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This article is concerned with expansive models of orgasm, mainly associated with
‘‘Tantric’’ understanding and teachings. The authors compare clinical and Tantric
models, drawing from classical Tantric, traditional Taoist, shamanic and other
congruent contemporary sources. The article proposes a new understanding of
‘‘Tantric orgasm’’. Initially an analytical model is suggested, which includes
intra-, inter- and transpersonal aspects, and then a descriptive model of orgasm,
which emphasises the energetic component but includes physiological, cognitive,
affective and transpersonal qualities. The final section identifies potential
therapeutic applications and research applications and the authors propose that
associated techniques may help resolve psychosexual issues, including erectile
dysfunction, premature ejaculation and anorgasmia.
Keywords: Tantra, anorgasmia, erectile dysfunction, non-ejaculation,
psychosexual
The orgasm is no longer a mere biological function used in procreation, nor the side
effect of casual pleasure . . . it is the very centre of human experience and ultimately
determines the happiness of the human race. (Wilhelm Reich, 1983)
Introduction
The term ‘‘orgasm’’ might seem specific enough initially, in relation to the broader
context of human sexuality, yet ‘‘orgasm’’ has inspired a vast number of differing
perspectives: different descriptions, definitions, typologies, general understanding
and contextualization. The present study is primarily concerned with expansive
models of orgasm, mainly associated with Tantric understanding and teachings. It
briefly lays out medical and other widely accepted models around the subject of
orgasm and goes on to introduce Tantra and related traditions and to examine what
might be termed ‘‘Tantric orgasm’’ (TO), surveying relevant literature and the work
of some well-respected practitioners in the field.
Significant differences appear between the conventional understanding of orgasm
and TO: the authors’ own model emerges through this comparative survey. The new
understanding opens up new possibilities for practitioners and for patients seeking to
overcome psychosexual dysfunctions, as well as a range of other challenges, not
specifically sexual, such as depression. Whilst there have been comparable initial
studies demonstrating the health benefits of yoga, for example, the use of yoga to
resolve premature ejaculation (Dhikav, Karmarkar, Gupta, & Anand, 2007), there
are as yet few empirical studies supporting the benefits of TO. The authors consider
it important to propose practical, therapeutic applications, as well as to address
important concerns and to suggest ways in which this work may be furthered. The
authors’ hope is that this paper will elicit interest in further scientific study in this
field, especially regarding the potential benefits of using TO therapeutically.
Johnson split off the orgasmic response from the totality of the relationship and tried
to observe it as an objective measurable and quantifiable process, Reich saw the
orgastic experience as inseparable from the total response system and contact-ability
of a person’’ (p. 30).
These kinds of expansive descriptions, with particular emphasis on energy, find a
correlate in what may be termed ‘‘Tantric orgasm’’.
Tantra has always known that the acme of sexual experience brings about a state of bliss
that is a far cry from simply climaxing and produces a split from ordinary, waking
consciousness associated with the ego. (Van Lysebeth, 2002, p. 141)
(Note the author’s intentional use of the term ‘‘acme’’, rather than the more
conventional ‘‘orgasm’’, to describe TO, since it is a less limiting term of reference.)
From a psychotherapeutic perspective, our correlative study of Tantric and
related sources initially shows a three-dimensional model, the TO experience as a
whole enabling access to all or some of the three levels at any one time. The model
includes the:
The authors expect that this analytical model will be readily accessible to readers,
as it utilises familiar psychoanalytic concepts. The three-tier model will be shown to
operate across the range of TO descriptions and the aim of highlighting this in
advance is to reinforce a broadened perspective including a number of components
beyond physiological responses and the relational perspective. Such an approach is
essential in this discourse. Later on, a second model will be proposed, which
represents the TO process from an energetic perspective. The latter will be more
easily comprehended after the sources have been examined. In accordance with the
Tantric understanding, the present study supports the view that expansive, multi-
dimensional orgasmic states are natural and accessible to all, so that a wide
population may experience and benefit from TO (Wade, 2004).
The Ancient Chinese meridian system, as distinct from other energetic systems
discussed here, is generally familiar in the West, thanks to the spread of Traditional
Chinese Medicine. Concerning orgasm, it recognises the importance of orbital
circuits of energy, which direct sexual energy around the body (Chia, 1983).
The Taoists are concerned with the ‘‘cultivation of sexual energy’’. Men’s and
women’s practices are quite different and men ‘‘learn to control ejaculation and
achieve a full-body orgasm rather than merely a genital orgasm’’ (Chia & Wei, 2003,
p. 9). It is believed that gross energy (form, material) can literally be transformed into
subtle energy (formless, immaterial) and vice versa, so that men learn to transform
sperm into Chi (broadly meaning ‘‘energy’’, alternatively termed ‘‘Warm Current,
Kundalini Power or electro-magnetic life force’’ (Chia, 1983, p. 83) and, in so doing,
they ‘‘can become better lovers, more vibrant and youthful, and are able to activate
the compassionate energy in the heart’’. For women, on the other hand, ‘‘cultivating
sexual energy is a way to transform blood into Chi. Transforming sexual energy is
directly related to the menstrual cycle . . . this transformation leads to an abundance of
energy, balanced emotions, and internal power’’ (Chia & Wei, 2003, p. 9).
The Taoists teach specific sexual exercises (these might also be termed practices
or meditations), which can include breath, movement, self-massage, visualisation
and conscious mental direction and intention. For men, for example, there is
‘‘Testicle Breathing’’ and for women there is ‘‘Ovarian Breathing’’. Both sexes can
apply the ‘‘Orgasmic Upward Draw’’ (described in Chia, Chia, Abrams, & Abrams,
2000, pp. 77 ff.), which enables the ‘‘drawing up’’ of orgasmic energy, so that one
may experience a ‘‘brain orgasm’’ and, by extension, a ‘‘total body orgasm’’ (Chia &
Wei, 2003, p. 9). Sexual practices specific to men and women may be found in Chia
(2005; Chia & Abrams 2005; Chia & Abrams Arava, 2002; Chia et al., 2000).
In examining ‘‘Woman’s Sexual Response Cycle’’, Chia explicitly contrasts his
model of orgasm with that of Masters and Johnson and produces a very different
graphic representation (see Figure 1), with emphasis on extensive ‘‘valley orgasms’’
(Chia, 2005, pp. 30–33). Chia contrasts the traditional, genitally focussed model of
orgasm, which is ‘‘temporary, short and not continuous’’, an ‘‘outward orgasm’’
with energy pouring ‘‘outward’’, with the Taoist, ‘‘inward orgasm’’ or ‘‘organs’
orgasm’’, during which ‘‘the orgasm actually travels through all the organs, glands
and nervous systems, thrilling them and revitalizing them with the life force of
sexual, creative and generative energy . . . the kind of orgasm that the Taoists call
‘‘valley orgasm’’ . . . extended for the woman’’ (Chia, 2005, pp. 32–33) This is a view
of orgasm as an extended, whole-body experience.
According to the Taoists, ‘‘Orgasm is not simply a momentary release’’ (Chia
et al., 2000, p. 128). The Taoists affirm the capacity of both men and women to be
multi-orgasmic, experiencing extensive, full-body orgasms, circulating this energy
within the body and channelling it to each other in lovemaking, through specific
positions and conscious intention (see Chia & Wei, 2003, p. 34 ff.). The practice of
‘‘multiplying’’ orgasms is not just about multiplying pleasure, but also about
multiplying healing energy (Chia et al., 2000, pp. 129–130) – we note that the ability to
cultivate and circulate energy is crucial in TO, as is intention, both in raising and
directing the energy and in ‘‘applying’’ the orgasmic energy for the purpose of healing.
Once again, it is emphasized that ‘‘sexuality and spirituality are inextricably
linked for the Taoists’’ and sexual energy is seen as a ‘‘vital source of energy and
vitality’’ for people’s spiritual growth (Chia et al., 2000, p. 166). ‘‘Soul-Mating’’ is a
Taoist practice involving the exchange of sexual energy between partners in
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lovemaking and the experience of ‘‘soul orgasms’’ (Chia et al., 2000, p. 167). The
Taoists recognize a process of growth, personal development through the sexual
practices, and translate progression along the perceived continuum of energy from
gross to subtle into a progression from our sexual and emotional to our spiritual life
experience: ‘‘When we orgasm, we harmonize not only with our partner but also with
the world and its pulsations’’ (Chia et al., 2000, p. 175). Again we note the inter- and
transpersonal elements in this statement.
it into higher energy centres or chakras (Saraswati & Avinasha, 2002, pp. 191–192).
Re-stimulation results in new orgasmic peaks and plateaus, higher each time, the
instruction being to meditate at each plateau, in a tantric wave that can extend for
hours. The man can have several ‘‘internal orgasms’’, i.e., non-ejaculatory orgasms,
and the woman may ejaculate (Saraswati & Avinasha, 2002, p. 192). According to
this school, the un-trained woman’s climax lasts about six seconds. ‘‘But using the
transmutation processes, she can keep that explosion going as long as she
wishes . . . . Through mastery of Tantra both man and woman can have many
climaxes much more intense than they ever dreamed possible, charging the whole
nervous system, thrilling their entire body. For that moment their ego will be
dissolved and they will feel at one with the Ultimate Universal Unity’’ (Saraswati &
Avinasha, 2002, p. 193):
In Tantra you can extend the climax to many minutes. Tantra provides a system of
techniques for prolonging orgasm in order to experience Unity Consciousness. The state
of enlightenment has been described as perpetual orgasm . . . . In orgasm you are at one
with yourself, with your lover, with all creation, with God. There is no time, no past or
future, only total presence in the eternal now. The breath stops and the mind is empty.
And from this void comes profound love, divine joy and illuminating bliss. (Saraswati &
Avinasha, 2002, p. 27)
In addition, it is stressed that the use of Sexual Energy is creative; similar to the
Taoist approach, there is an inner alchemy and healing intent: ‘‘Tantric masters
knew that . . . the life force in the sperm and vaginal secretions could be extracted,
retained in the body to vitalize and rejuvenate the system, and projected to the brain
to awaken its sleeping potential’’ (Saraswati & Avinasha, 2002, p. 26). Finally, the
orgasmic experience is viewed as the ultimate meditation: in ‘‘the ecstasy of sexual
orgasm . . . one experiences union with the beloved. There is no separation, no ‘I’ as
apart from ‘you’ . . . we transcend into the state of Samadhi, blissful union between
the individual consciousness and the Cosmic’’ (Saraswati & Avinasha, 2002, p. 26).
‘‘mechanical habit’’ (p. 199). Clarkson comments: ‘‘Most men remember orgasming
well before they discovered ejaculation when they were boys. That natural orgasmic
reflex is still there. The body remembers’’ (Clarkson, 2003, p. 58).
Following from this is the prevalent idea that both men and women may
experience multiple and extended orgasm, which involves enhanced and varied
physical sensations (Carrellas, 2007; Clarkson, 2003; Deida, 1997; Mirdad, 2007).
Clarkson (2003) describes lengthy and attentive love-practices in which both men
and women can enjoy ‘‘multiple orgasms . . . which can go on for hours and hours’’
(p. 35).
Many modern practitioners expand their definition of TO to include diverse
affective states (Carrellas, 2007; Clarkson, 2003; Deida, 1997; Mirdad, 2007;
Sundahl, 2003), which Carrellas (2007), for example, labels ‘‘emotiongasms. . . . The
physiological ingredients of an emotiongasm are the same as genital orgasm. A
buildup of life force or sexual energy is brought about by a combination of breath,
movement, sound, and muscular contractions and is followed by a release. This
buildup and subsequent orgasmic release of life/sex energy doesn’t necessarily
depend on genital stimulation. Emotiongasms don’t even depend on any particular
emotion’’ (p. 83).
It is commonly accepted by TO practitioners that TO may occur independently
of genital stimulation, erotic context or the presence of an erotic partner (Carrellas,
2007; Mirdad, 2007; Stubbs, 2000). In Carrellas’ (2007) words, ‘‘The orgasmic energy
starts in the very centre of your being, then flows out to the limits of your body and
beyond. You may feel boundaryless . . . as if you are in a sort of alternate
universe. . . . Your orgasm is happening everywhere and nowhere, and it may go
on and on. Afterward you may feel energized, or you may feel peaceful and blessed-
out. . . . This kind of orgasm is not limited to sex, and it’s certainly not limited to the
genitals’’ (p. 82).
Modern practitioners emphasise the practical methods of attaining such
heightened states, as well as the capacity to heal, particularly sexual trauma, in
oneself and the potential to use this energy to transform one’s broader life experience
(Anand, 1995; Carrellas, 2007; Clarkson, 2003; Deida, 1997; Mirdad, 2007; Sundahl,
2003). Mirdad (2007) explains that ‘‘As we heal from sexual traumas and inhibitions,
our bodies and souls begin to feel liberated and therefore exhibit signs of letting go.
This releasing can manifest in various types of orgasm – including emotional
orgasms’’ (p. 129) Wade (2004) recognises ‘‘sacred sex’’ as healing trauma, where
engaging in sex changed ‘‘from an ordeal to a source of joy’’ (p. 92). In the final
chapter of Urban Tantra, Carrellas (2007) addresses the conscious direction of sexual
energy and orgasm with specific intent, primarily healing, also personal development
and other desired changes in our environment and life experience (p. 242 ff).
Clarkson (2003) and Wade (2004) highlight the accessibility of TO and note that
an expanded experience of orgasm is natural and may occur without specific
‘‘Tantric’’ training or use of special practices. Wade retells tales of expansive or
transcendent sex and has collected a large number of testimonials that describe
extraordinary experiences had by ordinary people in ordinary circumstances.
Inter-subjective and transpersonal experiences are also frequently mentioned,
including likening TO to ‘‘peak experiences’’ (Clarkson, 2003; Wade, 2004). Sources
also highlight, however, that the experiences of TO may be subtle and quiet rather
than explosive (Carrellas, 2007; Clarkson, 2003; Stubbs, 2000). Wade (2004)
recounts one interviewee’s experience of TO: ‘‘Any sense of separateness between us
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dissolved . . . like our bodies were part of the flow and ebb of all this energy and Spirit
body. We were all mixed together. . . . Body awareness merged with all the other
levels. It wasn’t that we weren’t aware of the body at all, but it was like transcending
the gross level of the body in a way and feeling an enormous tactile delight. That
delight was clearly beyond the body as well . . . both very aware and totally
beyond. . . . We were one moving, touching mass of energy and awareness, not two
separate poles of consciousness’’ (p. 84).
Although each practitioner holds their own model of TO, the authors’ survey of
the literature allows a synthesized model, drawn from multiple sources, to emerge.
An energetic model
Tantric orgasm includes and also transcends the plane of physical experience,
sensory focus on erogenous zones and genitals in a sexual/erotic context. This
experience focuses on varied types of energetic experiences, with generalised, whole-
body sensations, distinct affective content, broader contexts that are not specifically
(or at all) sexual or erotic and prolonged states of intensity (rather than the orgasmic
‘‘peaks’’ of Masters and Johnson’s understanding, though these also occur).
Intrapersonal, interpersonal and transpersonal experiences and various types of
altered consciousness states are also characteristic of ‘‘orgasm’’ in this expanded
model.
The way to effect such orgasms is also expanded: touch and specifically sexual/
erotic stimulation is, again, included (though not necessary) and surpassed by the use
of breath, primarily, sound and movement, visualization, intention and, generally,
various techniques that assist energetic charge and direction.
Our survey affirms that expanded or ‘‘Tantric’’ orgasm may be understood as an
energetic event primarily, experienced partly in the body. We, therefore, propose
three distinct stages for TO, namely:
This model is not necessarily linear. The phases of cultivation and movement of
energy can interchange indefinitely, followed by one or more occurrences of the
transmutation/projection phase. Prolonged practice generally heightens the energetic
charge and overall experience. Conventional and also Reichian understanding
speaks of discharging energy whereas in Tantra, the objective is to charge the
energetic system rather than release the sexual energy.
‘‘Orgasm’’ can occur in the first phase (genitally-focussed), in the second phase
(emotional and energetic orgasmic events, which may be combined with first-phase
orgasm) and in the third phase (more expansive and prolonged ‘‘altered’’ states,
which can include first- and second-phase orgasms). Direct physical stimulation is
not necessary for any of these experiences. The specific sensations can vary and may
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be focussed in the sex centre (physical, energetic or both), different parts of the body
(for example, the head or the heart, in a physical, energetic or dual way) or be
generalized, whole-body sensations. There may be shorter peak- or valley-orgasms
or prolonged peak- or valley-orgasms with varying levels of intensity and various
emotional, transpersonal or spiritual qualities.
These types of experiences may be more easily accessible between loving partners
or those who are using tantric/Taoist/expanded sexual techniques, but can also occur
spontaneously on one’s own or with a partner, irrespectively of the context, whether
or not this is erotic, but also irrespectively of specialist training and the presence or
absence of a romantic relationship.
The fields of bodywork, sexual therapy and counselling and existing practices
that are based on Bioenergetic models clearly lend themselves to the application of
TO techniques, as the previous examples suggest. Perhaps the range of therapeutic
modalities that embrace TO practices could be broadened to include other types of
psychotherapy and counselling. Tantric orgasm techniques may often be taught
without any need for physical contact with the patient. Bodyworkers in fields such as
holistic massage, traditional types of healing massage (e.g. Shiatsu), osteopathy,
physiotherapy and other types of specialized bodywork could embrace energetic
techniques and genital massage for enhanced therapeutic effect, if this seems
appropriate for clients.
Based on sources and personal experience, the authors propose that ‘‘Tantric’’
practices and similar expanded sexuality techniques represent a natural, holistic and
accessible way to resolve sexual dysfunction in men and women, including intimacy
issues, psychological blocks around sexuality, libidinal imbalances, premature
ejaculation, erectile dysfunctions and anorgasmia.
We recognize the lack of clinical research in this field. For example, to the
authors’ knowledge, medical science has not even investigated the many accounts of
non-ejaculatory orgasm. However, anecdotally, the authors’ own practices see clients
presenting with a wide range of psychosexual dysfunctions and broader emotional
issues. Clients receiving training in TO and related practices report an increased
sense of self-worth, greater aliveness, creativity and greater satisfaction in sexual
experiences. Anorgasmic clients also report becoming orgasmic after experiencing
TO.
Male clients suffering from ejaculatory dysfunctions report improvement through
use of ‘‘Tantric’’ techniques. Depressed clients report an improvement in the state of
their depression. We propose that clinical studies should be carried out to test the
validity of these statements. Tantric orgasm techniques are regularly used by
practitioners, including the authors, to support clients who have erectile dysfunction.
The authors suggest that further studies should be pursued to test the efficacy of this
method for such men, which method is cost effective, non-pharmacological and non-
invasive.
As noted from the case study of Kenneth Ray Stubbs himself, TO has also been
used to re-connect with sexual response even after severe spinal injury and the
authors suggest that it could be used correspondingly in both men and women.
Furthermore, we propose that applying the principle of honouring, which is core
to the concept of sacred sexuality and which underpins Tantric practices, helps to
alleviate low self-image and low self-esteem in individuals. The authors anecdotal
experience leads us to believe that such honouring supports clients in overcoming
feelings or guilt, shame and otherwise irreconcilable sexual and spiritual quests,
generalized fears, anxiety and resultant psychological blocks and mental unease.
Self-loathing and self-harming could be addressed through Tantric healing, which
honours the body as a Divine vehicle.
For healthy individuals, TO techniques could help to maintain positive
psychological and emotional states and to enhance relationships and quality of life.
It is hoped that increased scientific interest will help to maximize the benefits of
this work. As medical research scientists continue to develop their tools and
understanding, there may be more scientific data around sexual and energetic
phenomena and their therapeutic applications. A first step might be to study the
phenomenon and benefits of non-ejaculatory orgasms in men, for example in
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Notes on contributors
Mike Lousada is a psychosexual somatics practitioner and Tantra teacher. He supports clients
in resolving psychosexual issues, using an approach combining cognitive techniques with
bodywork. He incorporates psychosynthesis counselling, as well as influences from many
disciplines, including body psychotherapy, bioenergetics, polyvagal theory, somatic experien-
cing and spiritual understanding from his Tantric teachers.
Elena Angel is a Tantric practitioner, teacher and healer, using mainly Tantric and Taoist
practices, psychotherapeutic, bioenergetic techniques and hypnosis and has developed her own
psychosomatic applications, Trance-Bodywork and Associative Bodily Re-patterning to treat
psychosexual, relationship and intimacy issues. Other influences include NLP, Somatic
Experiencing, Shamanism and other forms of energetic healing.
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