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always had high hopes from me and determined to not only meet his
expectations but to exceed them, I was and remained the obedient, bright
student whose father came to the Parent Teachers Meeting aware he would only
plus grades which other students celebrated upon achieving was routine for me.
Sitting in the front row, studying meticulously all day and that too willingly and
then returning home and studying more was how I spent most of my mundane
days. Most of this studying taking place seated meant not only was my brain
colossal but my tummy astronomical too. Fat and stout unable to run for longer
perform astonishingly well as I covered more than 3 quarters of the goal by just
standing there. Soon our goalposts were replaced by bigger posts and my only
activity also slipped away. One thing about my studious early life was I had lots of
friends or in better terms kids who copied tests and assignments off me. Being too
nice had always been one characteristic I regretted most and hence I often, at
time exploiting my all-so-brilliant image, went out of the way to help these
FRIENDS of mine. All was going well: I thought I was happy, my parents were
pleased with me, my teachers loved me, and my friends talked to me sometimes.
However, then during the first year of my O levels I made a friend, a friend for life.
Alongside him I started actually enjoying life more than just grades. I realized that
a joke I cracked which made people laugh gave me more joy than any grade, a
birthday surprise for me brought smiles wider than any Math-O-Quiz trophy, a
class bunk was more entertaining than any class I’ve been to and not being the
monitor of the class was definitely much more relaxing. It was an extensive, slow
process but within 2 years’ time I was a changed man and unlike the majority I
would say I changed for the better. I found my never-ending passion for all
different types of sports and by sports, I mean actual sports like cricket, football
and basketball and not chess and scrabble which most people then expected of
me. It was immensely difficult in the beginning, more for others to accept this
change than it was for me and I am often hurdled with taunts from the past to
this very day but with time I am remolding my identity in the eyes of others.
Losing weight and making all types of un-nerdy friends coupled with a little extra
push from puberty made me who I am today. Now I am a jock and Snoop Dogg’s
my idol.