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FAMILY HUMAN RELATIONS

A RESEARCH REQUIREMENT IN EDUC 205

(HUMAN RELATIONS IN EDUCATION)

SUBMITTED BY:

JONALYN B. HERNANDEZ

SUBMITTED TO:

DR. ISAURO PALMARIA

INTRODUCTION

What is human relations?

We can define human relations as relations with or between people, particularly in

a workplace or professional setting. From a personal perspective, there are many
advantages to having good human relations skills. Family is so special because the family
is the one in life and friends you can find many. In many cases people don’t think that
family is important because they have friends who always stay beside them. But then
when the friends will forget on them, they will understand to the importance of family.
The term human relations in its broadest sense covers all types of interactions among
people—their conflicts, cooperative efforts, and group relationships. It is the study of
why our beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors sometimes cause relationship problems in our
personal lives and in work-related situations. The study of human relations emphasizes
the analysis of human behavior, prevention strategies, resolution of behavioral problems,
and self-development.

Human relations in olden days:

In olden days, if one festival comes then all the family members gathered at a

time to spend that festival very happily. If we recollect our childhood, our memories were
touched with so many happy moments with our relatives such as they take us with them
to a cinema, exhibition or circus. It is very pity in the matter of orphan as he has not any
relatives so he spends his life without happy memories. In olden days, a marriage or a
festival was celebrated with maximum number of days. In olden days, relatives were with
marriage couple minimum 16 days to enjoy that happy occasion. All family members by
forgotting their jobs they enjoyed the festival day with variety food things.

Comparision of the human relations between olden days and present days:

In olden days, people had sufficient time to spend with their relatives. At that
time, people gave importance to human relations other than money. But, now a human
kind is busy with so many activities all that cherishes for money. Simply, we say that
human mind becomes money centered. Human beings get in dangerous position that they
do not want to think about God and others. Human beings become selfish persons by
thinking about themselves not about his family. That much narrow in the minds of
humans is developed. In olden days, if a person would be suffered with a serious disease
then others would give helping hand to the person by any means. But now, there is no
means of help from others even that person is in dangerous position now. In olden days,
elders were given more respect by youngers. But, in present days, the percentage of
respectness to elders decreases to little quantity. In olden days, people think that teacher
is their family members. But, in present, people want to question the teacher as an enemy
for them. In present days, in movies also, the value of human relations show as given by
very little importance.

Family Human Relations

Man is by nature a social creature. Many other living beings also live in close knit
communities.  Among them, man is the most evolved   but still retains the natural instinct
of living in a society. Since centuries people have been living with and interacting   with
family and other relations in a set system. But with technological development and  
resultant economic progress, this system seems to be crumbling.

Relationships of any form, whether in family or with friends or work mates have
to be nurtured. Meeting them personally or communicating regularly in any form brings
people close. They develop an affinity for one another. Some things have to be kept in
mind to maintain a good relationship. One should never criticize or say something harsh
to a close one. Even if there are obvious faults or weakness, it should not be pointed out
bluntly. Suggestions for correcting the fault can be given in a positive way.

Give and take is a necessity to maintain a good relation. If today your friend or
relative is spending on you, taking you out for a good dinner, it is your turn to reciprocate
next. Exchanging gifts on festivals and occasions is useful as a token of mutual love and
affection.  If   some elderly relative does something for you, the best way to reciprocate is
by giving due respect to him.

Back biting, i.e. talking   ill of someone in his absence is absolutely detrimental
for a relationship hence should be avoided. One cannot claim that he is self sufficient and
needs no one.  Even if you buy grocery and food, it is not the   currency notes, but the
person at the other end who fulfils this need.

Every person needs other people for his physical and emotional needs. This fact
should be gracefully accepted. One should nurture and enjoy relations with family
members, relatives, friends and colleagues. Life will seem much more enjoyable then.

Since the time of our early years to death every human being related to us as part
of a family. It is to be noticed that family may change over the years, starting from
mother, father and to a husband then children but none the less everyone belongs to a
family as a human being cycle. Everyone does not have choice to choose their family yet
there is a bound relationship between the members that no other means of affection can
compare to. As we all know that harmony in the human being is the first level of being a
family. Here we are to study into harmony at the level of family. Each one of us is
naturally a part of a family that includes father, mother, brothers and sisters. Then there
are other relations such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, nieces etc.
These relationships are a reality of our life for each one of us. We are born in these
relationships. Then we also have friends and colleagues with whom we frequently
interact. Be it in our school, our neighborhood or our college.
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