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50 Useful Dating Tips For Singles
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50 USEFUL DATING TIPS FOR SINGLES
Dating Tips for single men and women
• Give your dating effort a positive start. The most fundamental of all dating
tips is that even if you have been a loser so far do not lose heart. If you
believe in yourself you are sure to achieve success. Firstly, make up your
mind about what you desire and then pursue it with zeal.
• Be realistic in your objectives. This is an essential dating tip if you wish to

avoid disappointment. If you opt for someone much older or younger than
you, remember there could be perception differences and the possibility that
your expectations may not be fulfilled. This is something you must be
prepared to accept and move on.
• Make a good first impact while the first impression may not necessarily be
the last impression, they definitely do matter. Remember this essential
dating tip and make some effort to put forward a pleasing personality. While
your looks may not be something that you can alter, grooming your
personality is in your hands, so give it a shot and you will not be

disappointed.
• Enjoy yourself. One of the most essential dating tips that is lost in the maze
of appearance, presentation etc, is to enjoy yourself. Do not be unduly
worried about whether or not the relationship will move forward, just ensure
that you have a pleasurable dating experience.
• Start with a thorough, reliable personality test. This will reveal areas of
similarity and differences between you both.
• Explore your family background and upbringing. That is what had the
greatest influence on who you would eventually become.
• Compare your deal breakers and must-haves. Do you match up well with the
qualities you’re looking for and wanting to avoid?
• Ask yourself if you’re pretending to enjoy your partner’s interests (and vice
versa). Sometimes we intentionally or unintentionally fool ourselves – and
our partners -by acting enthusiastic about hobbies and pursuits. Over time,
this false enthusiasm will fade away.
• Assess your combination of passion and companionship. The most enduring

chemistry between two people includes both passionate “sizzle” and deep
friendship.
• Recognize any cute quirks that might irk over time. Sometimes the habits
and idiosyncrasies that seem charming while dating will grate on you
through the years.
• Gauge the level of acceptance you feel. Compatible couples feel a strong
sense of harmony and freedom to be themselves.
• Talk at length about your core values. Are you similar when it comes to your
strongly held beliefs about social issues, spirituality, finances, politics, and
child rearing?
• Identify the differences that do exist. No matter how compatible the two of
you are, there are bound to be some differences. Determine if those are
related to significant issues that will impact your relationship over time - or
relatively small issues that are be negotiated.
• Observe each other in lots of different circumstances. Watch how each of

you acts around family, work colleagues, at home, with children, and so on.
• Evaluate your effectiveness at resolving conflicts. Where dissimilarities

exist, are you and a partner able to talk them through and reach a fair
resolution?
• Look ahead. The standard job interview question is, “Where do you see
yourself in ten years?” This is also a question you should carefully consider.
Do your goals and aspirations for the future complement each other’s?
• Take a hard look at your personal habits. All the nitty-gritty aspects of daily
life-punctuality, neatness, grooming, weight management-can prove to a
source of tension if two people having much different styles of living.
• Notice how stress is handled. Pressure-filled situations tend to reveal our

true nature. As Maya Angelou once said, “I’ve learned that you can tell a lot
a person by the way he or she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost
luggage, and tangled Christmas lights.”
• Appraise your adaptability. A flexible personality enables you to ride out

storms and adjust to all kinds of challenges. This will be essential for dealing
with the areas where you aren’t compatible.
Dating Tips For Single Men
• You want to become comfortable in your own skin, no matter where you
might be. Some guys who don't seem to have a problem getting attention
from women no matter where they go. You can take them to a hip hop club
one night and they are going to have a good time and then you can take them
to a country western club and they still are going to have an easier time
attracting attention from women than most guys will. The reason for that
usually comes back to the fact that no matter where they are and where they
go, they feel comfortable in their own skin. The club might change a little bit
and the crowd might change, but they still feel comfortable with who they
are. When you come across that way, you are bound to get attention from
women because that kind of confidence is a rare commodity and that makes
it one that most women are going to value pretty highly.
• You want to dress in a way that accurately portrays who you really are. This
is one area where a lot of guys will chase the trends, hoping that if they keep
in style that they will be able to attract attention from women. While it may
work to some extent, you can also easily come across as kind of a poser and
that's not really the best impression that a guy can make. The way that you
dress should be a reflection of who you really are. If you are a guy who
totally hates the emo scene, for example, you don't want to dress like you
love it. You might attract the attention of women who are into that scene if
you do dress that way, but at some point they are going to be able to tell that
it is just an act and when they do figure that out, you are going to lose their
attention just as quickly as you might have gained it.
• The guy who has more options than the next guy is usually the one who ends
up with a date on Friday night. This is one area where you really can't go
wrong as long as you have many options as far as who you can ask out. You
don't necessarily have to become a player, you just need to realize that when
you focus all of your attention on just one woman, you are inevitably going
to limit yourself. What if she ends up saying no to a date with you? What if
she says that she just wants to be friends? Or, what if she just happens to be
busy this weekend? If you only have one option and it doesn't work out, you
are going to be left sitting home alone. On the other hand, if you have many
options and one of them doesn't happen to work out, you can always call up
someone else and have a pretty good chance of still being able to pull a date
for the weekend.
• You have to understand that even though attraction isn't really a choice that
a woman makes, it can still be heavily influenced by you. When some guys
realize that attraction isn't really a choice for a woman, they either feel it or
they don't, they make the mistake of feeling as though that means that they
don't have much of a chance of influencing the way that a woman feels
about them. That could not be further from the truth. You can influence the
way that a woman feels about you and there are plenty of things that you can
do to make her feel attracted to you. The broader your skill set is as far as
attracting a woman goes, the more likely it is that you can even take a
situation where a woman doesn't feel much attraction to you right away and
turn it into a situation where it starts to grow. This is one of the things that
naturals seem to do well and it ends up being one of the major reasons why
they seem to attract any woman that they want to.
• Seduction is not about tricking women, it's about enticing them. Some guys
hear the word seduction and they link that word to the idea that you have to
try and trick a woman into wanting you and that's not the way that it is at all.
Seduction is more about learning how to entice a woman the right way. It's
more about learning how to make women feel certain emotions when they
are around you and building their attraction up until they reach that point
where it goes from being merely attraction and becomes all out desire. When
you can make a woman feel like she totally desires to be around you, you
have it made. That is what seduction is all about. The trickery, the gimmicks,
those things don't really matter that much and you don't have to go down that
road if you don't want to. There are plenty of viable methods of seduction
that work and have nothing to do with tricking a woman.
• Step up the game. Approaching her with a tired pickup line, or even sending
her a drink from across the bar and waiting for her to make the approach,
isn’t exactly reinventing the wheel. She’s heard the pickup lines before, and
she’s gotten more drinks than she can swallow. A guy needs to cut the
cheesy lines and just be genuine. Try the straightforward approach by just
saying, "Hi, my name is…." followed by an interesting conversation. No,
she doesn’t want to be regaled by tall tales, extreme bragging or pretentious
stories; instead, try talking about books, music, or movies or just a funny
thing that happened at the office today. Believe it or not, a genuinely nice
guy who isn’t fake or annoying is more impressive than the guy with the
corny pickup line who loudly complains of his Lamborghini being in the
shop.
• Be Chivalrous. Take a page from classic dating strategy - it works for a

reason. Open doors for her, call her (don’t just text), show up on time, and
keep the old car clean and neat. She doesn’t want to shove 4 bags of Taco
Bell wrappers on the floor just to sit down. Most girls appreciate the
occasional, unexpected gift, but don’t just stick to a dozen roses - unless she
loves them. Do some research and get creative. Bring her Oreos and a new
lady flick, if that’s what she loves; the gift doesn’t have to be expensive, but
knowing what she really likes is worth its weight in gold.
• Be adventurous. Stray away from the same old same old dates and do
something together that is more adventurous, or something she’s never tried
before. For instance, if a guy is a wine expert and she only drinks the boxed
variety, she may enjoy going to a wine tasting where he can share his
knowledge and teach her something new. Or go on a "date of firsts" and do
only things that neither person has ever done. It might take some planning,
but the effort won’t go unnoticed.
• Listen to her. Don’t just talk to her -- listen to her. Respond thoughtfully and
show her that she is really being heard when she talks. Remembering her
obsession with unicorns that she briefly mentioned on the first date and
bringing it up later will impress her and make a guy stand out from all the
losers who don’t really listen to her words, because they’re too busy looking
at her neckline.
Dating Tips for Single Women
• Do your own thing. Don’t let a man become the center of your universe. If
you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will
most likely feel smothered! Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic
“you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a
part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of

“interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent
and dependent; that means you create sacred space for your relationship as
well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends.
• Don’t lose the things that are most important to you, and keep doing what
you were doing before you started dating him: your Sunday morning yoga
class, a yearly vacation with your college roommates, etc.
• Some men are afraid of commitment (so they might need a little more time
than you to decide if you’re the one).
• Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re
ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in
a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone.

He’s going to wonder how after two dinners and one museum trip you
already know that you want him to be your boyfriend.
• So even though it’s great to let a new guy know where you are in your life or
about your dating goals, take the time to get to know him before you decide.
(We recommend that you hold that conversation until at least date three or
four). As a result, he’ll feel a whole lot better about the possibility of having
a relationship if you give him a little time.
• Don’t rush the getting-to-know-each-other part. Not only is this phase of

dating exciting, but it also allows you time to “data date” and collect the
information you need to determine if he’s boyfriend material and someone
you want to be in a relationship with.
• We always want you to invite us in after a first date, but we secretly hope
you’ll say no. If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material,
don’t hook up with him on the first date. It will probably make him wonder
if you would do the very same thing with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.
• This is also a good way to feel out whether he’s looking for some casual fun
or something a little more serious. Often we believe that a man will expect
us to get physical from the get-go and that if we don’t, men will lose interest
if it doesn’t happen right away. In fact, it’s actually the opposite. It’s not a
deal breaker every time, but it does make the “getting to know you” part
more complicated.
• Don’t call us all the time. Let us call you. If you’re consistently calling,
texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, a man won’t have to lift a
finger. Let the communication be balanced. This is not to say that you can’t
ever reach out to a man you’re dating, but let him do the asking out–at least
in the early stages.
• If you’re both interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the
amount of communication. If you feel like you may be guilty of over-
calling, take a break and see if he comes back and puts in the effort. If so,
wonderful. And if not? Move on, sister! You deserve someone who wants to
reach out to you, call you, and ask you out.
• Don’t assume you are exclusive. As scary as it may seem to talk to your man
about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing
other people. Words are helpful, and you should use them sometimes.
• So he tells you he wants to introduce you to his sister? Awesome! Still

doesn’t mean you’re exclusive. Try something like, “You know, I’d really
like not to see other people. How do you feel about that?” If he gives you an
answer you aren’t looking for, buh-bye. And if he gives you a yes, fantastic!
Go for it!
• Men aren’t all the same, so give them a chance! As easy as it would be to
base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen
to your best guy friend’s advice, not all men are the same. So even though
these dating tips from men can be very helpful, men are ultimately
individuals. Let them show up and show you how much they’re interested!
Myth and tips
• Fear of rejection is extremely common, but shouldn’t be something that any

of us should worry about. How many times have you already let the person
of your dreams slip by because you didn’t ask them out? And who knows,
they might have said yes!
• A lot of people think that if they are not instantly attracted to someone, then
it will never work. This is just not true, and there are lots of people that have
been friends for a very long time and can eventually end up in a relationship
together.
• It’s important not to dismiss the possibility of a relationship with someone

just because you don’t find them attractive right now, and be open minded to
everyone in your life. You just never know who might suddenly catch your
eye after all these years.
• Not everyone has to be in a relationship to be happy, and there are lots of

people who prefer to be single. It could be that they are just not ready and
the timing isn’t right, or it could be that they just prefer to enjoy the single
life for a little while longer until they feel they’re ready.
• Being single doesn’t mean you have to spend every waking hour searching
for love, and it isn’t the only place you will find happiness. Don’t force the
issue and have patience! Sometimes love will just find you, and if you’re
happy being single for the time being, then don’t panic and rush into
anything.
• It’s better to be in a bad relationship than to be single right? Wrong! This is

a common myth and one which will almost always end in disaster. Being a
part of a bad relationship will leave you both unhappy – and life’s too short!
• Don’t feel like you need to be in a relationship just because society or even
your friends seem to think so. Your happiness is the most important thing,
and there is no need to rush into anything that doesn’t feel right.
• In order to sustain a long healthy relationship, it’s important for couples to

discuss their disagreements openly, and to let each other know how they’re
feeling. Most arguments can be resolved easily if a couple can sit down
together and talk rather than yell at each other.
• One of the main reasons why a relationship doesn’t last is because couples
find it hard to share their feelings with each other and help each other go
forward. So no matter how scary it may seem when considering a
relationship, you shouldn’t let the possibility of an argument put you off.
Just accept that at some stage it will happen, and that you can both easily
resolve it.

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DISCLAIMER / LEGAL NOTICE

publication, the Publisher assumes no responsibility for errors, omissions, or

contrary interpretation of the subject matter herein. Any perceived slights of

specific persons, peoples, or organizations are unintentional.

individual circumstances to act accordingly.

in legal, business, accounting and finance fields.

You are encouraged to print this book for easy reading.

50 USEFUL DATING TIPS FOR SINGLES

Dating Tips for single men and women

• Be realistic in your objectives. This is an essential dating tip if you wish to

personality is in your hands, so give it a shot and you will not be

• Assess your combination of passion and companionship. The most enduring

• Observe each other in lots of different circumstances. Watch how each of

• Evaluate your effectiveness at resolving conflicts. Where dissimilarities

• Notice how stress is handled. Pressure-filled situations tend to reveal our

• Appraise your adaptability. A flexible personality enables you to ride out

Dating Tips For Single Men

• Be Chivalrous. Take a page from classic dating strategy - it works for a

Dating Tips for Single Women

Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of

a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone.

• Don’t rush the getting-to-know-each-other part. Not only is this phase of

• So he tells you he wants to introduce you to his sister? Awesome! Still

Myth and tips

• Fear of rejection is extremely common, but shouldn’t be something that any

• It’s important not to dismiss the possibility of a relationship with someone

• Not everyone has to be in a relationship to be happy, and there are lots of

• It’s better to be in a bad relationship than to be single right? Wrong! This is

• In order to sustain a long healthy relationship, it’s important for couples to

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