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The key to TOTAL
and ABSOLUTE
Recovery
The following
Cognitive and Behavioural Skills
will help you do just that!
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Important!
These skills are NOT to help you
AVOID panic attacks
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Rapid Recovery Skills
Part 1.
Change the way you THINK!
Challenging the
MISINTERPRETATIONS!
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CATCH IT
1 - IDENTIFY the
unhelpful thoughts
(Misinterpretations)
CHALLENGE IT
2 - CHALLENGE those
thoughts - look at the
EVIDENCE
CHANGE IT
3 - CORRECT the thoughts -
RESTRUCTURE them
based on ACTUAL EVIDENCE
TEST IT
4 - Put the restructured thoughts
to the TEST with
Graduated Exposure Practice
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CATCH IT
Identify the unhelpful thoughts
Very often it seems like we didn’t ‘think’ anything - we just ‘felt’ terrible.
But if you go over the experience carefully you will be able to uncover
some of the thoughts that went through your mind.
Many people aren’t even aware that thoughts are flashing through their
mind faster than the speed of light especially during a panic attack.
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For instance, if you panic in a shop you may think “I need to get out of
here” - that thought is NOT the ‘fear’ thought - it is the ‘escape’ thought.
The fear thought would be the deeper thought that is CAUSING you to feel
a need to escape..
Downward Arrow Technique
SURFACE THOUGHT
‘I need to get out of here’
WHY? What do you think will happen if you DON’T get out?
DEEPER ‘FEAR’ THOUGHT
‘I will collapse’
Our deeper fears can vary according to whatever situation we are in. We may be
fearful about our physical health, our mental health, what other people are thinking,
our future and so on. In each case a particular question may help you uncover the
deeper fear.
That will set off many panic attacks it will cause me to panic and then i
for days to come will be in panic for a long time.
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DOWNWARD ARROW TECHNIQUE - MORE EXAMPLES
Feeling of Derealisation After you have been feeling okay for a while
I will lose my mind completely I will go back to the way I was and
and feel terrified FOREVER will stay that way for a long time
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DOWNWARD ARROW TECHNIQUE
WORKSHEET
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WHAT S
EN
HAPP ?
NEXT
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PA N I C S E Q U E N C E P R O F I L E - 1 TYPE OF REACTION
if. Catastrophising
SITUATION / TIME / PLACE Misinterpreting
I had been worried about going to the restaurant all Anticipatory Anxiety
day in case I had a panic attack
I felt a but ‘jittery’ during the day and WAS a bit Anticipatory Anxiety
worried incase I couldn’t sleep
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Below are some ideas to help you CHALLENGE inaccurate thoughts so that
you can CHANGE them to more accurate, rational responses.
CHALLENGE IT CHANGE IT
Is there any evidence that shows This is a very common symptom of anxiety -
that this thought isn’t accurate? I am having a panic attack and panic attacks
are scary but harmless.
Has this happened before - What I have felt this SO many times but the thing
was the outcome? I feared would happen has NEVER actually
happened.
Am I 100% certain that what I Going by past experience and the fact that this
fear will happen WILL happen? is a very common symptom of anxiety I can-
not really be certain anything bad will happen
Is there a clinical explanation for This is part of the Fight or Flight response - it
this symptom? is simply due to the effects of a surge of
adrenaline - I am in no actual danger.
Did the symptom increase as I got When I felt scared it felt like the symptom got
more anxious? why might that be worse. My fear caused a rush of adrenaline
and what might that show? which made the symptom increase
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Correcting
Common Misinterpretations
Let’s have a look at some of the most common misinterpretations
that people with panic disorder make and RESTRUCTURE each
one based on the actual EVIDENCE.
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• Your heart is an incredibly strong muscle that can beat rapidly and
continuously for a long period of time without causing any damage
• People who have actual heart attacks have something wrong with their
hearts in the first place
There is a big difference between what happens with your heart during
panic and what happens during an actual heart attack.
During a real heart attack the most common symptom is continuous pain
and a intense crushing feeling in the chest. With panic the main concern is
the rapid heart beat.
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• We IMAGINE we may faint during panic because we feel light headed and
dizzy - this can happen because we breath more rapidly which slightly
reduces the blood flow to the head.
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• When people panic they also tense their stomach very tightly which
causes them to have to take very shallow breaths or else they try to take
very deep breaths which can make them feel dizzy.
• If you simply LET GO of your stomach muscles you will feel air being
drawn in all by itself and your breathing will return to normal.
• Your body will automatically FORCE you to to breathe if you aren’t getting
enough oxygen - test this by holding your breath for a few minutes and see
what happens.
• You are NEVER in any danger of not breathing during a panic attack.
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If you shift your focus from the EXPERIENCE to the EXPERIENCER (the part
of you that is fearfully watching it all unfold) you will realise that YOU are OK
underneath it all - it is the ‘experience’ that is frightening - that is all.
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• If you keep a regular panic attack diary you will see that you may experience
these sensations again and again yet NOTHING ever happens except feeling
a lot of fear.
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You may FEEL that you might lose control but in actual
fact your subconscious mind is keeping you remarkably
focussed.
The reason we fear we might lose control is that as we feel the symptoms
increasing we picture them ‘spilling over’ until we are running around
screaming and shouting. This is pure CATASTROPHISATION.
With panic - we may at worst appear very anxious or flustered and have to
leave a situation - but we NEVER really ‘lose control’. It just FEELS like we will.
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The resulting sensations make us feel that something is wrong with our eyes
but it is just fight or flight sensations and nothing else.
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ACTUAL REALITY - With panic you feel much worse in your own
mind, other people may not even notice.
Keep it in perspective - the worst that will happen is that people may feel
concern for you or maybe see that you are very anxious - hardly a crime.
Even if you did throw your arms in the air and ran around shouting that the
world is filled with monsters.. in a few weeks time you KNOW you’d be
laughing about it - or at least worrying about something ELSE!
The reality is - people with panic are mostly very adept at hiding the fact that
they feel the world is just about to cave in on them.
Consider the fact that you often feel like you can’t go FURTHER on a journey
but when you decide to return to a ‘safe’ place you can generally get there
with some considerable speed!
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Keep in mind that this is a VERY common occurrence and again can not cause
you any actual harm.
These are perhaps the scariest symptoms of panic. It’s bad enough that you feel
that your health or sanity is under threat - but when you start to wonder about the
truth of your very existence that can be VERY scary indeed.
The feeling is so bizarre you really begin to question your sanity and wonder if you
will EVER return to ‘normality’
It is extremely hard for other people to understand this feeling which increases the
sense of alienation. Try describing THIS to someone.. not easy..
This is a VERY common experience with panic. When people are in ACTUAL
danger they often report that it ‘didn’t feel real’ - we accept this because we can
attach it to a cause - but without a cause we feel we are losing our ‘grip on reality’.
Treat this feeling like any other symptom of panic and apply the skills you learn in
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It is helpful to observe
that this TOO is a
form of panic and not
simply the ‘absolute
truth’ about your life
experience.
Claire Weekes in her book “Self Help For Your Nerves” describes these
thoughts as “Tired thoughts in a tired mind” - this is a wonderfully simple
description.
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OBSESSIONAL THOUGHTS
PANIC CYCLE
DISORDER
FIGHT OR FLIGHT
RESPONSE SYMPTOM MISINTERPRETING
Mind on ‘High Alert’ looking & CATASTROPHISING
for danger - sense of dread, Worry that you are going insane
can’t concentrate - agitation Worry that your life is falling apart
can’t relax, worried, Worry that you will never stop
mind ‘racing’ the thoughts
MENTAL PANIC
Overwhelming feeling of DESPERATE ATTEMPT
panic ABOUT the thoughts. TO BLOCK THE THOUGHTS
Increase in Adrenaline This increases our focus ON the
thoughts which causes more
thoughts to arise
Say to yourself - “Right, catch it, I’m having a mental panic attack, I’m
Catastrophising, these are just thoughts, let them be, it’s ok this happens with
panic, it’s normal, if I wait it will pass, let it do it’s worst, refocus, relax
stomach, look around, wait..”
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Obsessional Thoughts
A useful technique - shift to OBSERVER mode.
‘Who’ is it that says that?.. Clearly a part of you is NOT the thoughts. A part
of you doesn’t like or WANT the thoughts. A part of you is quite rational and
doesn’t want to be tormented BY these thoughts. It is like having an annoy-
ing song stuck in your head.
HOLD your attention on your observing self and let the thoughts ‘do their
thing’. Don’t fight or resist them, don’t try to get rid of them - just let them be
- they are ultimately JUST thoughts. If you get pulled into the thoughts step
back again.
This will give you some DISTANCE from the thoughts which will stop you
from adding misinterpretation and catastrophisation.
Practice this ‘observer mode’ as you go about your day and remind yourself
that this is very common with panic. Treat it like any other symptom, let it hap-
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DO THIS RIGHT AWAY - Print out several for each day of the
week.
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PA N I C AT T A C K D I A R Y - E X A M P L E
SYMPTOM CHECKER
√ Sweating
√ Palpitations / Heart racing Feeling ‘unreal’
Nausea
Churning stomach
Dizziness / faint Dry mouth Diarrhoea
Choking / ‘Lump in throat’ √ Hot / cold flushes √ Feelings of numbness
Tight chest √ Trembling / shaking Tingly fingers or face
Shortness of breath Tightness across head Floating feeling
‘Wobbly’ legs Blurred vision
This could be a sign of still move my arm just fine - it’s not painful
a stroke or paralysis
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Date Time Location / Situation / Activity Severity (from 0 to 10)
MAIN SYMPTOMS
Sweating Nausea
Palpitations / Heart racing Feeling ‘unreal’ Churning stomach
Dizziness / faint Dry mouth Diarrhoea
Choking / ‘Lump in throat’ Hot / cold flushes Feelings of numbness
Tight chest Trembling / shaking Tingly fingers or face
Shortness of breath Tightness across head Floating feeling
‘Wobbly’ legs Blurred vision
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Seeking escape
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Rapid Recovery Skills
Part 2.
ACCEPTANCE
BEHAVIOUR STRATEGIES
which will help you
REDUCE safety behaviour
& Sail
TEST restructured thoughts
through panic
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Don’t tense AGAINST the panic - ‘Let go’ TOWARDS the feelings
Tensing AGAINST the feelings creates MORE adrenaline! Imagine moving
forward to ‘greet’ the panic rather than ‘fight’ it. Panic cannot do you any
actual harm.
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And even if you DO stop the panic - Does that mean you have lost your fear? Maybe
temporarily but deep down the fear is completely intact. You would still believe that if you
hadn’t done the deep breathing - WHO KNOWS WHAT MIGHT HAVE HAPPENED!!
You may then think that since you can’t do deep breathing if you are outside or at work or in
a shop you better avoid those places and stick to places where you CAN do the breathing.
You can see that this doesn’t really deal with the FEAR of panic - it just prolongs it.
Now - let’s look at an alternative approach. Imagine again that you are feeling panic -
you are overwhelmed by fear - you feel you can’t get a breath..
Ok - first notice that you probably have tightened up - fight or flight is increasing.
Notice that and let go your stomach muscles - your breath will flow normally all by itself
Ground yourself - feel your feet on the floor - instead of focussing all your attention on the
feelings - pull back - take in your environment - let go all over.
Can you see how this is different? Rather than trying to stop the panic at all costs you have
met it half way. You stopped ADDING to the cycle of fear. There is a big difference in taking
a good deep breath because you realise you are holding your breath or your breathing is
shallow and ‘practicing’ deep breathing in a frantic attempt to STOP panic.
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Let the anxiety continue in the background - you don’t NEED to focus
on those sensations - they can’t do you any actual harm.
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It’s what you STOP doing that’s important. It is your stirring that is
causing the churning and remember, even after you stop stirring, it will
take TIME for the pond to settle.
It’s the same with panic - Every time you tense up, ‘think the worst’, or
even try too hard to relax you ‘stir’ the Fight or Flight response. You are
never in ANY danger even if you DO stir it up but the increase in
adrenaline will simply create more symptoms.
Next time panic arises - remember it is just a rush of adrenaline that has
become stirred up. Then LEAVE IT ALONE and STOP STIRRING. Let it
settle down. Imagine it swirling slower and slower. Remember it has a
certain amount of motion that will take TIME to slow down.
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Captain
fight or flight responses!
ADRENALINE
Even try going to the other extreme - say to yourself - “Ok - if it takes all day
- so what - it’s just adrenaline - I’m in no danger” This helps diffuse the sense
of ‘urgency’.
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Ultimate Acceptance # 1.
IGNORE the panic -
get on with your day - you can do it..
Facing and accepting the symptoms
doesn’t mean you have to sit motionless
with gritted teeth until you feel no more panic.
To truly face and ‘accept’ the feelings would mean to almost IGNORE them -
and get on with your day. After all, you are not in any actual danger.
When panic arises practice for a while but then carry on with life - either at
work or at home - watch TV - clean the house - call a friend - do some
gardening - but AS you do these things PRACTICE letting the panic happen -
in the background - with the attitude of - “go ahead - do your worst - it’s only
adrenaline”
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Don’t tense AGAINST the panic - ‘Let go’ TOWARDS the feelings
Panic can come in waves - RIDE the waves.. FLOAT through them.
Distract yourself if you feel you need to but face the feelings at the same time.
Ultimate Acceptance 1 - IGNORE the panic - get on with your day - why not?
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This then gives you a sense of being separate FROM your thoughts. When
you see thoughts as JUST thoughts you then feel more able to choose how
you want to REACT to them.
FOR EXAMPLE
THOUGHTS ARISE - “Oh no, I feel so dizzy, what is wrong with me, what if
I pass out, why is this happening to me, I am never going to get better”
EXAMPLE
SENSATION - Tingling in fingers / arm - we either
worriedly focus our attention on the tingling
which intensifies it - or we try to block it out by
focussing elsewhere - but the fear remains.
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5. Thought ‘labelling’
Instead of getting involved in the ‘details’ of a train of thought - give it an
overall ‘label’ - for instance - “I'm CATASTROPHISING again - that won’t
help..” - this stops the train long enough for you to GET OFF so that you can
think in a more rational way.
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“Has this happened before and what “Yes - I have felt this many times but
was the outcome? what I feared would happen never
actually happened”
“Now that you know about panic, is “This is just anxiety - I am in no real
it true that you are in real danger?” danger - it just feels terrifying”
“Are you ‘checking in’ on the “Yes - I should just let them be -
sensations to see if they have ‘gone after all I am in no danger..”
yet’?”
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So how on earth
are you going to
REMEMBER all this
if you panic?!
‘NORMALISING’
STATEMENTS
&
‘FLASHCARDS’
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NORMALISING Statements
When you feel your anxiety rising or you are in the middle of a
panic attack it is VERY difficult to ‘think straight’.
Also, when you say the statements - either out loud or into
yourself - try to say them calmly as if you were talking to
your whole body and mind.
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NORMALISING Statements
“No matter how many times I feel this I am NEVER in any ACTUAL
danger - it just feels horrible”
“These feelings can happen out of the blue - it’s very common”
“Just because I feel these sensations doesn’t mean I will always panic”
“No need to focus on every sensation - it’s anxiety - just adrenaline just
let it be - no need to catastrophise - I am in no danger”
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NORMALISING Statements
DURING PANIC
“I am in no danger at all”
I am NOT in any actual danger either physically or mentally
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NORMALISING Statements
DURING PANIC continued..
“I have felt this many times now and nothing happened except I felt
terrified - it will be the same now - nothing dangerous is going to
happen - it is just anxiety
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‘FLASHCARDS’
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EXAMPLE FLASHCARD
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FACING the panic will help me lose my fear of panic
“These are just anxiety symptoms - Fight or Flight...”
CATCH IT - CHECK IT - CHANGE IT
“It’s scary but I am in no danger at all”
Let go all over - Relax stomach
Feel feet on the floor - Look around - smile “It’s just ADRENALINE”
IT WILL PASS - adrenaline has a limit “Stop stirring - do nothing - let it settle”
ACCEPT the feelings - it’s just Fight or Flight “It takes TIME for it to settle down
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Visual Flashcard
FEELINGS ARISE
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FEELINGS ARISE
REACTION - Oh no ..here it comes (we tense up)
PRACTICE - “Hold on - catch it, stop fighting - it’s just adrenaline
REACTION - This one feels really bad...maybe I can’t get through this
one..
PRACTICE - There I go again...catch it .. ACCEPT - LET IT HAPPEN
relax TOWARDS the feelings even slightly
REACTION - I STILL feel awful ...this isn’t working ...I’m HOPELESS at
this ...I’ll NEVER be able to do this ...
PRACTICE - I HAVE to TRY...I was told I might feel like this ...this is
how it happens with everyone ...the PRACTICE will take time to work ..
Fighting it or running away is what is keeping it all going ...there is
nothing out to get me ..I’m just adding fear and getting caught up in
the anxiety cycle...if I choose to experience the feelings even slightly I
won’t have as much fear...
REACTION - I really HATE THIS !!!
PRACTICE - Stop stirring ..it will pass...got to PRACTICE.. have to
CHOOSE now this minute to PRACTICE
REACTION - this has gone on SO long ...what will become of me?
PRACTICE - STOP - THIS MOMENT is all that matters HERE...NOW.. I
can choose to PRACTICE with this NOW.
FEELINGS ARISE
PRACTICE - Okay ...stop fighting ...let go all over like a sponge ...
Let the feelings happen ...relax TOWARDS them ...let go...it will pass
...it will be okay ..I am in no real danger ...it is just adrenaline...stop
stirring it up...it will pass ...
PRACTICE - Let go ...let them BE...you have got through this many
times before...this TOO will pass
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So if you find it hard to remember the coping skills at least keep one
thing in mind... NO MATTER WHAT - PANIC IS NOT HARMFUL
NOT
HARMFUL..
NOT HARMFUL..
NOT HARMFUL..
NOT
HARMFUL..
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The reason we avoid too many ‘details’
You may wonder when you read through these workbooks why we don’t go into more details
about the various anxiety symptoms. There is a VERY good reason for this. It is the amount
of IMPORTANCE that you attach to a symptom that increases it.
I read posts on anxiety forums and people go into such DETAILS about symptoms - even
when they are trying to help. - but the focus is on the symptom and the technical medical
terminology and so on - NOT on letting GO of the FOCUS on the symptom - which is
actually the ONLY problem.
I too remember wanting a NAME for what I was feeling - I thought that would make me feel
better - but the truth is we are caught in a cycle - we don’t ‘have’ anything - we THINK we
‘have’ something and that’s the problem - that thought increases our anxiety which increases
the symptom.
Look at it this way - people who have overcome panic through exposure and acceptance
strategies no longer give a HOOT about the details of physical or mental sensations.
It is ANXIETY that makes you want to know more - it is a form of reassurance seeking.
We imagine that if we find out more technical details about symptoms it will help us get rid
of them. But it actually works against us.
I know you won’t believe this but you would RAPIDLY accelerate your recovery if you
NEVER again bothered about the intricate details of any symptom and instead concentrate
on GETTING USED TO symptoms as simply being harmless (albeit alarming) sensations.
It takes courage to begin with to stop trying to ‘figure it all out’ and find answers. You think if
you do that something bad might then happen. It won’t. We all think that. Think of how many
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• These skills are designed to help you FACE panic not AVOID it!
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You are now ready for
Workbook 3