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Jaywalking With Jesus Part 8 3-5-11
Jaywalking With Jesus Part 8 3-5-11
The Zogman, his future wife Jan, and my girlfriend Kelli Sue were
a very tightly knit foursome, and I trusted their opinions and judgment.
Saturday arrived and it marked a week since I'd bolted from the
constraints of my parent's home. I was a rather troubled youth, and
my smoldering intelligence couldn’t hurdle my problem with “authority
figures” I’d had of any and every kind, and the parental variety I found
particularly stifling. Born to be a feral boy, I found the cloak of civility
to be very binding and suffocating.
"Jackie!" she gasped. "Your Father wants to talk with you," she
said rather abruptly. I knew she must have been emotionally
overwhelmed, and I imagined her handing the phone to Pops, then
breaking into thankful tears, unable to withstand the onslaught of
motherly love for her eldest. I was astounded to find myself on the
verge of weeping, as I knew Pops would get on the line, begging me
to come home, asking repeatedly if I was all right, can we come and
get you, are you hurt in any way, etc.
"I thought I told you to cut that goddamn lawn!" Pops said.
Poppy Perry was also one of the slowest drivers ever. I could
vividly recall “going for a ride with Poppy” to renew his drivers license
along with brothers Dave and Ken. We had to travel from our
grandparent’s house in Chesterfield to Hayfield Heights, all of five or
six miles round trip. We were all worried that by the time Poppy
Perry renewed his expired license and returned home his new license
would have expired!
I figured he’d next look under the hood to make sure there weren’t
30 or 40 hamsters churning away under there. He continued saying,
“I mean, the speed limit is 50 and you were doin’ 20, maybe 25 miles
an hour tops.”
“Officer, I must say it’s a fine and dandy day and your badge
looks so bright and shiny against your crisp, white blouse!” Blouse?!
“What was he doing?” I thought. You don’t get stopped by a cop for
going too slow and start talkin’ about his blouse for God’s sake. Next
thing you’d know he’d be offering him a ‘training bra’.
Poppy slipped off his rabbit-fur lined gloves and turning his
beautiful round, balding head towards the policeman said, “I was just
going to get my driver’s license renewed with my Grandsons. I
thought a little spring air would be refreshing and time spent on the
journey would be a good time for us to bond.” “Time to bond?” I
thought; “Journey?”… Lord, if we’d have driven the speed limit we
would’ve made it in four, five minutes.
The cop leaned into Poppy’s open window and said, “Listen
Bullseye, you better get this car goin’ a little faster or your Grandkids
will be going to college AND attending your funeral simultaneuosly
from this car. I don’t mean any disrespect, but you gotta’ get moving;
please” he concluded.
I can still see the dents in the refrigerator from my father's fists
and I remember lying awake upstairs in bed hearing him desperately
asking my mother (and himself) "What do you want me to do? What
the hell do you want me to do?"… A trillion years later, I still didn't
know, I really don't know. My parents didn't either, and after a long
torturous "bad marriage" period, they divorced in the mid-seventies.
To My SONS
The Great One's best friends (other than his sometime "girlfriend"
Bivalve Betty) were my father and a rather gigantic fellow they called
"Dutch". I only met Dutch once in the mid/late seventies, but the
whole afternoon was surreal and representative of virtually every
weekday afternoon for these gentlemen of leisure. I recalled stopping
by around 2:00 pm one afternoon and was immediately surprised to
see that 'cocktail hour' was in full swing.
"Jack, I see you're still tweaking the Devil's tail by smokin' those
cigarettes” said the Great One.
"Yeah, and I see your in his full embrace with a triple Jack
Daniels in one hand and a fried bologna sandwich in the other" I
retorted. My barb fell harmlessly to the floor - there was nothing I
could say that would slow these locomotives of double-binging my
uncle and his coterie had become, and the party roared on.
I couldn’t help but notice that when the Flying Dutchman got up to
refill his schooner with Black Jack bourbon he careened into the
kitchen with a pronounced limp. “Hey Uncle Dick, what’s with the
Dutchman and this limp?” I asked.
The Great One looked up and said “Your cousin Mike (Uncle
Dick’s eldest son) washed my car and also Armor-All-ed my car seats
yesterday. After I picked up the Flyer we headed to the Lobster Pot
for the ‘Seafood Extravaganza Special’ they have every Tuesday
night. Some 90 pound blue-haired old lady pulled in front of me; I
slam on the brakes and Dutch slides off his seat like a giant fried egg
from a non-stick skillet. His knees hit the dashboard so hard the
radio popped out. My God Jack, I had to stop the car and pull him
back up into the seat. It was like pullin’ a 350 pound dough ball out of
a foxhole. I haven’t worked that hard in years.”
Dang, and I thought ‘Humpty Dumpty’ was quite a yarn… this was
true stuff.
By 4:30 or so, my Pop (weighing150 pounds, tops) had
consumed four or five martinis, while Dutch and my uncle had plowed
through almost an ENTIRE HALF-GALLON of Jack Daniels. Bivalve
Betty was in the corner, slurping down a Vodka and clam juice
smoothie she'd whipped up in a blender. This was BEFORE they all
left for their favorite restaurant, The Lobster Pot, to enjoy happy-hour
and chew through an all-you-can-eat seafood buffet. One truly
wouldn't have believed it if they hadn't seen it; and this was almost
every afternoon!
Ten or fifteen years later, not hearing any news about Dutch
(who LOVED seafood) and his eating/drinking exploits, I was told
he'd moved to the East Coast, I think I was told Maine. When I asked
Pops why he chose to move so far from his best friends, it was
explained to me, in all seriousness, that "Dutch wanted to be closer to
his seafood source, the Atlantic Ocean." That's True Love.