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One interesting thing about strong emotions is that by just observing what’s going on and noting
what is happening to you, you can sometimes begin to actually get a handle on your feelings. We
call this way of looking at things “being non-judgmental” or “practicing acceptance.”
One of the things that gets people into the kind of difficulties we have been talking about is
having strong feelings like anger or sadness and then saying, “I shouldn’t be feeling this way. I
am a bad person for having these kind of feelings.”
Let’s try a little experiment—imagine yourself being angry. Now try saying some of these kind
of critical thoughts to yourself. What happens to how you are feeling?
It is really interesting how we can sometimes take a bad problem, and make it even worse just by
how we think about what we are feeling!