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You are what you think you are. But am I what you think I am? Do you ever feel
confused about your own identity or others?
SUMMARY FROM PART 1
In our last step we talked about how every interaction is affected by identity. How
we identify others and ourselves affects our expectations and communication style.
In our own culture, we can usually manage this process fairly well, because we are
familiar with the context and the clues. But across cultures, we can often misread
others identities.
When two people communicate, they usually share some common ground, but also
some individual distinctions. We need to be aware that some cultures emphasize
commonality more while others focus on their uniqueness. Being observant,
interested and asking good questions can help us learn more about what others find
important
Getting to know other people is not always an easy process. Especially because a
person’s identity is very complex and includes public, personal and psychological
levels. Each of us needs to develop good communication skills in knowing how to
relate at each level. And some aspects of others identity may always remain hidden
to us.
IDENTITY GAPS
Not every communication counter is equal. Especially across cultures, we often
encounter great differences in status, economics, values, attitudes or other factors.
These can threaten to block our communication, or we can try to find polite ways to
bridge the gap. Many a potential obstacle was dissolved when one side showed
interest in or respect toward the other. And even unwilling communication partners
can often be won over with kindness, humor or a friendly gesture.
This happens even in our own cultures. If I enter your office for an interview, and I’m
thinking “I’m a new employee” while you’re thinking “I’m the boss,” then the gap in
our positions is foremost in my mind. This will no doubt effect the expectations,
style and outcome of our communication. I’ll be quite dependent on you to make me
feel at ease (from your power position) and will probably adopt a courteous,
formalized, conservative communicative style.
Recommended Citation:
Kulich, S. J. (2015). From shared identities to differences in interaction. The SISU
Intercultural Institute “Intercultural Communication” FutureLearn course reading
Retrieved from https://www.futurelearn.com/courses/intercultural-communication?
Updated from the original, published as: Kulich, S. J. (2002, May). Identity and
interaction, Part 2. English Salon, 102, 36-37.
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