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Good afternoon to everyone present here.

Thank you for having me


here in your institution. I am glad to be here. Today, I am going to
share some experience, characteristic traits of the people. 

 Being an introverted person has its own cons and pros. I myself being
an introverted girl would like to speak about this. We are born with
such kind of trait or either some situations bound us to be so. People
begin to develop misconception about people like us. If we like to
spend some time alone, people assume us to be rude. But it's not the
case with the introverts. They just enjoy spending time alone, they
don't prefer a large group of people, rather they prefer having a small
group of close friends. But every introvert is not the same. Even two
introverts are not alike. Being an introvert is not a bad trait. People
equate being introvert with shyness however, the conception is wrong.
They are not shy; they just may need some time to socialize. Such as
people like me need some time to socialize, but once they start
socializing, they may entirely become a different type of person. They
start to trust them, talk to them comfortably and will start to get more
friendly. Introverts normally stay quiet and keep things to themselves
without feeling the need to share their problems, which makes people
think that they dislike other people, but that's not the case at all and in
fact, it's the opposite. They do not prefer small talk because they don't
consider it to be authentic. They want more meaningful talks with
people so that they can relate or connect with them. One of the
reasons of being quiet maybe that they overthink about the
consequences of what others may think about their opinions, so they
prefer being quiet. They take time to develop courage to face the
public and get involved. While they are quiet, many thoughts go
around their mind, they just can't say them out. While they are
involved in any conversation, they try to make sure that they don't
make their opposite ones bored. People like them normally gets hurt
easily but they also tend to forgive them easily. Though they may not
be able to get indulged in a large group, but they just want to be
valued, trusted in their small group. There are numerous reasons why
one become an introvert. Some of them include lack of confidence,
fear of being judged, fear of stepping out of their comfort zone.
Sometimes when they do watch or listen to some public leaders or
speakers speak, they start to wonder about the courage they develop
to speak in front of many, and wish they too could do the same. And I
believe that's not impossible at all. One can enhance their character by
motivating themselves, having self-confidence, and self-reliance can
help them to develop such skill as time will pass. Me myself, being an
introvert would like to say today that I was not born as an introverted
person, not did I inherit it from my parents, or it's not the case where I
was bullied or teased. I am an introvert who takes time to socialize
with people and trust people easily.

I hope that in the future I will get more opportunities to speak up to


people and open up to them so that I can come out of my comfort
zone.

Thank you.

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