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This paper highlights dynamics that may interfere with the therapist's
identifying and addressing the erotic transference: (1) deficient training;
(2) theoretical orientations that devalue the transference while espousing
a "real" relationship including self-disclosure; (3) countertransference
responses to the erotic transference; and (4) clinical errors of focusing on
the manifest erotic transference while overlooking significant but latent
pre-oedipal, oedipal, aggressive, or self-object issues. Inattention to these
dynamics may render the therapist vulnerable to sexual acting out with his
patient.
This past decade has seen the recognition of a major ethical, professional problem
among psychotherapists: sexual exploitation by therapists of their patients.1,2 This
paper suggests that one dynamic that could lead to doctor-patient sexual acting
out, may be the therapist's mismanagement of the erotic transference. This paper
focuses on three related issues: (1) theoretical and technical problems in
identifying and managing the erotic transference; (2) latent meanings of the erotic
transference; and (3) some countertransferential issues in dealing with the erotic
transference. The therapist's inattention to these issues may encourage
inappropriate elaboration of the erotic transference and/or inappropriately encou-
rage the patient to act out sexually.
This paper is written from the perspective of a male therapist treating a
female patient in psychoanalytically oriented psychotherapy or psychoanalysis
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since most cases of exploitation involve a male therapist with a female patient.
The term "erotic transference" is defined as it is broadly and commonly
used in the psychoanalytic literature; any transference in which the patient's
fantasies contain elements that are primarily reverential, romantic, intimate,
sensual or sexual.3-5 Generally speaking, mismanaging the "erotic transference"
may have its roots in (1) the naïve therapist who is unable to identify, or actively
denies, the existence of the transference; (2) the therapist with counter-
transferential problems; (3) psychopathic therapists who are repeat offenders and
consciously prey on female patients; (4) the psychotic therapist who sexually
exploits patients because of delusional commands.
This paper will first address those therapists whose difficulty addressing
the erotic transference reflect theoretical and technical problems acknowledging
or understanding the transference itself. It will then focus on common counter-
transference problems that pressure the therapist to avoid or mismanage
addressing the erotic transference. These therapists fall into the first two
categories and constitute a large percentage of clinicians with difficulty dealing
with the erotic transference. Focusing on predator or psychotic therapists—those
in categories three and four—is beyond the scope of this paper. The final section
of this paper deals with difficulties that emerge from a lack of clarity about the
latent meanings of the erotic transference.
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violations that may result in the therapist's acting out sexually with his patient.
Why is the transference not recognized as such? As I have alluded to,
possible because the therapist is naïve, with little training in understanding or
identifying the transference; or the therapist has countertransference difficulties
such as a need for an idealized self-object transference—as I will later describe.
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OEDIPAL ISSUES
Even for a therapist who is able to identify his patient's adoring attitudes
as transferential, difficulties may occur because the therapist is not able to
recognize that the erotic transference may cloak another more germane but latent
transference. The following vignette illustrates some vicissitudes of the erotic
transference, and underlines how the erotic transference may signal the existence
of another disguised transference which must be identified and addressed:
Vignette 1
Early in therapy, after he returned from a one-week vacation break, Dr. X,
the therapist, was confronted by his patient, Ms. A, who said to him, "You would
like to have sex with me, wouldn't you? I would like that too. We want to have
sex with each other, don't we now?"
This confrontation was quite forward, with Ms. A looking Dr. X straight
in the eye as she continued: "I think you are more interested in that other patient
you see just before me, but I tell you, I can show you a better time sexually, any
night of the year. Even right now, here."
Please note that the manifest content is that of a patient wishing a sexual
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OEDIPAL ISSUES
In some patients, the erotic transference may reflect oedipal concerns.
Vignette 2
Ms. B showed her erotic concerns by stating: "I've been having thoughts
about you lately. They're kind of embarrassing to talk about. They make me feel
silly. They're quite personal. I am not sure why I am having them. They are kind
of, you know, physical, romantic. I don’t know what they mean."
In this scenario, the patient experiences these thoughts as fantasies, as
something to be explored. In addition, there is a sense of embarrassment, guilt,
and shame, that also speaks to their oedipal cast. Characterologically, there is
little evidence of primitive defenses, such as denial, projection, and splitting, that
would be seen in earlier, pre-oedipal situations. Additionally, one might expect
no history of difficulties in separation individuation, but rather a history of a
strong, exclusive relationship with the father. With this patient, interpretations
would take the form of comments such as: "You wish me to be involved with you
in a very passionate way that excludes anyone else—in the same way you
remember your relationship with your father during that time your mom was sick
in hospital."
AGGRESSIVE ISSUES
What seems to be an "erotic transference," may also cloak certain
significant aggressive issues, 13 as the following vignette illustrates:
Vignette 3
From the initial time she presented for evaluation, Ms. C presented in a
provocative, flirtatious and highly sexual manner. She would languidly cross and
uncross her legs, her mini-skirt slipping higher up her thigh; her crotch just barely
visible in the shadow of her skirt. She responded to the therapist's questions about
her psychosexual development with comments such as: "You seem awfully
interested in my sex life, doctor, and you seem a wee bit uptight about it. I notice
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Vignette 4
Ms. D, a twenty-three year old, single woman, developed a strong erotic
attachment to her therapist. She said to him: "I wish you were free to marry me. I
wish it could be done. I really think that you are the kindest, most understanding,
warmest human being in the world. I keep having this idea that if we could be
married and be together my problems would be solved. I feel so good in your
presence. Just seeing you calms me down."
On many occasions, this therapist had viewed this sexualized idealization
as a defense against angry, envious feelings—but to no avail. Nor could he find
any evidence of the "return of the repressed" that would speak to such aggressive
impulses. Similarly, he could find no evidence of a split-transference: people in
this patient's life whom she saw in a devalued manner. Additionally, any time he
attempted to interpret these reverential feelings by commenting on the
hypothesized underlying aggression, Ms. D became more distraught.
Only by paying attention to how anxious and fragmented she became any
time he attempted to "interpret away" her reverential feelings, did this therapist
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SUMMARY
REFERENCES
1. Kardener, S.H., Fuller, M., & Mensh, I.N. (1973). A survey of physicians' attitudes
and practices regarding erotic and non-erotic contact with patients. American
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2. Gartrell, N., Herman, J., Olarte, et al. (1989). Prevalence of psychiatrist-patient
sexual contact. In G.O. Gabbard (Ed.), Sexual exploitation in professional
relationships, pp. 3-13. Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Press.
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