Sex Toy Study Break

Musical Dong Game

Chores People Hate Game

Why is it hard to talk to others about sex?

-Shy
-It’s a personal matter, some people are puritanical,
-Don’t want to give a slutty or prude impression.

When is the right time to have sex?

-When you are in a monogamous relationship.
-When both (or more) participating parties are consenting adults.

Sex Toys- (broad) Catalyst for communicating with your partner- Both verbally and physically
Alternative or Enhancement to Sex.

Communication
-Sex games- Sexperiences, O! Dirty Dice. Sex dice, Spin the bottle lol…
-Watch DVD’s with your partner. Learn new things and get turned on.
-Books - gain knowledge and become more comfortable

Caring for yourself helps you become more comfortable with your body.
Building your confidence
-Coochy shaving cream for bikini area.- aesthetic appeal to certain areas. + oral comfort
-Ben Wa balls to help strengthen vaginal muscles.
-Exercise in general.- looking and feeling better can lead to sex which is another great workout.
-Erotic Dancing and Boobie Tassles- a little more daring, Remember to HAVE FUN!
-Crotch less panties- Lingerie- look sexy, feel sexy
-Lotions, Body wash, Vaginal Wash- when you feel clean, you’ll feel better about getting dirty ;)
-Pheromones- if you’re shy, they can give you a boost in confidence as well as mood. Having it in your
“back pocket” can make you more willing to take risks to find a special someone.

Want physical pleasure without intercourse.

What are some erogenous zones?

-lips, mouth, neck, ears, chest, arms, fingers, feet, toes

Massage- head, back, neck, hand, foot, -great alternative

- Erogenous Zones- Don’t underestimate the power of touch
-massage candles- ambiance and oil
-heart warmer massager- great for cramps too
-releases muscle tension
-nice spiritual closeness
-foreplay- being touched
-Erotic massage, fully naked, hand job or fingering
How do you get oral sex?
-You ask…with your mouth.
Oral play- Dessert, hungry, Different kinds of stimulation.
-Nipple Nibblers- Nipples, ears, lips neck
-Edible pens- writing on each other, body paint
-Edible diva Dust- Look sparkly, skin looks luminescent.
-Oral sex mints- numbing
-Flavored lubes and arousal creams. Happy penis, sex tarts, Oral gel, Tasty twist balm

Different kinds of Lube-

-Glycerin- mostly in flavored, good for oral
-Water based- great for sensitive skin
-Silicone- rub all day and it will still be slick- WET-
- if used with silicone sex toys, make sure to clean off, or it will melt toy. Better to use water based
lubricant if possible for sex toys.
- Use gel or something more viscous for anal.

Sex Toys- Bullets, Vibrators, Dongs, Dildos, Masturbators, Cockrings

*Please clean your toys!!!
-Humans can’t do everything. We try but we have limitations. Partners may get frustrated or resentful
because they feel unsatisfied or inadequate. It’s ok to use sex toys in order to obtain mutual benefit =)
-In general, it’s nice to start with an arousal cream like Nympho’s or Rocket Balm
-Bullets- like box Mac and cheese,- simple and it will generally satisfy you. Wire or batteries. Clitoral
stimulation or testicular stimulation
-Cock rings, Sleeves-sometimes males come too fast, but you don’t want to make them feel like a
disappointment. Keeps blood in penis, longer erection. Adds girth so he feels bigger. Extra stimulation-
vibrations, “ears, textured bumps
-Male masturbators- you won’t get hairy palms. Don’t have to worry about STD’s or babies. Great when
partner does not feel like having sex. Great for partner during oral sex.- most have a hole at the end of it
where the head of the penis can stick out.- play with head with tongue- don’t have to deep throat.
-Vibrators-G- spot and clitoral stimulation. A human penis can’t do everything. Rabbits/ Butterflies.
Rotating beads, gyrating head, multiple speeds and functions

How to express when not comfortable

-Safe Words- bondage, S&M (whips, masks, candle wax), Sex swing(door) , sex in the shower
-Be comfortable with the person before having sex. Build trust. Don’t be in a rush to hop into bed with
just anyone. Once you build that trust and comfort, it will be much easier to communicate, it also
negates not being comfortable.
-not just for “deviant” sex practices, for normal ones too.
-Say No- Sometimes you have to be blunt. Your partner should be ok with you saying “no” or else don’t
be with them.
-At the same time, be a little adventurous. Take Microscopic baby steps if you have to, But don’t
completely shut yourself out of something just because you haven’t tried it yet. You might like it.
-End with poem
Let's Do It
By Muriel Palanca

Let’s do it in your walk in closet or the backseat of your car.

Let’s do it in the veggie patch behind my neighbor’s yard.
Let’s do it on a camping trip in a tent beneath the sky.
Let’s do it on a sandy beach cause it’s cliché and I’d like to try.
Let’s do it in the summer rain. Use my umbrella for protection.
Let’s do it in a security vault and try to escape detection.
Let’s do it in a grocery store. We’ll pick plastic instead of paper.
Let’s do it in a Happy Harry’s. Get happy now instead of later.
Let’s do it while we’re renting videos. Let’s make a movie of our own.
Let’s do it together because it’s kinda lame to do it all alone.
Let’s do it in Victoria ’s secret. I don’t know why she kept it.
Let’s do it on my teacher’s desk and get a few inches of extra credit.
Let’s do it beneath a Christmas tree covered in Mistletoe.
Let’s do it on a Monopoly board and collect $200 as we pass go.
Let’s do it on a Quiddich field. I promise I won’t snitch.
Let’s do it in a vampire’s coffin. Edward can be Jacob’s bitch.
Let’s do it in the great glass elevator of Willy Wonka’s factory.
Let’s do it in the forests of middle earth and give Sauron a sight to see.
Replace the one to rule them all with a vibrating rubber ring.
Then, let’s do it like hobbits on shrooms cause I can handle bigger things.
Let’s do it in a prison cell and you’ll get handcuffed to the bars.
Let’s do it on a skyscraper like King Kong crushing cars.
Let’s do it where the wild things are cuddled in a furry pile.
Let’s do it on the Mona Lisa. I know it will make her smile.
Let’s do it on a golfing course. Try to score a hole in one.
Let’s do it with Elmo on Sesame Street. I bet it tickles when he comes.
Let’s do it in an aquarium because it’s fishy when it’s wet.
Let’s do it on the internet in the chat room where we met.
Let’s do it in an old phone booth so you can star my 69.
Let’s do it in a Mickey D’s. Put your Big Mac between my fries.
Let’s do it in a bathroom stall. Like the mile high club…only lower.
Let’s do it like the tortoise did. You’ll win the race if you go slower.
Let’s do it in an orphanage so we can show children how they’re made.
Let’s do it in a hukilau. Hawaii ’s fun cause you get laid.
Let’s do it in a pizza hut cause I know you can deliver.
Let’s do it in an ice cream truck cause your soft serve makes me shiver.
Let’s do it on a magic carpet so we can reach higher places.
Let’s do it in a wind tunnel and like mimes, we’ll make funny faces.
Let’s do it in the Notre Dame cause Quasi Modo needs some porn.
Let’s do it in a hospital while a baby’s being born.
Let’s do it in an Amish farm, like milking cows or churning butter.
Let’s do it in a bowling alley. Your balls can strike instead of gutter.
Let’s do it for a charity. Make some money while we get it on
And give the proceeds to an AIDS foundation before the people are all gone.
Or let’s just do it on your queen sized bed because the simple is just fine with me.
Wherever you are is the best place in the world and it’s exactly where I want to be.