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THE FAMILY
(EU112 - F017 - TTh 7:30 - 8:30)
As cellular phones
marked their grand arrival in the
country in the early 2000’s,
young gentlemen used to court
their desired ladies through
cellular phones. Becoming
textmates and callmates was
actually the most trending
courtship medium in the Philippines for the past several years and had brought
about both boon and bane effects toward the persons involved in such gesture.
As the relationship between textmates or callmates blossoms to a much higher
level, it is but a sweet move for a gentleman to grant a free cellphone load to
her woman.
PRE-MARITAL SEX IS BECOMING A TREND…
"We texted about everything under the sun and moon, on our likes and
dislikes, aspirations and goals, and our lives and family. We grew so fond of each
other and so two weeks later, we decided to meet in person. I remember how
fast my heart was beating during that time. I felt a bit of awkwardness at first
having to transfer our conversation from texting to in person, but shortly after, it
was almost as if like we’ve been together for a long time."
Kline said he and Nico eventually realized they were already in love with
each other.
They always make it a point to find time for each other despite the busy
schedules they have.
"We make everything work by making sure that we always give time,
embracing and respecting each other’s differences, and giving one another
the personal space that we all deserve. We feel so grateful to many things
especially to our supportive families who accepted us and are always there and
making sure that God is the center of our relationship." —Rappler.com
I had just previously exited four disappointing chat sessions in succession, and
I told myself the next one would be my last random chat for the night. I pressed
‘Start Chat’ and ended up chatting with Chris. We exchanged Yahoo! ID’s and
didn’t stop chatting till 8 a.m.
The more we talked to each other, the more we fell for each other. There were
no mind games, no pakipot moves, no chasing after each other—just
straightforward honesty. We mirrored each other’s hopes, dreams, and values
despite being raised with different backgrounds. It didn’t take long for us to
know that we wanted to marry each other and raise a family together.
Den was dating another girl, so we were just friends at first. We’d talk about
bands and gigs, and sometimes he’d ask me to send him picture messages
through our Nokia 3310 phones.
On the day of my birthday, I was out with my roommates to celebrate, and Den
happened to be nearby. That’s how we first met in person. On our second
meeting, we officially became a couple.
Honestly at first, I didn't think it would last because we had only met online and
kept it up through text. But look at us! We've been together for 15 years now.”
MODERN LOVE STORIES…
CHESKA AND GILBEY
“The fact that he asked his employer to let him leave a week early just to
see me before I go made an impression on me and my family. Then as we
continued our UK-Saudi LDR, our communication was consistent and he still
made efforts to be with me whether it be in UK or Philippines. Moreover, from the
very beginning, he never made me feel guilty nor stop me from wanting to travel
and work abroad. For me, these were the major instances that made me think
he was The One.”
“Be open to the idea that you can find love anywhere if you’ve learned to love
yourself and believe that you deserve a man whose purpose in life is to make
you happy.”
MODERN LOVE STORIES…
“I messaged her in the app, but she wasn’t replying. (Turned out, she
already uninstalled the app.) I saw her Facebook connected to her Tinder profile.
I messaged her, without really hoping she would reply, but to my surprise, she
accommodated all my questions, though a little “suplada.” I asked her if we
could meet in person and she agreed. We met and, from there, I knew it was her.
I knew she was “the one” for me. She was wearing her uniform from work, and
the moment I saw her, I experienced that cliche, cinematic scene from those
romantic movies we usually see. Everything went blurry, and suddenly, all I could
see was this woman, Tracy. We dated the whole week until I had to depart for
Oman. On the last day of my vacation, Tracy said yes to me.
“My advice, the love of your life is out there. Don’t give up and think that
you will never find him/her. Wherever you are, no matter what time it is, destiny
or fate, remember you’ll be with the one for you in God’s right timing. It may be
through Tinder, friends, or social media. Just be patient and let love come to you
naturally.”
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