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If you are an Aquarius you are a friendly and unconventional type, fascinated by everything
and everyone. You easily make contact, but you remain superficial and are attached to your
freedom. But, in spite of your unconventional behavior, as soon as you find someone who
respects you, you enter deliberately into a relationship. This does not mean that you are
willing to give up your independence, your friends or your eccentric ways. You are as
passionate as anybody else, but even though you love sex, you are not a slave of it. You are
very rational.
To Aquarius, love and marriage do not necessarily go hand in hand. You are the freedom
fighter of the zodiac: your Aquarian antecedents were the Suffragettes, who chained
themselves to railings, demanding the right to vote! And there’s something of the Suffragette
in every Aquarian female. Regardless of your physical attributes, you could never be regarded
as a ’doll’, a pretty, empty-headed thing - you have a fine mind, strong opinions and a desire
to do something worthwhile with your life. Thus, you attract a certain kind of man, and
alienate others. Strong women are feared by a lot of men.
Friendship is a key component of your romantic relationships. Whether it is because you are a
little frightened of losing your heart and being out of control, you tend to keep the men you
are fiercely attracted to at arms’ length. In this way, you give very mixed signals: a man
senses the attraction between you yet he is confused by your apparent indifference to him.
Part of the conundrum of being an Aquarian is that while you are an air sign, and therefore a
creature of ideas and ideals, you are also Fixed, which means you can be resistant to change
and somewhat set in your views and behaviours. Also, while you can hold a very liberal
attitude to sex and sexuality, you tend to be faithful and possessive. A paradox indeed.
Like Ms. Capricorn, you need to trust your feelings a lot more, to allow yourself to express
your needs and reveal your vulnerability. Staying in a relationship through a misguided sense
of loyalty and fear of change is no route to happiness and fulfilment, nor is keeping your heart
locked firmly behind an armour-plated wall. Then again, the men who fall in love with you,
and remain locked in your aura for eternity, do so because you are such an enigma, she-who-
cannot-be-possessed, their very own Greta Garbo.
Aquarius in Bed
First and foremost they love their freedom. Convincing them that you will not impose and
their freedom is a must. You may want to tell them you are moving across the country so they
don’t think you’ll be around to entrap them. Make sure that you do not discuss or even think
about marriage or children.
A little warning: make sure there are no interesting books lying around to distract them. Their
attention span towards sex tends to fall by the wayside if there is a good book around. Fantasy
games are always encouraged when it comes time to seduce your Aquarian. They love
anything that is a distraction from reality. Being fun and outrageous will ease their mind that
you are not looking for a commitment. Let them think this is a one-night fling and they will be
taken in by your sense of adventure. Aquarians are very “cerebral”. They love people who
“think”. Once you have their mind, their body will follow.