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Number session the session 4th june,2020 Class Activity - Book chapter In this section the book author addresses teenagers by Book summary: The 7 setting out the understanding about our own power summary habits of highly towards our actions and habits. He gave them tools to effective teens survive in their teenage years. These habits authors by Sean Covey. set as our way to ease teenager years are ; Be part 1, part 2 proactive, Begin with the end in mind, Put first thing and habit # 4 first, Think win-win, seek first to understand then to be understood, synergize and sharpen the saw. The first three habits deals with self mastery called ‘the private victory’, the other three deals with relationship and teamwork called ‘ the public victory’ and the one last is of renewal that feeds the all other six habits. he explained that these habits are unaware repetition of our actions however can be changed and worked on. The author made a way through these parts by suggesting different techniques in order to move towards personal growth. He talked about paradigms and principles. Paradigms are perceptions about different things in life. paradigm about self, others and life in general exist for everyone. If these paradigms are set negatively then it will limit a person. He also talked about personal bank accounts in which we can do transactions of our thoughts. we can deposit positive and helpful habits while withdrawing negative and harmful habits. this all we do in baby steps and achieve our goals. We set goals by making a personal mission statement in which we deeply analyze our goals to be achieved and list them all either small or big.
i opt habit 4 which is ‘think win-win’ in which there are
no thoughts of losing. This habit is all about maintaining our relationship by positive attitude in which there is a win on both sides. it’s an act of keeping all others on the same level as you are and thinking of their winning position also. as the author said it’s a mental framework of ‘ i can win and so can you’. the author pointed out some negative and poor attitudes towards life which do not assure the winning on both sides. These attitudes are ; ‘win-lose’, lose-win and lose-lose. in all of these win-win is the attitude that takes up to the much higher level in front of ourselves and others. it’s an act of experiencing win and having all your people winning. you want them to win and at the same time you also care about yourself. it’s the important yet the tough one.