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MB8 - Resolving Conflict PA 25102016
MB8 - Resolving Conflict PA 25102016
Resolving Conflict
BY PETER ANDREWS, MBA, CPA, B.ECONOMICS, B.ARTS
Former lecturer at Macquarie University
CONTENTS
RESOLVING CONFLICT ...................................................................................2
THE CORRECT APPROACH ................................................................................2
Peter Andrews is a specialist trainer in HANDLING DISPUTES ......................................................................................3
Financial Planning.
When there is clear aggression on the other side the “Treat borrowers with empathy and courtesy.
representative can express his/her own position with Borrowers may refer their complaints to us simply
what psychologists refer to as “I” statement. This avoids because they feel they are not being taken seriously, or
3 the aggression that is inherent in “you” statements. are unhappy with the way they have been treated, by
staff of the lender.”3
A common suggestion is that an aggressive approach on
3 the part of a client can be turned into an approach of Treating the client with empathy and courtesy from the
mutual co-operation by using a four-part “I” message: start of the conflict situation may be a very satisfactory
way of resolving the dispute early so that more formal
1. “I feel like…… (expresses one’s feelings)
disputes resolution is not required.
2. “I don't like it when……. “ (identifies the unwanted
behaviour) Going back to a client’s needs is a good way of doing
this.
3. “because………” (Identifies what it is about the
behaviour or its consequences that one objects to)
HANDLING DISPUTES
4. “Can we work this out together?” (Indicates a
willingness to resolve the dispute).1 Unfortunately, some conflicts are not avoided, or they
go to IDR or eventually EDR, no matter how much
With this approach an aggressive message sender empathy and courtesy have been shown. CIO has
receives an impartial message about the feeling impact advised that many of the complaints it receives reach
of the aggressive message. The importance of the that stage because they have not been handled
feeling statement is that it keeps the focus on the properly during IDR.
feeling of the speaker which is less likely to illicit a
defensive reaction and more likely to promote As well as maintaining an attitude of empathy and
effective communication. courtesy, CIO advises:
“Let borrowers know when a decision will be
The two sides can then decide to de-escalate the
made” (under FOS rules it must be made within 21
aggression and continue on the basis of the “I”
days).
statement and its meaning.
“Provide the borrower with interim updates, if
Show Empathy practicable”.
The approach of demonstrating empathy, which should “Do not ask the borrower to provide unnecessary
have been present when the client relationship was information, particularly information that is not
established, needs to be maintained in a situation of strictly relevant or which the lender already has in
conflict. This applies both to the five days “window of its possession”.
opportunity” that is available before a dispute is “Allow a reasonable time for the borrower to
referred for IDR as well as to the period of the IDR itself provide their financial information”.
if the conflict is not resolved first.
These are not theoretical points. Instead, they
The reader may recall that there are two external represent practical advice based on the reasons for
dispute resolution schemes in the financial services disputes being considered by CIO.
industry:
The Financial Service (FOS); and The reason for the borrower being provided with
updates is that CIO has found that “a borrower who
The Credit and Investments Ombudsman (CIO).2 thinks, rightly or wrongly, that his or her application is
not making progress, is likely to refer the complaint to
CIO has stated that many of the disputes it receives us before the 21 days has expired.” In other words, the
would have been resolved internally if the correct worst way to handle the matter is to leave the borrower
approach had been taken. Its first recommendation uninformed. Likewise, unnecessary requests for
towards improving the situation is: information lengthen the dispute resolution process
(and irritate the borrower).
1
The four-part ‘I’ approach is generally attributed to the Ohio
Commission on Dispute Resolution & Conflict Management.
2 Formerly the Credit Ombudsman Service (COS). 3 Credit Ombudsman Service, Member News 32, November 2011.
External Disputes Resolution FOS investigated the matter and found that the
claimants’ partnership income was $45,000, not
Unfortunately, a significant percentage of disputes are $400,000 as stated.
4 not resolved through the IDR process. A mortgage
broker is required to advise the claimant of the As the lender had failed to make enquiries, the case
outcome of any dispute that is resolved internally, as manager concluded that the FSP’s approval of the loan
4 well as the reasons for the outcome and the availability was maladministration in lending. However, since Mr
of the relevant EDR service. and Mrs Z had deliberately misstated their income, FOS
did not consider that the FSP should be liable for Mr
In addition, if the matter has not been resolved within and Mrs Z’s loss in its entirety. Accordingly, it concluded
forty-five days the disputant has a right to take the that Mr and Mrs Z should bear two thirds of their loss
matter to the EDR without waiting for the outcome of with the lender being responsible for one third of the
the IDR process. loss.4