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Memento Mori: July 2021
Memento Mori: July 2021
AN ICCFA MAGAZINE J U LY 2 0 2 1
The Cremation
Landscape
2021 and Beyond
INSIDE:
Shipping Cremation Remains
Leveraging Cremation Trends
Cremation Pioneers in the UK
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Transforming
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Survey Says …
Century Cremation Is Still a
by Jack E. ‘Burning’ Desire
Lechner, Jr., CFSP by John T. McQueen, CFSP
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The Pioneers of
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A Look into the Past …
Cremation in Great Britain Courtesy of Laurel Hill Cemetery
by Brendan Day
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You Can’t Ship
Prose for the Quietus of Life
Her Old Bones Creaked
by Jamie Samms
Cremated Remains
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HE LAST 18 MONTHS CERTAINLY HAVE BEEN A CHALLENGE to us as a are you disinfecting? How do we keep good
country, as a profession, and as individuals. Although some of the regions of our salespeople if they aren’t allowed to sell? Do
nation were hit harder than others, each of us has had to deal with the trials, the you have a good source for PPE?
loss, and the disconnection caused by the COVID-19 pandemic. I would like to thank The ability to connect with others facing
ICCFA leadership and ICCFA staff for their perseverance and professionalism during this the same issues was absolutely invalu-
difficult time. Their effort and sacrifice have ensured that ICCFA will emerge from this able. In the beginning, it was comforting
pandemic stronger and more vibrant than ever. psychologically to know we didn’t have to
go it alone. After the initial shock, we recali-
I am deeply honored to serve as ICCFA voted on and passed by ICCFA members brated and started looking for answers. We
president. It is a daunting task, but I am eligible to vote during the 2021 virtual worked a problem through until we found
very excited and optimistic about what the board of directors election. All offices will a good solution and then we shared it with
coming months will bring for our profes- go back to the traditional one-year term everyone still searching for answers. It was
sion. Often the greatest challenges we face beginning in 2023. a powerful reminder that who you know
in life become our greatest learning experi- can be infinitely more valuable than what
ences. COVID forced our association and It’s a Deathcare Thing you know—especially in a profession that is
our profession to quickly pivot and adapt to Take a moment to think back on the chaos so willing to share best practices.
the new working environment—something that was the spring of 2020. As a country,
humans and organizations do not like to do. we had a poorly understood, rapidly spread- Working Remotely
During COVID, we also learned that parts
of our operating model can be done virtu-
ally or remotely. Functions like signature
In desperation, we reached for some new tools capture, arrangement conferences, funeral
to help us bridge the gaps. I am certain I’m not the services (streaming), and even purchasing
cemetery property can be done electroni-
only one who was skeptical, but we had little choice. cally. ICCFA learned that collaboration and
Sometimes the only way to learn how to swim education also can be delivered effectively
via the internet.
is to jump in and start paddling. That does not mean that virtual is always
the best way to interact with our custom-
ers and each other. All of us have been
The most prominent role of the presi- ing virus that was clearly lethal to several frustrated at times with virtual meetings.
dent of ICCFA is to promote and represent vulnerable segments of our populace. As Personally, after 18 months, I now consider
the association across the country at state managers/owners, we had quickly shifting Zoom my least favorite four-letter word. As
and regional meetings and with other and often conflicting guidance from health we learned from Celeste Headlee, our 2021
national associations. Because most of organizations, local regulatory agencies, ICCFA Annual Convention keynoter, there
those activities were shut down or went and legislators. In my nearly two decades at are key elements of human interaction that
virtual from March of 2020 through this Spring Grove, I cannot recall a greater trial are lost over a digital platform.
summer, the ICCFA Executive Committee by fire.
decided that Jay D. Dodds would serve as It is during these most difficult times we What Makes Sense Moving
president through May of 2021. I will fill the learn the value of connection. I can recall Forward?
role until the ICCFA Annual Convention getting hundreds of emails from other So where do we go from here? As I see it,
in the spring of 2023. The ICCFA executive CEOs and leaders either asking questions we are clearly headed for a new “normal”
committee and officers terms were also or suggesting solutions. What are you that will embrace both virtual and face-
extended similarly, to give us continuity doing for a mask policy? How do we handle to-face, but where do we draw those lines?
through and out of the pandemic shut quarantining possibly exposed employees? That’s where ICCFA comes in. ICCFA
down. This is a one-time change that was What do we do about pall bearing? How will continue to be the focal point for idea
T HE FIRST TIME I TRAVELLED to the United States to attend a Funeral Conference was in 2015. It was
an extraordinary week of learning for me, despite having been invited to share my insights as a celebrant.
One of the big surprises during that trip was the pro- Cremation Is Second Nature …
fession’s cautious approach to cremation. For decades, So, why this uncertainty around cremation in the
cremation has been the choice of disposition for many United States? For many of the funeral professionals I
Australians. The latest information available from the spoke with during that 2015 conference, it wasn’t really
Australian Bureau of Statistics shows that the percent of about a different form of disposition; it was about a
cremation chosen above other forms of disposition was different form of ceremony—or more to the point, no
65.19%. ceremony.
While a “no service” disposition is sometimes the
case with cremation in Australia, the expectation is if
there is a cremation, there will be a service—either a
traditional service led by clergy or a non-traditional
service led by a celebrant. As a side note: McCrindle
research shows that 58% of Australians surveyed would
prefer to have a celebrant conduct their funeral.
What is the difference between a cremation service
and a burial service? Mostly, what happens in the final
five minutes of that service. So, when you are meeting
with a family, and they want their deceased cremated,
they need you to focus on the important time before
that final five minutes—the time that will be spent
mourning the loss and honouring the life.
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Transforming Deathcare Education
for the 21 Century st
by Jack E. Lechner Jr., CFSP
C
remation throughout the world, and even more so in North America, continues
to grow. It is now the preferred method of disposition in North America. The
partnership between Facultatieve Technologies (FT) and Cincinnati College
of Mortuary Science (CCMS) will be setting the standard and leading the way for
required certification or licensing of properly trained operators.
The opinion of both CCMS and FT is that the methods and develop an advanced curriculum to address those evolv-
currently used to certify crematory operators are just not good ing needs of client families,” says Jack Lechner, president and
enough. The goal is to raise the bar and bring the crematory CEO of Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science. The ECC will
operator up to the level of a specialist, going beyond the cur- provide detailed hands-on cremation training, alkaline hydro-
rent operator training programs to become certified or licensed lysis, pet loss, and hospitality training.
as a cremationist.
CCMS and FT, with the assistance of ICCFA’s educational Partnering with ICCFA
program, will provide a complete platform that is based not only CCMS is on a firm financial footing and successfully imple-
on classroom instruction but hands-on proper operation of all menting an initiative to transform deathcare education. To
phases of the cremation process utilizing the latest technologies accomplish that, CCMS is partnering with ICCFA to deliver
being offered in modern-day cremation system equipment. an Advanced Crematory Operator Program that will integrate
“I am so proud that our board of trustees had the vision to hands-on training with best management practices for those
direct CCMS to build an Educational Cremation Center (ECC) already in the cremation or funeral profession. ICCFA believes
in the programs so strongly that the partnership revenues will
heavily favor CCMS.
“It is great to have the endorsement from such a great profes-
sional and progressive association,” says Jack. “Some other asso-
ciations were not interested, but ICCFA jumped at the chance to
partner in this effort to provide advanced training. This endorse-
ment speaks to the progressive nature of ICCFA and the commit-
ment to providing expert advanced training opportunities.”
A Curriculum Change
President & CEO Jack Lechner and the Board of Trustees at the The American Board of Funeral Service Education (ABFSE)
ceremonial ground breaking for the Educational Cremation Center. prescribes a curriculum that all accredited mortuary programs
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TRANSFORMING DEATHCARE EDUCATION FOR THE 21ST CENTURY
A Unique Initiative
“Our Educational Cremation Center will be
the first of its kind,” says Jack. “CCMS will
become the nation’s premier provider of
enhanced, hands-on, cremation education
training. Work has already begun to build
T
he most profound changes to the disposal of the dead for over
a millennium took place in the second half of the 19th century.
Its figurehead, Dr. William Price, is recognised as one of the
most significant figures of 19th-century Wales, and one of the most
unusual in Victorian Britain.
The greatest environmental issue facing Victorian to open modern cemeteries to supplement and ulti-
society was the appalling sanitary conditions of the mately replace the traditional churchyards.
growing towns and cities, including the disposal of In addition, with its slogan, “save the land for
the dead. the living,” the Cremation Society was formed
The industrial revolution had resulted in the in 1874 to campaign for cremation as a hygienic
rapid and exponential growth of existing towns and alternative to burial. When Dr. Price attempted to
cities as people were drawn from the rural environ- cremate the body of his son, the resulting trial at
ment to take the new and better paying factory jobs. Cardiff in February 1884 found that cremation was
However, the existing churchyards could not cope lawful, providing no nuisance was caused in the
with the rapid increase in the number of interments process to others.
from the growing population; and as a result, British This was the opportunity the Cremation Soci-
burial grounds had become a site of national crisis. ety required to establish itself as the “pioneer of
Several parliamentary commissions reviewed cremation in Great Britain,” building and operating
the situation, and the Burial Acts followed in the the very first crematorium for public use in 1885 in
1860s enabling the formation of local Burial Boards Woking, Surrey.
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THE PIONEERS OF CREMATION IN GREAT BRITAIN
By the time of the introduction of the first Crema- the technology advance from rudimentary cremators
tion Act in 1902, the revolutionary shift from church- fuelled by coke-emitting smoke to advanced comput-
yards to local authority cemeteries and crematoria was er-operated machines operating on gas and controlled
well under away; and 100 years later in 2002, 71.9% of in a manner to reduce harmful emissions.
the dead would be cremated. However, we are now aware of the damage caused
The necessary change had been achieved despite by CO2 and the need to reduce/prevent the production
significant opposition from a number of stakeholders of this greenhouse gas. CO2 being produced by the
through adapting existing practices, taking the limited cremation process cannot be overlooked and needs to
churchyard model and developing it into a network of be reduced.
municipal cemeteries, and adopting the new disruptive There are potential solutions available, from adapting
technology of cremation. the current process to use different fuels, such as hydro-
British burial grounds are no longer the national gen or electricity, to possible new technologies including
crisis they were. However, like the rest of society, they alkaline hydrolysis, cryomation, and composting.
and crematoria face a new challenge, a crisis that also
demands vision, change and, if necessary, the adoption of Coffin Construction
disruptive technologies. That crisis is the climate crisis; In the 19th century, many people were buried in
namely the impact cemeteries and crematoria have on shrouds or coffins of rough sawn timber, unable to
the environment, their contribution to climate change, afford the solid oak, varnished coffin replete with brass
and ultimately how they can form part of the solution. handles and hand made by individual funeral direc-
tors. The growth of the centralised coffin construction
Cemeteries and Crematoria: The Challenges industry has seen the development and introduction
Federation members, as owners of crematoria and cem- of coffins made from chipboard with a wide variety
eteries across the UK, are the stewards of thousands of veneers. These developments have made coffins
of acres of land. Much of it mature green landscapes affordable for everyone, and their excellent finish
situated within urban conurbations providing valuable makes it difficult to tell them apart from their much
ecological habitats. more expensive solid wood
For over 150 years, they have Cremation is the dominant counterparts. Furthermore, in
managed in a manner that has using chipboard, they are using
brought continuing benefits means of disposal in a by-product of the timber/
to the bereaved. Transforming the UK with 472,302 forestry industry that would
the delivery of a vital service otherwise go to waste.
through the introduction of cremations taking place However, we are now start-
new technologies, processes, ing to recognise issues associ-
and practices to raise standards,
in 2019. The introduction ated with the use of chipboard
modernise service delivery, and of this means of disposal and the problems caused by the
provide efficiencies. binding agent used in its con-
However, in recent years, has delivered exactly what struction: Formaldehyde.
we have become increasingly the early members of the The CDS Group environ-
aware of the unintended mental services undertake
consequences of some of Cremation Society called groundwater testing and pollut-
these policies and the negative
for, it has saved the land ant risk modelling of cemeteries
impacts they are having on the pre– and post-development in
environment, as illustrated by for the living. accordance with regulations.
the following examples: Formaldehyde is appearing in
groundwater samples downstream of cemeteries.
Cremation This is likely to be coming from two sources:
Cremation is the dominant means of disposal in the embalming but also from resin composition used in
UK with 472,302 cremations taking place in 2019. The chipboard coffins.
introduction of this means of disposal has delivered Formaldehyde is highly toxic, a class 1 carcinogen,
exactly what the early members of the Cremation harmful and persistent to aquatic wildlife and can cause
Society called for, it has saved the land for the liv- genetic defects. The permissible limit of formaldehyde
ing. Unquestionably, it has prevented thousands of in groundwater is zero!
acres across the UK from having to be turned over In a one-acre cemetery, we deposit up to 198 kg of
to cemetery development. In addition, we have seen formaldehyde from embalming; this does not include
What’s Next?
Facing the key green drivers of legislation, public opinion, and
investment linked to the environment, can burial and crema-
tion authorities continue to act in a manner which is not in
keeping with their role of stewards of the land and facilities
they manage?
The overwhelming evidence suggests that the answer is
no. Furthermore, we have known this for some years. Legisla-
tively, the Environmental Protection Act indicated the path of
travel 30 years ago; operationally, pioneers including Ken West
introduced the first woodland burial site in 1993; cardboard
and wicker coffins were introduced decades ago as more
environmentally friendly alternatives to chipboard coffins; and Memorialization to honor and remember loved ones who are
rather than have ashes at crematoria with a memorial, 79% interred elsewhere.
of families now take the cremated remains away to a more Having a personalized cenotaph plaque which reminds families
meaningful location. of a loved one provides the closure most families seek during
In view of the recognised challenges facing the sector and their mourning process.
the key drivers making change almost inevitable, how should
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I
n this new virtual world, we are
seeing fewer people in a face-to-face
setting. For deathcare providers, it
has meant some changes in how we
conduct business. Families are doing
more information gathering online;
making arrangements virtually; and
live-streaming funerals. But when it
comes to cremation, we still have to
deliver the cremated remains. While
some families will stop by, and others
will allow for delivery, there has been
an increase in the use of shipping via
the U.S. Postal Service.
This may not seem worrisome, but when you add recent
reports of increased mail issues including delayed deliveries,
lost mail, and just general poor tracking services, it begs the
question, “What about shipping cremated remains?” Rightfully
so! The truth is that while there are new rules on shipping cre-
mated remains, you the shipper can still face risk of liability. So,
in an effort to make sure you are doing all you can do, here is a
refresher of the updated shipping requirements for cremated
remains, as well as some additional liability safeguards.
address and delivery address on the sealed plastic bag and the word 1. Who is responsible (legally speaking)
‘Cremated Remains.” This is in an effort to protect the cremated for shipping cremated remains?
remains if the shipping container becomes detached from the For the most part, the funeral home or
outer container. the person/individual who is arranging
A second change is the introduction of the USPS Priority Mail for the shipping is responsible. There are
Express Cremated Remains box. This free box can be ordered always exceptions, but the main thing to
online from USPS.com. The Cremated Remains box comes pre- focus on is this: follow the rules. If you can
printed with orange labeling on all sides, indicating that the con- show that you did everything correctly,
tents include cremated remains. then you definitely have a better chance of
This leads to the last significant shipping change by the USPS, avoiding liability. But if you fail to follow
and that is the requirement that the cremated remains shipping con- the procedures and guidelines set forth
tainer must be marked with Label 139, “Cremated Remains”, affixed by the USPS, then not only will you be
to all sides including the top and bottom. While the label always has responsible, you will most likely be liable
been available and recommended, it is now required and must be for damages as well.
on all sides of the shipping box.
As a side note, I was recently involved in a
claim over damaged cremated remains being The theory of sovereign immunity
shipped via USPS. The shipping party did not use
the labels correctly and was responsible entirely is simple: An individual is
for the claim from the family requesting the
shipment. The new Label 139 is now orange, and,
prohibited from filing a lawsuit
of course, these labels/stickers remain free and against the United States unless
available online or from any USPS location.
the government consents.
Knowledge Is Power: CYA
While the physical process has tightened up a bit,
making the shipment more visible, it doesn’t address the unseen 2. Can I, or the family, sue the USPS
part of the process. This includes things like liability, release from if it loses or damages the cremated
the family, and insurance. Listed below are a few of the more remains?
common questions that you should be asking—and knowing the Absolutely! But keep in mind, it will cost a
answers to. lot of money, take forever, and you will most
likely lose. In fact, after the time and money
part, the case will probably be dismissed by
the court. Why? There is a legal doctrine
called sovereign immunity that applies
to any claim against the United States
(by the way, the USPS is part of the U.S.
government).
The theory of sovereign immunity is
simple: An individual is prohibited from
filing a lawsuit against the United States
unless the government consents. Needless
to say, this was eventually deemed unfair.
So, to fix this unbelievably unfair practice,
Congress enacted the Federal Tort Claims
Act (FTCA), which allowed some lawsuits
against the United States.
Understand that the FTCA was not
a complete waiver to claims against the
United States, but rather it allowed some
types of lawsuits and it also created some
limitations. Section 2680 of the FTCA pre-
vents private litigants from pursuing certain
claims against the United States including
end. Well, that may be a bit strong, but the point is this:
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Keep in mind that these requirements are in effect
now and apply to all cremated remains (this includes
human and animal—as well as shipping cremated
remains for “artisan” purposes, such as placing them in
blown glass or other works of art).
Make sure you update your policies and procedures
to include the process and make sure your policies are
included in any paperwork you use with your families, such
as your cremation authorization and disposition form.
And like anything out of Washington, D.C., make
sure you follow ICCFA for new updates and changes
because failure to ship according to the USPS guidelines
will only increase your liability if things go wrong. For a
H
ow do you ignite a conversation in a room full of funeral directors? Toss in the word
“cremation.” It will spark conversation—some good, some bad. But in all cases, you will
witness myriad emotions. It may be hard to believe that some funeral professionals are
still adamantly opposed to cremation. Rather than embracing the opportunities that can be
found in cremation, they are still fighting for a return to the way things were “in the good old
days.” For most of us, we recognize those days are gone, and it is time to embrace ways to
create opportunities with cremation families.
According to the recent Performance TrackerTM • Cremation rate expectations are going down:
Analysis: 2020 COVID-19 Impact Report, 55% of all 63% agreed last year that they would prefer to be
cases in 2019 resulted in cremation. During the recent cremated compared to 59% this year. Does this
COVID pandemic, our industry saw a 5%–10% increase mean the cremation rate may be reaching a plateau?
in cremation disposition cases for 2020. Although • A slight shift toward keeping cremated remains
cremation rates increased during the 2020 pandemic at home: 24% agreed last year that they would
period, the average cremation sale diminished from prefer to keep their loved one’s cremated remains
2019 levels for traditional cremations and memorial at home compared to 27% this year.
services but rose slightly for direct cremations. • More people expect to have a funeral service in
Interestingly, the average sale per case grew in all a funeral home: 19% agreed last year they expect
burial categories (traditional, graveside, and imme- to have a funeral service in a chapel or funeral
diate). In addition, of all the various merchandise home compared to 26% this year.
offerings available for burial and cremation families, • People are viewing a big celebration of life event
permanent memorialization (i.e., marker, monuments, as much more acceptable: Last year, only 39% of
etc.) saw an average increase in spending of $500, and respondents stated a big celebration of life event
cremation families spent more on memorialization was very important compared to 60% of respon-
than burial families (on average $400+ above burial dents in 2021.
memorialization). • The shift toward virtual arrangements is facing
In addition to changes in case volume and revenues, headwinds: In 2020, 65% agreed that meeting
satisfaction levels among family members fluctuated with a funeral director virtually to plan is very
in 2020 compared to 2019. Although burial family important compared to only 51% in 2021. A sim-
satisfaction fell across all categories, satisfaction among ilar shift occurred among respondents regarding
cremation families increased in most all categories meeting with a cemetery counselor virtually to
other than the “arranging funeral director.” Addition- make arrangements.
ally, the Net Promoter Score (NPS) began to fall in all • People now feel much more strongly that
categories, reflecting an overall negative impact on meeting with a funeral or cemetery profes-
customer satisfaction. sional in person is critical: In 2020, only 43%
agreed in-person funeral arrangements were very
Looking Back, Now Looking Ahead important compared to 71% in 2021. In 2020, 41%
Now that we have seen where we came from, it is time agreed in-person cemetery arrangements were
to look at where we are headed in our “new normal.” In very important compared to 65% in 2021.
reviewing the 2021 Funeral and Cemetery Consumer • More people expect the total cost of their final
Behavior Study conducted by The Foresight Companies arrangements to be more in the future than the
in conjunction with SOCAL Approach Marketing and national average: We have seen a 10% increase in
Consulting Group, several interesting insights appeared 2021 among respondents who expect the cost to be
with regard to consumer behavior and cremation. Here $8,000 or more. In 2020, 19% expected costs to be
are just some of the interesting statistics: $8,000+ whereas 21% expect it in 2021.
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SURVEY SAYS… CREMATION IS STILL A ‘BURNING’ DESIRE
Cremation Plateauing? Not So Fast! training) combined with a normalized workload will
Well, all this data is great, but what can we decipher enhance future financial results, provided we do not
from it that can be used to better serve our client fami- fall into the misconception that “everyone wants a
lies, in particular, cremation families? cheap cremation.”
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course, Foresight’s 2021 consumer study identified that sion is that more consumers (26%) expect to have a
consumer expectations are decreasing. funeral service in a funeral home. When we combine
Does this mean the cremation rate in the United this increase with the dramatic rise in those who
States has finally reached a plateau? This is doubtful. believe a large celebration of life is acceptable (60% in
Rather, the leveling off or decline in expectations may 2021 versus 39% in 2020), funeral professionals should
be because restrictions are lifting; therefore, the 10% be ecstatic.
increase identified in 2020 due to the pandemic may The challenge for many will be developing services
simply be returning to a “normal and products that keep the funeral professional relevant
rate of increase.” in the services and/or celebrations, whether on-prem-
The challenge for many It does identify that cremation ises or off-premises. What are you doing to meet the
will be developing services is still the primary choice in dis- needs of families wanting to celebrate their loved one’s
position; therefore, some funeral life but not at your facility? If you are simply allowing
and products that keep directors will finally need to them to walk out the door, you are missing out on a
the funeral professional forgo old beliefs and adjust their significant opportunity.
business models to embrace their Speaking of shifts, we have seen an increase in the
relevant in the services futures if they want to remain number of individuals wanting to keep the cremated
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AST MONTH’S ARTICLE , “The Bored Board,” brought many e-mails. The FBI will sales person, not only would the cemetery
be following up with some of you. Most of the questions raised dealt with nonprofit spend the $60,000 to $80,000 difference in
governance. commissions for this additional sales per-
son, but they would have a benefit/tax cost
Obviously, the governance of the of about $25,000 a year on top of this. Petty
nonprofit organization is the bylaws. In If you are a nonprofit doesn’t work well in businesses.
simple terms, a nonprofit corporation Many Articles state the requirements
is a corporation first and foremost. It is cemetery board of a board member. Again, these might
therefore governed by its core values as any be old requirements. In one case, the
corporation would be. This is called the member, look at the cemetery predated the realistic cremation
Articles of Incorporation. Since cemeteries trends. In fact, the original master plan
are usually continuously operated busi-
other board members actually predated the LeMoyne crema-
nesses, most are old. It might be that the at the next meeting and tory, which was built in 1876! The board
Articles of Incorporation are very old. The requirement stated board members “must
simple way to judge this would be to look ask if they are qualified own a burial plot” within the cemetery.
at the Articles and if you see the imprint on Today, with 50% or more of their commu-
the paper from typewriter keys, then the to run a business. If nity being cremated, the board (average
document is old. age 76) was unwilling to allow niche own-
not, work to change the ers to be on the board. Therefore, their
Update Your Documents board or educate them. only cremation offering was to bury an
Articles of Incorporation are historical; but urn in a full-sized grave.
like any historical document, they should I see three problems with that:
be updated. Times change. Methods of meeting sent (or posted) for other board 1. The cremation offerings were not devel-
communication change. members to view and vote as needed. How- oped for a modern community.
The number of people on the board is ever, if the Articles don’t allow for that, you 2. The board only thought like burial
one matter that might need to be updated. cannot do it. consumers.
In one case, the board consisted of 11 Several nonprofit cemeteries I have 3. The age of the board continued to be
people. The manager of this cemetery told worked with were governed by the wrong older, thus making them less willing to
me in his six years of being employed, people on the board. I remember very make holistic master plan decisions.
they had never had all 11 people show clearly one case of a 200-interment cem- Therefore, it is important to sit down,
up for a board meeting no matter how etery. Three local merchants were on the review the Articles of Incorporation, and
urgent the subject. In some cases, the board of seven people. The manager was amend them to meet the needs of the 21st
Articles state that a quorum is required paid a salary and got commissions for century.
(a minimum number of people, usually advance sales. One year, this manager made
defined as half plus 1). The manager said about $160,000, of which about half was Board Members Must Be Taught
that they would often have two quarters from commissions. These local merchants The next step is to make your board smart.
in a row without a quorum. That makes a were up in arms as they didn’t make this Training your board starts by pre-qualify-
non–entrepreneur-driven business come much running their downtown businesses. ing the possible new board members. In
to a screeching halt! They wanted the manager to take a pay cut today’s world, with video conferencing, it is
Other changes can promote the use of out of petty jealousy. very easy to help each board member learn
video conferencing for the meetings. This Anyone who is a cemetery professional the business of the cemetery. It is not 80
was an invention of The Jetsons; but now running a 200-interment business will acres of horticulture. It is not land. It is a
it is reality. It can make meetings quicker, have a salary of about $80,000 to $100,000 business. They must learn the business. You
easier, and just as efficient. Video confer- (depending on the market). If they trans- can, if you dare, make it a requirement that
ences can be recorded, and the recorded ferred the duty of making sales to another future board members attend a few hours
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EN YEARS AGO , Krause Funeral Homes and Cremation Services looked into live- website, tell it what day and time to start,
streaming solutions for its four locations across the greater Milwaukee, WI, region. and we’re done. That’s all we have to do.”
“We jumped into it, but found out the technology wasn’t quite there yet,” says Jacob also highlights how Krause Funeral
Mark Krause, president and funeral director. It proved too inconsistent to trust. “If funeral Homes download the recorded service to
directors can’t rely on it,” Mark continues, “they’re not going to use it because their word is offer an artifact for families to share for
their bond with these families. They’re promising to deliver for an event for which we have generations, a kind of testament to how
no safety net. A funeral is kind of like that. It’s like live theater.” recording ceremonies will endure. “When a
family does a funeral, all eight kids end up
Mark tried to make do with clunky, and changes,” says Mark. “And we need to with the service recording. They can watch
multi-part equipment for about two years constantly be looking at what we need to do it later and show it to others.”
before abandoning his funeral home's differently, because if we think that we now
live-streaming ambition altogether. “We have all the answers, we’re probably missing A New, Competitive Edge
haven’t offered anything for the past eight the boat somewhere.” Since implementing OneRoom across its
years until we started with OneRoom,” says With their chosen solution, the Krause four funeral homes, Krause has seen a 25
Jacob Waterworth, manager of operations staff doesn’t need to manage cameras, percent increase in call volume. “It’s prob-
and funeral director. adjust angles, and move equipment. ably due to a combination of many things,”
Instead, employees can concentrate solely says Mark, “but we’ve promoted the fact
Meeting Demand in on delivering exceptional service to families that we have live-streaming capabilities.
Unprecedented Times in need. “We can focus on our job and That may be giving people a reason to pick
Krause Funeral Homes adopted OneRoom OneRoom is just working in the back- us over other funeral homes.”
at the peak of COVID-19, a pandemic that ground automatically,” says Jacob. “There’s Jacob agrees. “A lot of other funeral
demanded the funeral industry quickly no real way to get user error. We have a homes are offering live-streaming, but
adapt to gathering restrictions and health large staff and we don’t have one person they’re using Facebook Live or YouTube,” he
concerns. “I kind of look at the funeral designated to do this—we all do it. It’s such explains. “OneRoom is a lot more profes-
service as something that constantly evolves a simple system. We just set it up on the sional. We don’t just take our phone out
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Lakewood Cemetery, located in Uptown Lakewood’s story began with several New community programming ever to encourage
Minneapolis, is celebrating 150 years as a local England-born leaders who came to Minnesota people to connect or re-connect with this
treasure, industry pioneer, and resting place in the late 1800s and helped build the city very special place.”
for thousands of remarkable individuals and of Minneapolis. Progressive and enlightened, “Not only are we celebrating the past, but
families. From its founding by a few vision- they envisioned Lakewood as a place for all we are also looking ahead to the next 150
ary leaders in 1871 to its expansive public individuals and families to be memorialized years,” Makowske continues. “The world of
programming today, Lakewood has always in a peaceful and beautiful setting. Over time, death, dying and remembrance is changing.
been a place where people come together to Lakewood has become a keeper of some of People today are looking for more personal
celebrate, honor, mourn, reflect, and remem- this city’s treasures — its historical figures and and meaningful ways to honor and remember,
ber what’s sacred in life. events, art and architecture, park-like land- both at the time of death and in the years
that follow. Because as many of us know, we
never forget those we’ve lost.”
“As we move forward, Lakewood intends
to continue to inspire individuals and fami-
lies to discover what’s meaningful for them
when it comes to memorialization, whether
it’s planting a tree in memory of a loved one,
inscribing a name in stone, joining others in a
grief meditation or tying a ribbon to our Living
Memory Tree, we intend to bring more offer-
ings forward that encourage personal and col-
lective remembrance so that memorialization
becomes more inviting, accessible and relevant
for people’s lives today,” says Makowske.
Visitors can learn about the virtual and
seasonal activities taking place this year at
www.lakewoodcemetery.org/150. All activities
are open to the public and will follow the lat-
est COVID-19 mandates and guidelines. More
experiences and events will be added as the
year goes on.
Throughout 2021, the nonprofit cemetery scape, and people from many cultures and Story Collecting
will be celebrating its 150th year by encour- walks of life. Lakewood is collecting memories from
aging people from all walks of life to take part “Lakewood is a haven in the heart of everyone who has a personal connection
in a full calendar of experiences and activities Minneapolis and an integral part of the Twin to this storied place. This includes stories
that showcase Lakewood’s proud history Cities community,” says Lakewood president from people who have loved ones memo-
and bold vision to reimagine the role of a Chris Makowske. “For our 150th anniversary, rialized at Lakewood, people who grew up
cemetery in modern life. There will be oppor- we’re opening our doors and inviting the or have lived nearby, and people who have
tunities to explore Lakewood’s 250 acres of entire community to get to know us better. If a love of a history, gardens, art or cemeter-
urban memorial parkland, to share stories and you haven’t seen our historic mosaic Chapel, ies. Whatever your interest or connection,
memories of Lakewood, to learn more about participated in one of our seasonal celebra- Lakewood would love to hear about it. Visit
Lakewood’s history, art and gardens, and to tions, or taken a walking tour of Lakewood, lakewoodcemetery.org/150 or follow on
discover ways to bring more creativity and this is the year to do it,” Makowske adds. Facebook and Instagram: #lakewood150
meaning to memorialization. “We’re offering our most robust year of #mylakewoodstory.
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