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Why we dislike change ( Ahmed taher )
Although change clearly means opportunity
So, fear of loss is always a problem when changes start to happen.
The five things that we don't want to lose:
1- security ,
security of earnings
security of reputation
knowledge,
the value of ourselves, our feeling of importance
anything you can think of could be threatened by changes.
And even if you're a risk taker you need some foundation of security to build
your risk upon.
- What makes some people tougher than others when they're under pressure?
Your attitude :
is the sum of everything that's happened to you up 'til now.
All your experiences, the voice inside your head, which either says :
"I can handle this change, "I finds a way to make the best of situations."
Or
"Oh no, this is going to be awful, "what if the worst happens? "I might lose my job
and never be able to get another one. "Oh, it's going to be terrible."
How you can control it and you can change your thought habits with a little effort?
1-you can work on your internal emotions.
noticing what you Saying it's not fair or typical of my luck and why does it always
happen to me doesn't solve anything.
2-stop worrying
in fact worry is a substitute for action. It's designed to give you an excuse for when
you fail.
3-choose planning every time. I do think it's worth thinking about risk and preparing
for all possibilities,
4-force yourself to say only positive things "about change and about everything else
in your life, "and you will become a more positive person."
5- Focus on the present and the future, not the past.
- To be in the best position for any changes you would ideally have the best
relationships possible with everyone that you deal with.
One of these people might be:
* your new boss next month, or
* your new teammates, or
*they might have the ability to influence decisions .
certainly don't make any enemies.
So, how do we become everybody's friend?
1- First, be :
*a great listener.
* interested in other people and take a bit of time to ask them things and to
really listen to the answers.
* understand what it's like for your suppliers or people in other departments, or
people who work for your competitors.
2- second,
to go one step further and offer to help people whenever you can.
I know this costs a bit of time, but think of it as an investment.
-even helping your competitors sometimes It's about building bridges for the
future.
So, Ask your Yourself :
* do you have any enemies?
* Do you have a habit of making enemies?
*Have you been drawn into a world of politics and taking sides?
*How combative are you at meetings?
* Do you tell yourself that this is necessary to get results, but is it really?
*Do you tell yourself that the people you upset aren't important?
*how nice are you?
* Would most people say that you were their friend?
*Could you be better at asking people questions and at listening, and are there
more situations where you could offer to help?
Make it your plan, from now on, to be the most popular person in the
company. It'll be useful in the future, but also, you'll enjoy it.
Setting long-term career goals ( Sherouk )
- taking opportunities when they come up.
- have the required skills so that you're ready for those opportunities.
So, in times of change it's vital to have clear goals for where you want your career to
go.
Successful people don't get there by accident.
-asking :
1-what you want to do and what you'll be good at.
2-what skills you'll need,
3-what experience,
4-what qualifications and you can start working on those.
5-what's your career destination?
6-What's your ideal goal that you're working towards?
Then move in small steps towards where you want to be.
The first is that each time you make a decision
*having a good plan B. The better your plan B, the more power you have.
* personal contacts are the best, if you have the contacts and it's a good idea to keep
in contact with as many people as you can.
- If you're thinking of leaving, key point:
1- get all the facts, before you do anything hasty.
2- Talk to your boss, HR, senior managers, if you know them, any contacts you have
in the organization, find out as much as you can and check the external situation
as well.
3- Don't assume that the labor market is good or bad, because even if things are
generally good or bad in the job market, they could be different in your sector or
skill area.
4- Don't leave for an emotional reason( out of pride or anger).
5- don't wait for redundancy (the severance package)
*if you do leave, two quick points.
- don't say anything until you've definitely got the new job in the bag( just
because an interview went )
-if you do leave is be nice about it. You never know if you'll need a
reference or want to come back one day
Do you give the right amount of communication? Have you thought about which
format they like best? Do you know the best time of day for your boss? Can you read
the signs of their mood? And, do you ever give your boss sudden, bad surprises?
1-establish what your goals are in your job( rather than waiting for your boss to do )
established your goals you can also have plans for how to get there.
link between goals or objectives
So
do you have clear goals, both the areas and the numerical targets? Do you have
clear, visible plans of how you'll get there which your boss has seen? Do you have a
master list in priority order and has your boss seen it and approved it? What changes
in the way that you work do you think a new boss is likely to want? And have you
agreed a frequency of meeting with them so they don't ever start to feel out of
touch?
How to deal with a bad boss
- living with a bad boss and not caring about your work is unacceptable. It's a waste
of a life. You should rather leave than live with that.
So solution :
1-tell them, but in a positive way and with a specific action plan that they can easily do.
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