● Hey everyone!

I was wondering how you guys feel about letting those suckle that one
might normally not, for example those who are related or are family friends.
Has anyone tried or done it?
Also does it bother you (ladies esp.) if you were seen or being watched
while you fed your man/woman?

● February 11, 2020 at 5:19 pm#4430

SamParticipant

Wow! That one caught me way off guard. Goods question though. I guess
there is no real prohibition against nursing someone you are related to.
There are people here that are only looking for a nursing partner with
nothing added. But many of us are looking for someone to nurse and
eventually fall in love with and live out the rest of our lives with. The
prohibition in marriage to relatives is because our genes are too similar. It is
too easy for people that are realated to mate and have the same recessive
gene expressed. Recessive genes have a higher incidence of expressing
diseases (much like the puppy mill dogs that are often inbred with older
brothers and sisters). Many of us would love to have that relationship with a
nursing partner. So for those seeking this type relationship, it would not be
wise to seek to have it with a non-relative. But if it is just a fun non-sexual
nursing relationship I guess it would be fine to have it with a brother/sister
or cousin. Hope that helps.

○ February 11, 2020 at 11:55 pm#4431

LeoParticipant

Hi Sam,
Yeah valid points there for sure but I don’t know “marrying” your
feeding partner is usually the motive. I think/feel it’s more to do with
fantasy fulfillment and can extend to physical and emotional comfort.
Yes definitely sexual tension will always be there… I mean boobs right?!
lol (sorry don’t mean it in any wrong way).
What I was getting at was more about a) for the ladies – being inhibited
 about feeding openly and not worrying if someone saw or knew that
you breastfed your husband/bf-gf/lover… b) for the guys perspective –
do they see suckling objectively or do they see it solely as a sexual
interaction? Because it would be a factor for them at least whom they
would want and feel suckling more on.

● February 12, 2020 at 12:44 pm#4439

Jolly SteveParticipant

I induced lactation for my friend who was suffering from cancer n infact it
started as to help out a near one though we got intimated during feeding
sessions. I m quite okay in breastfeeding publically. It is a womans beauty
which shouldnt be hidden
So yeah i dont mind if my milk is of use to a near n dear one

● February 13, 2020 at 3:25 am#4451

Amy McCollumParticipant

To address both Sam’s and Leo’s points, it all depends on what you are
looking for. A lifestyle with a loving partner where nursing is just another
aspect or a fantasy that you want to fulfill. The beauty of ANR is it can be
either and a thousand things in between. As for nursing a relative I agree
with Sam. There are also lots of guys who they like to fantasize it is a
relative.
I would hate to try nursing in a public place, semipublic I’ve done. I really
prefer the comfort of skin on skin and privacy to create and enjoy the
bonding.

● June 11, 2020 at 4:55 am#12726

WillFriscoParticipant
Interesting Question, Leo – so I’ll ask this – what or who prompted you to
ask this, to put it out there?