Venus in Scorpio

Highly Sexual, Loyal, Secretive

People born with Venus in Scorpio will place a very high importance on sex in their lives.  They can be
incredibly sexually magnetic.  They are always a little dark and mysterious and maybe a little scary. 
They are very guarded and secretive about their emotions.  In relationships they are committed and
loyal but there will always be an element of mystery. They will never give everything away about
themselves to their lover. They will always keep their friends and lovers wondering. They may have
secret affairs.  They may just prefer to keep their relationships private and away from public
scrutiny.  They enjoy being around people who are “real”. They are not superficial. They love people
for who they are not what they look like. But it takes them a very long time to decide if they are
worthy of that love.  They don’t have many friends but the one’s they do have are for life. They are
very protective and loyal to the ones they care about.

Women:

Women born with Venus in Scorpio will be incredibly sexually magnetic. They may not necessarily be
“pretty” or commercially attractive but they will draw people in with their raw sexual power.  They
tend to keep a very natural look and usually don’t wear a lot of makeup.  They may dress in dark
clothing. They may cover their whole body with clothes just to keep people guessing what they look
like under there.    They may also dress in form fitting clothing that accentuates all of their sexy
parts.  Venus in Scorpio can be many body types but their figure will always scream SEX! They look
look great in black and dark reds and blues.  Scorpio is the sign of purging and purification so they can
also look great in white. They usually have a very cool and unique style of dress. Their style is always
very original and uniquely “them”.   They will usually have deep watery eyes and a flirtatious smile.  

Women with Venus in Scorpio do not always have many friends. Unless they have other planets in
Libra or Sagittarius they won’t be very social. They will stick to themselves and the people they trust
the most.  It takes a lot to win their trust.  And it will be extremely difficult for them to forgive if
anyone ever violates their trust.  They are very loyal to their friends. They are always honest and will
always have their back in a caring and supportive way.  They are extremely perceptive and always see
into the heart of every situation, so they usually give great advice.

Venus in Scorpio loves to do weird, dark, unusual stuff. They are usually trendsetters in their group
because they try things that other people are afraid to try.  They may love going out at night and
doing weird things like night time skinny dipping at the beach, or trying some new exotic ethnic
restaurant that nobody knows about, or having some psychedelic experience with some Peruvian
Shaman. They love going there and just being weird.  Venus in Scorpio tends to love astrology and
the occult. They are all about investigating the dark and mysterious sides of things.  They can be
fascinated with magic and psychedelic experiences.  They may use or abuse substances. It’s
important that they strictly control their intake so that it doesn’t get out of hand.

Venus in Scorpio may prefer friends who have dark personalities or are counter to the dominant
culture in their life. They love the underworld and often go against the mainstream in their style and
with their friends.  Whatever is popular in their particular circle or society they may naturally do the
opposite. They prefer to take the road less traveled. 
In relationships, Venus in Scorpio women are extremely loyal. They have very high standards and are
very selective.  If they have chosen you, then you have already passed a bunch of their secret tests.
They may be the types to have sex on the first date. Its important for them to know if they can deal
with you sexually before they can proceed to any deeper emotions with you.  They love sex at a very
instinctive level. They are very natural at sex and their partner has to have a lot of natural sexual
ability too. They don’t like anything fake in bed and they can tell if someone is not really into it.  

They may also be the types to wait until a deep commitment before having sex. They may be aware
of their sexual power and want to be sure you can handle it before they allow you to experience it.

Women with Venus in Scorpio can be very obsessive in relationships. They can also be a bit
possessive. It takes a lot for them to give their heart away. So they want to be sure that you are ALL
THEIRS. 

If you break their hearts you have made the mistake of your life.  They are so cautious with their
heart and their trust. So if you do anything to violate it, you are probably just a bad person and
deserve whatever sting you get. Its important to be honest with Venus in Scorpio. They can handle it
and prefer it. If you don’t like them, don’t lead them on.  

Men:

May prefer a partner with the above qualities. May be the type to have sex for fun (more than
average LOL.) May be obsessed with sex or could have the tendencies to be a sex addict. May have
secret affairs and relationships. May keep his love life hidden, loves privacy. Will not like a partner
who kisses and tells.  May date women that are “darker” than him physically or figuratively.  May be
very obsessive in relationships. May have a secret or hidden life, keeping secrets from his family and
friends about social activities, other friends, and relationships that he truly enjoys.  This increases if
he has other planets in Libra. May lead a double life. May enjoy doing things at night and exploring
mysterious things.  May enjoy doing weird, kinky stuff.  May be interested in the occult, magic, or
scary things.  May prefer the exotic over the more mainstream in his social life and romantic life. 
May be a counter-culturalist and may refuse to take part in anything he considers common, typical or
mainstream.  

Men, if Venus is dominant in your chart or conjunct your AC, Sun, or Moon. Please feel free to
interpret the “Women” interpretation for yourself, just substitute the pronouns where necessary.

Famous Venus in Scorpio Natives:

Chloe Sevigny, Trina, Demi Moore, Jodie Foster, Naomi Watts, Condoleeza Rice, Brittany Murphy,
Alicia Silverstone, Serena Williams, Twiggy, Grace Slick, Sarah Silverman, Gemma Ward, Kris Jenner,
Lena Headey, Nia Long, Leonardo DiCaprio, Jim Morrison, Bruce Lee, Joaquin Phoenix, Anthony
Kiedis, Tiger Woods, Ray Liotta, Frank Ocean

it's all or nothing in matters of the heart. You are capable of loving deeply, and you crave intimacy.
Scorpio isn't afraid of anything, and when Venus, the planet of love, is found in this sign, love
relationships are intense. Scorpio is also a sign that thrives on crisis in order for its natives to feel
alive and vital, so when it comes to matters of the heart, you are not only unafraid of getting your
hands dirty, you may easily find an overly predictable relationship uninteresting. 

Scorpios don't enjoy being referred to as jealous, but from time to time, jealousy and possessiveness
become issues in your relationships. You have a strong desire to control your often turbulent
passions, and you don't always let your partner exactly what is going on inside of you as a result.
Others will be either strongly attracted to, or intimidated by, your obvious ability to give all to love,
and your extraordinary passion. Your strong interest in love and romance can sometimes border on
obsessive, and you need a partner who is willing to go the distance with you. Sexually, you are
intense as well, but you definitely do not only want your partner's body--you want his or her soul as
well. Sex without intimacy is ultimately uninteresting to you. 

Be careful that your fear of betrayal doesn't become a self-fulfilling prophecy. When insecure about
your partner's feelings about you, resorting to games of power and control might seem like a natural
route for you, and may even get temporary desired "results", but can have disastrous consequences
in the long run. Learning to let go a little and have faith in your partner can do wonders in any
relationship. When you are at your best, you are unafraid of intimacy and can offer extraordinary
passion to your relationships that is pretty much unmatched. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Aries:  An unusual combination, but very intriguing when
two powerful Venus placements come together! The attraction can be exciting, but harmony can be
difficult to attain. Your partner is direct while you can be more roundabout in expressions of love.
Your libido is rather constant, while your partner's fluctuates tremendously. Your partner lives for the
excitement of the moment in matters of the heart, but you have an eye on commitment and
constancy. Sexually, you are likely to have a powerful union, but emotionally there can be difficulties
because your styles of expressing love and affection are so contrary. Perhaps this combination is
better when the relationship is shorter term—the memory of your times together could be powerful.
Still, this combination can work in a committed, long-term relationship with heaps of love and
understanding. Adjustments will most surely have to be made. Butting heads is something you are
likely to do, as both of you want your way in relationships, but both of you will have to learn to
concede to each other now and again! Passions will run high, and if you can harness that energy and
put it to work for your relationship in a positive way, then the union will be satisfying indeed. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Taurus: Opposites attract? Very often they do. The
interesting thing about opposite astrological signs is that they do share a common theme, helping
them to see eye-to-eye from time to time, at least. Both of you are stubborn individuals, rather fixed
in your habits and tastes, and essentially intense and loyal in love. Neither of you lets go of
partnerships—or each other—easily. You tend to be more intense about your attachments than your
partner is, and your partner's overall peacefulness should go a long way to calm the sometimes
tumultuous waters of your emotions and needs. Each of you is attracted to the other's strong
personality and willingness to commit. You sense in your partner the ability to "go the distance", and
mutual respect is likely the result. This is a sexually intense and magnetic partnership. Who will run
the show? Ideally, both of you will, in different ways, but power is important to you both, and your
strong personalities may clash at times. One of the most common differences between Taurus and
Scorpio lies in how you approach love relationships. Your partner may find you overly complex, while
you might consider your partner's needs too simple! Your partner's desire in love is for peace and
stability, while you thrive on boat-rocking from time to time. You tend to feel threatened when a
relationship becomes too predictable, but predictability is your partner's goal! This basic clash is
inevitable, and finding a common ground will be essential. This partnership has an exceptional
chance of lasting.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Gemini: This has got to be one of the most challenging
combinations! An odd couple? Absolutely. But remember that we often gravitate towards challenges,
and we usually learn a great bit from people who are markedly different than ourselves. It seems that
"like attracts like" on a spiritual level, but on the physical plane, opposites often attract! Initially, the
attraction between you may be intense. Both of you are curious lovers (albeit in completely different
ways!), and you can be entirely fascinated with one another. But the very differences that attracted
you to each other in the first place can turn into serious "issues" as time goes on. Both of you are
provocative in your own way. Your partner is a tease, a flirt. This doesn't necessarily mean that he or
she flirts with everyone, but he or she does infuse a lot of lighthearted fun into their relationship.
Your love nature is intense, and you crave intimacy. When intimacy is threatened, you can become
very provocative in ways that are difficult to see for the untrained eye. The means by which you
attempt to regain a sense of control will vary depending on the type of Venusian Scorpio you are. You
are astute and perceptive, and can easily learn how to push your partner's buttons, and can become
quite skilled at doing so in subtle ways. You want your partner's soul, not just their body! Your
partner, however, has an entirely different view of partnership. He or she wants it to be fun, while
you will gladly sacrifice fun for intensity. Learning to blend these distinctly different styles and values
can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Cancer: This is considered an easier pairing than most
because both of your Venus signs are in Water. A similar—and familiar—vein to the quality of your
expressions of love can draw you to one another and make you feel "at home". Both of you take
commitment rather seriously, and neither of you is frivolous with your feelings and expressions. Your
partner's warmth and caring nature will feel regenerating to you, and your partner senses your all-
encompassing love that will hold special appeal to your loving partner. At times, the love you offer
can feel all-consuming, but this doesn't scare your partner like it would with some other lovers. In
fact, the love your partner gives is rather similar, and you don't fear closeness and intimacy. In fact,
you live for it! The attraction between the two of you is magnetic, deeply felt, and has the potential
to withstand the test of time if other factors in synastry support it. Both of you tend to be possessive
in love, and your partner's memory is powerful. Communication should be as open as possible, as
both of you tend towards holding silent grudges at times. Your partner's reaction to hurts is often
internalized, while you can grow cold and unresponsive when you feel slighted. However, the
empathy that runs between you can soften any hard angles in your relationship.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Leo: You and your partner can be possessive of each
other, which may become a big issue between you. You quickly "feel out" your emotions-on-the-
sleeves partner and learns his or her boundaries. When Leo and Scorpio mix, we are faced with the
mixing of Fire and Water. Water (Scorpio) has the power to put out Fire (Leo). What happens is your
partner's natural spiritedness and enthusiasm in love might seem threatening or disconcerting to
you, and you might find it easy to pull your partner down, or "rain on his or her parade". Leo and
Scorpio are both fixed signs, which means each of you is quite loyal and possibly very stubborn! Both
of you hold on to partnerships, so it is quite likely that your relationship will last long. However,
neither of you is particularly flexible, and both of you are quite proud. Jealousies and clashes of will
are very possible with this combination. In partnerships where money is shared, how each of you
spends money will likely be a big issue. There can be a lot of passion between you, as both of you
have strong appetites, but the bedroom can be yet another battleground for you and your partner.
When you withhold sex, generally because you are feeling unloved or unappreciated, your partner
takes it very personally. Despite the fact that you both have strong sexual appetites, there can be
periods of abstinence between you. However, each of you will find much to appreciate in each other.
Neither of you shies away from a relationship when it gets intense. Your partner is sure to appreciate
your emotional commitment to the relationship, and you will respect your partner's strength, as you
are attracted to intensity—even crisis. This is an intense, often rocky, and passionate pairing. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Virgo: Trust doesn't come extremely easy to either you
or your partner, but put you together, and the atmosphere feels quite safe. You are passionate and
intense—perhaps even provocative at times. If you sense passion and commitment is missing or
waning, you may go to any means (often subtle) to keep the relationship from becoming boring. This
is because you can be somewhat addicted to emotional excitement. Your partner is usually receptive
to a partner's wishes and needs, and he or she tends to bend their ways accordingly. Your lover
works hard at making relationships work—something that you sense and appreciate. Neither of you
is frivolous about committed relationships, and if you and your partner are committed to each other,
this pairing can be hard to break. This pairing combines Venusian Earth (your partner) and Water
(you). When you understand each other's different styles of loving, the combination can be very
fertile. Problems generally arise between the differences in focus. Both of you are committed to
making your relationship last, but your partner values practical expressions of commitment, while
you value emotional ones. Subtle control issues may be the source of problems over time. If you
sense any emotional distance on your lover's part, you may use various means to regain some sense
of control. Generally, your partner only appears "distant" because he or she is busy tending to the
cogs in the machine of your relationship. Your lover may find your silences frustrating, because he or
she is always willing to talk about the relationship and doesn't always understand why you resort to
giving him or her the silent treatment! You can be skilled at knowing how to push your partner's
buttons, however, and this may be one of the more potent ways you have discovered to get your
partner's attention! As long as game-playing is kept to a minimum, this relationship has many
strengths and much potential.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Libra:  Your partner values commitment, and so do you.
Both of you are focused on togetherness, albeit in different ways! You want your lover's soul, not just
his or her presence. Your lover, on the other hand, is most interested in companionship and outward
expressions of togetherness. With Libra ruling your partner's relationship needs, he or she works
hard at finding common ground and adamantly believes in equality and all that is fair. You, on the
other hand, believe just as strongly that life isn't fair! There is unquestionably an attraction between
you. You can be fascinated with your partner's charm, and your lover is intrigued by your intense love
nature. Although you are notorious for your mysteriousness, you can actually consider your Venus in
Libra partner to be somewhat of a puzzle! You may find your lover to be emotionally distant and
overly focused on superficial togetherness at the expense of intimacy. Your partner brings a lively,
luminous energy to his or her relationships—qualities that stand in stark contrast, at times, to your
intensity. This fundamental difference can at once attract you to each other and be the source of
some provocative difficulties in your relationship as time goes by. You have a lot to teach—and to
offer—each other. Finding a common ground may not be obviously easy, but commitment to your
partnership may be the strongest mutual goal.
it's all or nothing in matters of the heart. You are capable of loving deeply, and you crave intimacy.
Scorpio isn't afraid of anything, and when Venus, the planet of love, is found in this sign, love
relationships are intense. Scorpio is also a sign that thrives on crisis in order for its natives to feel
alive and vital, so when it comes to matters of the heart, you are not only unafraid of getting your
hands dirty, you may easily find an overly predictable relationship uninteresting. 

Scorpios don't enjoy being referred to as jealous, but from time to time, jealousy and possessiveness
become issues in your relationships. You have a strong desire to control your often turbulent
passions, and you don't always let your partner exactly what is going on inside of you as a result.
Others will be either strongly attracted to, or intimidated by, your obvious ability to give all to love,
and your extraordinary passion. Your strong interest in love and romance can sometimes border on
obsessive, and you need a partner who is willing to go the distance with you. Sexually, you are
intense as well, but you definitely do not only want your partner's body--you want his or her soul as
well. Sex without intimacy is ultimately uninteresting to you. 

Be careful that your fear of betrayal doesn't become a self-fulfilling prophecy. When insecure about
your partner's feelings about you, resorting to games of power and control might seem like a natural
route for you, and may even get temporary desired "results", but can have disastrous consequences
in the long run. Learning to let go a little and have faith in your partner can do wonders in any
relationship. When you are at your best, you are unafraid of intimacy and can offer extraordinary
passion to your relationships that is pretty much unmatched. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Aries:  An unusual combination, but very intriguing when
two powerful Venus placements come together! The attraction can be exciting, but harmony can be
difficult to attain. Your partner is direct while you can be more roundabout in expressions of love.
Your libido is rather constant, while your partner's fluctuates tremendously. Your partner lives for the
excitement of the moment in matters of the heart, but you have an eye on commitment and
constancy. Sexually, you are likely to have a powerful union, but emotionally there can be difficulties
because your styles of expressing love and affection are so contrary. Perhaps this combination is
better when the relationship is shorter term—the memory of your times together could be powerful.
Still, this combination can work in a committed, long-term relationship with heaps of love and
understanding. Adjustments will most surely have to be made. Butting heads is something you are
likely to do, as both of you want your way in relationships, but both of you will have to learn to
concede to each other now and again! Passions will run high, and if you can harness that energy and
put it to work for your relationship in a positive way, then the union will be satisfying indeed. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Taurus: Opposites attract? Very often they do. The
interesting thing about opposite astrological signs is that they do share a common theme, helping
them to see eye-to-eye from time to time, at least. Both of you are stubborn individuals, rather fixed
in your habits and tastes, and essentially intense and loyal in love. Neither of you lets go of
partnerships—or each other—easily. You tend to be more intense about your attachments than your
partner is, and your partner's overall peacefulness should go a long way to calm the sometimes
tumultuous waters of your emotions and needs. Each of you is attracted to the other's strong
personality and willingness to commit. You sense in your partner the ability to "go the distance", and
mutual respect is likely the result. This is a sexually intense and magnetic partnership. Who will run
the show? Ideally, both of you will, in different ways, but power is important to you both, and your
strong personalities may clash at times. One of the most common differences between Taurus and
Scorpio lies in how you approach love relationships. Your partner may find you overly complex, while
you might consider your partner's needs too simple! Your partner's desire in love is for peace and
stability, while you thrive on boat-rocking from time to time. You tend to feel threatened when a
relationship becomes too predictable, but predictability is your partner's goal! This basic clash is
inevitable, and finding a common ground will be essential. This partnership has an exceptional
chance of lasting.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Gemini: This has got to be one of the most challenging
combinations! An odd couple? Absolutely. But remember that we often gravitate towards challenges,
and we usually learn a great bit from people who are markedly different than ourselves. It seems that
"like attracts like" on a spiritual level, but on the physical plane, opposites often attract! Initially, the
attraction between you may be intense. Both of you are curious lovers (albeit in completely different
ways!), and you can be entirely fascinated with one another. But the very differences that attracted
you to each other in the first place can turn into serious "issues" as time goes on. Both of you are
provocative in your own way. Your partner is a tease, a flirt. This doesn't necessarily mean that he or
she flirts with everyone, but he or she does infuse a lot of lighthearted fun into their relationship.
Your love nature is intense, and you crave intimacy. When intimacy is threatened, you can become
very provocative in ways that are difficult to see for the untrained eye. The means by which you
attempt to regain a sense of control will vary depending on the type of Venusian Scorpio you are. You
are astute and perceptive, and can easily learn how to push your partner's buttons, and can become
quite skilled at doing so in subtle ways. You want your partner's soul, not just their body! Your
partner, however, has an entirely different view of partnership. He or she wants it to be fun, while
you will gladly sacrifice fun for intensity. Learning to blend these distinctly different styles and values
can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Cancer: This is considered an easier pairing than most
because both of your Venus signs are in Water. A similar—and familiar—vein to the quality of your
expressions of love can draw you to one another and make you feel "at home". Both of you take
commitment rather seriously, and neither of you is frivolous with your feelings and expressions. Your
partner's warmth and caring nature will feel regenerating to you, and your partner senses your all-
encompassing love that will hold special appeal to your loving partner. At times, the love you offer
can feel all-consuming, but this doesn't scare your partner like it would with some other lovers. In
fact, the love your partner gives is rather similar, and you don't fear closeness and intimacy. In fact,
you live for it! The attraction between the two of you is magnetic, deeply felt, and has the potential
to withstand the test of time if other factors in synastry support it. Both of you tend to be possessive
in love, and your partner's memory is powerful. Communication should be as open as possible, as
both of you tend towards holding silent grudges at times. Your partner's reaction to hurts is often
internalized, while you can grow cold and unresponsive when you feel slighted. However, the
empathy that runs between you can soften any hard angles in your relationship.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Leo: You and your partner can be possessive of each
other, which may become a big issue between you. You quickly "feel out" your emotions-on-the-
sleeves partner and learns his or her boundaries. When Leo and Scorpio mix, we are faced with the
mixing of Fire and Water. Water (Scorpio) has the power to put out Fire (Leo). What happens is your
partner's natural spiritedness and enthusiasm in love might seem threatening or disconcerting to
you, and you might find it easy to pull your partner down, or "rain on his or her parade". Leo and
Scorpio are both fixed signs, which means each of you is quite loyal and possibly very stubborn! Both
of you hold on to partnerships, so it is quite likely that your relationship will last long. However,
neither of you is particularly flexible, and both of you are quite proud. Jealousies and clashes of will
are very possible with this combination. In partnerships where money is shared, how each of you
spends money will likely be a big issue. There can be a lot of passion between you, as both of you
have strong appetites, but the bedroom can be yet another battleground for you and your partner.
When you withhold sex, generally because you are feeling unloved or unappreciated, your partner
takes it very personally. Despite the fact that you both have strong sexual appetites, there can be
periods of abstinence between you. However, each of you will find much to appreciate in each other.
Neither of you shies away from a relationship when it gets intense. Your partner is sure to appreciate
your emotional commitment to the relationship, and you will respect your partner's strength, as you
are attracted to intensity—even crisis. This is an intense, often rocky, and passionate pairing. 

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Virgo: Trust doesn't come extremely easy to either you
or your partner, but put you together, and the atmosphere feels quite safe. You are passionate and
intense—perhaps even provocative at times. If you sense passion and commitment is missing or
waning, you may go to any means (often subtle) to keep the relationship from becoming boring. This
is because you can be somewhat addicted to emotional excitement. Your partner is usually receptive
to a partner's wishes and needs, and he or she tends to bend their ways accordingly. Your lover
works hard at making relationships work—something that you sense and appreciate. Neither of you
is frivolous about committed relationships, and if you and your partner are committed to each other,
this pairing can be hard to break. This pairing combines Venusian Earth (your partner) and Water
(you). When you understand each other's different styles of loving, the combination can be very
fertile. Problems generally arise between the differences in focus. Both of you are committed to
making your relationship last, but your partner values practical expressions of commitment, while
you value emotional ones. Subtle control issues may be the source of problems over time. If you
sense any emotional distance on your lover's part, you may use various means to regain some sense
of control. Generally, your partner only appears "distant" because he or she is busy tending to the
cogs in the machine of your relationship. Your lover may find your silences frustrating, because he or
she is always willing to talk about the relationship and doesn't always understand why you resort to
giving him or her the silent treatment! You can be skilled at knowing how to push your partner's
buttons, however, and this may be one of the more potent ways you have discovered to get your
partner's attention! As long as game-playing is kept to a minimum, this relationship has many
strengths and much potential.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Libra:  Your partner values commitment, and so do you.
Both of you are focused on togetherness, albeit in different ways! You want your lover's soul, not just
his or her presence. Your lover, on the other hand, is most interested in companionship and outward
expressions of togetherness. With Libra ruling your partner's relationship needs, he or she works
hard at finding common ground and adamantly believes in equality and all that is fair. You, on the
other hand, believe just as strongly that life isn't fair! There is unquestionably an attraction between
you. You can be fascinated with your partner's charm, and your lover is intrigued by your intense love
nature. Although you are notorious for your mysteriousness, you can actually consider your Venus in
Libra partner to be somewhat of a puzzle! You may find your lover to be emotionally distant and
overly focused on superficial togetherness at the expense of intimacy. Your partner brings a lively,
luminous energy to his or her relationships—qualities that stand in stark contrast, at times, to your
intensity. This fundamental difference can at once attract you to each other and be the source of
some provocative difficulties in your relationship as time goes by. You have a lot to teach—and to
offer—each other. Finding a common ground may not be obviously easy, but commitment to your
partnership may be the strongest mutual goal.

How You Relate to a Partner who also has  Venus in Scorpio: Your similarities in approach to love
can either strengthen your relationship or make you wary of each other! Often, it is a combination of
both. Both of you are intense lovers, wanting emotional involvement more than anything from a
relationship. You will certainly get it from each other, but Scorpio, perhaps more than most signs,
needs a partner to complement, with enough differences to keep things interesting. Not that this
relationship will be boring—that could never happen with either of you! Neither of you is
comfortable with a partnership that is completely comfortable or predictable. Your relationship will
never get to that point. The only red flag here is that each of you needs someone to soften your
sharp edges, and your relationship may be even too much of an emotional roller-coaster for either of
your liking! If both of you are at an emotionally healthy point in your lives, and with understanding,
you can certainly forge out a strong commitment. Passions will be strong, although stand-offs may be
frequent and almost unbearable. If you make the time to appreciate each other, there will be
considerable mutual respect and common goals in this relationship.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Sagittarius:  This is a case of two side-by-side signs, with
two very different ways of expressing love, trying to relate. The result can be awkward and a little
messy, but can certainly work with awareness and understanding. You approach love relationships
with intensity. Your partner is intense in a different way. He or she is a fiery lover, focused on action
and the passion of the moment, while your passion runs more deeply and is considerably more
emotional. Experience is important to your partner. He or she does not always come across as
constant with affections, and this fact can be frustrating to you. You can be somewhat possessive in
love, but your partner chokes when he or she feels caged in. You may find your partner somewhat
flighty and inconstant, and he or she may be bewildered by your greater than average need for
intimacy. Still, you will thoroughly enjoy the fresh air that your partner breathes into the relationship.
Life is always exciting with a Venus in Sagittarius lover! Your partner will consider you astute and will
appreciate your depth of perception. This can be a rocky partnership, but highly stimulating at the
same time.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Capricorn: The passion your partner senses in you is, of
course, real, and this thought excites your mate. Although other lovers may find your partner a tad
reserved and perhaps even undemonstrative in love, you have a way of making him or her feel
extraordinary. Because your partner both fears and craves intimacy, you are probably one of the
most ideal people to get to him or her. Your partner finds you exciting and deeply intriguing, and you
are sure to find him or her equally fascinating—even a challenge. You will thoroughly appreciate your
partner's dedication to a relationship, probably more than most, and it is when he or she feels
appreciated that your partner is at his or her romantic best. You both have strong personalities, in
different ways, and this may cause some tension at times. However, neither of you can stay attracted
to someone "weak" for too long, so the mutual respect can do wonders for your partnership. This is a
stimulating combination, one with a lot of give and a lot of take. If anything, you will certainly never
be bored with each other. Perhaps what your partner appreciates most about you is your ability to
see past his or her defenses. While others may be intimidated by your partner's often cool and even
aloof exterior, you know there is a lot more to your lover. Fortunately for you, you will get to
experience all that is inside your Venus in Capricorn lover, and it is unlikely you will be disappointed.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Aquarius:  This is one of the more challenging
combinations! With love, of course, it can work, but acceptance and understanding are especially
vital. You are likely to be intrigued with your partner's love nature, and your partner with your
nature. Your nature is intense and personal, and very passionate. While your partner is able to take a
step back from many emotional issues in your partnership, if only to gain perspective and
understanding, you have a much more difficult time doing just that. This can be complementary at
times, but can also be intensely frustrating. It may not be very easy for you to "get" why your lover is
capable of detaching him or herself from emotional circumstances, and you may even find it
threatening to the basic love bond between you. Your partner can be quite baffled by your
passionate reactions, as he or she tends to feel that getting too emotionally tangled up in problems is
counterproductive. Your lover values objectivity, and prides himself or herself on an ability to reason
things through. Your partner may be inclined to react to your more emotionally intense moments by
giving you space. This is likely to frustrate you even more, as you interpret your partner's "stepping
aside" as walking away—or, even worse, lack of concern for you and the relationship. This
relationship can be rather tempestuous at times, but exciting nevertheless. At the very least, you will
admire each other's strength of character.

How You Relate to a Partner with  Venus in Pisces: The two of you have different Venus signs, but
they both are Water signs. This suggests an overall understanding of each other. You sense in each
other a similar kind of depth in your approach to relationships, which can promote an instant bond in
and of itself. You love intuitively and emotionally—you don't use your mind to judge whether a
person is good for you or not. You need to feel the connection. The same goes for your Venus in
Pisces partner. You are more focused on an intimate and exclusive bond than your partner is,
however. Your partner loves deeply and with his or her heart, but you might wonder just how
exclusive those feelings are towards you. You want to get under your lover's skin, and you are not
always thrilled to share your partner with the rest of the world. So, when your partner is expressing
his or her compassion for pretty much everyone that comes around the corner, you may feel a tad
threatened. You need to understand and accept your partner's love of mankind in general. You might
worry that your lover strays too easily—and it's not about him or her having an affair. It's more a
concern that your partner is too impressionable. Why worry about the rest of the world when he or
she has you? That's the kind of attitude you might hold, and this could be your relationship's biggest
issue. Otherwise, the two of you find much in common. Your partner is more than likely to appreciate
your intensity and depth of feeling.  

Scorpio Venus is intense and deep. They have a strong willingness to commit to a relationship, and
they will only accept all or nothing. They are totally dedicated and focused on you, and they come
across as being fearless. They crave intimacy, and are capable of loving someone very deeply. Scorpio
Venus possesses their partner, and makes the partner want to be possessed.

They have the ability to give their partner their complete attention. This can be flattering to some
people, while totally unnerving to others. While they probably won't admit it, a Venus in Scorpio
person has a need to control their partner and the relationship. Their obsession may take all the fun
out of the relationship. They take everything to the extreme, which can be attractive, but it can be
overwhelming. While a person with a Venus in Scorpio will want to know every detail about you, they
won't be so forthcoming with information about themselves.

If Scorpio Venus is upset, watch out. They can either explode with anger, or make you wish you were
dead by the look they give you. They will probably become jealous of anyone else you spend time
with, no matter what the reason, though they won't admit it. They are not afraid to manipulate a
situation, and they are talented at seeing through any cover to what is at the heart. They may tend to
be bored in a regular day-to-day relationship, though they thrive on crisis.

They appreciate someone who is loyal and committed to them. Let them have some control in the
relationship if they are deserving of it. Some can take advantage of their partners on a very deep and
subtle level, though not all of them will. They like to maintain their own secrets. Their feelings may
prevent them from seeing the point of view of others. Suspicion is a natural feeling for them when
they are unsure.

Scorpio Venus is a colorful person because of their intensity. They are often attracted to the
mysteries of the occult, and they are good at playing detective or doing research. They can
successfully use their sex appeal to get what they want. It is not uncommon for a person with a
Venus in Scorpio to be cautious when meeting new people. They may take the opportunity to
observe someone they are interested in several times before meeting them.

As a friend, they are insightful and able to understand their friends as plain as day. They may appear
to be off in their own little world, but with a single comment, they can let you know that they notice
every detail and they most certainly can keep your secrets.

Scorpio Venus likes someone who isn't afraid of commitment, emotions or intensity. They like a bit of
surrender in the relationship. Don't play games with them, because they find it difficult to forgive. As
wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they love you, they can be equally bad when
they have been hurt by you. Scorpio Venus likes change… even more; they thrive on the
transformation that takes place during and after change. Whatever they put their passion into; it will
mean everything to them.

Scorpio Venus likes someone who isn't afraid of commitment, emotions or intensity. They like a bit of
surrender in the relationship. Don't play games with them, because they find it difficult to forgive. As
wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they love you, they can be equally bad when
they have been hurt by you. Scorpio Venus likes change… even more; they thrive on the
transformation that takes place during and after change. Whatever they put their passion into; it will
mean everything to them.

With Venus is Scorpio you love sex and relating sexually, and need intensity, depth, power, personal
growth and transformation in love and relationships. You know how to use your intense relationships
to further your own ends and get what you want, but have difficulty being an equal or sharing power
with intimates. Thus you may frequently change and refine your relationships, but discard them
when they no longer serve your purpose. You love to get deep under the surface of things and
explore the mysterious and the unknown. You can be manipulative, but mask self-centeredness with
an outwardly friendly manner. Your love life and intimate relationships are often an arena in which
power and control are played out. Your karma in this life is tied with self-will and love. In general,
your personal values and your conception of love need to evolve and be transformed.

You are extremely magnetic to the opposite sex and very passionate, yet may be inhibited as well. If
true, don't you be taken in by your intense sexuality: this persona may be covering up unconscious
elements in your psyche you have yet to deal with. You feel a need to control your intimate partners,
and have difficulty relating to them on an equal level. When someone gets close to you, you can
become fearful of compromise and cooperation because they entail an element of letting go of the
control with which you feel you need to protect yourself. A somatic therapy would be ideal to help
you become more conscious of these childhood patterns. Once aware and independent of them,
your self-work can release you to be a guiding light to others.

Celebrities with Venus in Scorpio are or were Ed Asner, Silvio Berlusconi, Hillary Clinton, Jennifer
Connelly, Puff Daddy, Matt Damon, Leonardo DiCaprio, Benjamin Disraeli, Snoop Dogg, Patty Duke,
Chris Evert, Jodie Foster, Mahatma Gandhi, Bill Gates, Uri Geller, Goldie Hawn, Ethan Hawke, Hugh
Jackman, Tommy Lee Jones, Milla Jovovich, Bruce Lee, Demi Moore, Jim Morrison, Joaquin Phoenix,
Vladimir Putin, Keith Richards, Meg Ryan, Winona Ryder, Susan Sarandon, Martin Scorsese, Grace
Slick, Steven Spielberg, Bruce Springsteen, Marisa Tomei, Gore Vidal, John Voight, Denzel
Washington, Sigourney Weaver, Serena Williams and Tiger Woods.

“I Love Painfully”

The first secret to know about a Scorpio in love is that it does NOT refer to a sun-sign Scorpio person.
Only someone with the planet Venus in Scorpio will be a “Scorpio in love.”

Venus in Scorpio love is intense, loyal, passionate, deep, focused, private, dark and obsessive. They
experience extreme, consuming feelings in love. People with Venus in Scorpio love so deeply and so
intensely that they have a difficult time finding a partner who’s love matches their level of depth.
Only another Venus in Scorpio can match their level of intensity. These lovers long for “soulmate”
bonding, the undying union of souls like that of Romeo and Juliet, or Heloise and Abelard.
You may not know when a Venus in Scorpio likes you because they hide it until you surrender at their
feet. Venus in Scorpio lovers don’t win your love by courting you. They lure you in with their
mysterious animal magnetism. The victim, I mean the object of their affection, will not know how or
why, but cannot help falling under their spell. How do they do this? Venus in Scorpio lovers are
intuitive and able to penetrate deep into your psyche, discovering all your secrets as they observe
you. They can see into your soul. When Venus in Scorpio loves you, they focus only on you, not
having eyes for anyone else. They are intensely loyal and passionate. Scorpio’s passion is not “showy”
like the fire signs; Scorpio passion is a silent, deep well of never-ending commitment and loyalty. But
even if they love you, they will not open up to you easily. They remain mysteriously reserved until
they decide to trust you. If you earn their trust, they are capable of deep tenderness and open
intimacy. If Venus in Scorpio loves you, they will risk anything, even their own life, for you. They are
extremely protective of those they love. Scorpio is a water sign, so they express love on an emotional
level. They have deep emotions.

Scorpio is also a fixed sign; they have deep reserves of willpower. They can wait a lifetime for the one
they want; they don’t change their mind often. Unlike the fixed Taurus lovers, Scorpio is not tempted
by pleasure because Scorpio doesn’t mind a little pain. Venus in Scorpio lovers are not attracted to
flirting or casual hookups. This makes Venus in Scorpio probably the most faithful sign. They want to
love only one person their whole life. They can be obsessive about this. However, they will cheat on
you without flinching if you are not “the one.”

Venus in Scorpio has many problems. The planet Venus is considered to be “in detriment” when in
the sign of Scorpio; this makes love and pleasure difficult. Scorpio love is not lighthearted, nor
playful, but rather heavy and serious. Many potential partners are turned off by such a heavy type of
love. Scorpio lovers are suspicious, jealous, and manipulative but will never admit it. They are always
in psychological control, which hinders emotional connections even though as water signs they crave
an emotional connection. Another obstacle to intimacy is the fact that they are extremely secretive.

Venus in Scorpio’s love-life will always be scarred with a touch of pain or death. Some may literally
have a fetish for pain or death; they can be masochists, sadists, suicidal, and/or antisocial. As a
positive outlet, they may have an appreciation for Gothic art. They have compulsive desires when it
comes to love. They feel in extremes: they either love you deeply or hate you deeply, never anything
in the middle. They never forgive. Venus in Scorpio is capable of hating you with the same level of
passion as they once loved. They are capable of cold-hearted, bloody vengeance if you cross their
invisible, psychological line.  They do not blow up like the fire signs; rather, they silently premeditate
their vengeance. You will never see it coming. You may not even guess that anything is wrong, but
make no mistake, if you have crossed their line, they are planning revenge. After that, reconciliation
will never be possible because they never forgive. You will be “dead” to them. Venus in Scorpio never
feels guilty because they believe you deserve any pain they inflict on you. They can leave you for
dead without looking back if you break their trust. Since trusting is a problem for them, many stay
single and lonely by choice. Some choose to stay single until they find their soulmate.

Venus in Scorpio never has to worry about finding sexual partners; their sexual magnetism ensures
this. They are very sexual, and usually become skilled at controlling their sexual urges as adults.
However strong their urges, they will skip sex if they don’t trust you.
Sex and relationships with Venus in Scorpio can have the power to heal, or at least transform, both
partners in some way. This can only happen after some form of death or loss in your relationship.

Venus in Scorpio men are attracted to women who are mysterious, silent, confident, in control, and
powerful. They are attracted to a partner who is capable of deep emotional intimacy. When it comes
to physical looks, they are attracted to sexy women who exude sexual magnetism subliminally, but
not attracted to flirty types.

The Venus in Scorpio lady is very sexy, not necessarily pretty. She is mysterious. She may prefer to
dress in black. She only reveals what she has premeditated to reveal. Both men and women fall
under her spell when she walks into a room. Did I say she is sexy?

Some famous (and infamous) people with Venus in Scorpio are Leonardo Dicaprio, Bill Gates, Denzel
Washington, Bruce Lee, Charles Manson, Matt Damon, Ethan Hawke, Lucky Luciano, Ozzy and Sharon
Osbourne, Demi Moore, Winona Ryder, Anne Hathaway, and Alicia Silverstone.

People with their Venus in Scorpio value intense, emotional depth and complete possession. In
relationships, they want to bond completely and desire total devotion. They are attracted to people
who engage them. People who look them in the eye and draw them in with emotion are enticing and
exciting. Those who seem distracted or distant rarely gain their interest. Venus in Scorpio people
want to feel deeply and passionately. So much so that a relationship filled with disagreements and
stress points is preferred over an easy going relationship that is superficial and detached.

Nice talks, activities and even physical satisfaction are all very pleasant, but without emotional depth,
the Venus in Scorpio person will lose interest. If one of these chart holders is truly interested in you,
they will try their best to get inside your head, and know you completely. However, it won't be quite
as easy for them to reveal everything about themselves.

These chart holders want intimacy, and yes, they like sex because sex can be the ultimate in
emotional closeness, possession and bonding. But, even more than a physical, sexual relationship,
they want to know you are really theirs. For them to be sure of your commitment to them, they need
to understand you. This isn't an intellectual understanding. It's an understanding based on feeling.
Words can lie, and physical acts can be performed in a hollow fashion. Feelings are much more
accurate, and once they understand yours, they have the intimacy they desire. A Venus in Scorpio
person wants to be able to look in your eyes and understand what kind of day you had. They want to
be able to read your soul without using words.

Their desire to be close on an emotional level makes them vulnerable. It's the unfortunate side effect
of getting close, and they don't like it. Generally, their recourse is to try to control you to avoid
getting hurt.  If they can steer the ship, it won't crash. 

Control makes them feel safe from harm. Of course, this doesn't always work out in their favor. It's
impossible to really control anyone, and when people are intimate, feelings do get hurt. It's
inevitable. The intimacy they value so much can get dirty and ugly when they get hurt. These chart
holders are never afraid to pull the punches when they are retaliating against the pain you caused
them.

If you are afraid of being drawn in close, examined, and understood in a deeply committed
relationship, don't get involved with a Venus in Scorpio person. Stick with an air sign if you want a
lighter, more superficial relationship. But remember that even though it can seem heavy and serious,
you won't get a deeper, more intensely emotional relationship with any other sign. 

The people who have their Venus in the sign Scorpio are cautious yet intense and confident. They will
give you their full attention. They can pick up on emotional vibes - they can know if someone is into
them, and when they’re not. The Venus In Scorpio person is private and brooding, they don’t just
want a partner, they want a soul mate. It’s all or nothing with them, take it or leave it. See that
person gazing at you with intensity, observing your every move, almost as if they are staring into
your soul - they must be a Scorpio Venus.

Venus in Scorpio men: You will know when the Scorpio Venus man is interested in you. They quickly,
carefully and subtly make their way into your life, waiting for the perfect moment to take a
relationship further. He is interested in mysterious, dark types. Someone who is as fiercely loyal as
himself.

Venus In Scorpio women: This girl is the classic femme fatale. They don’t know how to love just a
little, they always love more. They are private, secret