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Question (Q) 1: Mr. Witness, do you swear to tell the truth, the whole
truth and nothing but the truth?
Answer (A) 1: Yes, ma’am.
Q.2: Please state your name and other personal circumstances for the
record, Mr. Witness.
A.2: I am JOHN FLOYD CRUZ, 38 years old, Filipino, single, and a
resident of No. 21 Aurora Hill, Baguio City.
Q.4: Do you have a copy of the said counter affidavit, Mr. Witness?
A.4: Yes, ma’am, here it is.
Q.5: Mr. Witness, this counter affidavit you handed to me, on the
last page appears to be a signature above the name John Floyd,
whose signature is this?
A.5: It is mine, ma’am.
Q.6: Mr. Witness, do you confirm and affirm the contents of this
counter affidavit?
A.6: Yes, ma'am.
Q.9: How did you come to know the complainant, Mr. Witness?
A.9: I met Helen while I was working as a call center agent in Sitel
Baguio, sometime in November of 2014, ma’am. We were
working for the same account with the said company and she
was one of the new trainees/employees at that time.
Q.11: Mr. Witness what happened after you learned that she was
pregnant?
A.11: From the day we learned that she was pregnant, we decided to
live together, ma’am. She moved in with me and we stayed at
my house located at No. 21 Aurora Hill, Baguio City.
Q.12: You mentioned that Helen was pregnant, how was her
pregnancy back then Mr. Witness?
A.12: At first, her condition was fine but during one of her regular
check-ups, the OB-GYNE advised us that it would be best for
her to avoid strenuous activities. This was the time when we
both decided that she should leave her job for the meantime,
until she fully recovers from her delivery, just so we can ensure
her and our child’s safety during the pregnancy.
Q.17: You said that your marriage was put on hold, Mr. Witness if
given the chance would you still want to push through with the
wedding?
A.17: Yes, ma’am. I love her and I want to marry her, and also
because of our child. But I do not know now, if she would still
want to marry me because of what’s happening between us.
Q.19: And, what about you Mr. Witness, what did you do after your
son was born?
A.19: I continued with my work to provide for my family.
Q.22: How long has she been a fulltime stay-at-home mother, Mr.
Witness?
A.22: Since Eliaz was born, ma’am.
Q.23: From what you have stated so far, Mr. Witness, you were the
only one in your household who was gainfully employed. Is
that correct, Mr. Witness?
A.23: Yes, ma’am.
Q.24: You stated a while ago that you continued to work in order to
provide for your family, what do you need to provide for your
family?
A.24: The needs of my son, our food, our clothing, our
hospitalization, and payment for our utilities. Unfortunately, it
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became harder for me to give those needs when I was
terminated from my job.
Q.25: When were you terminated from your job again, Mr. Witness?
A.25: Last year during the pandemic, ma’am.
Q.26: You said that it has been hard to provide for the needs of your
family, why is that Mr. Witness?
A.26: As I have said ma’am, I was terminated from my job. I had no
source of income but I had savings and I had separation pay
from my previous employment, ma’am.
Q.27: Now, Mr. Witness, one of the charges against you is that you
financially abused Helen, what can you say about that?
A.27: It is not true Ma’am, I never abused Helen, financially or
otherwise. I never refused to provide for the needs of my
family, everything came from my income. In fact, when I still
had my full-time job, I would even set aside 80% of my
monthly salary, equivalent to P19,200.00 and give it to Helen to
cover our expenses, Eliaz’ needs, and family savings. I give the
amount to Helen who was the one managing our finances.
Q.28: Mr. Witness, what problems, if any, did you encounter when
Helen was the one managing your family’s savings?
A.28: She is drawn to expensive and unnecessary luxury, to the extent
that we could no longer sustain our daily needs, ma’am. She
would impulsively shop online just to go with the trend.
Sometimes, when she would lose sight of our budget, as a result
of her unreasonable spending, she would borrow money from
relatives and later blame me for why we live miserably.
Q.29: Where does the 20% of your salary go, Mr. Witness?
A.29: The remaining 20% of my salary, which is equivalent to
P4,800.00 is allotted for my personal savings and daily
expenses, such as food and prepaid load, ma’am.
Q.31: Now, Mr. Witness, in the complaint filed against you is that
you used your family’s savings on drinking alcohol, what can
you say about that?
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A.31: It is not true, ma’am. Whatever I spent on drinking were all my
personal savings from my allowances. I never used the family
savings for I know very well that it was intended for the
schooling of Eliaz. Sometimes, my friends would just invite me
and I didn’t have to shed a dime, ma’am.
Q.33: But in her complaint, Helen made accusations that it was you
who resorted to violence. Mr. Witness, what can you say about
these allegations?
A.33: On her allegations that I had been hitting her, I swear on my
grave that I have never laid a hand on her. In fact, between us
two, she was the one who always resorts to physical violence.
Whenever she gets mad for unknown reasons, she would punch
me and sometimes even scratch me. There were also times
when she would throw objects around the house. As a result of
her outburst, I had to gripped and restrain her from further
hurting me and stop her from throwing objects.
Q.34: You mentioned Mr. Witness that it was Helen who resorted to
physical violence. What is your response when she’s being
irritable and violent?
A.34: I would always try to talk to her but her inability to control her
emotions made it difficult for us to hold a proper conversation,
ma’am. I have tolerated her, always trying to rationalize my
feelings of being emasculated by reminding myself that I love
her and I am willing to set aside my ego just to make her happy.
But sometimes, she would utter words which I could not take,
and of course, as an ordinary consequence, I might have said
something which could have hurt her feelings too.
Q.35: What can you say about Helen’s accusations of verbal abuse
against you, Mr. Witness?
A.35: There is no truth to such accusations, ma’am. As I said earlier, I
had always tolerated her nagging and just remained silent
whenever she starts an argument. The only instance when I
uttered unsavory words directed to Helen was merely a result of
her verbal provocation. It had always been her who would start
a fight.
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A.36: Honestly, I felt disheartened with what is happening between us
and our family. I found solace in the bottles of alcohol that I
consumed to numb the pain of viewing myself as a failure. I
was expecting her, out of all people, to be there for me during
this crisis and to be the source of my strength to get back on my
feet, because I believe that our love will keep us together. I
wanted to tell her what I was going through, but to my dismay,
she’s the first one to give up on me just when I needed her the
most.
Q.37: Based on your statements Mr. Witness, is it safe to say that you
were struggling with your mental health?
A.37: Yes, ma’am. I think I have been suffering from depression after
I lost my job.
Q.38: You said, Mr. Witness that you thought you were suffering
from depression. Have you tried seeking professional help?
A.38: Yes, ma’am.
Q.40: You said, Mr. Witness, that you sought professional help from
what you are suffering. When did you know that you needed to
seek professional help?
A.40: When I lost my job and could not find any other job
opportunities, ma’am. I started questioning my worth. I began
to think about how I can end my life to escape all of my
problems and the pain of viewing myself as a failure. I feel
extremely hopeless. Several times, I have planned on killing
myself but I tried to think of my family – how Helen and Eliaz
would live their life without me.
Q.41: You mentioned, Mr. Witness, that you were suffering from
depression. Among your family and friends, who knows that
you’re suffering from depression?
A.41: None, ma’am.
Q.42: Why did you decide to keep your depression to yourself, Mr.
Witness?
A.42: Because I didn’t want to burden my family. As the head of the
household, I am expected to be strong to provide physical and
emotional security to them, ma’am.
Q.45: Can you recall the date when you called the suicide hotline, Mr.
Witness?
A.45: Yes, ma’am. I called the suicide hotline on November 4, 2020,
ma’am.
Q.47: Mr. Witness, you said that you called the suicide hotline. Can
you recall how long did your first consultation go?
A.47: I could not recall exactly, ma’am, but it lasted for a couple of
hours, ma’am.
Q.49: After your first consultation Mr. Witness, what happened next,
if any?
A.49: I have further consultations with the suicide hotline, ma’am. I
was given scheduled appointments which is every two weeks
because they said it was necessary for them to monitor my
progress.
Q.50: Mr. Witness, did you ever get the chance to know who was the
person you were talking to in the suicide hotline?
A.50: Yes, ma’am.
Q.51: Who was the person you were talking to in the suicide hotline,
Mr. Witness?
A.51: I later discovered that the agent from the other end of the line
was actually my former girlfriend, Honey Asuncion, ma’am.
Q.52: How did you know that it was Honey Asuncion, Mr. Witness?
A.52: She reached out to me thru her professional messenger account
— “Suicide Hotline of Baguio City - Honey” because I missed
my scheduled appointment on December 30, 2020, ma’am.
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Q.53: Mr. Witness, what is your proof that she contacted you?
A.53: I have a screenshot ma’am.
Q.60: Mr. Witness, what is your proof that the conversation was
focused on how you can cope up with your depression?
A.60: I have series of screenshots, ma’am. I have here a screenshot
dated January 13, 2021 where it shows my conversation with
Honey, ma’am.
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Q.61: I am marking this as Annex “3”, do you confirm my act?
A.61: Yes, ma’am.
Q.62: It was alleged in the complaint that Eliaz heard you talking to
someone over the phone and you were referring to her as
“honey”, what can you say about this Mr. Witness?
A.62: When Eliaz heard me calling someone “honey” over the phone
that was the time that I had a burst of emotions so I decided to
seek immediate counseling from Honey Asuncion. I called her
through messenger. However, in the middle of our
conversation, I immediately dropped the call when I heard
Helen throwing tantrums and objects around the house, ma’am.
Q.63: You said that you seek immediate counselling because you had
a burst of emotions, what is your proof Mr. Witness?
A.63: I have here a screenshot dated January 27, 2021 where it shows
my conversation with Honey Asuncion, ma’am.
Q.65: Mr. Witness, aside from your depression, what are other
matters that you discussed with Honey Asuncion?
A.65: I would sometimes talk about my family problems, especially
when Helen and I would have heated arguments, ma’am. She
would lose her cool, scream and throw objects around the
house.
Q.66: You said that your conversation was about your family
problems, what is your proof Mr. Witness?
A.66: I have screenshot of our conversation, ma’am.
Q.69: Mr. Witness you mentioned a while ago a certain Doctor, what
is your proof that you were referred to Dr. King Pagtailan
Dimagiba?
Q.69: Yes, ma’am. I have a screenshot here proving that I was
referred to Dr. Dimagiba.
Q.72: You said that you messaged her, what is your proof Mr.
Witness?
Q.72: I have a screenshot, ma’am.
Q.77: Did you inform Helen of your job applications, Mr. Witness?
A.77: No, ma’am.
Q.81: Mr. Witness, you said that you were interviewed, who
interviewed you?
A.81: It was Ms. Annie Corpuz, ma’am.
Q.83: When you went to Starbucks, who was with you Mr. Witness?
A.83: None, ma’am. I was alone.
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Q.84: Mr. Witness, it was alleged in the complaint that Helen saw you
with Honey Asuncion at SM City Baguio Starbucks. What can
you say about this allegation?
A.84: The allegation was baseless, ma’am. The woman whom she
saw at that time was certainly the head manager of SM City
Baguio Starbucks because like what I said a while ago, I had
my job interview at the said establishment.
Q.85: After your interview Mr. Witness, what happened next, if any?
A.85: I went to the office of the Psychiatric Department at Baguio
General Hospital, ma’am.
Q.92: Mr. Witness, you mentioned that Helen was accusing you of
infidelity. What can you say about her allegation of infidelity
filed against you?
A.92: Her allegation of infidelity is baseless, ma’am. The truth of the
matter is that she immediately concluded that I am having an
affair. To belie her suspicions, I tried to explain everything to
her. However, she got so mad at me to the point that her anger
was already uncontrollable and she's no longer accepting nor
even trying to listen to my explanations, ma’am.
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Q.93: You said that her anger was uncontrollable. What made you say
that the anger of Helen was uncontrollable, Mr. Witness?
A.93: She got extremely mad and, in her rage, she started to scratch
me, throw punches and blows against me, while yelling at me at
the top of her lungs. She was too furious at me that she even
had our things at home tossed around, broken and destroyed,
ma’am.
Q.94: Mr. Witness, what happened next, if any?
A.94: To avoid further harm to myself, I parried the blows of Helen
using both of my hands, ma’am.
Q.98: You mentioned, Mr. Witness that you decided not to talk to her
to give her time and space. That night, when things have settled
down, did the two of you have the chance to talk?
A.98: No, ma’am because when I went to check on her in the living
room, she was no longer there. I looked for her everywhere in
the house as well as in the neighborhood but to no avail.
Q.100: Based on everything that you just said, Mr. Witness can you
describe to us again your relationship with Helen?
A.100: The earlier years were harmonious, ma’am; we were a happy
young couple who had a lot of dreams for our future. When we
learned that she was pregnant, we strived to be better people
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and we worked hard for the future of our child. But problems
came crashing in when I lost my job. I became depressed,
because of her constant nagging and violent attitude, that made
me question my worth as a man, a partner and a father to our
child. She also became more impatient, ill-tempered and even
suspicious about my actions, accusing me of cheating with
another woman. When in fact, it was her who had been
involved with another man. Despite that, because of my
undying devotion to her, I accepted her, wholeheartedly, also
taking into consideration our son’s welfare, as I would not want
him to grow up in a broken family, ma’am.
Q.101: Mr. Witness, what can you say about the charges filed against
you?
A.101: I am innocent of all the charges being levelled against me,
ma’am. I had always been a devoted partner to Helen. When
Eliaz came into our lives, I made a vow to give them a happy
and comfortable life. I had always made sure to put my family’s
welfare above my own.
Q.104: Under your present oath, do you affirm and confirm the
contents of your affidavit?
A.104: Yes, Ma’am.
NO FURTHER QUESTIONS.
LAWYER’S ATTESTATION
3. I have not, neither has any other person, coached the witness as
to the answers he provided. And the witness had not been
assisted or coached in providing his testimony; and
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JASS MAY CARPIO SANTIAGO
Attestant Counsel
Copy Furnished:
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ANNEX “1”
Republic of the Philippines
DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE
NATIONAL PROSECUTION SERVICE
OFFICE OF THE CITY PROSECUTOR
Baguio City
COUNTER AFFIDAVIT
I, JOHN FLOYD CRUZ, of legal age, single, Filipino and resident of No.
21 Aurora Hill, Baguio City, after having been duly sworn in accordance with
law, hereby depose and state that:
1. I am the same person who is the respondent in the instant case filed
by HELEN ADARNA (hereinafter referred to as “Helen” for
brevity) at the Baguio City Prosecutor’s Office for violation of
Republic Act No. 9262 or “Anti-Violence Against Women and
Their Children Act of 2004”, specifically Sections 5(a), 5(e), and
5(i);
3. I may not be the perfect partner for Helen but she knows how much
I treasure my relationship with her and our son Eliaz Cruz
(hereinafter referred to as “Eliaz” for brevity). I have fathered Eliaz
out of wedlock for five years and took care of Helen even before we
decided to live together;
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1. On January 6, 2021, the suicide hotline dispatcher, who turned out
to be Honey Asuncion (hereinafter referred to as “Honey” for
brevity) reached out to me thru her professional messenger account
— “Suicide Hotline of Baguio City - Honey” because I missed my
scheduled appointment on December 30, 2020. Attached herewith
is a COPY OF A SCREENSHOT dated JANUARY 6, 2021 and
marked as ANNEX “1” of this Counter Affidavit;
2. The truth of the matter is that sometime in January 2021, due to the
burst of various emotions I was experiencing, I called Honey via
messenger to seek for an immediate counselling. That was the exact
moment when Eliaz heard me calling someone “Honey” over the
phone. However, in the middle of our conversation, I immediately
dropped the call when I heard Helen throwing tantrums and objects
around the house. A COPY OF SCREENSHOTS dated
JANUARY 13, 2021 and JANUARY 27, 2021 1:30PM is hereto
attached and marked as ANNEX “2” and ANNEX “3”,
respectively of this Counter Affidavit;
3. The truth of the matter is that, there is only one instance that I said
unsavory words to Helen, and it was only a result of her verbal
provocation. It is Helen who always starts the heated arguments by
saying hurtful statements that degrade me as a person like telling me
that I am worthless as a partner;
There is no truth to the allegation that I spent the family savings on drinking
alcohol. Whatever I spent drinking during the times I was depressed were all
my personal savings. I never used the family
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1. savings for I know very well that it was intended for the schooling
of Eliaz;
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1. There is no truth to the complainant’s allegation that I punched her
several times. Although Helen and I would have quarrels which are
normal as all couples would, I have never used violence against her
in any form. As a matter of fact, whenever Helen and I would have
a disagreement, she would lose her cool, scream and throw objects
around the house. Attached herewith is a COPY OF A
SCREENSHOT dated JANUARY 27, 2021 4:30 PM and marked
as ANNEX “6” of this Counter Affidavit;
2. The alleged physical abuse is denied. I do not have any idea where
the bruises came from, or who caused it. In fact, I already saw the
bruises on her arms when I arrived home. I tried to ask her what
happened but instead of answering me, she continuously accused me
of infidelity. Helen continuously accused me without even giving
me a chance to talk and explain;
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JOHN FLOYD CRUZ
Affiant
SUBSCRIBED AND SWORN to before me this 30th day of July, 2021 at the
City of Baguio.
This is to certify that I personally examined the affiant and I am fully satisfied
that he voluntarily executed his Counter Affidavit.
Copy Furnished:
HELEN ADARNA RECEIVED: June 30, 2021 1:24pm Aurora
Hill, Baguio City
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ANNEX “1”
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ANNEX “2”
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ANNEX “3”
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ANNEX “4”
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ANNEX “5”
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ANNEX “6”
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ANNEX “2”
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ANNEX “3”
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ANNEX “4”
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ANNEX “5”
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ANNEX “6”
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ANNEX “7”
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