INTRODUCTION
As discussed in the previous lessons, every field of study, at least in the
social sciences, have their own research, definition, and conceptualization of self
and identity. Some are similar while some specific only in their field. Each field also
has thousands of research on self and identity as well as related or synonymous
terms. The trend of the lessons also seems to
t (i.e. culturesand society) down:to:the:individual. However,
it must be pointed out that modern researches acknowledge the contributions of
each field and this is not some sort of a nurture vs. nature, society/culture vs.
individual/brain, and other social sciences vs. psychology debate may
focus on the individual and the cognitive functions, but it does not discount the
context and other possible factors that affect the individual. For students who take
up psychology, discussions on theories, and development, among others actually
take at least one semester and there are still more to be learned about the concept
of “self.” This lesson provides an overview of the themes of psychology regarding
the said concept. _J
ABSTRACTION
In confidence or in an attempt to avoid further analytical discussions, a lot
of people say. “| am who | am.” Yet, this statement still begs the question “if you are
who you are. then who are you that makes you who you are?”
As mentioned earlier, there are various definitions of the “self and other
similar or interchangeable concepts in psychology. Simply put, ‘Seifiismihemsense
ofpersonanidenttmancdifiwhowwe.aieasindviduals Whangiani and Tarry 2014)
was one of the earliest psychologists to study the self
and ie self as
—the “land theme.” The “I is
the thinking, acting, and feeling self (Gleitman, Gross, and Reisberg 2011, Hogg
and Vaughan 2010). The “me” on the other hand, is the physical characteristics
oma SR RRR‘as weil as psychological capabilites that makes who you are (Glertman ry,
and Reisberg 2011. Hogg and Vaughan 2010) Gurimbtumeanss® (195 u et
(GERBREIM\so used the same terms. the “las —— ”
while the “me” 1s what you think Br feel about yourself as an Obfect (Gieitn,,
Gross. and Reisberg 2011)
Other concepts similar to self are identity and self-concept Ndentiny
composed of personal characteristics, social roles and responsibilities a
as affiliations that define who one is (Oyserman, Elmore. and Smith 2012 Sa
efind- when-you-are-asked about whg
«aig, (Oyserman, Elmore, and Smith 2012).
‘Self, identity, and'self-concept are not fixed in one time frame. For exampg
when you are asked about who you are, you can say “I was a varsity player ins.
Grade” which pertains to the past, “a college student” which may be the presen
and “a future politician” which is the future. They are not also fixed for life nor an
they ever-changing at every moment. Think of a malleable metal, strong and har:
but can be bent and molded in other shapes. Think about water. It can take ary
shape of the container. but at its core, it is still the same element.
(Gleitman, Gross
and Reisberg 2011; Jhangiani and Tarry 2014). Imagine an organized list or a
diagram similar to the one below:
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oe lit oaThe €8R@AIB is not limited to the example above It may also include your
soWwoOrR:
cinterest (COUFSé"ag®. Hame. and physicabcharactenstigs. among others AS
you grow and adapt to the changes around you. they also change Bul they are
not passive receivers. they actively shape and affect how you see. think. and feel
about things (Gleitman. Gross, and Reisberg 2011. Jhangiani and Tarry 2014)
For example, when someone states your first name even if they are not
talking about you, your attention is drawn to them. If you have a provincial language
and you hear Someone using it. it catches your attention. If you consider yourselt a
book-lover, a bookstore may always entice you out of all the other stores ina mall
FRESHESIGENETaly see the self and identity _7EAACSS. created
and fécreatedinimemiory (Oyserman, Elmore. and Smith 2012). Current researches
point to the frontalobe of the brain asithelspetificarearinthaibrainlassociatediwith
the processes;conceming#hé'Self (Oyserman, Elmore, and Smith 2012)
Several psychologists, especially during the field's earlier development,
followed this trend of thought. looking deeper into the mind of the person to
theorize about the self, identity, self-concept. and in turn, one’s personality. The
most influential of them is Si@MGR@Rteud. Basically, FSUGISAWhEIsel! (tsEntaly
However, as mentioned earlier, one cannot fully discount the effects of
society and culture on the formation of the self, identity. and self-concept. Even as
Freud and other theories and researchers try to understand the person by digging
deeper into the mind, they cannot fully discount the huge and important effects of
the environment. As in the abovementioned definitions of the self, social interaction
always has a part to play in who we think we are. This is not nature vs. nurture but
instead a nature-and-nurture perspective.
Under the {RESPPOFSyMbolic interackohism, GIA=MeaeeI934) argued that
‘self'is Created and developed through-human.interaction
the 1 (Hogg and Vaughan
2010). Basically, there are three reasons why self and identity are social products
(Oyserman, Elmore, and Smith 2012):
1: "We denotcreate ourselves Out OF Rething. Society helped in creating
the
will still operate in our social and historical contexts in one way or the
other. You may, of course, transfer from one culture to another, butu were will still affect you and you will also have jg
parts of who yol king at your definition of whe
adapt to the new social context. Try 00}
you are and see where society had affected you
: id We also need them as reference
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points about our identity. One interesting example is the social media
interactions we have. In the case of Facebook. there are those who
will consciously or unconsciously try to garner more “likes” and/or
positive “reactions” and that can and will reinforce their self-concept {t
is almost like a battle between who got more friends, more views, and
trending topics. If one says he is a good singer but his performance
and the evaluation of his audience says otherwise, that will have an
effect on that person's idea of himself, one way or another.
3. What we:thinkcisamportant-to-us may also-havebeer influenced by
what is:important in ‘our S6cial or histonical-context Education might
be an important thing to your self-concept because you grew up in
a family that valued education. Money might be important to some
because they may have grown in a low-income family and realized
how important money is in addressing certain needs like medical
emergencies. Being a nurse or a lawyer can be priority in your self-
schema because it is the in-demand course during your time
‘Social interaction and group affiliation. therefore, Greivitalfactorsanereating
“our: self-concept especially in the aspect of providifig-Uswith “our social identity
or dUF{perceptionsofsWhOWE"are’ based on our membership to certain groups
(Jhangiani and Tarry 2014). It is also inevitable that we can have several social
identities, that those identities can overlap, and that we automatically play the roles
as we interact with our groups. For example, you are a student who is also part of
a certain group of friends. You study because it is your role as a student but you
prefer to study with your friends and your study pattern changes when you are with
your friends than when you do it alone.
There are times, however, when we are aware of our self-concepts: this
's also called self-awareness.
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and private thoughts and feelings. and (2)
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actual ideal and ought sell The GttlalS6ISiWheyellareaLIneNGMEnt the
Adeal” Sell s-who you tke tobe_and th sid
be (Higgins 1997 in Hogg and Vaughn 2010) An example is that you are a student
interested in basketball buts also academically challenged in most of your subject
Your eal self might be to practice more and play with the varsity team but ought
to pass your subjects as a responsible student One has to find a solution to such
discrepancies to avoid agitation, dejection, or other negative emotions. In some
instances, however, all three may be in line with one another
“SEIFAWAFERESE may be positive or negative dependingon the circumstances
and our next course of action. @eifsaWAFEAES® can keep you from doing something
dangerous, It can help remind you that there is an exam tomorrow in one of your
subjects when you are about to spend time playing computer games with your
cousins, among others. In other instances, @e@lziW@rSAass can’
rs, also known as
GSRICONSGIOUSHBSs (Jhangiani and Tarry 2014). At other times, especially with
large crowds, we may experience deindividuation or “the loss of individual self-
awareness and individual accountability in groups” (Festinger, Pepitone, and
Newcomb 1952, Zimbardo 1969 in Jhangiani and Tarry 2014). A lot of people will
attune themselves with the emotions of their group and because the large crowd
also provides some kind of anonymity, we may lessen our self-control and act
in ways that we will not do when we are alone. A common example is a mass
demonstration erupting into a riot.
Our group ydennty-and Seleawareness als6 has a great impact on our Salt
esteem, one of the common concepts associated with the “self.” It is defined as
our own positive or negative perception or evaluation of ourselves (Jhangiani and
Tarry 2014; Gleitman, Gross, and Reisberg 2011).
One of the ways in which our social relationship affects ourGeifsesteen is
through § According to the Séeialicomparisamatheony we learn _
appropri , as well as our social status:
cBpeerpeniay aber ot oorsever WF ore=peeple (Jhangiani and Tarry 2014,
Hogg and Vaughan 2010)
The downward social comparison is the more common type of comparing
ourselves with others. As the name implies, we create a positive self-concept by
companng ourselves with those who are worse off than us (Jhangiani and Tarry
2014) By having the advantage. we can raise our self-esteem Another comparison
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