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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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ajrmif;aom? tmPm&a&;om t"dujzpfaeaom? ygwDrdIvdk
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wpfae&mwGif azmfjyxm;onfhtwdkif; EkdifiHa&;? vlrIa&;?
qufqHa&;? &Jabmfpdwf"mwf cdkifrma&; ponfh taMumif;
wpfckckaMumifh odkYr[kwf tm;vHk;aMumifh om"konf ocif
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av;armif polwdkYESifh pdwfoabmxm;csif; r[yfrdMuap
umrl olwdkYwpfawG bmaumifrQ r[kwfMuaomtcg (0g)
olvkdigvdk omref t&yfom;rsm;b0odkY jyefa&muf
vmaom tcgwGifum; ac:ajymEIwfqufrI &SdvmMujyef
onf/
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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csif/
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jzpfaom . . .
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a&;xkd;vdkufum tpp jyifqif&awmh\/
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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aomfvnf; xyfodvkdao;onfESifh . . .
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u oHk;a,muf aemf? [dk usm;ul;uGufopf olBuD;qdkwmu
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
um; trSwfonmtm;jzifholodae\/ t*Fvdyfpum; q,fh
av;ig;vHk;avmufvnf; ajymwwf &Gwfwwfaeonf/
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ol rSwfrdae\/ wpfcgwpf&H Armpum;xJwGif tify&uf
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jzef;wwfao;onf/
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vnf; at;csKd rsufESm tcsKdrysuf/
jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
470
om"k vl0g;0w,f
]oGm;} [k atmfxkwfvdkufonfwGifvnf; wpfbufodkY
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jzpfrnfxif\/
olu tb,fodkY wpfcGef;wnf; ajymcsrnfudk om"k od
csifcJhonfrSm MumNyD/ olwdkY vkyfazmfudkifzufcsif;yif ar;í
r&aom pum;udk om"ku wD;acgufMunfhívnf; &rnf
r[kwf/
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om"kwpfa,muf w½kwfacgufqGJ ponfwdkY pm;vQif
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yvmwm? Muufom;uif? 'efaygufxrif; pm;u Muuf
oGefeD? o&ufoD;oeyf pojzifh ygrS t&omcHwwf\/
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qdkcJhonfh i½kyfpdrf;csOf? o&ufoD;? r&rf;oD;? oHy&moD;
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pm;csifonfh tmomuvnf; jyifaecdkuf wpfpHkwpfck
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vmcJhaomf txkyfvdkuf zkwfceJ vTifhypfrdonftxd om"k
jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
471
om"k vl0g;0w,f
pdwfqkd;wwf\/ þonfudk om;r,m; wynfhwyef;tm;
vHk; odMuonf/
(,cif om"k½kyf&Sif rEÅav;wdkufcGJrefae*sm? ,ck yef;
Eka&mif r&ifhw&ifh Zmwfum;xkwfvkyfol armifpef;jrifh
onf olYZmwfum;wpfum; ½kdufaeqJ zvifukefí jyef,l
NyD; csufcsif; jyefaygufvmapumrl NcH0a&mufrS *spfum;udk
jyefauGUxGufoGm;ojzifh um; ½dkuf&ef apmifhaeMuolrsm;
Za0Z0g jzpfukefMu\/
35 rdepftwGif; oljyefa&mufvmojzifh (jyefxGufoGm;
onfhtaMumif;) udk ar;&m om"ktwGuf vrf;BuHKojzifh
'efaygufxrif; wpfxkyf0if0,fygonf/ zvifuvnf;
ta&*;BuD;ojzifh cyfokwfokwf jyefvmNyD; NcHem;a&mufrS
tcsOfxkyfajzMunfh&ef owd&um o&ufoD;oeyf ygrvm
í oGm;jyefawmif;aMumif; ajymjyonf/ armifpef;jrifhum;
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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cdkif;w,f}
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wpfcku usefaeao;onfESifh
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tcsOfxkyfudk tNrJajzMunfh? i½kwfoD;pdrf;csOf ryg&if udk,fh
[mudk,f xyfxnfhqdkwm}
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eJY? aemufNyD; . . .}
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jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
473
om"k vl0g;0w,f
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xyfí ajymrd&if; qufqlrd&if;jzifh om"kyg vHk;vnfvdkuf
arm[dkufvmum
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vdkufonfESifh toifhapmifhaeaom acG;u udkufcsDqGJajy;
onfwGif at;csKdu cJESifh vdkufxk\/
twefMumí om"k pdwfajyoavmuf t&SdwGif om;jzpf
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pm;aeNyD? acG;qDu jyefvkNyD;}
om"k r&,fbJ raeEdkif/
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
wpf&H em;&if;tkyfrdonftxdqHk;rapumrl ol pdwfaumuf
NyD; tJ ½kyf&SifoGm;MunfhonfrQavmufom/

at;csKdtm; cdkif;&onfxuf pdwfarm&onfrSm rumrd/


vufzuf&nf 0,fcdkif;onfwGif csKdifhta[mif;ESifh rSm;vm
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aeygvsuf xD;arhvmojzifh jyef,lcdkif;aomtcg xD;r&Sd
awmhonfrSm ESpfBudrfrQ/ wpfcguvnf; ol arhwwfvGef;
í ypönf;av;rsKd; 0,fcdkif;&mwGif aocsmap&ef pma&;ay;
vdkufonf/
jyefvmaomtcg oHk;rsKd;om ygonf/
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ol0wfoGm;onfrSm pGyfus,f/
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
omru rlv½dkufvufpESifh tqifajy&efrSm tpp wm0ef
BuD;vSonf/
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rdNyD; wpfcgwnf; ESifcsvdkufonf/ aemufwpfaeY eHeuf
om"k tjyifxGuf&m qdkufum;wpfpD;ay: xkdifaeaom
at;csKdudk vrf;xdyfqdkufum;*dwfwGif awGU&NyD; um;[Gef;
oHMum;onfESifh (olrSwfrdaeí) rsufESm vJToGm;onf/
om"k oem;oGm;&jyef\/
xdkn 8 em &DavmufwGif csKdat;aom rsufESmESifh ol
a&mufvmojzifh
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vdkuf&m
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ol aemufaz;0ifoGm;NyD; aemuf wpfatmifhrQ tMum
tdrf&Sifr a&mufvmonf/
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]bmvJ? pum;u tquftpyfr&SdeJY}

jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
]at;csKdaygh? qdkufum;eif;r,fqdkNyD; iSm;wm? aeYv,f
u acgif;udkufvdkYqdkNyD; qkdufum;ay: tdyfaysmfoGm;vdkYwJh?
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om"k olYudk jyefac:xm;vdkuf&jyefacsNyD jzpf\/
xdkrQxdkrQ udk,fh0rf;yif 0atmif &Smrpm;Edkifao;ygyJ
vsuf ol rdef;rvdkcsifaejyefonf/ &nf;pm;xm;NyD; jzpfae
onf/ tjcm;tvkyform;rsm;udkyif olu &ifaumhí <um;
aevdkufao;\/
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omw,fuG? &nf;pm;pmudk igu igudk,fwdkif a&;ay;w,f
oluawmh olrsm; a&;cdkif;&w,f? olYxuf igu ynmydk
wwfwmaygh}
þ tajctxd a&mufaeaMumif; om"k odonfESifh
at;csKdudk ac:&awmhonf/ ynmay; qHk;r&ef/
]rif; ck &nf;pm;awG bmawG xm;vdkYqdk? rif;rSm bm
t&nftcsif; &SdovJ? qdkufum;av; wpf&uf eif;r,f
rBuHao;bl; tdyfaysmfaew,f? rdef;r,l&if ESpfa,mufpvHk;
iwfr,f? tJ'g rif; rpOf;pm;rdbl;vm;}
,cifuESifh vHk;0rwlawmhaom at;csKd\ rsufESmxm;
udk þwpfcgom om"k BuHKzl;\/
jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
]udk,fhtm;udk,fudk; tvkyfvkyfzdkYz,fxm;? tao;trTm;
0,fcdkif;wmavmufawmif rif; ajzmifhajzmifh tqifrajywJh
taumif? 'geJYrsm; rdef;rvdkcsifao;ovm; [if? at;csKd}
olYrsufESmwGif at;aomcsKdaom t&dyfta,mifrsm;
vHk;0 aysmufaeonf/
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aemufrS xcsifw,f? vHkYvvnf; r&Sd? 0D&d,vnf; r&Sd?
tBuHÓPfqdkwmawmh rif; tdrfa&SUeJY aemufaz; a&o,f
wmawmif wpftdrfvHk; acsmif;aygufatmif &TJwJhtaumif}
rBuHKpzl; ol rsufarSmifMuKwfaeonf/ EIwfcrf;awG
vnf; vIyfvmonf/
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at;csKd ydkí ezl;aMumwif;vmonf/ tcspfpdwf xdyfa>r
cJ qdkouJhodkY tcspfqdyf wufaeNyDavm[k om"k oHo,
0ifrd\/
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wjcm;rSmqdk rif; cufNyD? ig tifrwef onf;cHwJhvlawmif
MumavMumav ighpdwfeJY rawGUavbJ? ckudpöu ydkqdk;
w,f? 'gyJuGm? rifh[mrif; rdef;r,lcsif,l? ightdrfawmh
ac:rvmeJY}
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
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at;csKdtoHrSmuGJtufaeonf/ wkefcgaeonf/ aemuf
rsuf&nfvnf; 0Jaeonf/
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r&Sdbl;? tvdkufvnf; rodwwfbl;? cdkif;rS vkyfwwfw,f?
vmbfvnf; rjrifbl;? tm;vHk; rSefygw,f}
rygpzl; 0rf;enf;pum;oHrsm; ygaeonf/ vQHaeonf/
xdkpum; &yftoGm;cdkufwGif rsuf&nfNydKufNydKuf ,dkqif;
vmonf/
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tBudrf; txdk;tBudwf rcH&atmifvnf; uRefawmf tNrJ
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jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
awmfvnf; wynfhawG trsm;BuD;eJY bbBuD;vdkyJ q&mjzpf
aerSmyJ? ckawmh uRef uRef uRefawmf}
ol tBudrfBudrf BuHK;0g;cJhonfh ]ig wpfcGef;wnf; ajym
vdkuf&if udpötjywfyJ} [lonfrSm þpum;rsm;yif jzpf
[efwlonf/
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tjzwfay;r,f? cke bbBuD;ajymwmawGvnf; arhypfvdkuf
OD;? oGm;tdyfawmh}
txufyg aemufqHk;pum;wpfcGef; (wpfydk'f) wnf;ESifh
at;csKd vl0g;0ofnudk om"k Nrdefa&&Sufa& cHpm;vdkuf&NyD;
onfh þrSmbufwGif
at;csKdum; om"kESifh ,cktxd at;twlyltrQ/
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480
om"k vl0g;0w,f

pma&;ol\
pmayESifh b0jzpfpOfrSwfwrf;

1918
yJcl;NrdKUü tz OD;jrarmif? trd a':zGm;rQifwdkYrS zGm;jrif
onf/ arG;csif; armifESr ESpfa,mufjzpfí q&m om"krSm
ti,fjzpfonf/ Mumoyaw;om; jzpfNyD; trnf&if;rSm
azoef; jzpfonf/

1929
&efukefNrdKU? vrf;rawmfNrdKUe,f? usKH;BuD;vrf;&Sd Ak'¨bmom
rdef;uav;ausmif;wGif ausmif;pwifaecJhonf/ pwkw¦
wef; atmifaomtcg &efukeftpdk;& [dkufpul;ausmif;wGif
e0rwef;txd ajymif;a&TU ynmoifMum;cJhonf/

jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
481
om"k vl0g;0w,f
1936
ausmif;rSxGufí &efukef tv,fydkif; (ukefaps;wef;) wdkY
Armtpnf;t½Hk; vIyf&Sm;rIudk xlaxmifNyD; twGif;a&;rSL;
tjzpf wm0efxrf;aqmifcJhonf/

1938
1300 jynfh ta&;awmfyHkwGif yg0ifvIyf&Sm;&if; a&eHajr
oydwfwyfBuD; &efukefodkY csDwuf&mwGif taocH wyfAdkvf
tjzpf wm0ef,l aqmif&GufcJhonf/

1939
&efukefNrdKU a'gufwmjr aq;wdkufwGif pma&;tjzpf vkyf
udkifonf/ e,fvSnfh ukd,fpmvS,fvnf; vkyfonf/

1944
*syefacwfwGif ]ylwlwl;} aygif'gvkyfief; vkyfudkifonf/
ausmif;q&mr a':cifndK (aemifwGifrlvwef;ausmif;tkyf)
ESifh tdrfaxmifjyKonf/

1944-45
jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
482
om"k vl0g;0w,f
bwfpfum;? jrif;vSnf; wnfaxmif toufarG;jcif; vkyf
ief;udk vkyfudkifonf/

1945-46
ylwlwl; yHkESdyfwdkuf wnfaxmifonf/

1946
'gawGjyif trnf&Sd 0w¦Kpmtkyfudk ylwlwl; yHkESdyfwdkufrS
xkwfa0onf/

1947
0efBuD;wpfrwf 0w¦Ka&;&if; pmayavmuodkY a&muf&SdcJh
onf/

1948
ya'om r*¾Zif;wGif wm0efcH t,f'Dwmtjzpf vkyfudkif
onf/

1949-50

jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
483
om"k vl0g;0w,f
pmobif pmtkyfwdkuf wnfaxmifonf/ opöm r*¾Zif;udk
OD;pD;xkwfa0onf/

1949
cspfpHerl pmtkyfukd pmobifpmtkyfwkdufrS yxrtBudrf
tjzpf xkwfa0onf/

1950
jrefrmEdkifiH pma&;q&mtoif; trIaqmiftjzpf wm0ef
xrf;aqmifcJhonf/ ya'om r*¾Zif;udk om"k wpfOD;wnf;
ydkiftjzpf xkwfa0onf/
cspfpHerl wwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
t&om pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/
t&om trSwf 2 pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/
tm,k pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/
tarGcH pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/

1951
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk xkwfa0onf/

jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
484
om"k vl0g;0w,f
(pmayAdrmef umvay:0w¦K qktjzpf qkaiG wpfaxmif
&&SdcJhonf/)
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
vifr,m;b0 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
touf pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/

1952
cspfpHerl pwkw¦tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
cspfwuúodkvf (cspfpHerltquf) xkwfa0onf/
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk wwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
tESpf xkwfa0onf/
tESpf\ tESpf xkwfa0onf/

1953
cspfwuúodkvf 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk pwkw¦tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk yOörtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
aemufvif pmtkyfudk xkwfa0onf/

1954
jrefrmhrQm;ewfarmif
485
om"k vl0g;0w,f
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk q|rtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk owårtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk t|rtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
aemufr,m; xkwfa0onf/

1955
wyfxJu jrwfudkudk 0w¦Ktm; [dkufpul;ESifh wuúodkvf0if
pmar;yGJrsm;twGuf ausmif;oHk;tjzpf jy|mef;onf/
cspfpHerl yOörtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
cspfZeD; cspfvif xkwfa0onf/
Zmwfvrf;yrm xkwfa0onf/ (t*Fvdyf ½kyf&Sifum; A Peace
in the Sun udk rSD;a&;onf/)

waZmufuef; wwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/ (Adkvfjr'if


trnfjzifh ½kyf&Sif½dkufonf/)
twm xkwfa0onf/
ppfom; tdyfaqmif 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1956
cspfpHerl q|rtBudrf xkwfa0onf/
cspfwuúodkvf xkwfa0onf/
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
twm xkwfa0onf/
vdifESifh ararvwf xkwfa0onf/
om"ka&;enf; 0w¦Kwdkrsm; xkwfa0onf/
tm,kESifh tarGcH xkwfa0onf/

1957
cspfwuúodkvf pwkw¦tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1958
cspfwuúodkvf yOörtBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1959
½kyf&Sife,fodkYul;ajymif;NyD; uBuD;a&;u trnf&Sd yxrqHk;
½kyf&Sifum;udk ½dkuful;onf/
'g½dkufwm tu,f'rDqk &&Sdonf/
cspfZeD; cspfvif 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
touf 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1960

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om"k vl0g;0w,f
tidkvG,fonf trnf&Sd ½kyf&SifZmwfum;jzifh 'kwd,tBudrf
tu,f'rD 'g½dkufwmqk &&Sdonf/
a':wifwiftkef; (½kyf&Sifrif;orD; jrwfrGef) ESifh 'kwd,
tdrfaxmif jyKonf/

1961
aMomf cspfwm cspfwmESifh tjcm;0w¦Kwdkrsm;pmtkyf xkwfa0
onf/

1966
cspfwuúokdvf q|rtBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1968
wm0ef trnf&Sd ½kyf&SifZmwfum; ½dkuful;onf/
'kwd,tdrfaxmifESihf uGm&Sif;onf/
aemufr,m; 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1969
touf wwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

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om"k vl0g;0w,f
1970
vdif pmtkyf xkwfa0onf/
twm yxrwGJ 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
twm 'kwd,wGJ xkwfa0onf/

1971
om"k a&;enf; 0w¦Kwdkrsm; 'kwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/
tm,kESifh ararvwf xkwfa0onf/

1974
tESpf wwd,tBudrf xkwfa0onf/

1976
om"k vl0g;0w,f xkwfa0onf/

1978
om"k tif qef;(pf) xkwfa0onf/

1979-80

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om"k vl0g;0w,f
tMuifwdkY vifr,m; trnf&Sd ½kyf&SifZmwfum;udk ½dkuf
onf/

1980
EkdifiHh*kPf&nfbGJU ('kwd,tqifh) csD;jr§ifhcH&onf/
qD;a&m*gjzifh aq;½Hkwufí em;a&m*g cGJpdwfukocJhonf/
idkrvdk &Drvdk a,mifumrJh ravSmifygeJY wdrif;0Vm (tjcm;
pma&;olrsm;ESifh wGJí xkwfa0onf/)

1985
aq;½Hkwufí rsufpdcGJpdwf ukocJhonf/
'DrsufESmav;udk cspfwm xkwfa0onf/

1990
rsusrf;rmí aq;½Hk wufa&mufcJhonf/

1991
½kyf&Sif tpnf;t½Hk;wGif em,utjzpf aqmif&Gufvsuf&Sd
NyD; trSwf 97 oHvGifvrf;? &efukefNrdKUwGif pmayESifh½kyf&Sif
vkyfief;rsm;udk vkyfudkifvsuf&Sd&mrS tpmtdrf aoG;,dkonfh
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om"k vl0g;0w,f
a&m*gaMumifh aq;½Hkwufí ukorI cH,lcJhonf/ aq;½HkrS
qif;vmaomtcg NcHtrSwf 3? av;a'gifhuefvrf; (om"k
NcHH)? oCFef;uRef;wGif tem;,lí aq;ukorIcHvsuf &Sd&mrS
1991 ckESpf? {NyDv 7 &ufaeYwGif tqkwfuifqm a&m*g
jzifh uG,fvGeftedpö a&mufcJhonf/
uG,fvGefcsdefwGif om;orD; ckepfOD; usef&pfonf/
BudK; Zmwfum;udk ½dkuful;qJ? wdkYudk,fusKd; vHk;vHk;ryg vHk;
csif;aqmif;yg;pmtkyfukd a&;om;qJwGif uG,fvGefcJhjcif;
jzpfonf/

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