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Alhamdulillah In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful, with the help
and assistances of Him, I have successfully completed this Personal development
assignment.
I owe a debt of gratitude to UITM for give me opportunity to study the Personal
Development subject which help me a lot in improving myself.
I would like to express my hearties gratitude to all my friends. Finally, I also owe
much thanks to my family for their constant support and encouragements.
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INTRODUCTION
1.1 Introduction of Shyness
Shyness is one among the first. The reason is very simple. As a shy person you
lose out on so much. Better opportunities at work, more fulfilling relationships
and a great, interactive and warm world. Unfortunately by being shy, you close
so many chances in front of you.
Shyness is linked to brain activity, how a person was raised and other
experiences, and the person's reaction to those experiences.
1.2 Definition
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CAUSES OF SHYNESS
The causes of shyness are many and varied. We have had to know the causes of
shyness in order to find the right way to cure it.
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2.6 Family without affection
There are a few families in which the members will not convey their loving or
affectionate feelings to each other. This can lead to a child feeling uncomfortable
expressing loving emotions and is one of the leading causes of shyness.
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2.13 Overprotective parents.
Children who are overprotected by their parents often don't have the opportunity
to be independent socially. Because of this, these children often lack the
confidence needed to make decisions for themselves. Such children are often
insecure, which can then cause shyness.
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EFFECTS OF SHYNESS
The effects of shyness are diverse and range from very serious to easy to miss
effects. The effects of shyness are felt through various parts of your life, and you
may not expect that shyness would be so far-reaching
3.4 May cause anxiety and stress that is detrimental to your health and
immune system
When you are vulnerable to intense stress due to your shyness, you set your
system up for all of the negative effects of stress. The effects of shyness can
result in high blood pressure, decreased immune function, and hypertension - a
few symptoms of stress that might be induced by your shyness.
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3.7 Will have problem to have an effective communication
By avoiding social situations make shy people grow up into adults lacking
effective communication skills. They often don’t learn effective communication.
They do not possess the power of expressing their emotions. They fail to relate
to others. They do not confidence to talk to everybody. Thus, it will lead to poor
communication. Because they lack communication skills, shy people often have
difficulty relating to other people.
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3.14 Will be a shy student
In term of education, shyness is the most things that must be avoided by every
student. By being a shy, they won’t be able to ask what they do not understand
during class session. They will miss out a lot of opportunity such as to get more
mark by being the class representative. As a Muslim, we have to bear in mind
that we are not supposed to be a shy in education.
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THE WAY TO OVERCOME SHYNESS
Shyness cannot be eliminated quickly. It takes time for a shy individual to
overcome this personality trait. Shyness can be cure by many ways.
4.6 Affirmation
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Words can carry incredible energy. What we repeatedly tell ourselves, gets heard
by our unconscious mind, and it acts accordingly. If we repeatedly tell ourselves
that we are incapable, and too shy to do anything, we will become increasingly
aware of evidence to back up this ‘fact’, and our actions will always match what
we tell ourselves. Similarly, if we repeatedly tell ourselves that we are capable,
confident, and wonderful human beings, our unconscious mind will likely surface
the awareness that gives evidence to this new ‘fact’. While, we can’t lie to
ourselves, positive visualization and affirmation are helpful in placing us along
the road of positive thought patterns.
4.12 Visualization
Visualizing yourself in the situation as a confident and happy person helps you to
shape your perception of yourself when you are actually in the situation.
Visualization are as same as acting yourself at the certain situation. By doing this
act often with different situation will help you to decrease the level of shyness.
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Try to fit in like everyone else is exhausting. Understand that it is okay to be
different. Accept that you may not be perceived as the most popular social
butterfly, and you may not want to be either. At the end of the day, being
popular will not make you happy. Accepting your unique qualities can set you
free.
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CONCLUSION
The shyness which has ruined your life up to now is not an invisible enemy. It’s
not even as powerful a force as you thought. Remember that shyness is an
emotion, not a permanent personality trait. You have the power to change your
feelings of shyness and act in a bolder manner. There's nothing wrong with being
shy, but there's nothing wrong with being outgoing either.
Our mind is flexible. Everything we done are based on our mind and of course
we can control it. Overcoming shyness is the way to happiness and acceptance,
harmony and success.
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REFERENCES
http://e-psybermatrix.utm.my/My-TAG/bahan_download/No_More_Shyness.pdf
http://www.shyness.com/encyclopedia.html
http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/
http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/
http://psychcentral.com/lib/2006/all-about-shyness/
https://writer4me.com/portfolio/shyness_ebook.pdf
http://www.hitechhyderabad.com/downloads/shyness.pdf
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