21 THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNED AS I TURN 21. (This may or may not be true to you.

Wag ka gagalit)

1. Teenagers lang tayo for almost 2555 days or 7 years, kaya gawin mo mga gusto mong gawin. Bleach your hair,
confess to your crush, cut that bangs, go get that tattoo you wanted (paalam ka pag meron na gayahin nyo
kapatid ko arggh)or go join the dance troupe (until now gusto pero di ko nagawa kaya do it for me char) as long
as wala kang nasasaktan or natatapakan na ibang tao, including urself.
2. ACCEPT COMPLIMENTS POLITELY! A simple thank you instead of denying it. It has the power of kind words that
can change their perspective in life char.
3. Treat yourself even in the simplest way possible.
4. You are not responsible to make somebody change or be better. You can give them advices or opinions pero
they can accept or reject them. Thus, it is your responsibility to make yourself better.
5. Always count your blessings. It can help you to realize that you have a good life. It can also help you when
dealing with bad days.
6. When having a rough day, allow yourself to be sad but just for a moment or a period of time and then move
forward, continue living. Sabi nga nila Daanan mo lang ang problema wag mong tambayan.
7. Sometimes you need those bad days, because it will help you appreciate the good ones.
8. Know your worth. Never settle for less than you deserve. It’s not pride, its self-respect.
9. Stop the bad habit of pretending that you can do everything and anything. It’s okay to admit and accept your
limitations. YOU SHOULD ALSO LEARN TO SAY NO.
10. Good and real friends will always understand your NOs. (except pag inom HAHAHAHA mag tatampo pa yan tas
next inom ikaw bibili alak char)
11. Those people who hates you for being you or doing what makes you happy are the people who doesn’t have the
guts to be themselves, pag inggit pikit. Char
12. If you truly love what you are doing and it makes you happy, master the art of DEADMA and rejecting people’s
opinion. You are way bigger than your kapitbahay’s chismis! Partida I live in Espeleta. Char. (basahin mo Mill of
the Gods para ma gets mo char ulet.)
13. There is a huge difference between surviving, living and thriving.
14. You can always move on from heartbreaks, trust time that is known for having the ability to heal almost
everything and trust the process. It may take a while but it is all worth it.
15. There is a fine line between self-love and self-centeredness. I hope you’re standing on the good and right side.
No more issues this year hehe

16. Allow yourself to be a beginner in everything that is new for you. Learning is fun! Especially pag walang deadline
ahhahahaha
17. You can always start over.
18. Influence is powerful. Surround yourself with friends who have positive impact to you.
19. WAKE UP EARLY! Dati palagi akong late nagigising but I’ve changed odiba maaga na ako nagigising pero late
bumabangon ng higaan hehe
20. Time will come that your squad/circle of friends will live their own lives, pursue and become serious with their
dreams and they will no longer be always available for you and I hope you’re ready for that , always root for
them remember that the love they have for you will never change.
21. And Lastly, Lagi kang maging mabuti sa iba, kahit minsan hindi mabuti ang iba sayo. Instead of revenge try to
understand and again DEADMA.
AGAIN, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME! CHEERS TO MORE LEARNINGS!