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Chapter 19- "The Ninth Tuesday- We Talk About How Love Goes On"
In the 19th chapter, Morrie and Albom talk about love. The previous day, someone had asked Morrie if he
was afraid of being forgotten after he was dead. His response is, “I don’t think I will be. I’ve got so many
people who have been involved with me in close, intimate ways. And love is how you stay alive, even
after you are gone”. Albom describes how he loves the way Morrie greets him upon his entrance. Albom
admires how Morrie has such a talent as to make each person feel special when they are around him.
Morrie tells him how important it is to stay focused and to only be present with the people who are around
you. He thinks that so many people are in a hurry and do not find the time to even engage in a real
conversation without thinking of something else.
Chapter 20- "The Tenth Tuesday- We Talk About Marriage"
On this tenth Tuesday, Albom brings his wife to meet Morrie. Albom had called Morrie earlier in the week
to see how he was feeling and he asked to talk to Albom’s wife, Janine. When she got off the phone with
Morrie, she told him she was coming on the next trip. They talk and Morrie asks about her career as a
professional singer and he asks her to sing something for him. She sang a 1930’s song written by Ray
Noble. When she finished singing, Albom noticed tears running down Morrie’s face. He and Morrie then
discuss marriage and Morrie shares with him what he has learned through his many years of marriage.
Morrie says, “[i]f you don’t respect the other person, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble”. He tells Albom
that you must have the same belief in the importance of marriage if the relationship is going to work.
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Tuesdays With Morrie Summary
Tuesdays with Morrie is the final lesson between a college professor, Morrie, and one of
his long lost students and the author of the book, Mitch Albom. After seeing his professor in
an interview on the show "Nightline," the author is reminded of a promise he made sixteen years
ago to keep in touch with him. Now stricken with ALS, Morrie does not have much time left,
and Mitch recognizes this fact. He travels from Michigan to Massachusetts to meet with him.
This meeting goes well and affects Mitch and Morrie so much that they meet for the next
fourteen consecutive Tuesdays, up until Morrie passes away. During each of these meetings,
they discuss a different topic about life. These topics make up the content of the book and
include death, love, culture, marriage, regret and the world we live in, among many others. The
reader feels many emotions while reading this book, ranging from happiness to sadness, and
more than likely, will be wiping away tears at the end. It makes the reader think about their own
life and ponder aging, forgiveness, family, compassion, and mentors in life, just as Mitch
Albom does during the course of the book.
Mitch Albom, the author, writes about the lessons he received from his teacher,
Morrie. Morrie gave these life lessons while struggling with a life-threatening
disease — ALS. Mitch has compiled every lesson he received from his teacher in
this one book.
"Study me in my slow and patient demise. Watch what happens to me. Learn
with me," Morrie tells him. When someone is on their deathbed, their view
towards life can change; they can realize what is important and what is not. As
Mitch says in the book, "Morrie would walk that final bridge between life and
death, and narrate the trip."
Here are the most powerful lessons I learned from the book.
Morrie is happy that he has time to say goodbye to his loved ones thanks to his
disease, which is slowly moving him closer to death. Morrie calls himself lucky; I
am not sure if, under the circumstances he was in, I would call myself that. When
I read his explanation to using this word, I understand what he means. He
suggests doing what Buddhists do, which is: "Every day, have a little bird on your
shoulder that asks, 'Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do?
Am I being the person I want to be?'"
These simple words have a pool of information for each one of us. We must be
ready to say goodbye to the world, any given day. How many of us can say that
they are ready to die today? Of course, we may never be ready for death, but we
must try to show our loved ones how much we care about them. We should not
wait for a special occasion to express our love; we should make a habit of it. We
should give our best to the world. Starting today, we should have a little bird on
our shoulders too.
Most of us have a tendency of taking our family for granted. If it is a Friday night,
we start planning our outing with the friends. Sometimes, we have to be forced to
spend time with our parents on holidays. Life is fun with friends and parties with
them; however, the bond of love, which we share with our parents, is the ultimate
one. Instead of keeping them at the bottom of our priority list, we must cherish
and appreciate them whenever we get a chance.
One should not hide from any emotion, rather one must experience each emotion
entirely. If you love someone, love them with all you have; if you are sad, cry until
you cannot cry anymore; so that when the same emotion hits you again, you
know exactly what is going to happen. We hide ourselves from emotions
because we are afraid to get hurt.
Being a lover of luxurious things, I am still trying to absorb this idea. However, I
agree with the explanation of Morrie. According to him: "If you’re trying to show
off for people at the top, forget it. They will look down at you anyhow. And if
you’re trying to show off for people at the bottom, forget it. They will only envy
you. Status will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float
equally between everyone." We are blindly running behind money; we forget our
kids, parents, relationships, and friends.
We are busy. We are always busy. Busy has become a word that is being used
as an excuse all over the world. At the end of the day, money will only get us a
good hospital bed to die in — and a good headstone. Is that what we are aiming
for? Of course, money is important, but it is not more important than our family.
One may argue that to take care of our family, we need money. That is true.
However, if we do not have time to spare for our loving family, then I believe
there is a problem with our plan.
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6. Marry the person with the same values as you — and treat them well
As per Morrie, people should get to know about other people’s values and
beliefs; marry the person who shares your values and beliefs. A life partner is a
very important part of our life. In our time of need, friends may come and go, but
our life partner will be with us. During sickness, they are the ones who take care
of us. Therefore, they should be treated with love, care and respect. As Morrie
quotes a famous saying: "Love each other or perish."
7. Decide your own rules; do not let society steer your life
Morrie says that people are running behind things that do not — necessarily —
matter to them. He says that we must believe in each other and ourselves.
According to him: "Invest in the human family. Invest in people. Build a little
community of those you love and who love you." He mentions we should rely on
our own instincts to decide our thought process and actions — and not society. In
his own words: "I don’t mean you disregard every rule of your community... The
little things, I can obey. But the big things — how we think, what we value — that
you must choose yourself. You can’t let anyone — or any society — determine
those for you."
We tend to hold grudges in life. Even if somebody apologizes, how many of us —
truly — forgive the person? We may smile and accept, but there is a huge
possibility that we do not forgive them. Forgiving another person not only
releases a burden of one’s own heart, but also makes us a better person.
Mitch visits Morrie, who greets him enthusiastically. Morrie notices that
Mitch is unhappy and observes that a life of regrets is almost as sad as death.
Mitch realizes that he still has a lot to learn from Morrie and visits him every
Tuesday for the next fourteen weeks.
During their meetings, Mitch and Morrie discuss death, self-pity, family,
marriage, aging, and a wife variety of other topics. Morrie is surprisingly
upbeat in the face of his illness, and he's grateful to his ALS for giving him a
chance to reflect on the past before he dies.
Over the weeks, Morrie's health deteriorates. He's confined to a
wheelchair, and eventually he's reduced to asking someone else to wipe his
behind. On the thirteenth Tuesday, Mitch arrives to find Morrie on oxygen after
an accident. Four days after the fourteenth visit, Morrie dies peacefully. Mitch
witnesses the internment of Morrie's ashes.
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Mitch is stunned to see his old teacher on television. During the years since
his graduation, Mitch has tried but failed to make a living as a musician. The
death of a close relative instills in him a sense of urgency to do something
significant with his life, and he turns to journalism as a career. Mitch works
obsessively, burying himself in accomplishments in a single-minded but
ultimately unsuccessful pursuit of happiness. Because of his frenetic lifestyle,
Mitch has cut himself off from all his past acquaintances, and forgotten the
lessons Morrie had taught about relationships and "being human." Seeing the
dying man on television rekindles old yearnings, however, and Mitch is drawn
to visit his former mentor.
Morrie greets Mitch with unqualified joy, but Mitch reacts with feelings of guilt.
Mitch is not the idealistic, sensitive young man he had been when he was in
college; he has become jaded, having "traded lots of dreams for a bigger
paycheck." Morrie asks Mitch if he is at peace with himself, and Mitch can only
squirm uncomfortably in response. Morrie says that dying is only one thing
that brings sadness; living unhappily has the same effect. His words strike a
cord with the troubled young man, and, upon returning from a short business
trip, Mitch arranges to visit Morrie again on Tuesday, in what essentially
becomes the opening session of the professor's last class, a class for one.
Mitch and Morrie slip easily back into their old manner of college dialogue
during their first Tuesday meeting. Observing the havoc the disease is
wreaking on Morrie's once vigorous body, Mitch is astonished at the positivity
his teacher shows in facing his inexorable decline. Morrie calls death "the
great equalizer," because it allows him to better understand the suffering of
others. He is thankful to have been given the time to reflect on the important
things in life before he dies.
The topic of the second Tuesday class is self-pity. Morrie, who has every
reason to feel sorry for himself, tells Mitch that he consciously imposes "a
daily limit on self-pity," a few tearful minutes in the mornings when he allows
himself to mourn before focusing on the good things in his life and carrying on
with his day. Mitch learns to lift Morrie from his wheelchair to his recliner, and
as he holds his mentor's wasted body, he knows that for Morrie, time is truly
running out. Mitch brings a tape recorder to their third session, during which
Morrie talks about living...
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Although Tuesdays With Morrie is the story of the death of a human being, its
focus is paradoxically less about death than it is a call to life. For Morrie,
accepting the fact that one might die at any time is the key to living well.
Facing death, one sees things differently, and is able to focus on what is
essential in life. Instead of blindly trying to amass the material things which
are purported to bring happiness, one is drawn instead to appreciate and
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Tuesdays With Morrie is that rare piece of work which has both depth of
meaning and tremendous universal appeal. Deceptively brief and easy to
read, the book was on the New York Times Best Sellers list for over two
hundred weeks after its initial publication in 1997. In the book, the author,
Mitch Albom, recounts his weekly meetings with his mentor Morrie Schwartz
over the final fourteen weeks of the old professor's life, organizing the material
appealingly like a course syllabus, complete with descriptions of audiovisuals
and an outline of topics to be discussed during each class period. The author
intersperses brief flashbacks at regular intervals in the framework, providing
background for the two main characters—himself and Morrie—so that the
reader can better understand their relationship. There is no grading involved
in Morrie's last class, in keeping with his philosophy of withholding judgement
upon others. Instead of a graduation ceremony, there is a funeral. The tone of
the book is intensely personal, and its format lends itself to reader
involvement. Mitch and Morrie reveal themselves in simple dialogue and the
reader quickly gets to know them as friends.
People face death every day, but it is when one becomes terminally ill that
contemplating the meaning of a life, and of life itself, becomes most
compelling. The emotional journeys of those who are dying are intensely
personal and usually private affairs. Such was not the case for Morrie
Schwartz, a beloved professor of sociology for many years at Brandeis
University. Diagnosed in 1994 with Lou Gehrig’s disease (amyotrophic lateral
sclerosis or ALS), he chose to share the experience of dying and the truths he
had learned through living, and they became the subject of a book treasured
by millions of readers. One of the most acclaimed memoirs of all
time, Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom stayed on the New York
Timesbest-seller list for four years, sold 14 million copies, and was translated
into forty-one languages. The book was made into the most-watched TV
movie of 1999, which starred Hank Azaria and Jack Lemmon, the latter in the
final role of his life; the movie won several Emmy Awards. Tuesdays with
Morriealso was produced as an off-Broadway play.
eNotes lesson plans have been written, tested, and approved by working
classroom teachers. The main components of each plan are the following:
Each plan is divided into a teacher and a student edition. The teacher edition
provides complete answer keys.
On the first chapter of the story, the author was talking about the last class of his professor’s
life. As Morrie’s only Student, he explains the subject is the meaning of life. And it flashes back to the
graduation day, He describes Morrie as his favorite professor and he introduced Morrie to his parents. He
described Morrie as a small man who takes small steps, as if a strong wind cloud, at any time, whisk him
up into the clouds. Morrie was one of the Mitch’s favorite professors at Brandeis University. After he
introduced Morrie to his parents and give his favorite professor a briefcase for a gift. He hugs Mitch after
he gave the briefcase and when Morrie steps back, he can see that Morrie is crying. On the next chapter
Mitch knew that there is something bad was coming. Mitch knew it on the day that Morrie gave up on
dancing. Morrie is always been a dancer, no matter what the music is. Morrie loved to dance to any music
but when he got to sixties Morrie developed asthma and his breathing became labored. One day he was
walking along the Charles River, and a cold burst of wind left him choking for air. He was rushed to the
hospital and injected with Adrenalin. Years after, Morrie started to have trouble walking that leads to
another happening. Some says that it is just because of his age but he knew that something else was
wrong that this is more than being old. He had trouble sleeping and he also dreamt about him dying that is
not a good sign. Morrie started to see doctors, they tested his blood and his urines. They also see his
intestines but there’s nothing could be found, one doctor ordered a muscle biopsy, taking a small piece
out of Morrie’s calf. Morrie is diagnosed with ALS or Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, which is also known
as Lou Gehrig’s disease. The doctor told him he would eventually die. When Morrie comes out of the
doctor’s office with the horrible news, he asks himself, “do I wither up and disappear, or do I make the
best of my time left?” Morrie decides to continue living his life to the fullest and keep swimming, with the
help of a homecare worker, and even insists on spending his last year teaching at the University. Years
after he promised to keep in touch, he admits, “I did not keep in touch”. He forgot about all his college
friends, and only occasionally thinks about Morrie. He moved to New York City with high hopes of
becoming a musician. However, after the death of his uncle he soon realized his life was too short to
waste time on unappreciated music. He decides to continue his education at Columbia University,
obtaining his Masters Degree in Journalism. He finds the first job available, a sports writer, and writes
about famous athletes. He moved from New York to Florida and eventually moved to Detroit. In a few
years, he is writing sports books, hosting radio shows, and even appearing on TV. He meets his current
wife, Janine, and continues to work. It seems that Mitch was trying to make the most of his life by
accepting job after job, accomplishment after accomplishment. Morrie began writing “bite-sized
philosophies about living with death's shadow”. One of his fellow professors at Brandeis University sends
them to a Boston Globe reporter and a long article is written about Morrie and what he is facing. The
article fascinated a producer of the “Nightline”, a well-known talk show, and he contacts Ted Koppel, the
most famous interviewer in America, to see if he would like to talk to Morrie. One evening as Albom was
flipping through the television channels, he heard the voice of Ted Koppel ask, “[w]ho is Morrie
Schwartz?”. The chapter then flashes back to the first time Mitch met Morrie: it was their first class
together in the spring of 1976. It was a small class and Morrie asked Mitch what he preferred to be called.
After telling Morrie that his friends call him “Mitch”, Morrie told him that he hopes one day Albom will think
of him as a friend. ”, Albom arrives at Morrie’s house still on the phone with a producer about one of his
stories. He does not want to end the call so he pretends he is looking for something in his car. Later,
Albom feels guilty for ignoring his old professor and pretending to search for his keys. When Morrie sees
Albom, he hugs him with so much affection, after almost sixteen years of not seeing him. The two sit in the
house and Morrie begins to speak about his upcoming death. Albom states, “[a]lthough I was unaware of
it, our last class had just begun”. This chapter flashbacks to Mitch’s college years; Mitch nicknamed Morrie
“Coach” and recalls the lunches they ate together in the cafeteria. Albom and Morrie talk for over two
hours that day, mostly about Morrie’s sickness. Albom begins to wonder what happened to him, why he is
nothing like he was when he was in college. When Morrie talks about how popular he is because he is
dying, Mitch thinks, “what happened to me?” Morrie shows Albom how weak he is by doing a easy
breathing test. Mitch eventually leaves to catch his flight home and hugs Morrie good-bye. Albom goes
back to when he was buying books on Morrie’s reading list. He began appreciating the study of human
relations and caught Morrie’s contagious passion for books. They would often talk after class and he even
talked to Morrie about how confusing his life is. A few weeks after his visit with Morrie, Mitch flies to
London to cover Wimbledon. He notices the slough of printed tabloids and hungry reporters around him.
He thinks of Morrie and their conversation. “I remembered what Morrie said during our visit: ‘The culture
we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if
the culture doesn’t work, don’t buy it.’” When Mitch arrives back in Detroit, the unions at his newspaper
had gone on strike. Mitch was currently out of his newspaper job. He called Morrie and the two agreed to
meet again the following Tuesday. The chapter then flashes back to Mitch’s sophomore year in college
when he began to meet Morrie outside of the classroom for discussions. Mitch talks to Morrie about his
aspirations in life because Morrie listens, unlike Mitch’s father who wants him to be a lawyer. On the first
Tuesday Morrie and Mitch talk about what is going on in the world then Morrie cries because he feels
close to the people who are suffering. On the second Tuesday they talk about if they feel sorry for
themselves. They also think about life and love. On the third Tuesday, A few weeks after his visit with
Morrie, Mitch flies to London to cover Wimbledon. He notices the slough of printed tabloids and hungry
reporters around him. He thinks of Morrie and their conversation. “I remembered what Morrie said during
our visit: ‘The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be
strong enough to say if the culture doesn’t work, don’t buy it.’” When Mitch arrives back in Detroit, the
unions at his newspaper had gone on strike. Mitch was currently out of his newspaper job. He called
Morrie and the two agreed to meet again the following Tuesday. The chapter then flashes back to Mitch’s
sophomore year in college when he began to meet Morrie outside of the classroom for discussions. Mitch
talks to Morrie about his aspirations in life because Morrie listens, unlike Mitch’s father who wants him to
be a lawyer.