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The ancient Greeks understood that the mind and body are
intimately connected: A healthy mind supports a healthy body;
a healthy body supports a healthy mind. They didn’t understand
the exact nature of the connection. But today, thanks to abundant
scientific research, we can take this insight to a whole new level.
New mind/body research shows us the missing link. It’s to be
found in our hormones. Our mind affects our hormones which
then regulate our body. In turn, hormones powerfully affect what
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e says, “If it’s not a big deal, then why can’t you just forget
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about it?”
he says, “I don’t want to forget about it. I want to talk about
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it. Why can’t you just listen?”
There it is, the battle of the sexes in a nutshell. On Mars, under
moderate stress, you cope with stress by taking time to relax and put
it out of your mind. If you can’t do anything about it, the Martians
figure, why not forget about it until you can do something? On
Venus, they have a different custom, “If you can’t do anything
about a problem, you should at least talk about it.”
Fine, but why is it that women are so determined to talk
about their problems, even when the issue isn’t urgent and they
aren’t really looking for a solution? Science now answers the
question that people have been asking for centuries. When there
is extra blood flow to the emotional part of the brain, a person
begins to feel distressed. The brain’s preferred response is to
release a calming, feel-good brain chemical called serotonin, but
it doesn’t always happen as automati-
Under moderate cally as we might like. What women
stress, women cope know intuitively is that talking about
by talking, men problems stimulates the release of sero-
cope by relaxing. tonin. From the perspective of brain
chemicals and stress hormones, then,
it’s clear that women talk about problems to calm the blood flow
in the emotional part of their brain.
Normally, the human brain stores abundant serotonin, usu-
ally enough to handle occasional moments of stress. However,
at the end of a grinding day, a woman can find herself fresh out
of serotonin while the man still has plenty left. He doesn’t need
to talk to stimulate the release of more serotonin, but she craves
the conversation. He doesn’t understand her need to talk. That’s
because he has no idea how helpful talking and feeling heard can
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won’t have the fuel for her brain to make serotonin and will begin
to feel even more overwhelmed and stressed. She stops talking,
but inside a monologue continues. She worries and over-thinks.
With stable blood sugar, she would have the serotonin necessary
to prevent this.
Man: To cope with stress, a man retreats to his cave. Resting
helps him rebuild his testosterone levels, while a brain chemical
called dopamine motivates him to come out of the cave. Dopamine
is a brain hormone or neurotransmitter that increases feelings of
pleasure, focus, and motivation. After a long day, a man runs out
of dopamine and needs to find ways of making more. Reading
the newspaper, solving a puzzle, meditating, and watching TV
are common stimulators of dopamine. But if his blood sugar level
is low, he can’t make dopamine or testosterone. He goes into the
cave and doesn’t come out.
We see, once again, the difference in brain chemistry.
Women tend to run out of serotonin while men tend to run out
of dopamine. Serotonin allows her to relax and feel good while
dopamine gives him the motivation to do things. Since women
have a more active emotional center in the brain, they tend to run
out of serotonin faster than do men. Men also have greater stores
of serotonin because they make it 50 percent faster and store 50
percent more. But men don’t have all the advantages: They tend to
run out of dopamine faster than women. A man’s greater muscle
mass competes for the amino acids that make dopamine, so by the
end of the day, a man has run out.
These brain-chemical differences can be the source of incom-
patibility and even conflict. At the end of a stressful day, a woman
tends to have plenty of dopamine motivating her to get things
done, but a shortage of serotonin. High dopamine tells her she has
things to do and low serotonin tells her she has no time or support
to get them done. She feels overwhelmed.
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and sugars, but it’s not an option for everyone. Fortunately there’s an
alternative, and it can be found in most health food stores.
Over the past 10 years, researchers at a variety of universities
in Canada have developed and researched a new compound called
PolyGlycopleX® (PGX®), a unique complex of water-soluble polysac-
charides (plant fibers) that can help reduce blood sugar fluctuations.
You simply take a few capsules or a small scoop of PGX® and a glass of
water before meals and the results, supported by research, are amazing.
I’ve never seen an all-natural product that can stabilize blood sugar as
well as PGX®. There are lots of products available that can help, but this
one is remarkable. I take it regularly and it has changed my life without
requiring me to significantly change what I eat.
As I was getting into my 40s and 50s, I found myself getting
sleepy after meals. I napped more, too. It was a gradual change and at
first I thought little of it. But when I started taking PGX®, all that
sluggishness stopped. I could eat pasta, bread, pizza, and desserts
without those negative side effects. By using PGX® before meals and
thus minimizing blood sugar fluctuations, I experienced sustained
energy, much as I did as a younger man. Over the past two years, I
have recommended PGX® to thousands of individuals and have
received similar rave reviews.
Used before or with a meal, PGX® absorbs many times its weight
in water within the digestive system. This action not only slows
the absorption of carbohydrates (thereby
slowing the release of sugar into the blood- PGX helps minimize
stream), but allows you to reduce portion fluctuations in
size while still feeling satisfied. Taking 2-5 blood sugar.
grams of PGX® with meals helps prevent
blood sugar from spiking after meals and helps get you off the blood
sugar roller coaster once and for all. Not sure if you are riding the
blood sugar roller coaster? See how many of these symptoms sound
familiar:
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