Intoduction

Hello dear,
Nice to meet you dear.

What's your name dear?

wow, your name is lovely.

Well I'm Carlson Ryan

Her country and current City.

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Where are you from dear?
Okay good.

I'm from New York City, USA.

Where currently do you live in?

Okay good.
Oh I have been to that city before.

But right now i'm currently in the Baltic sea ( Germany ) working a contract work
with China National Offshore Oil Corporation.

But I Intend to relocate Back to China soon as possible after the end of my
contract to setup my single investment and start a new life there with my only
daughter.

I hope we can meet when I come over.

Works information.
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What do you do for a living, I mean what's your work?
okay good
What's the nature of your job?

Well i'm Chief engineer working in an oil rig. I work under the sea for repairing
welding and fabrications of crude oil pipelines.

My job is very hard and dangerous,and i'm working well with, China National
Offshore Oil Corporation.
Age
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How old are you?
okay.

I'm years old

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from
age, what matter is what we feel for each other the trust and loyalty.

Marital status
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Are you single, married or divorce?

Oh, so sorry about your divorce.

Are you happily married?

I am a widower.

my wife died in an car accident� but i don't want to talk about it because whenever
i rememeber her leaving me and my daughter ,it makes me upset because she never
said goodbye to me before leaving me and my daughter but hope is fine in heaven.

Thanks but life has to move on with me since i have mourned her for 5 years now but
life have to continue.

Kids/Children
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Do you have kids?
How old is your child?

I have a daughter.
My daughter will be celebrating her 14th birthday soon.

About your family

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So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?

My Dad died when I was just a Kid, Mom died 2001, I'm the only Child of my Parents,
My Daughter Cindy is the only close family I have got at the moment, she's my best
friend, sister and everything to me.

Terms of coming to China

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I love china it a good place to stay and to setup business.

I want to invest on oil and gas station business in China.

So my friend what is present economy rate now your city?

freestyle praise
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Hi ,thank you for your message i really Appreciate it, i will love to know more
about you,you seem to be a nice person and I am very curious to learn more about
you if possible.

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Are you willing to remain single forever?

That is truth, but it's difficult to find the right one this days especially with
the case of men who are single searching for a woman.

Most woman this days are not faithful i mean the young ones who don't know more
about a marriage life.

Most woman this days are not faithful i mean the young ones whodon't know more
about a marriage life. What about you,what kind of a man will you love to meet?

I really do want a woman in my life to love me and my daughter forever as much as I

will forever love her and together is where we should be for all eternity.

because most men are searching for the perfect woman to marry,but in the other hand
i am searching for the imperfect woman to love and care for perfectly.
because is not all the time we meet miss perfect, some time we have to take the
imperfect woman to become perfect then she will forever be perfect for your love.

Are you a jealous woman?

Am filled of jealousy,i will not love to see my wife hanging around with another
man,people do say jealousy doesn't matter in a relationship,but i see it to as my
first point,because it makes me secure my family.

Ask some few questions

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What are your hobbies?

That's good

I enjoy sailing, swimming, traveling, gyming, reading, cooking, and dancing

What are your best food?

My best food are Rice potato,sea food with fish and vegetable.

What are your favorite colors?

My favorite colors are Blue and White.

You know blue is for the beautiful sky we all see and white is for the cloud and it
always stand for peace.

Last contract awareness$

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Have you been in� West africa Gold coast before ?

The work over there is very hard� and tough, but i had work for there last year
Febuary on a bridge contract with the western oil government.

But till now they haven't paid me all money for the work done.

Am very worried about it because they Western african oil company government is
owing me $1.75 million dollars.

But the mistake i made is that i used my own money to support the contract work.

But recently i heard that the western oil government is gonna paid me my money
soon.

Dear please pray for me always so that they will paid me soon.

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Do your kids live with you?
Okay good.

My daughter study music In Canada in boarding school.

You know she can't live with me when I'm in the sea.

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what is your favorite things?

I like healthy foods such as a good seafood salad I love the color blue. I like to
snuggle when it rains or read a good book, shopping at a large mall, reading any of
the self-help books, listening to romantic music or 60's music, and exercising.

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Do you want children?

Depends on the woman I love if she wants kid, then it's good.

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What are your criteria for choosing a spouse?

Chris Morgan:
Honesty. If you can't trust, you can't love

Chris Morgan:
Self-Awareness, Adaptability, Resiliency, and Commitment.

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What sort of relationship you seek for?

I'm here seeking for a serious and honest woman to build my strong relationship
with.

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What are the basic qualities you seek for in a man?

Am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me , communicate her

feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by my side,
respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in everyway, love me and
only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time,constantly
reative, and treat me right.

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What is your height, weight?

My height is 5.9ft and my weight is160cm.

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What do you think the 5 stepping stones in a relationship are?

The 5 stepping stones to any relationship to my way of thinking would have to be

love,communication,honesty,faith and Trust.

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What is the one thing you want most out of life?

A special woman to treat me the same way I would treat her with respect and honor.
is the one thing I would want out of life.

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What is your favorite time of the year?

My favorite time of the year is Valintine day me and my woman can feel the love of
the season.
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What are the main things you will not allow someone you would be with to do to you?

I wont like my woman to be lieing to me and not been honest to me.

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What makes you angry?

Someone making fun of someone Else's handicap or misfortune, people who say one
thing and do something entirely different, makes me angry.

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What makes you sad?

what makes me sad is when a relative or a close friend passing away, a sad movie,
not being able to help someone out when they really need it.

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What makes you happy?

what makes me happy. getting an email from a very beautiful woman and talking to
her online like you. Seeing a couple holding hands going down the street.LIVING
LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND HAVEING MY FAMILY AND TRUE FRIENDS AROUND ME THE BLESSINGS
THAT GOD HAVES FOR ME AND JUST BEING THE PERSON THAT I AM AND GOD MADE ME TO BE.

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What makes you laugh?

what makes me laugh? a puppy or a kitten chasing their tails, clowns, someone
telling a good joke.

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If a genie granted you three wishes what would you wish for?

If a genie gave me three wishes? (1) for you to in my arms,that everyone I knew had
good health,that I was with you.

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What is your favorite time of day?

My favorite time of day is bed time because then I can dream of you being with me.

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Does God play a big part in your life?

GOD in my life? yes he is but not as much as he should be. I'm sure what I believe.
But I try very hard to live my life the way I should live it and I try to treat
people the way I should and the way I would want them to treat me and to live as
honest as I can.

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What is your happiest childhood memory?

happiest childhood memory would have to be when I was about 9 yrs old and it was
summer time and all the kids my age would meet on our front porch on Friday
evenings and my late mom would tell me ghost stories and make us scared.

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If/when we meet, What is the first thing you would like to do?
if/when i meet you the first thing I would have to do is give you a big hug and
thank GOD for getting me to you safely.

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Can we exchange picture?

wow beautiful they say is in the eyes of the beholder,you are really beautiful what
a beautiful eyes going together with your smiles.

Calls are not allowed.

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Dear I want to inform you that we are not allowed to make videos or audio calls
here in the sea, because the sea pirates can locate our signal when we call and
they will attack our ship.

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What's your favorite pet?

My favorite pet is dog.

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Have you been to mountains before

Oh, I love mountains but I'm afraid of hight.

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Do you have your own house in your country?

What kind of house dear?

Yes i have a very beautiful house in United States,with swimming pool and wide
football field.

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How long have you been on Wechat ?

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Do you love listining to music?

What are your favorite music?

I love country music,Blues,Pop and Rock.

Can you dance?

Am a good dancer will dance with you if only you will not step on my toes haha

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Which University did you attended?

I graduated from oxford university.

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Do you like reading novels?

I love inspiration books.

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Have you ever been lied to before?

I have been double crossed by my friend in same working place who tries to take my
working position,he was my best friend but he becomes my worst enemy that day.
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Have you been in any relationship since the divorce of your husband?

I have never been in any because i have been so busy with my work and kid.
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What are your emotional level for young kids ?

I see can you play a role of a good mother to your husband daughter.
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How often do you like to go out, I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife,because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me,so the few time that I go out must be with my
daughter and I will be looking forward to go out with you when I come to China If
you don't mind.

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Do you drink or smoke?

Am not an heavy drinker but never smoke.

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LOVE PART
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How you feel all this years leaving without a man in your life?

I feel empty,thinking love is dead,i never have feelings for love since the lost of
my wife,until i saw two Birds caring for themselves,then i realize love is all
about life.

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How can you take care of your husband?

Ok i can be a good husband to my wife by buying her gifts,taking her for

shopping,providing for her daily needs.
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What can you tell about me dear?

I see you are a good and honest woman who is ready to settle and love the man of
your life with your whole heart.
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If i give you my heart will you play and dance with it?

Just asking because i will be a good keeper to a heart of yours if given to me.
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What you see by love at first sight?

Love has so many language and understanding.

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What can you define a simple love as?

Oh nice of you.
I see love as a place were we share one thought,have good communication,move slow
and fast holding our hands tight together.

Love is not love until one heart is ready to love,trust being honest to give and
accept with out a doubt.
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Do you think love is blind?

Yes love is blind but it always take us to were we belongs.

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Can we come close as partner?

Am now ready to give my heart to a caring woman like you.

I am ready to be your man come rain come sunshine.

I think this is the time for me to say am in love with you I am yet to know about
you well my love but I am sure your love will make my heart warm and happy.
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sorry, I know this seems very surprising, as I have fallen in love with you. all I
want to say is that I can not live without you. you are the best thing that ever
happened to me, and you make my life complete.
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No woman had ever completely my attention as you do it my dear taken prisoner, I

thought I would be able to do it all alone, with no one in my life, but since I saw
you here, I have the value of knowledge a woman in a man's life.
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Even though I met you Just a few days before.I have learned so much of who you are
and thirst to learn even more.
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PROPOSAL @
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You are the one that I desire, you set my heart a blazing fire.As for reading poems
and singing lullabies, Any day my love any day at all, from now until the end of
time. And what pleasure it could be To carry you away to our bed. I love you full
hearted and so completely Of course I will propose down on my knee, but my dearest
lovely wife to be its hard to do it across the sea. So as I said once before my
dearest love, Will you marry me? And when I see you I swear to you The first thing
I do will be drop to my knee, And I will propose to you properly.
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I know you think about the distance but distance is not the problem, I want you to
know I am willing to travel miles and oceans just to be with you darling.
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I know we have not met, but these feelings that i have for you will keep growing
and growing every day of my life it is amazing how you got me and trapped me.
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Unfortunately, I have said something wrong, please I'm sorry.
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I want to share my world with you,all the smiles and all the tears. I want to learn
to trust again something I havent done in years.
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i just thank God for having you, We are meant for each other and no one can change
that, i love you with all my heart, you, you and you alone. you shall reign in my
heart. You are the one I desire without whom I could not be complete.
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I will live for you alone and I will work for you alone. I will share with you my
thoughts, my heart, my mind and my body.
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Our first chat is like the birth of a sun,i want to do it all with you for
eternity, i will always be there for you if you should need me.
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You are very special to me, you have kindled something new.I want to feel loved in
my life,I want to be with you.
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Love is huge. I will work hardest to reach it.My love is only for you.I will
present it just for you - just for you.
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I can let my feelings out to you and won't regret it because no matter what is you
are always on my side.
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love you so much that words can't explain this joy that I have for you.
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Darling now that i have the chance to show how much i love you, how much my heart
want and need you,this is the moment in time that, i will not let this pass without
being with you my love.
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baby i will love you as long as i live, i will caress and hold you, and make love
to you all through out the night that i am with you, for my dreams came true
because of you.
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I love you more than ever,but words just cannot say,The way I feel about you,it
grows stronger day by day.I'm dreaming of you,each and every night,Waiting for you.
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I love you more than i ever thought i could, i promise to give you all i can give,
i will do anything for you as long as i live, when you need love, i will share,
when you are sick, i promise i will care,in your eyes i see our present, our future
and past, by the look in your eyes i know we will last my sweetheart.
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I love you with every part of my soul darling, honey i have made my promise to love
you, for better and for worst, i love you forever sweetie.
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If it pleases you,call me your lover from this day forth and you're mine. As our
body, mind and soul combine, so do our hearts become one.
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If you want me as your love as much as I want you as my love then so be it I give
you this heart of mine and ask nothing less or nothing more but just that you don't
go breaking my heart.
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My love and trust is all I have to give to you, sealed with honesty throughout and
as time goes by,may it grow stronger to fulfill your heart's desire.
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I love you with every part of my being. If I could marry your soul I would. I dream
of nobody else but you.
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My biggest reward is to see you smile, know you are happy, and feel you are loved.
I know life is sometimes cruel, but that�s why I�m here, to show you that life can
be good when somebody cares.
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i love you more than you can ever imagine, as busy as we get, we need to be
reminded that we are still sweetheart's, everyday of my life is a good day for me
to stop and realize how wonderful you make me feel.
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I believe God almighty has created you for me to love because he knows no one will
love you more than me, you are my sweetheart and i am glad that you are mine.
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My love, we are two soul together for eternity, you are the angel of my dreams, i
am a great believer in fate and destiny, it was fate that i met you and destiny to
be with you.
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My queen, i knew i started falling in love with you when my ears couldn't listen to
anything you said but my heart could feel every drop of expression on your
beautiful face
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My eyes were made to appreciate your beauty, my ears were made to listen to your
soft whispers and my tongue was made to taste your tender lips.
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My queen, you have the most beautiful heart ever felt, you are always in my heart
and that is why you are my queen.
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Seeing you is the best thing that meets my eyes. My love for you seems infinite
like the skies, I want to be the only hand you ever need to hold.
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It�s one thing to fall in love. It�s another to feel someone else fall in love with
you, and to feel a responsibility toward that love, i will go extra mine for the
love i have for you is very deep and strong
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I love you very much, probably more than anybody could love another person you are
the first person who has been able to make my heart beat slower and faster at the
same time.
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The further our relationship goes, the more I fall in love with you. I used to
wonder if this love would ever get boring but now I see that you are the one for
me.

Trust
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Do you trust me dear?

You know love without trust is not love.

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Dear i want you to understand that trust, loyalty and respect are a must for
eternal happiness.No matter how much you love someone if you dont have these
ingredients you will never succeed.
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I understand what you have gone through over the years believe me Dear i feel your
pain and i am really sorry for what happen to you in the past.
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You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies so just trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be
trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
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We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling
to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you
need support.
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For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.
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Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude.
It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong
doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
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People who choose to trust tend to be happier, better liked by others, and more
ethical than less trusting people A lot of times people don't trust another person
because they are making assumptions that aren't true
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Morning baby, i need to tell u this and i guess i should call it my confession,
just when i got off here yesternight, i just cant stop thinking of you, and i kept
asking my self some questions since then but i have no one to help out and answer
me.
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You are the one that I desire; you set my heart a blazing fire.As for reading poems
and singing lullabies, Any day my love any day at all, from now until the end of
time.
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I cant wait to meet your Family and taking you to my Family for a special
introduction. Its going to be lovely cuddle up with you for more than a week .
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You are really amazing.Inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams
reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt
and where my favorite memories are safe and warm.
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I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought.. Sometimes I bring
you there purposely just to make my day brighter.
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But more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into my thoughts.There are
even times when I awaken,I realize that you've been a part of my dreams.Then during
the day, when my imagination is free to run,it takes me into your arms and allows
me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do.
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True love can blind you but at the same time if you let it, it can also open your
eyes.....Love, an emotion so strong that you would give up everything.
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A relationship is like fire, and all the problems and jealous people in the world
are like water.
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Real gold fears no fire, so I'm not afraid been with you till eternity.
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I've never been so certain of anything in my life like I am of us. You have totally
changed my outlook in life and I thank you for that. I never thought that someone
could love me like you do, but guess what? I love you that much too. I feel as if
I'mwalking over clouds just thinking about you.

CONFIRMATION NA MUST.

@JUSTICE MILLA