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In 1623, William Shakespeare wrote, “one man in his time plays many
parts, his acts being seven ages,” from screaming infant to the finality of
oblivion.
Three hundred years later, the psychologist Erik Erikson offered a more
modern, and less sexually biased (equality was very much an issue in Tudor
England), take on psychological transformation.
And, unlike other theories, the personality transformation did not end with
adolescence but, arising from conflict, continued through to finality.
This article explores the eight stages that make up Erikson’s developmental
theory before discussing subsequent criticisms and our own resources for
supporting growth and building strengths.
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He argued that social experience was valuable throughout life, with each
stage recognizable by the specific conflict we encounter between our
psychological needs and the surrounding social environment.
Failure, on the other hand, leads to difficulty navigating our future and a
profound impact on our sense of self, our personality. We are left feeling
inadequate.
The diagram below represents Erikson’s eight psychological stages and the
tensions most relevant at particular stages of the lifespan (modified from
Syed & McLean, 2018).
Note that the age ranges below are indicative of the stages described by
Erikson and vary across the literature.
Stage 1: Trust Versus Mistrust
In the first stage of Erikson’s psychosocial model, infancy is crucial to our
psychosocial development.
During our initial 18 months, we are uncertain about the world in which we
find ourselves and must develop basic trust.
After all, we are entirely reliant on our caregivers for warmth, love, stability,
and nurturing. If reliable and predictable, we gain confidence, a sense of
security, and a feeling of safety in the world (Syed & McLean, 2018).
If care is inconsistent and unreliable, then trust will fail. For example, when
caregivers reject us, fail to meet our needs, or are emotionally detached, we
may conclude that we cannot rely on adults.
Success within stage one leads to the virtue of hope – the sense that
whatever crisis we meet, there will be someone around to provide support
and help.
Stage 2: Autonomy Versus Shame and Doubt
Stage two focuses on early childhood – 18 months to three years – when we
are gaining independence and an increased perception of control over our
physical skills (Erikson, 1958, 1963).
Typically around this time, parents, teachers, and caregivers begin giving
children some degree of choice, letting them perform actions on their own.
Therefore, we become increasingly mobile and develop physically, asserting
our independence, putting on clothes, and playing with other children and
toys.
Success over bodily functions and taking control of simple choices leads to
a sense of personal power, feelings of autonomy, increased independence,
and a greater sense of being able to survive in the world.
During stage two, parents should expect and encourage their child to explore
limits, gently stretching them, while avoiding criticism when they fail. The
resulting feeling of security and confidence are crucial for our progress in
subsequent stages and leads to the virtue of will.
Stage 3: Initiative Versus Guilt
Erikson’s third stage of psychosocial development occurs during preschool,
between the ages of three and five years.
To our parents, our behavior may seem vigorous, overly assertive, or even
aggressive, and yet we are exploring our interpersonal skills.
And yet, if we are successful in stage three, we learn to feel capable, secure,
and able to use our initiative.
If we fail, we may suffer guilt and self-doubt and become less likely to lead.
Stage 4: Industry Versus Inferiority
In stage four of Erikson’s psychosocial theory – ages 5 to 12 years – we are
immersed in a world of education, learning to read, write, and solve math
puzzles (Erikson, 1958, 1963).
Teachers play an essential role in our continued growth within this stage. At
the same time, peer groups and social interactions are increasingly relevant
in the development of our self-esteem, and feelings of pride arise as we
successfully perform or complete tasks.
As such, it is vital for young adults to learn the roles that we may adopt once
mature – including sexually – as our body image transforms.
Success leads to the belief that we are staying true to who we are, expressed
by virtue of fidelity. Erikson claims that we grow into our bodies and begin
to form our identity as a result of our ongoing explorations. And, with
appropriate encouragement and reinforcement, we move toward increasing
independence and a stronger sense of control and self (Marcia, 2010).
Otherwise, our inability to create a sense of identity within society (“Who
am I? I don’t know what I want to do when I am older”) results
in confusion and a poor sense of self. This failure can only lead to insecurity
and unsureness of ourselves, our future, and where we fit.
Stage 6: Intimacy Versus Isolation
As young adults, we are motivated to explore personal relationships and our
desire to form intimate relationships.
Those with a poor sense of self are typically emotionally isolated and less
committed to relationships.
Stage 7: Generativity Versus Stagnation
We aim to make a mark on the world, to nurture things that will outlive us.
We may look for ways to be more productive and valuable to our society,
with an eye on the bigger picture.
Failure looks quite different. We feel we have had little impact on the world,
failing to make that dent in the universe as the late Steve Jobs described. If
so, we feel unproductive, uninvolved, disillusioned, and disconnected from
the world in which we live.
Stage 8: Integrity Versus Despair
Unlike previous theories, Erikson’s model covered the entirety of life ‘from
the cradle to the grave.’
This stage is one of reflection. We slow down, are less productive, and
spend time reviewing our accomplishments throughout life.
Success is in the belief that we have achieved our goals and found
happiness, leading to the feeling of integrity, “a sense of coherence and
wholeness” (Erikson, 1982). We feel we have achieved much and are ready
to meet our end with a sense of peace. Success leads to the virtue
of wisdom – a sense of completeness.
On the other hand, failure may be experienced as despair and regret over
things not done, completed, or mistakes made. We are bitter about the past
and present, frightened about coming to the end of our life without a sense
of having lived well.
Searching for identity may occur many times throughout our lives,
not only during adolescence.
How does the individual resolve the conflicts and move on to the
next stage? A single, universal mechanism seems unlikely.
How do we truly define success? After all, the idea of balance will
vary between individuals, cultures, and, over time, within ourselves.
5 Books on the Topic
Erik Erikson had a long career and left an extensive legacy. Below is a
reduced list of his key works, along with other guides to his theory.
A Take-Home Message
Erikson’s psychosocial model extends the idea of personal development
across our lifetime from our early years as a baby to old age.
His work was ground breaking. The staged psychosocial theory led to a
reconceptualization of how we develop as humans and an awareness that we
continue to grow throughout life, not only in our early years.
Nevertheless, we must be aware that the model is a helpful tool rather than a
testable theory; it provides a lens through which we can review our lifelong
transformation rather than a prescribed set of steps.
And yet, the model’s greatest strength is its ability to connect our
psychological transformation from physical birth to death, overcoming
conflicts along the way.
While we may question whether the stages are a good fit personally, we
recognize the stages, the progression of our development, and how we carry
forward learnings into later life.
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