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Babies Background
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inspected the delicate blossoms on the apple trees, picked some dandelions and
touched the tiny blades of wheat just poking through the ground. We also walked
down to the pasture to watch the cattle graze. I was explaining something to the
girls when I heard one of my daughters say, “Papa, look! Those cows are stacking.”
I chuckled, knowing that my daughter had no idea what was actually happening. In
her mind, the cattle were playing. Still, the occasion allowed me to begin to
explain the beauty of God’s design to my children.
Young children don’t need to know all the details. They do need to understand that
men and women play essential but different roles in God’s plan for new life. This
can be as simple as saying that daddies make mommies pregnant and mommies have
babies.
They understood about Mama getting pregnant, because they were able to watch her
belly grow during pregnancy and then meet their new brother after he was born. They
were less sure about how Papa helped make the baby.
We talked about the sperm and egg joining together, but waited until they were
older to explain how it all worked. “The Talk” isn’t a one-time conversation. It’s
an ongoing discussion between children and parents that can begin when they’re very
young and set the stage for a biblical understanding of sex.