is a personal choice, but the problem arises when
surroundings. male chauvinism forces women to make
compromises in their personality, freedom, career,
Here, we need to ruminate about these two values and core essence unwillingly. Their dreams
words- ‘Compromise’ and ‘Adjustment’ as there is a and wills are squashed under the male ego, which
stark difference between both of them. However, results in denying the essence of individualism and
these two words make a different meaning in the life makes them feel devalued in their very own purpose
of a woman. of life. It comes with a substantial price of personal,

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emotional freedom and a life full of remorse. Yet the
majority of females happily sacrifice their own self Here we really need to raise some questions- For
for their families. Selflessness is a God gifted how long patriarchy will control the lives of
quality of women. She dedicates her entire life for women? Why does a marriage become the crux of
her family with a smile and a sense of duty, but a existence for women? Why are women's dreams not
majority of them are not valued for as we are as important as men? But this doesn't apply to all
ignorant towards their efforts and emotions and men in the society. I would like to applaud those who
think that they are anyways supposed to do it. are breaking the stereotypes and questing these
regressive norms by being equal partners. My
If we look at the numbers, according to the heartfelt gratitude to men who believe in favouring
National Sample Survey Organization and Census, social equality. Thank you for not believing in the
the data reveals that the participation of women in game of “One side makes all the demand and the
the workforce has been falling drastically. It fell other side only makes the compromise.”
from 36% to 24% over the last decade. It is a wake-
up call to work towards ensuring more women Lastly, it is important to have the flexibility and
contribute to the economy. A recent trend is that make adjustments and compromise, but not on the
around 40% opt to quit after taking maternity leave stake of our passion and existence. Let's
bringing down their shares. The study shows that in constructively start creating the right balance and
a progressive society, there is a very little family and equality for the betterment of society and the nation.
spousal support.

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Ignited Pens Before You Become
a Woman
Article by:
Article by:

Are we really predetermined to have certain beliefs Avani Khurana


CS Analyst
and mannerisms? If so, then who decides these Delhi, India
ground rules for us? In general terms, “Sexuality”
tends to relate to the biological differences between
males and females. “Gender,” on the other hand, The harsh reality is that rigid gender role
tends to denote the social and cultural role of each expectations limit us all from realising our
sex within the rules of a given society like the degree aspirations and access to the vast pool of
of decision-making and financial responsibility opportunities out there. While there's nothing wrong
expected of each gender and the time that women or with being feminine- gentle and graceful, but a
men are expected to spend on homemaking and woman should never feel the pressure to do so in
rearing children. What I want to primarily talk about order to meet societal expectations. If I go by
here are ‘Gender norms’ which show up in our genetics, it is inarguable that men tend to be
everyday lives in more ways than we know. Both physically stronger, the reason being they have
conscious and unconscious gender biases prevail greater muscle mass which helps testosterone in
within us and most of us do not even realise it. causing muscular hypertrophy. Whereas, women
own emotional strength because the limbic system is
We often have social expectations for the kids from more pronounced in the female brain. One of the
the moment they’re born and even earlier. What type things that the limbic system is responsible for is the
of person we want them to be or if we’d like them to emotional evaluation of social and interpersonal
be active in sports, art or cooking etc. Gender interactions. But, leaving aside the biological
expectations are very common and it’s usually these differences, the differences in men's and women's
messages which begin even before a child is born. psyches- empathy, cognitive abilities etc; also result
Just think of how many ‘gender reveals’ you’ve seen from direct gender socialisation. We can’t just
on social media- a blue balloon when it’s a boy and a assume that everything we see is biological, when in
pink cake when it’s a girl. Where a girl apparently fact the social and cultural inputs are huge. I’m not
only plays with a kitchen set, barbies and a boy with saying that they solely account for everything in
racing cars. Where girls aren’t supposed to have terms of gender difference. But they certainly
short haircuts or play basketball, for that matter, account for a lot more than what we think they do.
because apparently, that will make her a tomboy. Imposing the belief: “There are certain things that
only men can do and others that only women can do”
The way we think about females has deeply marks the beginning of actual issue because
embedded roots. It is indeed true that before you generalisation is a step towards the creation of
become a woman, it’s presumed how you’re gender stereotypes.
supposed to be like when you actually become a
woman. Aren’t we all somehow collectively “Women are really poor drivers.”- haven’t you ever
responsible for the social construction of gendered heard, said or felt something like this? It’s because of
stereotypes? such notions that women who actually drive feel the

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unnecessary pressure to outperform else they’ll be aside the gender and just think of it as something that
judged for the slightest mistake they do. Can’t we every person should know for their own
just let being a good driver be entirely independent sustainability? If a woman doesn’t know or enjoy
of whether it’s a man or a woman behind the cooking, how does it make her a bad woman when it
steering? Acting “Lady-like” definitely doesn’t doesn’t make a man bad?
imply the sort of strength that “Man-up” does.
Society has the habit of stigmatising all behaviours We need to start valuing diverse interests instead of
that are apparently “feminine.” Crying, getting hurt, directly labelling some for men and others for
wanting kids, marriage & the list is endless. Of women. Also, It doesn’t mean that we must have a
course, if you’re not man enough, you’ll be mocked 50:50 balance of men and women in every
into wearing bangles- “Choodiyan pehen lo” and if a profession purely for the sake of equal
man dare cry then he is disregarded as being a representation. For instance, One of the reasons that
woman because obviously “mard ko dard nahi hota women are prevented from taking on combat roles
aur auraton ka toh kaam hi rona hai”- men don’t hurt in the armed forces is a strength issue, that women
and women just cry. When did doing something have half the upper body strength of men. But, that’s
like a woman become an insult? an average. We may never see parity, but that doesn’t
mean that women who are strong enough to do that
We, as parents and society members also choose job should be barred from it when men who are
words that limit us by gender. Have you ever heard weaker than these women are still allowed to do it.
something like this: Young child: “Why can’t I?” That isn’t fair. What should not be cast aside under
Parent: “Because girls don’t do this and that…” I any circumstance is the right of every woman to
wish that these statements weren’t so powerful, but pursue a career of her choice.
they are. So, even if it may not seem like, these
words make a huge difference. The way we talk But, Equal rights are not enough. Inequality exists in
about women and femininity shapes how we treat our minds, in our biases and prejudices, and that
and view women and gender as a whole. needs to be fixed foremostly. We’ll have to start at
the fundamental level so that we do not intentionally
It’s even more saddening that not only the females or unintentionally propagate the misleading
but males have to face the repercussions of this stereotypical ideology which tends to form our
patriarchal society as there is always a social perception towards gender differences. It’s now
pressure that they have to deal with- to be a true upon us as a society to start evaluating what we think
gentleman. If a man won’t open doors or pull a chair or say or believe. Let your sons and daughters like
for a woman, he’s labelled to have no chivalry. But, books, sports, and dolls without fear of gender
why as women do we even expect these things from identity confusion. Unless we realise these minute
men? In metros/buses, we always expect a man to things, we would never be able to help women rise
vacate a seat if a woman is standing. Have you ever and shine as they should. It’s high time that we
thought that maybe he also needs that seat as much speculate what truly defines a woman and why?
as a woman does? The problem clearly lies at both “When someone says your name, what
ends of the spectrum. Could we be free of these rigid characteristics do you want them to think of? What
gendered roles and captivities? Because even with are your morals? What do you stand for ?” Talk
all the progress, Gender inequities still persist today. through your dreams, what you wanted to be when
The stigma is so deeply embedded that there’s no you were young and how that evolved over time and
realisation of what we’re doing wrong as a society. what hinders you from your dreams today.
In today’s world also, cooking is considered to be Become who you wish to be,
something that women must learn. Why can’t we put not who you’re supposed to be-
Before you become a Woman.

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Ignited Pens Is this the
Right Perspective?
Article by:
Article by:

Shailee Malhotra
Content Manager
Delhi, India

Everyone has their own view of life which is Human is the most intelligent creation of God, we
built-up, brought up, and cultivated by people who have the power of thinking, analyzing, observing
are around us or are close to us. Do you really think and realizing through which we can rectify our
that your view is only your view, which is mistakes. We started a fight, focusing on gender
opinionated by only you? Or is it influenced by equality, but it has deviated from its path and now we
someone else? A collective view of many are much passionate about achieving a dominant
individuals creates society’s perspective. These position. Some women want to assert a matriarchal
kinds of perspectives pass on from generation to society. Some females want to take advantage of
generation. This is proven by society’s perspective their circumstances and want to weaponize that
of gender roles, it is not only for Indian society, but it opportunity against men, due to this other females
can also be any society or nation which is judging, are also seen as an opportunistic. We are forgetting
describing, viewing a human on the basis of gender. again that ultimately we are a human first. Why do
Is it necessary to think on the basis of gender we need a gender dominant society? Why do we
discrimination? need gender identity to describe anyone? Can't we
fight to become a human? Is humanity going to die
Before belonging to any gender we all are a due to us? After facing all these kinds of things,
human being. Why have we forgotten this reality for society is asking questions about equality and
so many generations? The gender perspective has freedom. Justice has to be given to those who are
dominated our mentality for so long. We are not able innocent and deserve the right to equality and
to think independently, our thinking is overpowered freedom. We should construct our society that can
by this perspective. For so long, the patriarchal focus to create a true human, who can feel the pain
society dictated the norms of the society where so and happiness of one another without any type of
much of cruelty was tolerated by one half of the discrimination. Can’t we introspect ourselves from
population for generations and they were dictated these perspectives, without being biased?
and governed by the other half. Men forgot the truth
that they are humans first and that gender comes
later and the same kind of thinking is cultivated by
them in their future generations also.

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Ae Mere Watan
Ke Logon
Holi
Content Inspiration: ShriGuru Pawan Sinha Ji
Translated by Ishan Garg

Holi is the festival of colours, which is celebrated all over India,


with joy unbound. It is a two-day festival, the first day being the
Holika Dahan and second, Dulhendi.

It has been celebrated since the period of Rigveda, it was also known
as “Navanishti.” This was basically a yagya, in which people would offer
the first grains of the season from their fields to devtas, through fire. This is
actually just a way of saying thank you to Devtas for the grains and for
everything. These grains were Hola, thus came the name “Holi.” The fire is kept
ongoing and people take 7 rounds of it. It can cure cough and many other diseases and
kills bacteria. People also dance around this fire and enjoy with everyone. On this very day
of Holika Dahan, Manu was born, due to which it is also called “Manuwadi.”

Festivals have changed over a period of time. Holi which was just a one day festival in the Rigvedic
period became two-day festival later on. In this two day festival, the concept of the use of colours came later
in Dwapar Yug, around the time of Lord Krishna, people would use Kumkum, sindoor, and the flowers of the
Bastard teak. During the Mughal period, many things like poet conferences were started. Even the Mughal
kings like Shahjahan and Bahadur Shah Zafar would play Holi, they used to call it “Id-e-gulabi” and “Aab-e-
pashi” (throwing of water).

There is also a story of Holika Dahan. There was an evil king named Hiranyakashipu. He had a very kind
son named Prahlad. Prahlad was a devotee of Lord Vishnu, who Hiranyakashipu considered his enemy. So
he tried to draw away Prahlad from Lord Vishnu but Prahlad was a great devotee and would not leave Lord
Vishnu. So, the evil king made up his mind to kill his own son. He made many attempts to kill his son but
failed, as Lord Vishnu would save Prahlad by some way or other. Then, in a plan with his sister Holika, to kill
his son he asked her sister to sit in the fire with Prahlad, with the special cloth she had, which would save her
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Holika to death. Another story that revolves around The second day of this festival is Dulhendi. This
Holika Dahan is that on this same day of Holika is the festival of colours, this is the festival of joy
Dahan, Lord Krishna killed the witch Pootna, who unbound. Children take to the streets from early
came to kill Lord Krishna when he was a mere child. morning and start playing with colours and water.
Thus this day is also celebrated as the victory of Water guns and water balloons are common in the
Good over Evil. hands of children at this time. Many even make
groups and there is a battle of groups. This is the day
In this two-day festival, the second day of when even adults become children and just play
Dulhendi being a day full of joy and happiness from with their hearts open. Everyone gets together,
getting together with all our friends and family to friends, families, neighbours all get-together and
play with colours, to eating a lot of sweets, the first have fun. They play with colours, dance wildly, and
day has a lot more importance to it along with these. eat a lot of tasty home-made foods. A wide variety of
The first day is the day of Holika Dahan, it is a day mouth-watering dishes are prepared on this day by
for Sadhna (Meditation). Holika Dahan is to be everyone, Gunjiyas, Gol-Gappas, Papdis and Dahi
done in a fixed period of time on that day, and it is Bhallas being the most popular among them, which
forbidden to do Holika Dahan in the time period of will make you put aside your dieting for the day.
Bhadra. In Holika Dahan, a fire is lit up. Any
regional grain like Barley or Wheat is taken and are But, even on this joyful day, some females feel
roasted while taking rounds of fire, curing our unsafe and spend their whole day at home. Just due
cough too. Some directly roast them and some tie to some anti-social elements, who cross their
them around sugarcane while roasting. One more boundaries and in the veil of playing with colours
important thing is the necklace of cow dung. Cow molests women and disrespect them. Due to which
dung is taken and then small balls are made of them many women feel unsafe while playing Holi. Many
with a little hole in the centre, which are then tied up of these men are badly intoxicated by some kind of
into a necklace, and then dried, taking five balls for substance or other. These vulgar and sick actions
each member of the family, now this necklace is put spoil the pious and joyful nature of Holi. It is their
in the fire. People also use ghee (clarified butter), mistake and a big one to think women to be any less.
camphor and dried-up coconut. This fire also Lately, our society has become awake again, and
purifies the environment by killing many bacteria. women strike back hard. They give appropriate
After this, the roasted grains and coconut are shared answers to such sick actions of these anti-social
with other people. Everybody gets together and men. They are aware of their power and their rights
enjoy themselves by dancing and eating sweets. and know how to protect them. Even society comes
The ashes of this fire are very sacred. They must be forward now, to help fight these goons. The law and
collected and applied to either navel, chest, throat, enforcement have become active and aware in these
or between eyebrows, whenever faced with any big kinds of activities, and the punishment for such
problem. You must be asking how? These ashes are immoral actions is harsh.
of Cow's dung, cow's ghee, camphor, sapt-anaaz
(seven grains) and bark of either of a mango tree or Holi is a very pious occasion and when
bastard teak. So it's a complete package in itself. celebrated with pure heart, is very fun and joyful. So
This is the day of a full moon and the 'Mahanishit let's just have a lot of fun on this occasion and make
Kaal' on the same night, is the night for meditation, ourselves and everyone else happy.
Sadhna and various Siddhis.

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LIST OF RISHIKULSHALA CENTRES
AS ON 17 MARCH 2020
VENUE NO. PLACE NO. OF STUDENTS NO. OF CENTRES

1. CHIRANJIV VIHAR, GHAZIABAD 59 5

2. SHASTRI NAGAR, MEERUT 43 4

3. ASHOK VIHAR, NEW DELHI 233 23

4. MANSAROVAR PARK, NEW DELHI 42 4

5. GOREGAON, MUMBAI 54 5

6. RAJ NAGAR EXTENSION, GHAZIABAD 35 3

7. MATIALA, NEW DELHI 46 4

8. HAUZ KHAS, NEW DELHI 140 14

9. CHANDER VIHAR (I.P. EXTENSION), NEW DELHI 14 1

10. GOVINDPURAM, GHAZIABAD 50 5

11. DALIGANJ, LUCKNOW 41 4

12. KANPUR 41 4

13. RAIPUR, CHHATTISGARH 42 4

14. SHASTRI NAGAR, MEERUT 42 4

15. Nehru Basti, PUNE 23 2

16. Jotwara, Jaipur 36 3


17. Vrindavan Garden, Indore 42 4

TOTAL 983 93

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