The arms are not often the adaptor itself, but quite frequently
coconspirators with the hands, just as in regulating actions.
However, people can evolve such bizarre, idiosyncratic adaptors that a person might mill his arms together or rub wrists together to release nervous energy. The most common arms-only adaptors are men swinging arms back and forth in a large circle around their torsos and touching hands in the front or back. Others can include moving the arms in contact with an object when waiting or in high stress; this can be rubbing an arm against a chair or pressing hard with the arm into the torso in an attempt to control nervous energy. Remember that any movement done to release nervous energy so the person feels more comfortable is an adaptor until it becomes a habit. At that point, the idiosyncrasy becomes part of the baseline for the individual. Hands If asked to describe your hands without looking at them, you might find that difficult. Not true if I ask you to describe your face. That’s ironic, considering you probably look at your hands dozens of times a day and many times more often than you look at your face. Here is the difference: Your hands are tools, and, to some extent, you take them for granted. But in terms of body language, they are nearly as expressive as your face. Remember you also have a tendency to focus on these primary tools when you are stressed. When you gesture, adapt, illustrate, and regulate they are almost always a part of the sentence. Only when you barrier do they occasionally get left out. Even then, your “first tools” are busy at work signaling as you try to contain them. Review the photos of people with their arms crossed. What do you notice about the hands? There is no universal pattern for what to do with your hands when your arms are c