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Allison Dixon
English 1201
Waggoner
21 March 2021
As a child grows up, they learn everything they know about life from their parents, from
how to tie their shoes to how to walk. As a child reaches the age that is old enough to attend their
first school, each parent goes through a variety of different emotions. Some parents' main feeling
is that they are sad that their child is becoming less dependent on their support and instead
relying on their teachers and classmates to help them learn more. Other parents feel excited and
happy that their child is not as dependent on their advice anymore. Both emotions are normal and
most of the time there can be a mixture. However, the role of a parent does not stop as soon as
another support system comes into play. This is where a lot of parents go wrong and where my
question, “How does parental involvement play a role in a child’s life as they grow up?”, comes
into play.
Many parents, as the child goes through school, thinks that the responsibility of their
child’s education is in the hands of the teachers and the teachers only. This, however, is a
common mistake. Parental involvement in education is crucial, “No matter their income or
background, students with involved parents are more likely to have higher grades and test scores,
attend school regularly, have better social skills, show improved behavior, and adapt well to
school” (Brooks). This is very noticeable when you go into a nonprofit organization for after
school care for low-income families. These low-income parents spend most of their time at work
trying to make money to support their children and do not have time to sit down and help their
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child learn. Instead, the parents put all their trust into the educators at the school their child is
attending. Their lack of emotional and physical support with their child’s education can lower the
Although it is hard to say what part of parental involvement exactly benefits a child, it is
very easy to see in the statistics that the child is definitely better in school. When a parent is
involved and even does small things such as, asking engaging questions about the school day or
showing a positive attitude towards education in general, you see a rise in motivation and an
increase in confidence. El Nokali states, “parent involvement may also enhance children's
behavior at home and in the classroom as parents and teachers work together to enhance social
functioning and address problem behaviors. A growing literature has demonstrated benefits of
parent involvement for social functioning”. When a parent is involved in their child’s education
it helps the teacher know that the rules and expectations are being enforced throughout the day at
home as well so that the child does not take their schooling as a joke. This is more important in
younger children but there are different effects on high school students as well.
A typical high school student already does not have as much motivation as previous
years, but how a parent gets involved with their young adults education can help them achieve
higher goals than they would have reached otherwise. In research done by Alyssa Gonzalez she
states, “we found that relationships exist between parental involvement and such student
variables such as academic achievement, attitude, homework readiness, grades and educational
aspirations”. It is definitely harder for a parent to get involved with their child’s education as
they get into high school, but there are other ways that a parent can do to ensure that their child
can have the most successful high school experience. According to Gonzalez, “The parenting
practices that seemed to have the most impact on high school students' success were helping with
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their student’s homework, attending school programs, watching the student in sports or other
extracurricular activities, helping the student to select courses, and remaining informed about
student’s progress in school”. In the results from their studies, it seemed to show exactly what
they had predicted, that student’s with higher parental involvement had higher grade point
averages.
Some things that varied throughout the sources was that too much parental involvement
can also lead to detrimental effects as well. Some of the sources I read stated that there was no
such thing as too much parental involvement. However, in a source by Wendy Taylor she
disagrees, “Overbearing parents that micromanage, handhold, and make excuses on behalf of the
child can be as detrimental as the parents who are absent all together”. When parents are this
involved, it does not give the student enough room to grow and develop into their own person
who can stand up for themselves. This can also cause grade point averages to lower, due to not
One of the worst parts about less parental involvement in education is that it can go past
education and into the personality of the child. The children with more behavioral issues and low
social skills are more likely to have little to no parental involvement (El Nokali). When the
child’s parents are not involved then it makes the child feel as if they are free to do whatever they
want without punishment at their house hold. In studies by Peters he states, “Therefore, students
whose parents are involved in their education tend to do better in school, exhibit positive and
low-risk behaviors, and associate with peers who hold similarly high standards for performance”.
This shows that parental involvement can create a whole personality for their child just through
There is still a lot to learn about the effects of parental involvement, but it is very clear
that when a parent is interacting with their child and encourages them to do their best it can do
nothing but benefit them in the long run. As the parental involvement dwindles, the detrimental
effects on the child get worse and worse. I need to look deeper into the things that parents can do
for their child to help them become more involved and to help the child create their own identity.
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Works Cited
Ansari, Arya, and Anna J. Markowitz. “Can Parents Do It All? Changes in Parent Involvement
from 1997 to 2009 among Head Start Families.” Children and Youth Services Review,
www.rasmussen.edu/degrees/education/blog/parental-involvement-in-education/.
El Nokali, Nermeen E, et al. “Parent Involvement and Children's Academic and Social
Peters, Thaddues J. “Parental Involvement: How Does It Relate to Student Behavior and
Academic Success?.” ProQuest LLC, ProQuest LLC. 789 East Eisenhower Parkway, P.O.
Http://Www.proquest.com/En-US/Products/Dissertations/Individuals.shtml, 30 Nov.
2011, eric.ed.gov/?id=ED550004.
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Taylor, Wendy. “Parent Involvement: How Much Is Too Much?” Learning Essentials,
Wendy Taylor
Https://Learningessentialsedu.com/Wp-Content/Uploads/2018/07/Learning-Essenti
learningessentialsedu.com/parent-involvement-how-much-is-too-much/.