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Including coping strategies to overcome doubts and fears that are likely to occur
during training and racing, this book will help you develop an automatic response
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mechanism to deal with them when they happen.
than 1,050 triathlons, marathons and
This book is not about mental toughness but learning how to train the mind.
ultra endurance races worldwide during
Most of the research about overcoming adversity has been investigated and is the last 32 years. In preparation and
discussed in this book. Examples of mental imagery and thought processes will completion of these challenges Mark
help you for the rest of your life. has experienced every physical and
mental adversity.
He taught himself how to deal with
every problem that arose, no matter
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his own personal, effective coping
the Complete book of strategies which he shares in this book.
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to know about triathlon, whether you be
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another sport. It tells you how to get started
– what equipment to buy, the diet you will
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WHAT HAPPENS TO THE MiND
DURiNG ENDURANCE EVENTS?
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