Dear future self, take your time you have your whole life ahead of you.

Stop trying
to rush things that will eventually come to you. Have fun in college, not too much fun but
enough fun where learning is still the top priority. Love yourself properly, don’t doubt
yourself, and stay positive. While in college, join clubs and be more involved to get out of
our comfort zone and meet lots of new people. Keep up with that support and love from
family and friends to help you stay motivated. Once you graduate college all that hard
work will be worth it. Hopefully, you will achieve the goal of having your own event
planning business one day and being your own boss. Plan unique weddings and parties
that aren’t so traditional for people who want to be more extravagant and different from
the traditional style of events.
Eventually try to travel the world and meet/experience different people and
cultures. Most importantly get to the point in life where you don’t have to worry about
money. Buy your own house eventually with someone you love/marry. Have that big
family with 4-5 kids that you have always wanted. Creating a big family for your future
kids so they never feel alone and have built in friends is very important since you didn’t
have siblings growing up. No dream is too big and you can do whatever you want
because this is your life and nobody else’s. Don’t try to hide who you really are and do
things for other people because you shouldn’t care about what other people think. Live
life to the fullest.
Sincerely,
2021 self