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HELLO AND WELCOME!

INTRODUCTION

IF YOU FINALLY WANT TO UNDERSTAND WHY A MAN IS ELUSIVE, DISTANT AND


SILENT, THEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!

I am Alex Cormont, relationship expert since 2007. After having worked with more than 30,000
people around the world, I can tell you that you are experiencing the same problem as millions of
other women: you have your sights set on one specific man, but he is no longer under your spell.

◊ How do you get to this point?


◊ What’s going on in his head?
◊ How do we get him to fall for you again?

LET ME ALREADY TELL YOU ABOUT THE TWO «COMMON MISTAKES» THAT I OF-
TEN SEE IN THE WOMEN I COACH THAT EXPLAIN WHY YOU ARE HERE WITH ME
TODAY.

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COMMON MISTAKE #1 - HE’S THE ONE!

NO, HE’S NOT! I know you may think that he’s out of your league because either you’ve never
dated a man like him before or maybe because he’s extremely hot. Let me make things clear here.
If you put a man on a pedestal you are killing the attraction.

Every human (especially men) are attracted to the challenge! They are looking for a woman that
they can put on a pedestal and not the opposite.

So I realized that for years when I was coaching men, they came to me to increase their seductive
power, to learn to be charismatic and in a way to please as many people as possible.

On the other hand, the women I coach tend to focus on one man. Then inevitably the balance of
power is off and they wind up suffering, being needy and running after him.

Through this eBook, I want you to know that all this is now over. You will be able to use my best text
messages to regain control of the situation and NEVER say, «He’s the one» to yourself again when
he doesn’t make the effort to be in a lasting and authentic relationship with you.

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COMMON MISTAKE #2
DIVING IN HEAD FIRST WHEN THERE IS ONLY 3FT OF WATER.

I often see women who are interested in a man, and they just want to rush into things and either
want to see him 5 times a week or get into a relationship with him immediately.

This will not work with an emotionally secure man - it will have the opposite effect. Because when
you dive into a 3ft pool, you’re bound to hit your head on the floor before doing any work to swim
to the top.

There has been no swimming and exploring for an emotional connection between the two of you,
so you haven’t created anything to make him want to get to know you.

Let me tell you why a man doesn’t like for you to go all in too fast. You give him nothing to yearn
for; you want to make him feel like he’s deciding because he likes you. But in the process you’re
trying to be charming here, and you know by his conversation, body language, and comments he’s
into you.

This mistake is consistent with the first, but it also leads you to set aside your personal life. You
forget who you are, what your passions are and to position yourself as a challenge.

If you follow my advice to stop making these mistakes and to reposition yourself as the « prize,” a
person who must be seduced, then I can guarantee you that a man work hard to try to seduce you.

SO, ARE YOU READY TO REVERSE THE SITUATION?


DO YOU WANT TO MAKE A LASTING CHANGE SO THAT YOU CAN DRY YOUR
TEARS AND REDISCOVER YOUR SMILE?

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DISCOVER 7 POWERFUL MESSAGES TO MAKE A
MAN CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOR!

YOU CAN NOW ACCESS 7 REALLY POWERFUL TEXT MESSAGES TO HELP YOU
BECOME A CHALLENGE AGAIN AND GET A MAN TO FIGHT FOR YOU.

WARNING, these text messages are not magic solutions and you must be able to adapt them to
your situation, your psychology and the psychology of the man in question.

There is no one-size-fits-all method, so I want you to use common sense. If you want to go further,
I have created a very special course: «How to get the guy I want in 30 days or less.»

Inside you will find other examples of messages, explanations on male psychology and most impor-
tantly the complete step-by-step method (day by day) to get the man of YOUR choice in only
30 days.

MESSAGE 1 : YOU REGAIN CONTROL AND SET THE TEMPO!

«I’m not sure you can meet my expectations, so I prefer that we stick to being good friends. I wish
you the best ☺”

◊ You can send this when a man does not show signs of strong interest in creating the type of long
lasting relationship that you want. This will give you the opportunity to plant a seed of doubt in his
mind.
If you always propose to see each other without going further (no physical intimacy) then you take
back the control, and he can very quickly realize what he stands to lose.

He will be surprised to see that you’re making the decisions and that indirectly he has found him-
self in an inferior position.

MESSAGE 2 : SPARK HIS CURIOSITY AND SHOW HIM THAT LIFE IS ALWAYS AMA
ZING!

«Something crazy just happened to me. I’ll have to tell you about it next time I see you. My life is
taking a turn and I can’t get enough!»

◊ One of the easiest ways to get a man to react is by making him feel that your personal life is
getting exciting again, and by sparking his interest in sharing more moments with you.

This text message can be sent whenever you want and you can even keep the same tone and keep
talking about your activities. You also won’t have to worry that he will think you don’t need him
because it is a sign of weakness (lack of trust).

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MESSAGE 3 : WE NO LONGER MEET HIS EXPECTATIONS AND PROVE THAT HE IS


NOT THE ONLY MAN IN THE WORLD...

«Oh no, I can’t tonight, I’m out with my new friends from the salsa band. We’re going to this secret
place, it’s amazing ☺ Have a great time tonight.»

◊ When a man tells you that he doesn’t want to get involved but he remains present in your life,
we will try to show him that you are no longer available and that you spend your time doing other
things, meeting new people. This is how he will realize that he can lose you and that you deserve
better!

MESSAGE 4 : MEASURED DISTANCE TO MAKE HIM PANIC WITHOUT CLOSING


ALL DOORS

«I really like you, we had some great times together and I certainly hoped that you would change
your mind about us and see what a great chick I am ☺. I’m looking for a man who can make me feel
alive and now we’ve fallen into a situation that prevents me from really letting go and that doesn’t
really suit me. I hope you find the right person but for now, I would prefer that we don’t talk too
much. »

◊ If you are dealing with a man who only wants a sexual relationship, then you will have to put up
barriers and stick to them. It is possible that he will do everything to keep you under control so be
positive but firm!

Then remember to use all the rules I present to you in my course «How to get the guy I want in
30 days or less» to handle social networks, to shift the balance of power in your favor and to make
the first steps happen.

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MESSAGE 5 : IF YOU HAVE MADE MISTAKES....

«You’re absolutely right. While talking with my coach I became aware of my fears and how I
constantly run away. I haven’t listened to myself in a week and that changes everything! I should
have behaved differently and I would be happy to make up for it by going for (pancakes, ice cream,
a pizza) with you».

◊ There are times when you may have lacked attention and investment. You regret it once the
man takes a step back because you realize what you are losing. That’s why this text message uses a
reverse psychology technique to make this man want to trust you again!

MESSAGE 6 : IF YOU WANT HIM TO FIGHT FOR YOU!

«I like you very much, but I find that the relationship is shifting into a routine and that doesn’t
really do it for me. You probably feel the same way? How about we challenge each other and make
each date special? To have some kind of new experience. That could be fun, right?»

I advise you to send this text message when your man is distant, elusive, kind of involved but not
totally. Ideally you should wait for him to check in on you or reach out to see you, and you can
use this very subtle text message to show him that you want more and want him to try to give you
something new.

MESSAGE 7 : THE GOOD GIRLFRIEND ATTITUDE

This is not a message per se, but it’s a rule that brings a lot of results. It is a question of cutting
everything off from a sentimental and attraction point of view. For example, avoid the «I love you»,
«I miss you», «I’m thinking of you», «I want to kiss you» texts...

You communicate with him as you do with your girlfriends without adding any additional emojis,
words, or extra things.

Why?
Simply because he will feel that you have changed and will start to wonder again, «How to seduce
her, charm her, win her back?»

We can (and must) reverse the trend so that this guy becomes much more open to you and shows
you he values you.

BONUS ! MY FAVORITE: DON’T ANSWER.

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I KNOW IT FREAKS YOU OUT, BUT I CAN GUARANTEE YOU THAT THERE’S NO-
THING BETTER THAN IGNORING A MAN TO MAKE HIM CHASE YOU.

Stop chasing and start attracting ☺

If you feel that these messages can help you because your man is special, then I encourage you to
act now while simultaneously working on yourself.

To help you as much as possible, I want you to know that I have created a complete training course
called «Get the guy and the relationship I want in 30 days!»

In it, I reveal all the psychological tools that explain men’s behavior and I give you the perfect re-
cipe for every aspect: your look, your posture, your behavior, your words...

This way, you will really have all the tools you need to win the heart of the man you want.

You now have access to 7 powerful text messages. You should know that this is not even 1% of what
I offer you in my training course, because it is important to master every detail.

Take charge of your love life and do not hesitate to contact my team if you need more information.

♥ Best regards,

Alex Cormont «The French Relationship Expert»

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