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Marriage
Definition:
Latin maritare, “to wed, marry, give in marriage,” refers to the contract made by the couple.
New Family Code of the Philippines (REPUBLIC ACT NO. 8533 July 6, 1987):
Marriage is
a special contract
of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law
for the establishment of conjugal and family life.
The Revised Code of Canon Law (Canon 1055 pa. 1)
Marriage is
a covenant
1. blood relationship
2. a gift of person, not merely an exchange of rights
3. total, involving spiritual, emotional, and physical joining
4. with GRACE
by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of their whole life
1. communion of life
2. union of the spouses on all levels of their human activity
3. not simply an attribute but MARRIAGE
and which by its very nature is ordered to the well-being of the spouses and to the procreation and upbringing of children
1. interrelated
2. This is what marriage is all about.
3. Conjugal act – more than a sexual contact, most intimate expression of human love ( GS,49)
Marriage between the baptized has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a SACRAMENT.
Reality of Marriage
Paradoxical Facets:
1. Heredity
- we inherit our basic personal traits
2. Environment
- conditioned by the people around us (verbal or visual)
3. Education
4. Sacramental grace
Basic trust is crucial not only for physical health but also for later emotional development because without it we cannot grow by letting go of the past and
risking new possibilities in the future.
“The chief lesson I have learned in a long life is that the only way to make a man trustworthy is to trust him; and the surest way to make him untrustworthy is to
distrust him and show your mistrust.”
- Henry L. Stimson
Intimacy usually connotes physical sexuality. Yet, sexuality is sharing of heart and spirit.
Affirmation is a way we are not something we do.
Only the person who can be moved inwardly by our goodness can affirm us. We cannot affirm ourselves; we can only receive affirmation as a free gift from
another.
Affirmation as a way of being and as a free gift is the foundation of intimacy.
Generativity includes care for others beyond one’s family, for future generations and the kind of world in which those generations will live.
Identity, intimacy and fertility are some issue encountered by people who are in their thirties and in mid-life crisis.
The age where one has accepted one’s life and is able to look back on his/her years with happiness and contentment and is consistent with God’s plan.