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THE BIG IDEAS True Success


Greatness of Spirit
A New Philosophy of Excellence - A joyful approach to work, love,
THAT’s what we’re after!
and play that restores the missing ingredient in life...
BY TOM MORRIS · A BERKLEY BOOK © 1994 · 294 PAGES
The Question
How can I make my contribution?

High Goals
Dig deep into your heart. “The kind of success I am most interested in is the sort available to every human
being living, breathing, thinking, and doing things on this earth. It does not require
Embrace Failure
Build your confidence. wealth, fame, power or high social status. It needs not involve aspiring to any of
How to PLAN for Success these things. But it does require making the most of what we are, for the benefit
Prepair, launch, adjust, network. of others as well as ourselves. It means making a difference and experiencing the
Consistency deep satisfaction that brings. It means using your talents and following your heart.
= Empowerment. It involves being true to yourself and being good to others.”
Does Your Work ~ Tom Morris from True Success
Feed the fire of your heart?

What Is Good Character? Tom Morris rocks.


A question worth exploring.
A former Professor at Notre Dame with a joint Ph.D. in Philosophy and Religious Studies from
A Capacity to Enjoy Yale, Tom’s one of my favorite writers and teachers.
Let’s enjoy each moment!
One of the reasons I enjoy his work so much is that he’s able to blend a super enthusiastic, fun,
even audacious approach to life with a perspective grounded in the practical wisdom of the ages.
Makes for a magical blend. :)

In this great book, Morris outlines the seven conditions of True Success:

1. We need a clear conception of what we want, a vivid vision, a goal or set of goals powerfully
imagined.

2. We need a strong confidence that we can attain our goals.

3. We need a focused concentration on what it takes to reach our goal.


“The happiest people in
4. We need a stubborn consistency in pursuing our vision, a determined persistence in thought
the world are people who and action.
love what they are doing,
5. We need an emotional commitment to the importance of what we’re doing, and to the
regardless of whether
people with whom we’re doing it.
wealth, fame, power and
6. We need a good character to guide us and keep us on a proper course.
elevated social status
ever come their way. The 7. We need a capacity to enjoy the process along the way.
most fulfilled people are A chapter is dedicated to each of those conditions and the book is packed with Big Ideas, so let’s
individuals who delight in jump in! :)
their work, whatever it
might be, and strive to do it SEEKING GREATNESS OF SPIRIT
well.” “As reported by Plato in his famous Apology, Socrates was convinced that most of us approach
~ Tom Morris life backwards. We give the most attention to the least important things and the least attention
to the most important things. It was his firm belief that “wealth does not bring about excellence,
but excellence brings about wealth and all other public and private blessings for men.” It was the
state of our souls that was most important to Socrates. The inner life of each person. Greatness
of spirit. Wisdom. Inner excellence. When we give precedence to the inner, both inner and outer

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fall into place. When we follow the opposite course, nothing will give us what we truly need. Only
emptiness will result.”

“Philosophy, as a “love of Amen!


wisdom,” must be, at its Although most of the self-development world seems to be more interested in helping us acquire
best, a love of living wisely, fame, wealth, power and status, the fact is that true happiness and fulfillment come from the
and a love of attaining inside-out.
wisdom about living by and
Morris begins the book by establishing the fact that going after these external markers of
through both the act of
“success” just isn’t gonna get the job done. True success, from his perspective, comes from a
living and the practice of commitment to developing our own greatness of spirit.
carefully reflecting on that
In The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (see Notes), Stephen Covey tells us “I believe that
lived experience.”
a life of integrity is the most fundamental source of personal worth. I do not agree with the
~ Tom Morris
popular success literature that says that self-esteem is primarily a matter of mind set, of
attitude—that you can psych yourself into peace of mind. Peace of mind comes when your life is
in harmony with true principles and values and in no other way.”

Covey sums it up with this great line: “Private Victory precedes Public Victory. Algebra comes
before calculus.”

One of my favorite Positive Psychologists, Sonja Lyubomirsky (see Notes on The How of
Happiness), tells us that about 50% of our happiness come from our genetic set points and that,
at best, only 10% of our happiness comes from external stuff like wealth, physical attractiveness
or our jobs. The other 40%? That’s under our control.

As she says: “What makes up this 40 percent? Besides our genes and the situations that we
confront, there is one critical thing left: our behavior. Thus the key to happiness lies not in
changing our genetic makeup (which is impossible) and not in changing our circumstances
(i.e., seeking wealth or attractiveness or better colleagues, which is usually impractical), but
in our daily intentional activities. With this in mind, our pie chart illustrates the potential of
the 40 percent that is within our ability to control, the 40 percent for room to maneuver, for
opportunities to increase or decrease our happiness levels through what we do in our daily
lives and how we think.”

So, we know both philosophically and scientifically, that the truly Good Life—one that leads to
an abundance of joy, meaning and lasting happiness and fulfillment, comes from living a life of
virtue. Let’s check out some of Tom’s other brilliant Big Ideas on how to rock it! :)

HOW CAN I MAKE MY CONTRIBUTION TO THE WORLD?


“The desire to have, to acquire and possess, is in principle insatiable, and rarely generates the
“We should always have sense of fulfillment and happiness it promises. By contrast, only the desire to do, to produce,
as our primary goals clear to contribute, or to give can reliably, when acted on, yield the true sense of satisfaction we all
focal targets of creation, deeply need. The conclusion I draw from this is that each of us should be guided in our goal
contribution, and participation setting by the simple question: “How can I best make my contribution to the world?” In our own

in life to the fullest. The priorities, doing should always precede having. Only then will we have what we most truly need.”

positive consequences of Having a clear idea of what we want is the first condition of True Success.
recognition that may result
The challenge is that we’re often told by self-help gurus that it’s all about visualizing ourselves
can be enjoyed immensely, but on a tropical beach with a tan and sexy people around us while we’re told to create a vision board
should always be secondary with our new mansion on the cliffs overlooking the crashing waves (next to the 10 houses we
consequences.” bought for our parents, family, etc.).
~ Tom Morris
Of course, there’s nothing inherently *wrong* with enjoying beautiful things in our lives
(and aspiring to enjoy a certain level of luxury) but when acquiring those things becomes our

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dominant focus, we’re in for a rude awakening.

“It’s not wrong to want For two reasons: 1) The ONLY way you’re ever going to get any of that stuff is by working
resources. It’s not wrong *really* *really* hard and creating a significant amount of value in the world; and, 2) Even if you
to have as a goal the eventually get those material possessions, you’re still not going to get what you REALLY want

positive recognition and (which is happiness) unless, in the process, you’ve also optimized your mind, invested energy
into your relationships and really feel like you’ve made a lasting contribution to the world.
respect of other people.
But money, fame, power, and So, let’s put the vision board in the closet for a moment (gasp!) and start with a fresh sheet of
social status should never paper. Write in the middle of it: “How can I best make my contribution to the world?”
be our primary focus.” And mind map the bliss out of that. Then work hard. With joy, energy and enthusiasm as you
~ Tom Morris give yourself most fully to the world!

P.S. To see a YouTube video on how I mind map, Google “YouTube + PhilosophersNotes + How
I Mind Map” or click here! :)

How about a little more philosophical Morris mojo on the subject of goal setting?

HIGH GOALS
“Setting high goals is not necessarily a matter of striving to become a company president,
CEO, or governor of your state. It doesn’t require planning to be the number-one salesman in
“Nothing contributes so the country or to write a runaway best-seller book. Stretching yourself doesn’t have to mean
much to tranquilize the increasing your income, fame, power, or social status at all. It means digging deep into your
mind as a steady purpose—a own heart, finding what you’re capable of and what you love, and not settling for anything
point on which the soul else. It means not narrowing yourself but exercising and enjoying every aspect of who you are.
may fix its intellectual eye.” It involves discovering your own personal excellence, your own best path to fulfillment, and
~ Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley walking it every day. These are what I think of as high goals.”

Love that.

So, to repeat: Setting high goals is NOT about external stuff/seeing how much fame/power/
“If we want the boldness
wealth you can accumulate. The world doesn’t need another Oprah and you don’t need to be on
to pursue new goals, we
Oprah to be a success.
should not allow ourselves
to dwell imaginatively too So let’s shift from that manic focus on being Big Time and get back to the question “How can I
best make my contribution to the world?”
much on the possible risks
of failure.” For some, THE most important contribution might be (and should be!) to be an amazing mom

~ Tom Morris
or dad—spending LESS time going after all the bling and signs of outward success and spending
MORE time with your kids on their homework or teaching them these kinds of Big Ideas.

In my experience, as we get all geeked up about creating an authentically awesome life, it’s really
“One thing we must do with easy to get seduced by all the stuff our society tells us we need. Namely, the fame, power, wealth
any success we attain is to and social status. But, again, those are, at best, BY-PRODUCTS of living a life of integrity and
use it to launch ourselves inner wisdom.
onto the next quest for So, let’s step back, dig deep into our own hearts, find out what we’re capable of and how we can
a new success. Whenever create our most authentically awesome lives—on OUR terms and in harmony with true wisdom.
you attain your goals, you
need new goals. Right away. EMBRACE FAILURE
Otherwise you risk the
“A lack of failure in a person’s life often indicates a lack of effort, a policy of playing it safe. It
near certain ennui of literal usually signals a lack of risk taking, a dearth of innovation and experiment. People who are
aimlessness.” stretching themselves, trying new things, and setting high goals will try some dead-end streets
~ Tom Morris along the way. At least they’re out there moving, searching, testing and learning. A lack of any
failure may be the greatest failure—in the life of a business or in the life of an individual.”

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This wisdom on embracing failure comes from the second chapter on the importance of having
“Confidence to See Us Through.” Fact is, as we put ourselves out there and really challenge
“Fear is the darkroom ourselves we WILL fail. Period.
in which negatives are
In The Pursuit of Perfect (see Notes), Tal Ben-Shahar goes so far as to say: “One of the wishes
developed.”
that I always have for my students is that they should fail more often (although they are
~ Tom Morris understandably not thrilled to hear me tell them so). If they fail frequently, it means that they
try frequently, that they put themselves on the line and challenge themselves. It is only from the
experience of challenging ourselves that we learn and grow, and we often develop and mature
much more from our failures than from our successes. Moreover, when we put ourselves on the
line, when we fall down and get up again, we become stronger and more resilient.”

And, as Alexandra and I push our edges and test out all kinds of ideas (from where we want to
live to how we want to run our businesses), we love to remind ourselves of Michael Beckwith’s
genius concept of mis-takes from Spiritual Liberation (see Notes): “A conscious realization of
“You can’t please everybody. our innate oneness with the Ineffable does not mean that we will never make a mistake again.
Even enlightened beings burn their bagels once in a while. It’s important to maintain a sense of
Don’t even try. And don’t let
humor because this is how you will stop being afraid of making a mistake. You’ll make some,
it bother you.“
but so what? That’s why they’re called mis-takes. Humor relaxes the uptight ego. You get a
~ Tom Morris
new cue from your inner Self and simply say, ‘I missed my cue, so let’s do a second take.’ Your
willingness to take the risk of making a mistake is actually an expression of courage and a
willingness to grow from them. Mistakes are about getting the blessing in the lesson and the
lesson in the blessing.”

So, back to you: Are you playing it a little too safe?

How can you push your edges a little more and take some more risks. Or, if you’re currently
experiencing a setback, how can you see it from a broader, more confident perspective—where
you can see the strength you’re building and the distinctions you’re making for your next
awesome push?!

Confidence. It’s HUGE. Let’s build more and more of it!

HOW TO PLAN FOR SUCCESS


“The most consistently “If you want success in anything, you need to PLAN:
lucky people happen to
Prepare for your journey.
be those who are most
Launch out in action.
prepared.” Adjust as you go.
~ Tom Morris Network with those who know.”

The third chapter is all about “A Concentration on What It Takes” and Morris goes into detail on
his PLAN.

Prepare. Launch. Adjust. Network.

Great stuff.

CONSISTENCY = EMPOWERMENT
“Consistency of the highest sort is empowerment. Our goals and values, the commitments we
make to guide our paths through life, must be embodied in our thoughts, actions, emotions,
and attitudes on a consistent basis if they are to make the kind of difference for us that they
are capable of making. Without consistent embodiment, our greatest visions are just dreams.
Consistency of the right kind always enhances our prospects for seeing our dreams become
realities. It moves us along in the direction we have chosen.”

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Consistency. It’s the fourth essential ingredient in True Success.
“Many people think the key
to success is hard work. Call it integrity or coherence or a “higher sort of consistency”—it’s clear the commitments we
make in our lives MUST “be embodied in our thoughts, actions, emotions, and attitudes on a
And that is important. Very
consistent basis” if we’re gonna rock it.
important. But it’s more
important to work smart.” Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi puts it this way in his classic book Flow (see Notes): “Someone
who knows his desires and works with purpose to achieve them is a person whose feelings,
~ Tom Morris
thoughts, and actions are congruent with one another, and is therefore a person who has
achieved inner harmony.”

Here’s to consistent inner harmony!

“When love and skill WORK THAT FEEDS THE FIRES OF OUR HEART
work together, expect a “Are you doing what you love? Are you working at something that sets you aflame? That feeds
masterpiece.” the fires of your heart? If not, why not? Make a change. Do something else. Or else just love what
~ John Ruskin you do. Put your heart into it. Now.”

Well that makes it pretty straightforward, eh? :)

If we’re gonna honor the fifth element of True Success, “A Commitment of Emotion,” we’ve gotta
put our hearts into our work.

As Kahlil Gibran tells us in The Prophet (still need to do a Note on that one! :): “Work is love
made visible. And if you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you
should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with
joy. For if you break bread with indifference, you bake bitter bread that feeds but half a man’s
“Many people have the wrong hunger. And if you grudge the crushing of grapes, your grudge distills a poison in the wine.
idea of what constitutes And if you sing though as angels, and love not the singing, you muffle man’s ears to the voices
happiness. It is not attained of the day and the voices of the night.”
through self-gratification, And Carlos Castaneda brings the point home in a passage I often like to share: “Anything is one
but through fidelity to a of a million paths. Therefore, a warrior must always keep in mind that a path is only a path; if
worthy purpose.” he feels that he should not follow it, he must not stay with it under any conditions. His decision
~ Helen Keller to keep on that path or to leave it must be free of fear or ambition. He must look at every path
closely and deliberately. There is a question that a warrior has to ask, mandatorily: ‘Does this
path have a heart?’”

So, two choices here: Love what you’re currently doing or do something you love.

Please don’t hang out in between. Your family, your community and your world need more from
you, yo! :)

“Enjoyment is not meant to WHAT IS GOOD CHARACTER?


be the final end state of a “What is good character? Having a good character involves integrity, honesty, patience, courage,
long and arduous process kindness, generosity of spirit, and having a strong sense of personal responsibility, among many
of attainment. It is meant other qualities. It’s amazing to me how little we talk about such things nowadays.”
to be woven through
Character. It’s the 6th essential component to True Success.
the tapestry of our lives
*now.* In the present. And As Morris says, it’s amazing how little we talk about virtuous living these days. In Mastery (see

throughout the process Notes), George Leonard tells us: “If you’re planning to embark on a master’s journey, you
might find yourself bucking current trends in American life. Our hyped-up consumerist society
along the way.”
is engaged, in fact, in an all out war on mastery.”
~ Tom Morris
Yet, we KNOW that living with character is essential to our well-being.

So, here’s to diligently, patiently, persistently and playfully putting in the time and effort

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necessary to develop our courage, kindness, generosity, optimism, honesty, integrity and other
virtues that constitute wonderful character!

A CAPACITY TO ENJOY
“The success of inner “True success is best thought of not as a far-off destination, or an end state of any kind, but
achievement, personal as a process, a dynamic process of successful living. As we attain valuable goals that are right
excellence, and moral for us, renew our vision, move toward new goals that have then become appropriate for us,
concern moving out into the and properly attaining them, while building up our own personal excellence, as well as strong,
world and making a positive healthy relations with the people around us, we are experiencing small individual successes
difference can be our within an overall process of successful living. The only guaranteed way to enjoy success within
aim. And it should be. In our lives is to learn to enjoy the process along the way, in its many facets. Dreaming, scheming,

the end, living a life geared striving, wrestling—whatever we are doing at the present moment—can be enjoyed. It need not
be just endured as we wait on some future enjoyment that we think some far-off ultimate success
toward true success is the
will bring.”
only sensible way to live.
It is the only way to have Enjoyment. It’s the seventh element of True Success. What’s the point of all our striving and
a thoroughly meaningful growth if we’re not enjoying the process?!
and completely fulfilling Tal Ben-Shahar also captures it beautifully in his great book Happier (see Notes for his brilliant
existence.” description of the various archetypes!): “Attaining lasting happiness requires that we enjoy the
~ Tom Morris journey on our way toward a destination we deem valuable. Happiness is not about making it
to the peak of the mountain nor is it about climbing aimlessly around the mountain; happiness
is the experience of climbing toward the peak.”

Here’s to creating an authentically awesome life as we embody the wisdom of the 7 C’s of True
Success!

Brian Johnson,
Chief Philosopher

If you liked this Note, About the Author of “True Success”


you’ll probably like… TOM MORRIS

The Art of Achievement


Tom Morris has become one of the most active business speakers in America,
The How of Happiness with clients that include General Motors, Merrill Lynch, IBM, the U.S. Air
The Happiness Hypothesis Force, MBNA Bank, and International Paper. He has published twelve books,
including If Artistotle Ran General Motors, True Success, and Philosophy for
The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People Dummies. A former professor of philosophy at the University of Notre Dame, he
is now chairman of the Morris Institute for Human Values in Wilmington, North
Mastery
Carolina. (from the book - learn more about Tom at www.MorrisInstitute.org)
Happier
The Pursuit of Perfect About the Author of This Note
BRIAN JOHNSON

Brian Johnson is a lover of wisdom (aka a “Philosopher”) and a passionate


student of life who’s committed to inspiring and empowering millions of people
to live their greatest lives as he studies, embodies and shares the universal truths
of optimal living. He harts his job.

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