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in the service ofprotecting her as a little girl and Often there is a sense of relief, freedom, and
decides she does not need it any more. It evapo- even exhilaration as a person distances from the
rates. Bob gives her credit for "evaporating" it. part and gains a larger perspective. Sometimes
She doubts her power to do this. Mary supports the part responds, "Thank you! I'm glad you
the doubt by saying she saw Bob do it with his realize that. I was getting tired of being the
secret antiblock ray gun. "Edith" sees what is whole show." Other times there may be sadness
going on, laughs, and owns the ray gun as hers. or anger brought on either by the person want-
ing the part to be more than it is at the moment
The Setting or the part not wanting to relinquish its place in
On occasion I wiII do "The House of Many the sun.
Parts" with individuals. Normally I do it with I do not spend much time with this, profitable
groups, for all the reasons that make group work though that could be, because the primary
so powerful and so much fun, including: purpose ofthe exercise it to get people thinking
• the group energy that builds, facilitating the about their various parts. A strong secondary
change or healing process purpose is the suggestion, not elaborated on,
• the opportunity people have to see/hear/feel that people are more than and different from
others work and so "piggyback" inwardly, their individual parts.
or also outwardly with the therapist, on
what has gone on with someone else The Guided Imagery
• the trust, permission, and expectations for As we begin I tell people that, as always, they
success that grow from a particularly effec- are in charge ofwhat happens with them. There-
tive piece of work fore, they are to feel free to shift their position to
• the opportunity to use group members to one more comfortable, change the words to fit
help clarify, unstick, move along, ground, their particular situation or ignore them totally,
or cheer someone's work and stop the process and return to the present
For this particular guided imagery to be most for whatever reason simply by opening their
useful it helps immensely if contracts have been eyes. These are useful safeguards for the trance-
established and some work toward redecision like work that is to follow. Additionally, the
has already been done. That way the uncon- permission given for them to be in control
scious has been primed and is ready to come to seems usually to have the liberating effect of
the surface in all its glory (and sometimes fury) allowing them to go more deeply into the expe-
when released by the imagery process. rience.
They are invited to make themselves physi-
The First Exercise cally comfortable, either sitting or lying down.
I have found it helpful to begin with a brief After a brief relaxation procedure I ask them to
mention ofthe idea that, as a diamond has many imagine they are in a meadow. In a few mo-
facets, so we all have many parts or subper- ments I suggest that they become aware of a
sonalities. These can be thought of in transac- path going across the meadow and begin to
tional analysis terms: Nurturing Parent, Free follow it. Soon they are invited to notice a house
Child, etc. The parts also can be given other offin the distance. As they get closer I ask them
names: Seeker, Earth-Mother, Mystic, Skeptic, to become aware of a sign above the front door
Student, Witch, Lover, etc. that says, "House of My Many Parts." They are
I ask people to pick out one part of them- asked to go up to the door, open it, allow one of
selves and, without judgment or heavy feeling, their many parts to come out, close the door, and
focus on it. After a minute or two I invite them then spend some time getting to know the part.
to say silently to that part, "You are part of me. After an interval ofsilence I invite them to leave
You are an important part of me. And I am more the part, return to the house, let one more part
than you." As they say this they are to observe come out, and in similar fashion spend time with
what happens. Then we talk about what they it. Then, after a bit, I invite them to observe
experienced. what happens when they bring the two parts
together. Next I ask them to imagine that the the little boy melted into Bill-now. He gently
sun, as it shines warmly down, is filling them kissed his ogre-mother good-bye. Leaving, he
with wisdom, power, and love. So filled, they came to a stream where he saw a lovely princess
are to go to the two parts and do or say whatever bathing. She welcomed him with open arms.
they choose. Then I invite them to walk hand in They played, talked, and made love. After
hand with the parts back to the house and say recounting this, Bill said he'd like to hug each
good-bye, knowing they can return to the experi- person in the group. No one refused. Some
ence whenever they choose. A slow and gentle reported his embrace to be softer, more open,
reentry procedure returns them to the here and and more energy-filled than before.
now. A synthesis: (The thing to watch for here, and
to facilitate when appropriate, is the dialectical
Working with People's Experience thesis/antithesis/synthesis process.) Sue's first
For many, reentry is similar to waking from a part was her "Miss Frantic," rushing around
dream. I find it important to allow the transition helter-skelter, a manic bundle of unfocused
to continue as quietly as possible consistent with energy. The second was a large rock that came
the talk therapy that now begins. This is made out of the door and sat down, solidly immobile,
easier by an attitude ofdeep respect for what has turned its eyes inward, and meditated. Sue's
already happened in the imagery, As in all contract was to stop blocking herself and make
human affairs, there is a wide range of experi- a long-delayed decision about a career change.
ence with this imagery-from the superficial and At one point in the imagery, Sue picked up the
shallow (rarely), to the movingly profound, to rock and threw it toward the sun. It dissolved
the sublimely transcendent. And all this before into a fine mist that fell on Miss Frantic, causing
a word has been spoken. her to change. What emerged from the transfor-
Now I give them an option-simply to share mation was a kind of female bodybuilder with
what went on for them, or to work on it thera- power, purpose, and direction. (Thesis: Miss
peutically with me. Why this option? Frantic. Antithesis: Rock. Synthesis: Body-
For some, who only describe what went on in builder.)
their imagery, further work is neither necessary These are two examples of imagery processes
nor appropriate. In the imagery process, the that are essentially complete in themselves. All
redecision has been made, the gestalt completed, the therapist needs to do is listen and insert a
a synthesis of two opposing parts has taken few supportive comments.
place, or a transcending peak experience has There are also those persons who say they just
occurred. Therapist and group alike are at their want to share, not work, but as they proceed
best here when they stand on the sidelines and they make it clear that they are in a Victim
cheer as the parade goes by. position, sending out subtle or not-so-subtle
Two examples will illustrate: "Help Me" messages. Naturally the good thera-
A redecision: Bill's first part was a frightened pist avoids the trap and chooses interventions
and yearning-to-be-free little boy. The second designed to heighten the impasse and/or facili-
was an ogre-like giant with sharp teeth who tate a breakthrough.
wanted to eat the little boy. Bill's original con- Finally there are those whose reported images
tract was to achieve a comfortable level of are only positive-joyful, peaceful, power-full,
physical and emotional intimacy with women. In benign, wise, etc. So often this turns out to be a
the imagery, after Bill had been filled with reflection ofearlier therapeutic work in the form
wisdom, power, and love from the sun, he held ofredecision, phobia cure, conflict resolution, or
the little boy protectively in his arms. Then, as simply important insight. Sometimes I will
he looked carefully and more objectively at the comment, "Sounds like you did a good piece of
ogre, he began to suspect that it was wearing a work earlier and your images are clapping their
costume. He unmasked the giant who was hands." There may be a momentary startle, like
revealed to be his neurotic mother, who had a light bulb going on, and then a smile-filled
sexually abused him as a child. At that moment "That's right!"
Shortly he said, "Well, it has many legs and Helmut looked confused,then grinned widely.
cannot be knocked over easily ... and it can go "The kitten just got up, stretched, glared at me,
almost anywhere it wants ... and (with growing and said it would tum back into the centipede!"
wonder) it doesn't want the boy to get hurt." "So what will you do the next time you are
I asked Helmut to say these things to the feeling sad and paralyzed?" I asked.
centipede, observing what, if anything, hap- "I'll go find a kitten to play with, and thank it
pened as he did. Helmut was ahead of me (a for reminding me that I realIy am free!"
delightful moment in therapy!) for he told the Spontaneous cheers rose up in the group.
centipede he appreciated its concern for the Helmut looked around as if aware of the others
boy's we II-being. The centipede smiled, "soft- for the first time, got up, did a little dance to the
ened," and curled up in a ball like a kitten. It accompaniment of laughter and clapping and
now was a kitten. more cheers. Later I heard two of the women in
(Comment: The work is not over, yet a very the group come up to him and say, "Meow?"
significant thing has happened There has been (Comment: For the most part I am skeptical
a major shift in an image. Over the years I ofthe "what willyou do next time? " approach.
have learned that these negative to neutral or Experience tells me it has little power to estab-
positive image shifts herald something akin to lish specific future behavior. I do believe it can
a redecision at the image or intrapsychic level. be effective, however, in underscoring a pres-
They are like earth shifts deep below the sur- ent change that has just taken place [from
face ofthe ground They can be powerful and paralyzed to free] and, like a posthypnotic
far-reachingfor the person experiencing them. suggestion, in creating mental options to stay-
Treat them with care, and rejoice in them.) ing stuck This isparticularly true when, as was
I asked Helmut what he wanted to do now in the case here, there is a strong element of
the imagery. The boy stepped gingerly out of the playfulness in the client's response.)
circle and ran to Helmut. Together they went
over and petted the kitten, who purred. All were Conclusion
enjoying themselves. Working with images in therapy has a strong
(Comment: Seemingly this would be a lovely tendency to tum clients on to their creative
place to stop. But I have a concern. A kitten is genius. This, in tum, produces several desirable
not an image ofstrength. What happened to the results. Clients are more likely to be aligned
power of the centipede-its ability not to be . with their own inner healing processes. It gives
knocked down and to go anywhere it wants? what Albert Schweitzer calIed ''the doctor who
And what happened to its sting? Image energy resides within" (Hamer, 1980, p. 135) a better
does not vanish into thin air. It always goes chance to go to work. AdditionalIy, because of
somewhere within the person. To kill an image this creativity, image work tends to be just
or to throw it over a cliff or banish itforever is downright fun for client, therapist, and other
usually an exercise in futility. The image may group members. Attention seldom wavers.
go-its energy remains.) Furthermore, due to their dramatic impact,
I asked Helmut what caused the kitten to purr. imagery experiences tend to be remembered,
He consulted, then replied, "It's content, know- sometimes for years. I have had former clients
ing that I will watch out for the boy." or trainees come up to me ten, even fifteen years
"And will you?" I asked. later and appreciatively reminisce about the
"Yes." changes they made the time they melted into the
"And will you help the boy go everywhere rainbow or received the golden ring from the
and explore the world?" wise old woman in the sun. I may have forgotten
"Yes," Helmut replied. completely; they remember vividly. AlI of this
"And what if you forget, or get careless, or get adds up to ample testimonyto the joy of imagery
wrapped up in your work?" work as a powerful part of psychotherapy.
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"Celebrating Wholeness"
14-16 August 1996
Calgary, Alberta, Canada