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UTS - Assignment 1 - Mella, Glyzelle G.
UTS - Assignment 1 - Mella, Glyzelle G.
Other people may disagree but for me, I must say yes. Knowing myself is one of the
hardest things for me. How do someone can fully understand himself, if we only rely on
what we want to see. If we are blinded by our own biases and boxed with our own
perceptions in life.
They say that ‘it only takes you to understand yourself’. When I am younger, I once one
of them believing that alone I will know who really am. As I grew older, I realized that
the version of me imprinted in my mind may be far more different to the people closest
to my heart or to the random people I have been with.
Asking other people, how they perceived you, what they like most about you, or
sometimes what are the things you do that annoyed them is not a bad thing. Allowing
yourself to hear their thoughts does not mean, you’re making yourself vulnerable or
being dependent to the you they know. Perhaps, it is the ‘you’ you did not know.
Have you ever been told of something about you that sounds so strange and after some
time you have realized that he or she is right? Maybe that’s one of the you, you failed to
recognize.
And at some point in ourlives, someone knows you better than you do. It could be the
giving up you, yet there’s someone out there believing you can. Because your what if’s
drowned you, what if I fail or what if I disappoint them. And in this alone, you will not see
the you ‘who can’ and believing the ‘you who can’t’.
Isn’t wonderful to see the you, uncovered by the shadows of your own. For you allows
their light to see you, unveiled by the darkness of your shadows. And for me, that’s the
greatest thing about life, when you fall short the light you need may not always come
from you but to other people, if only you let them to.